When I worked at a deli I had a lot of guys hit on me while I made their food/coffee...it was...okay?
I didn't have anyone try to rape me when I went out to my car, so everything was fine.

On one hand, I rejected A LOT of dudes and then basking in mutual akwardness next time they came in.
On the other hand, I fell head over heels for a dude who just straight handed me his number. However: I had initiated conversation with him before over mutual interests, so it wasn't a short in the dark like most guys took.

>>17181644
This is good advice, thank you.

I just really like this coffee shop and would prefer not to have a reason to be awkward here.

Not really sure how I should initiate conversation that isn't about coffee, either.

Pretty sure I've already lost this war because I haven't done anything about it and I've seen her a few times now.

I've been hit on by a girl that work at Starbucks

>>17181628
Buy your friend a new one, as good as or better than.

>>17181634
This.

Keep trying to fix it, but do the right thing and tell your friend you broke it and will buy him/her a new one.

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>>17181612

You had track changes disabled, right?

>>17181619
No, i guess im fucked then

>>17181624

Amateur.

Here's hoping your professor is just as much as a dumbass.

RIP in piece OP

>>17181588

It also annoys the fuck out of me when animal behavior is used as an ethical rationale.

"But animals are polyamorous/homosexual, so it's good/natural!"

Yeah, animals also eat their babies, your fucking point?

>>17181594
i agree. my mum users this same argument to justify her beliefs. a few days ago she was saying that i shouldent go out with a women if she asks me out. she believes that guys should always ask women out because its what the animals do lol, i was like "yeah but animals also rape eachother".

>>17181597
If she got quiet and bit her lip at that point, your mum wants you to rape her.

>>17181557
Show her your boner.

She's definitely seen it many times before. For people in her profession it's like seeing an earlobe. Just another flesh part of the body.

>>17181557
Ask to speak to a male doctor....

Or just talk to MILF doctor again and just whip out your boner so she can see it, maybe you'll get lucky

should I fap before I go? the office doesn't have any male doctors that I saw. and I rather have a woman be touching me down there than some faggot. but wouldn't she get freaked out if it got huge all of the sudden?

Get proof, sit him down and say you want a civil discussion and not drive a rift between the two of you, but your finances are serious.

Then be polite but firm in explaining the situation.

>>17181558
I always pay him in cash for rent, so I guess the best way to show him is to show my bank statements where I have withdrawn rent money each month, right?

He said he thought he took it off my rent a couple months ago...

>>17181561
Yes, do that and do what >>17181558
said.

Also, time to start looking for a new place to stay. If you're paying rent to your parents, aka you have roommates, you can pay that money to someone else and still have roommates. You're old enough to be on your own. You'll enjoy it a lot more than staying at home.

>>17181506
Pharmacists can't sell you sugar pills.
Diphenhydramine hydrochloride tablets not (mostly) sleeping pills. They're antihistamines that have dizziness as a side effect.
Stop taking pills because you might overdose.

You should try to get another type of sleeping pills, and apply some basic sleeping hygiene.
Talk to a doctor about your insomnia, mostly.

>>17181511
>They're antihistamines that have dizziness as a side effect.
Yeah thought as much after reading the MSDS or whatever its called from the manufacture. Not even dizzy, just hightened sense of hearing so I assume my blood pressure is up but that's it.

I'm not taking anymore, the same document set the 8hr interval dosage as 50-100mg(i was prescribed 50mg) with 1000mg being rip.

Can't fucking go to the doctor for another 9 hrs, just kill me.

>>17181520
Sleep is a complex thing.
Start waking up always at the same time, even if you just went to bed.
It might take a while before you find a functioning sleeping pill (it took me 3 months to find one that made me sleep + didn't make me feel dizzy all day) but having a fixed waking up schedule helped me a lot.
No computer or mobile phone in the bedroom. Put some relaxing music on and waited till I managed to sleep.
No coffee after 4 PM, no energy drinks, do some tiring physical activity.

Good luck :)

>>17181411
How private is the event? Most weddings I've seen that are invite only don't have any check in or bouncers. Dress the part and be confident. Or you can try to get in as the photographer or photographers assistant. Do a little social engineering, creepy ducks like you should be good at that.

>no go list

If they specifically have like a picture of you or some shit don't even try unless you rolled a stealth/charm character

Otherwise go behind the place and just knock on the back door and hopefully someone will hear you, just say you got locked out having a smoke.

>>17181425
They just have my name on people who shouldn't be allowed in. It's an event meant for about 180 or so people. I think it might be outside in a gated open area

>>17181409
apart from not having any balls you're good

keep on trucking

>>17181410
Fair enough. I still don't get why it's socially acceptable to pop xanax like candy but have a cheeky pint and you're literally Hitler.

I am gonna bump just to add questions - what if my SO knows about it but is hiding discomfort? What are the signs I subconsciously show? Is it fucked up that I want to hide it so badly?

>>17181392
If you live in the US then incest completely illegal.
You're sick, go to a psychologist.

She told you she thinks that it is gross. Don't push it. Ultimately you will regret it.

If you do have sex with her, know that that instance will always be in your head. You're pretty much going to curse yourself, mayn.

Think about having sex then she gets a boyfriend. Jealousy? Probably.

My advice: go get a hobby, mang. Get active, get confidence, and you will probably find someone worth it to have sex with. That way you will be able to satisfy your need while improving yourself and not becoming a degenerate, self tortured soul.

Good luck.

>>17181396
Not in my state. In many states its just marrying a relative that's illegal.

Neither of you is right or wrong. I sympathize with both of you, actually. She needs a different confidant.

>>17181387

Free tip, friendo: women normally don't want advice, they want someone to listen to them complain and agree with them they're right

This statement is also true about 99% of people that post in adv

>>17181387
My friends are the same way. Are you a male or a female? I'm female and my female friends take it hard if I act neutral or realistic towards their problems. Generally, I've noticed females want full on support. But some of my friends are so whiney that I don't even think its a good idea to constantly coddle them with lies.

If you're a male, than she just wants a tissue box and stop giving her that.

In general I'd just say something like, if you want my advice, I'm going...
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Is your gf me? Just tell her to meet people on soc in different time zones.

>>17181337

She is a reclusive shut in. I tell her to try to make friends with people that are more on her schedule but she says "no I only want to be with you, why can't you change for me?"

>>17181333
Tell her to get a job or a hobby.
Stop ruining your life to please your girlfriend.

well you have to tell her

Tell her what's about to happen, pull out and spay away from her, if we haven't already talked about where it's okay to cum on her.

Cum inside and when she gets made tell her you're gay and leave

>>17181309
can't do shit without ur SS
tell em to Verpiss dich

>>17181309
>if i don't pay them it will affect my credit score.

This is somewhat true, unless you dispute the charges and have them removed, which can be done (I've done it before, not with porn companies though, kek).

https://www.consumer.ftc.gov/articles/0151-disputing-errors-credit-reports

Also has the link for a free credit report that is actually free.

>>17181327
Nice joke. Get out of here with your life of experience.

>>17181291
derealization/depersonalization

you need a counselor who is able to provide cbt for you.

too much lurking on 4chan & intrawebz
go outside

Sounds like an existential crisis, do some normal shit and conversate with some people