>>17182248
There is a 99% foolproof way to tell. You ask her.

>>17182248

make a move.

>>17182270
I realize that, obviously, but I've never done it before and it makes me crazy nervous

>>17182232
forgot to mention, i hate programming despite being quite good at it so cs is out of discussion

>>17182232

>what should i go for considering im super lazy

community college. maybe just entry level wage cuck work if you're super lazy.

>>17182325
I live in eastern Europe, there's no such thing as community college here

>>17182139
carry that secret to your grave. never mention it again, even to jesus.

how many people know about it?

4 people know about it.
1- my best friend who is in contact with her and he knows why i did it, because i was very depresed.
2- A girl on the internet , who does not know my ex and has no chance of talking to her.
3- my best friend on the internet he knws her and talks to her.
4-her best friend who is one of my best (girl)friends knows only that i kissed that girl and she knows that i knew she wouldnt get back with me.

If you can't be honest you're doomed to fail again already.

>>17182128

be hot. be charming. scope out girls like her. attempt to date them.

Treat her like a human being and not like a 10/10 sex goddess - since that's how everyone else treats her. She will appreciate honesty and not being seen as an object

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>>17182128
>Bellucci

Fuggetaboutit. The boss is angry you disappeared again.

>>17182077
Drugs, prostitution, selling guns, smuggling, etc.

drugs > if in UK and growing (police only care for dealers, make sure they aren't rats tho)
drugs > if in US, expect rambo cops to attempt to run after you for the shittiest extract of stuff.

selling guns > Easy to do, possible?

smuggling > Dont know if you want to shove stuff up your ass, or run between mexico etc.

prostitute > You're better than that, have other people do it for you.

Bitcoin mining >

>Be IT at company.
>Have access to servers etc.
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>>17182077
Rob a bank

>>17182058
>amazing girl, blah blah
>I've connected with her, blah

there are like 4.5 billion girls in the world.

>I know I can't ask her out
why the fuck not?

If you won't be seeing her forever after a few days there's not much you can do - probably best not to get involved because it'll only hurt more when she leaves or whatever.

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>>17182058
>>17182147
also, if you need advice on actually how to ask her out that's cool too since you said you're nervous around her.

Reason why dinner is so good is because restaurant staff know you're on a date and treat you nice. You can talk and talk. there's so many moves you can make at dinner too, locking eyes, touching her fingers, footsie. and then there's a chance to go to somewhere else after is all goes well.

one other thing. when it's dinner it's so clearly a date that there's no confusion about what you're asking her to take part in. "table for 2" means man and woman on a date, universally.

>>17181974
>>>/reddit/

Why did you end it?

what advice are you looking for?

>>17181952
If they're so shitty there shouldn't be any issue with you killing her if you keep it quiet.

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>>17181961
this

or just rob her, lol there's no law where you are. ofc you could get her in federal trouble. At least state, ur county cops blow

You're going to have to do all the legwork,op.

Setup basic security cameras, record all phone calls, everything documented with your encounters with dirtbags, and local Leo.

You may have to goto state cops.

How long have you been going out?

Keep dating her, perhaps as you grow closer you will find your sexual attraction increases.

Though there are some girls that, simply, are just meant to be friends.

>>17181914
Bout a week and a half. I'm worried it might get too serious.

Part of my fear is that I'm 21 And I've only ever had one serious girlfriend in my life. Loved her dearly and she was amazingly gorgeous and I'm worried that in running out of time to sleep around and goof off you know?

>>17181910
You are shallow if your only caring about the physical attraction of her, I'd kill for a girl that liked the same shit I'm into but I have to settle for hoes and the most boring of women

>>17181880
stop being so pathetic and drop the gutter slut, you have emotions for a whore. you'd be better off taking your money and seeing a prostitute and giving her money to have her tell you she loves you and then fucking.

>She asked me to have sex with her. We had FWB for about a week
You should've kept it FWB. It should've been blindingly obvious that she was not marriage material. WTF were you thinking?

>>17181880
>"she probably won't meet someone who cares like I do"
She doesn't want love, she wants cock, and she's drowning in it.

I think you are lying, you would not be on this board if you really wanted to be alone THAT badly.

I would too. I don't know how crazy it is though.

Living without human contact is miserable.

>>17181759
>how can we nicely tell someone that they arent an introvert if they are miserable being an introvert?
The thing is, that's not necessarily true. Most introverts are not loners.

Generally speaking, an extravert finds being around people to be energizing, while an introvert finds being around people to be draining. This is literally all that it is; everything else follows from it.

And because of that, it is quite possible for introverts to feel lonely, and to crave...
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Can you reword your post to make more sense? If not, can you at least tell me if I'm understanding you correctly? My understanding is...

>Be you
>People have told you that you are an introvert/are introverted.
>You don't think that is true because you are "miserable" and not happy with your lifestyle as if you desire to be social.

Did I get that right? In the event I did here is what I have to say...

This really depends on the definition of...
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>Wants things, like money
Any women who constantly are asking for money to buy things, or just things in general can be using the man if they seem to not be thankful or really care what the male thinks about that kind of behavior
>women asks the man questions
Especially things that don't have to do with the male and his feelings/interests

>>17181721

do you mean in a platonic sense? its hard to say.

are we ever not using people to not feel lonely? i mean the whole point of interaction is to not be lonely. some people use it to a more extreme degree.

if a girl never wants to hang out one on one but is fine texting and social mediaing you, then yeah shes just using you to stave off boredom. if you arent comfortable with this relationship, get out.

if shes constantly borrowing stuff from you, or you are paying for your outside excursions but wont commit to 'date' you

>>17181736
Im not really talking about money, but about someone who hangs out with you when she has nobody else, seems interested but says otherwise
Pretty much the 3 things i said on the first post

Did you meet him on /r9k/ ?

>>17181710

try until you grow too tired to try.

then give up. not much else you can do. you can always try to playfully withhold sex and control the situation, but there isnt a huge percent of a chance it will work or whatever.

>>17181710
Don't have sex or just leave
If none of those options are possible, get a hitachi and finish yourself in front of him

>>17181653
Be yourself and ignore those assholes.

>>17181653
Seriously, just ignore them.

Or start doing some cool off-beat stuff. Get a lizard or something. Take up a weird hobby.

Just do or be something that is so obviously out of character that this other bitch can't possibly do or be that same thing.

Or quit your job if it bothers you that much.

>>17181671
It just feels like on the long term, this is not particularly good for me. I am going to school to have the position my boss does. And in the field I am in, the longer I build seniority in one place, the more impressive my resume is. But if I stay in a place where my coworker will always biasedly be "picked first" over me, that's not good either...

Changing work places is an option, but my job is hard to get into. It's about who you know, and having the most solid background possible, a...
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