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Is it normal to stop feeling...actual attraction to women? I can get it up for sex, but actually feeling like I need to be around someone, or actually feeling a sexual attraction that goes beyond "you're kind of cute and here I guess" is beyond me these days. I haven't pursued a woman or felt the need to hit on them for anything other than my own amusement in a long time. I've been single for over a year, and most of my partners in the last five I could take or leave. Is this what adulthood feels like?
>>17181273
Same here. I've lost all interest in woman, due to their poisonous nature. Pump & dump, have no time for their bullshit.
>>17181292
Yeah, except I'm not a misogynist lmao. Take your redpill bullshit elsewhere.
It's normal, you just need to meet enough shitty women. Even monkeys learn that something is bad for them after enough repetition.
I have a mole just like pic related on the back of my neck, and I want it removed. How bad will the scarring be? Is it worth trading such a brown spot for a potential white one (the scar)?
Thanks in /adv/ance!
>>17181266
Also, I'm a guy with short hair, so I won't be able to hide it with my hair
The scarring is usually the size of the mole. No reason to remove it if it doesn't look hideous or doesn't cause trouble shaving etc. There shouldn't be a white spot either, just a small round crater where the mole used to be.
>>17181278
Is it not common to stitch it together?
We've all heard the stories of nice people becoming jerks when they drink but what about the opposite?
I feel so much more comfortable when I drink, my personality basically does a 180 and I become a confident extrovert. I like myself better, apart from the clumsiness.
Does anyone else experience this?
>>17181244
That is possible, but this doesn't give you automatic excuse to became alcoholic.
>>17181352
Never said it did
I'm pretty much the same. I've seen what alcohol does to people for the most part. Friends and family getting wasted and ruining things they spent years creating the foundation for. Me on the other hand I'm a smoker. But if I'm in the club or just on a casual night out I love to get tossed. It always takes a huge edge off of me and I turn into a stumbling loaf of love and laughter haha
My friend just failed last yaer of his HS which he was even repeating and now he say he doesnt care anymore and he wasted probably 2 years for nothing but I know he cares just hides it
I tried to help him but he didnt listen to me much and now Im afraid he will start hating me ,cause we were together years back and now im in UNI and he ... well
WHAT SHOULD i DO ?
There's nothing you can do, nor should you. Just continue to be his friend and not treat him like the loser he thinks he is.
>>17181243
He is a loser, unless he has some legitimate reason for failing high school twice.
>>17181276
he sucks at math and english so much, now works, we have a program were you do 3 + 2 years program which is equall to 4 year high schools and he thrown 3 years to do the 2 year program and now failed and bounced back down to the 3 year program he finished years ago which severely limits his potential in jobs
its a shame cause hes so close to completing it and left it just like the previous year ...
Hi 4chan!
I normally don't write here, so sorry if I do anything wrong I picked this place because it's completely anonymous
I'm dating a black boy now, he's charming, handsome and really nice.
The only thing really off is the sex part.
Black on white is the biggest growing porn segment, it is present everywhere.
All I can picture in my head during the act is some porno creep touching himself to me and my man in our initimate moments.
I know it is a weird thing to have a hang up about, don't I just can't...
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>>17181208
gr8 b8 m8 I r8 8/8
>>17181208
Also, no, black men aren't men to me.
Made it too obvious OP
Is she playing hard to get? I got her number finally
>>17181204
What am I reading?
>>17181204
It is called "small talk."
Hey /adv/ I really need help
>mum's gone for a week
>have anger management issues
>everytime she's gone me and my dad have a massive fight, and I usually go off my nut
>surprise surprise it happened, but I didn't go off my nut
>dad says I should just get out
>brother and sister tell me I'm an embarrassment to the family
>10 minuted...
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Go to your doctor to get your anger management sorted. Also move out.
>>17181233
/thread. awaiting response as to why op can't do this because its too hard or muh freedums or its not his fault.
>>17181233
I had actually gone and seen someone about my anger management issues.
what's some advice for moving out?
Hello I am 25 and I met an 18 year old boy. He was working ar McDonald's and I asked his number. He is a virgin and I am going to be his first next month. With sex and everthing. He is really horny all the time hah but he lives far away so we only use Whatsapp (I don't send dirty pics but he does). Do you have tips? For me? I mean this boy is barely legal and inexperienced (so cute). I want his first time to be good.
Literally do anything, he won't know whether its good or not. Honestly, for him its like a dream come true regardless of what happens.
>>17181180
Really???? I want to give him a blowjob or is that weird. I feel like a predator lol
>>17181177
Hey /adv/ femanon here,
TL;DR Is it a common thing for guys to put their hand around your throat when you're having sex with them?
I've only been with a couple of guys (and it's not always during sex either) but some of them have put hand around my neck, not choking me or anything, it's gentler than that. I didn't hate it or anything either so that was fine. But I am a bit confused, it was an automatic thing for them to do and I'm not sure why?
>>17181174
im a guy, and i have never done this because i would assume the girl would find it weird although i have often felt an urge to do it. im not sure why, must be some caveman shit that makes us feel dominant.
I'm a guy, first time I did it was because my girlfriend put my hand there. It kind of freaked me the fuck out doing it too lol.
Now it's just like whatever, I know she likes it so I do it.
I do and I really enjoy it. Never thought about it too much, though.
>moving to a new city, it has a housing shortage and relatively high rent (not NYC level high though)
>10k savings
>no job yet, one interview scheduled, very in demand degree, won't have trouble getting job, but it might take a month or two
>in mean time, can't find a place to live because lolnojob and out of state
>tried online, people I was talking to about renting a room keep giving it to the first person who...
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>>17181140
>don't want to arrive with nothing, can't get anything else, 1 week away, get anxious
>yesterday send him security deposit by check (took photo of check with my phone)
>instant regret, should have just gotten airbnb for like a few weeks first, not sure if just buyers remorse
>weird guy says he has another guy interested in the place who might get it first, would still subdivide the...
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Don't move if you don't have a place to move to
Are you retarded?
>>17181144
I can't get a place until I move. That's the problem. I can't stay with my parents; there are no jobs in this area and they don't have a room for me anyway.
I can't rent an apartment without a job. I can't get the job until I move.
I can't rent a room without meeting them face to face, can't do that until I move.
I need advice!
My friend asked me to come along on an eating "contest". The challenge is to down a 750g burger under 45 minutes.
What can properly prepare me for completing that challenge? Got two days.
Practice deep throating dick so you can swallow larger chunks of that burger
>>17181107
Got a couple of bananas at home, so I got that covered.
Thanks for the input
At this point, all I think I can do is eat a banana for breakfast on that day.
How do I overcome inner feeling of pressure? My grandmother left me an estate in toronto and all my family members are coming down to try and con me into giving it to them. I feel so distort, my solicitor has told me that im not obliged to do anything, wtf is wrong with them
Blood is thicker than water, until money comes into play.
They're a bunch of sharks smelling that blood in the water.
Give them nothing
>>17181065
how do i deal with my mental state? anyone got any tips i feel so fkd
>>17181065
original quote has the opposite meaning
>the blood of the covenant is thicker than the waters of the womb
One of the professors on my campus has a policy where she gives 10 points extra credit for attaching your name to the anonymous surveys we give at the end of the semester. Is this worth bringing up with the administration? Every student, of course, would jump at the opportunity to get extra credit but now giving a shitty review would now be impossible since she's still preparing your final grade and you'd have to be fucking stupid to give a bad review when that's up in the air.
Am I crazy for thinking this is a huge breach in confidentiality?
Yes, this is definitely worth bringing up with the administration. You can tip them off anonymously if you want and they can confirm by asking random students, that way your name is not attached to this business.
That's a huge ethics violation
I'm not opie but can you guys explain why this is a violation? I don't see anything wrong
Just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. I haven't cried or anything yet, just kind of numb on the inside. How do I move on?
Get a hobby and focus on self improvement. If you don't like something about yourself, and it's something you consistently don't like about yourself, take steps to change it. Identify the things you like about yourself and build those parts up stronger.
The relationship stuff sucks and it will for a long time - I've been told that it takes about half the length of a relationship to get over that relationship once it's over with. It's not terribly accurate, but it's accurate enough for a rule of thumb. Point being, don't expect yourself...
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Also watching some anime did wonders for me, curiously enough. I had two relationships back to back that lasted in total a bit over three years, and when the second one fell apart, the baggage from the first relationship fell out of the metaphorical closet. Took a long time to sort through all that shit, but I feel like I'm in a good place now.
Good luck OP . Its been 5 years for me and I still see her in my dreams. We don't even talk or anything. I think I seriously need help.
Just confessed my feelings to my cousin and she said she likes me like a younger brother, and not as a lover. I don't know how to fucking cope guys. I think I'm losing it. I've been infatuated with her for over a year, and my pre-existing depression and suicide ideations have increased tenfold. I feel like shit and don't know how to cope with this heart break. I can't sleep and my appetite is just gone. I think I'm going to commit suicide in a year and die as a young kissless virgin.
Post your cousins body for reference.
How old are you?
Why are you infatuated with your cousin?
And unlike other girls, this is my fucking cousin. You can't pick and choose who your family is, and it fucking sucks that I'll never be with her romantically. Before you guys are quick to judge, we only met once in adulthood, so I became very attracted to her.
I don't know what to do. I'm desperate for answers. I'm just desperate. I'm so miserable that I can't even cry myself to sleep. Instead I'm just crying and doing a half-assed job at trying to sleep.
I'll never be with her and it hurts.
>>17180969
1. No
2. I'm 18, she's 19
3. We only met once in adulthood, so the Westermarck effect never developed.
