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So after more than months after my ex left me for another guy, she decided to text me today saying she's sorry and she's been feeling bad these past few days, but she says she doesn't know why she feels bad. She's asking me to forgive her for doing that to me. She also said I'm the best she ever had and she doesn't deserve me at all.
The problem is why after so many months only now she wants to say sorry. Also after she left I send her texts and she didn't even bother to reply. Here is what I think she wants, she wants to feel better about herself when I reply and say i forgive her, or she wants me back idk about that tho.
Funny thing is i treated her so well, went out of my way to help her whenever she needed help, i was always there for her. Kept her company and had countless sleepless nights taking to her cause she couldn't sleep. Im not complaining but I cared and loved her very much..and she left like nothing ever happened. Was with her for almost 6 months and it all fell apart. No sign whatsoever, she just left so unexpectedly.
Now all of a sudden she texts me. I didn't reply.
What do you guys think?
She was drunk. Do not respond.
There's a number of reasons she could be doing this but they probably all stem from her shattered ego after the new guy tossed her aside like she did to you.
Do not reply. Let her feel the embarrassment of exposing herself to you like this after her treatment of you. There's nothing positive for you in this if you respond.
Tell her off, you clearly haven't forgiven her tell her the shit you just told us
As the title implies, I am quite interested in fucking. I have recently felt extremely horny and masturbation doesn't do the trick anymore, it just feels too bland. My goal will not only resolve the primordial urges, but also throw the pussy out of the pedestal and allow my mind to focus on more serious matters.
I'm 19 and a Polandfag. Globalization has liberalized the society somewhat, so scoring shouldn't be that much harder than in America.
I'm still a KKHV and generally a rather socially anxious person. My only real advantage is above average intellect and particularly broad knowledge in various subjects. I can talk fairly eloquently and show off with knowledge of philosophical concepts or arts. I also have a fairly decent sense of humour.
What is the best way for ez scoring? Tinder or some other dating websites? I have a few FB friends who may work, but random matching seems more viable.
You sound like a tool
>>17278047
Do I not? The urges twist my reason, that's why I wish to resolve them.
Just go to a hooker ffs. Poland is full of them.
whats the best way to improve ones confidence?
>>17278017
cocaine
speed
Get gf
Guys, I really struggle with conversation. I rarely know how to start them and I quickly run out of things to talk about.
I have a really good friend who used to message first all the time and we did talk for hours regularly, but she was telling me that she was frustrated that no one seems to make the effort to message her first and she has said directly to me a few times to message her. So it's almost like when we aren't talking it's because she wants me to make the effort to contact her.
So I have tried, but the conversations don't last anything like as long as they used to and then we don't chat for ages. I don't know if she just isn't interested in chatting all that much anymore or if I'm just struggling to keep it going. I always felt like our exchanges were 50/50 before but now it feels like it's somewhat being left up to me more and it's not working.
I need to do something before she thinks I just don't care/want to chat and I lose her as a friend.
This has been a problem all my life really, but it's only now that I have a friend I care about losing.
Thanks.
iktf. I never know what to talk about with people.
I think if I was a better conversationalist I might actually have some friends.
>>17277994
Just message her about those feelings.
>>17278003
This would fix his problem with her, not my problem.
Hi. I am coming from Japan back to EU. I will touch in Turkey first; then land in Italy although I am from Austria. My passport is stapled with invoices from Japanese retailers because I was buying tax free.
Will I have to pay any additional tax once I come to Italy? Can I avoid it? What if I get rid of all these invoices once I land in Turkey?
>passport
>invoices
Wut? Nothing but immigration-related stamps or slips should be in your passport.
>>17277991
bump
>>17277991
bump for the love of god
how do you deal with someone cheating on you. And this someone you still love unconditionally.
You just give it time and learn to forgive. People do stupid shit and as time heals your wounds, time will also make that person realize how shitty they were eventually. May not be tomorrow, maybe not even a year from now. But almost always if there were any true feelings involved there is usually an apology at some point from the other person.
>>17277926
I would break up. Once a cheater always a cheater.
A person who cheats on their partner doesn't love or respect their significant others.
Tell us more anon. What exactly happened?
>>17277926
Cheaters will always cheat. S/He doesn't respect you and never will.
How to deal with trans person with mental illness?
Me and her been friends for a while, best friends.
We haven't talked in a few months and she comes back, lord and behold she wants to be a guy.
I either want to cut it off or tell her why it's not a good idea to changes sex, what should I do?
Pic related, bitch put a conversation of what I said that triggered her
>>17277899
That was a bitch move for them to put up that conversation. At this point, she doesn't respect you enough to keep your conversations private. Do you want that kind of person in your life to begin with? The other thing is that masculinity is partially something you're born with, and something you learn. It's not all born behavior. Still, I think you're better off explaining your position and then finding out what she responds. If negatively, then just cut it off.
Cut if off man. They'll probably kill themselves in the next 2 years anyway so rip the bandaid off now and get the feels out of the way.
>>17277899
You take them to a psych ward.
Did she ask you if it was cool to post your conversation for everyone to see?
Is there something wrong with me, is anybody else like this?
I'm pretty chill with not the highest of libidos, but when I do get in the mood, I'm just so hungry and brainless after it.
However, as soon as I get my satisfaction, it's like I reach a level of saturation on all levels. I feel disgusted with myself for having such needs, for having done it (if it's masturbation) and the thought of any other touch from a person repulses and irritates me. I think to myself, what the fuck was in my head that I couldn't resist the urge for pleasure? Everyone with their selfish physical needs are repulsing afterwards and I feel so small, disgusting and ashamed like I've ruined any possibility of a more spiritual pursuit because I don't deserve it. Not as long as I feel physically satisfied. After a few hours when it's worn off completely, I may forget about it and feel normal again. Heck, if the urge hits me again and I give into it, the cycle will repeat. And a horny brain doesn't process consequences very well. Am I exaggerated in feeling like this?
I only feel disgusted after orgasm when I'm doing some weird shit before hand, like self-facials. Those /b/ roll threads turned me into a faggot.
That's because you are fucked in the head and need your beliefs on sex re-examined.
>>17277898
I've been thinking about the same thing for the past two days OP. I'm here to theorize with you.
I read online that it's so we don't get emotionally attached to whatever we fuck, but I'm not so sure on that.
and if so, do i have it?
>25 f
>can't think about anything but sex, starting to forsake my hobbies in favor of sexual activities
>can't stay loyal so only maintains fwbs
>anxious all the time
>insomnia
>mood swings from hell
Yup.
I am pretty much the same OP.
Do you feel a lot of self resentment about it too?
It's more of a compulsion than an addiction (this matters because compulsions and addictions require related but different methods of treatment), but it exists. And although we are not qualified to diagnose, given the degree to which it's messing up your life, I'd call it a safe guess that you may have it. See a therapist.
Yes and it kind of sounds like it, but one post is hardly enough to be sure. You sound in need of some guidance to begin with so seek out real life help.
Some will claim that sex addiction doesn't exist but most of those fail to see it the proper way. Sex addiction doesn't mean you want "too much" sex. You can have sex ten times a day and still not be addicted. It's when it becomes detrimental to your life in ways you have no control over that it's an addiction.
For example, like all addicts sex addicts typically start craving more and more extreme kicks and new experiences. So if you take a typical story that would be a man who starts with wanting to fuck his wife all the time. Then that's not enough anymore and he starts to cheat on her regardless of whether he finds the women attractive or not. Then he starts to dabble in fetishes he never cared for. At some point he'll be in a dark room sucking off a guy, not enjoying it and feeling depressed and disgusted afterwards. At the end stage, there is no pleasure, there is no excitement, there's just the need.
That is entirely different from "liking sex too much". It's a warped, unhealthy relationship with sex.
It sounds like this is the case with you (in an earlier stage) because it limits you and makes it impossible to have/do certain things you love. Plus the stress.
Is it wrong to date a girl 7 years younger than you if you're 22? She's mature and I'm not attracted to her because she's young. I guess it depends on the situation but I feel like a creep.
>>17277888
You're at two completely different stages in life. Even if she's very mature for her age, she's still a moron like all teenagers are.
It won't work.
Also - is it even legal?
>>17277888
Nothing wrong with it. Just don't come in her, she's real fertile.
>>17277892
Fertility actually peaks in your twenties.
how do you eliminate the smell of poop from your hands, particularly fingers? i´ve washed 3 times and still lingers
>>17277850
It's not your hands, but the smell is from the bottom of your nose.
1. Stop shoving your hands in your ass
2. Actually wipe your ass properly
3. google 2 on how
4. google how to wash your hands properly, make sure to clean under the nails and do lather soap for 10 to 15 seconds
>>17277856
they sort of slip in there sometimes and i do try to wipe properly and hard until it hurts but the wipe looks pretty clean only later on i find out the poop has dried around my butthole that´s why it doesn´t come off so easily and confuses me
Pretty sure I was screwed over on a recent college exam I took for a silly excuse of a dumb anthropology class I had to take. I got a 5/100 which is absolutely absurd. I didn't know much, but this grade is absolute horse shit, I'm fairly sure the professor didn't even look at what I wrote down.
I will not let this pass, so I was thinking about emailing her about it.
How would I go about it without fucking my own ass any further? Is emailing her about a grade complaint a bad idea to begin with?
>>17277827
You should ask to see your graded work, and complain if there is anything specific that was graded unfairly. Just crying that your grade is bad without substantiation is fucking retarded.
>>17277827
What was the exam about and what did you write about? I love anthropology.
>>17277827
A fucking 5/100
Hi /adv/,
This girl and I used to date freshman year of college for about 2 months. I got drunk one night and ended up hooking up with her friend (I'm a dbag) and she cut all contact with me and started dating someone shortly after. Almost a year and a half later, she started messaging me things like "I miss you" and we started snapchatting/texting regularly. I found out she was still with her boyfriend. She would be extremely flirty and cuddle with me, brush things off of my face, hold my hand, etc. She would also never bring up her bf. Despite this, in our messages and in person she'd occasionally call me her" best friend", but then the next week be saying how she is still attracted to me. This has been going on for almost 5 months now and has been on my mind a lot. What the fuck is she trying to pull /adv/?
>>17277826
You're plan B if her relationship goes to shit. Possibly even a filler between her relationships.
>>17277830
Seconding what this anon said, you are her plan B
>>17277832
>>17277830
But keeping a plan B for 5 months? That's a long ass time
Hello, so I've been reading lately about existentialism and what not
It's really fuckign depressing me right now, that people just come and go without being noticed sometimes
I want to live a nice life, I'm still very young
I just want to be fucking happy but I'm going through rough times right now, I don't know if this is called being anti social or a loner, but I don't have many people to hang out with and whenever they've asked me to come hang out with them I've denied it. what the fuck do I do?
Please give me advice and I'll stop browsing this shitty site
>>17277802
Not browing this shitty site would actually be a very good start.
>>17277811
/bread
>>17277811
Being opened minded is the best start, don't stare in the abyss
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Do girls really like "london style" or works too with cargo shorts and sandals
Heeeeeeeeeey, sexy ladies like Gangnam Style, not London Style.
If you wear clothes like pic related, kill yourself.
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