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This may be a stupid Thread, so feel free to mock me, but how obvious is it that you would have cancer?
I always hear stories online and from friends/family of someone randomly having aome weird cancer inside them. Was it just pure luck during a check-up? Are there obvious signs/pains/symptoms?
Ive always wanted to be sure I'm 100% healthy,
Different types of cancer are different. There are no universal symptoms, and you might not even notice any symptoms.
>>17280224
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=how+to+tell+if+you+have+cancer
reminder that 99% of cancers can be cured with frankincense oil, juicing and detoxing. Big Pharma controls the medical industrial complex and forces doctors to prescribe medicines and therapies that threat symptoms while making the cancer worse and causing hundreds of other health problems to die from instead.
I see a lot of posters recommending no-fap shit. Is it doamaging to a guy because of orgasm, or for some other reason. Like am I doing some harm to my byfriend by easily putting out?
Ssorry in advance for my drunk post
>>17280214
>horny post
Sex is good for you, masturbation is good for you.
>>17280214
Lol no.
No fap is for people addicted to masturbation. Sex is healthy and masturbation is healthy if you do it in moderation and don't let it rule your life.
>>17280214
Oh please, you are harming him by NOT putting out. If you don't either he would think someone else is getting you, or he will find it somewhere else
He's been squirting his dick since he was 13, and will until he is grey and old, and so has every man on the planet
I've been called ugly my whole life. How should I improve my looks.
>>17280201
>reeeeeeeeeeeeee
You can try doing your eyebrows and wearing a hairstyle that goes over your forehead a bit, don't take pics from a low angle.
>>17280216
how do you do your eyebrows?
>>17280201
Hang around different people
How do you make some who hates you stop hating you?
Like how?
>>17280192
Sigh.
Dig deeper, anon, tell us whats wrong, etc. Etc.
>>17280192
Why bother? if they dislike you for no reason, you can't do anything. They are the shit. However, they have a reason that isn't stupid, stop doing whatever makes them hate you.
Depends on why they hate you. Did you set them on fire? I suggest putting them out, but not by peeing in them. Is a bucket of water near by?
I'm a math student and I met a genomic science student on saturday during a class.
I've heard of her before and I saw her once before on a party but I was way too drunk to speak to her, the point is that we spoke a bit and boi she got me, I've been thinking of her ever since.
But I have a problem: She is wayyy to smart (Went to IMO and EGMO) and she only dated other really smart people and I have no clue how to speak and how to date her and also she is two years older.
help I'm desperate, the only thing I think about is her
>>17280184
is that pic real
>>17280195
yeah
shameless selfbump
Sup /adv/
Committing to a major has been tough for me and I've always wrote off medical school, but now it seems appealing.
Considering i dont really care about my major or rather, nothing draws me in... what would your suggestions be in regards to my major as a pre med student?
Ideally it would not be something so difficult that it'd ruin my GPA, but on the other hand id also like it to be something useful in case i decide to not go the medical route or if it doesnt work out for whatever reason.
I realize interest typically plays a big...
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>>17280109
Get a 4.0 doing rote memorization in psychology for bachelor's and get into medical school easy. You can always go to law school if med school doesn't pan out.
>>17280113
hmm yeah maybe this... i mean, i know i kinda said im not really considering interests, but as far as interesting majors goes i'd say this one is up there...
only bad thing is that i hear it's pretty shit on its own... like i generally hear people choosing this major to get into med school or dental etc... but i just dont want to be stuck after college, not wanting to continue with education and having a useless degree...
thanks for the input, will check out the requirements for this major and consider it.
>>17280129
You just gotta be mindful.
If you dont get a 4.0 in something as simple as bachelor's in psychology, how will you do remotely well in med school?
Hey /adv/ found a baby finch, fledgling, no injuries, parents abandoned. I need help saving it, food, warmth, water etc.
Please save my burd
>>>>>/an/
Bumparino
He's fucked.
Let him free so a cat or snake can eat him.
My partner says she enjoys anything anal related but now she hates talking about it, or doing it due to past trauma.
Her last partner came home drunk one night, knocked her around and eventually raped her anally while she was screaming for help.
She knows I would never treat her like that so I'm not sure how to fix the problem.
How do I deal with this so she can heal and be comfortable with me ?
>dating damaged goods
find someone who's not ruined
>>17280068
how long have you been together and how long ago was has that happened ?
I submitted my resume to a recruitment firm via a job board at midnight last night and got a phone call this morning (actually woke me up) that turned out to be a phone interview, ending with the recruiter being quite pushy about coming in for an interview for "graduate sales positions" in "business information" which could "should you earning close to $80k a year after commission!" I wasn't fully awake yet, so I sort of agreed to it, but how dodgy does this sound? The recruitment firm seems to be legit from a quick google search but sales...
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Going to the interview isn't going to hurt. Just check it out and make sure you don't hand over any cash upfront and you'll be ok.
>>17279950
It's gimmicky as fuck. Most call based recruitment managers are just trying to meet a call/interview quota.
If you get bait n switched as far as info about the company, it's gonna be a scam
>>17279967
Yeah, I don't know mang. Something about it just gives me the feeling it'll be a fucking waste of time. The fact that the actual firm the recruiter is working for wasn't disclosed, the mention of "several other open positions we can talk about", the early morning phone call, the fact that I've heard of "sales executive" and "business information" used as euphemisms for shitty, low paid scam jobs before.
So what do you guys think about guys who've fucked you gf before you... But! They're taller, huge dick (important) and treated her like shit.
I treat my gf as shit aswell, but I decided to make her my gf because the sex was so slutty and hot. I don't like nice girls, I want them as slutty as possible.
I've been with 37 girls (penetration) and I'm 26. The girl is 35 (ikr) has been with 24 guys but there was one guy who was huge and treated her totally like shit (on my level), but he left her without saying to go to another country. So he...
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>>17279876
You sound like a fucking idiot.
Who cares who they've slept with.
The fact is that they're with you, enjoy it while it lasts.
>>17279876
This is some next level homoshit right here.
>>17279889
Why should I. I can fuck other girls aswell. I'm not that desperate. But, this keeps bugging my mind. That's why I'm asking.
Posted on here a while back asking what I could improve with my appearance. A lot of people said to grow out my hair and ditch the freckles.
I've grown out my hair a bit, what does /adv/ think?
The pic I sent before, to compare
Definitely look better with shorter hair and a cleanly shaved face. Im grill
>>17279877
ITT: OP discovers that different people like different things.
OP: go ask /fa/
Alright ill make this as short As possible.
Girlfriend of 4 years doesnt want to use the pill and it could take up to 2 years at ny age to get the snip.
I cant cum from wearing a condom anymore and im starting to have dreams and even daydreams of my exes when wed fuck without a condom.
ive discussed this a little with gf but not part of being unable to cum with rubber on.
Do i tell her the sex is shit for me. Or do i keep it to myself.
She refuses pill.
Conversation. Very fucking important. Also there are other contraceptives besides the pill.
>>17279804
Definitely tell her about your issue, but not fantasizing about your exes. She can get a non hormonal IUD or you can use sponges or some shit.
I am in the same place with my current FWB and we are just using the pullout method right now which isn't great but we usually only fuck drunk anyway so it seems like a good idea at the time.
Fug. I don't know. Someday valsagel will be approved for use.
I would tell her how you are feeling. I would tell her about the dreams. I know this is gonna make me some like one of those shitty relationship type of person. But if you really wanna make it work with her then you have to be honest. If you don't tell her about the dreams it could lead to some problems down the road. It may be hard for her to hear but at the end of the day she will be glad you told her and it might have saved your relationship. And there are other options other than the pill.
I like a girl. I don't know how to approach her.
I met her in a CS class back in December and hit it off well then. We've been talking since we met through FB and have kept that close contact.
She's awkward, with no curves or anything, but she's a cute brown Mexican girl. That being said, she does not receive much affection from anyone due to physical unattractivness and socially introverted. This shows when she communicates in essay-long messages, she stays at home playing video games mostly, and never had a boyfriend.
She's not flirty, she's just cool. I like her. I like her a lot. And I'm 100% sure she is not aware of it. How do I communicate that I like her? How do I propose we hang out, so we get more physically comfortable with each other? What are the chances of her liking me back, given she doesn't talk to many people?
Ask her on a date you dumbfuck.
>>17279970
Elaborate.
>>17280037
Hi, would like to have a coffee with me?
Have any men used to hate women, got over their hatred/disgust of them?
I know most men don't hate women, but I don't care about those peoples advice.
I care about the advice of people who used to be repulsed by women.
Hate their soul, and just wish they didn't exist.
How did you get over that feeling?
Also, please no pretending that you used to hate women. I really don't want advice of people who haven't experienced this, your advice is worthless.
Also, I don't want a womans opinion on this. Don't pretend...
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>How did you get over that feeling?
Therapy
>>17279778
I had therapy before, but it was for other problems. But I was poor, so I had low quality therapists.
Did you just grab any therapist? Or did you pay top dollar for people with masters degrees (if you're telling the truth, because I had therapists.. multiple and they didn't improve my life.)
>>17279778
I'll stay suspicious of your post, I think it might be possible you're just lying or faking to me, just to send me to therapy (that I already have spent 5+ years of my life on. and quit cause lack of improvement.)
Maybe if you could go into detail I might think you're not a liar
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I really need to get my life started. I'm 25, live at home, and am a bartender. I have approximately $1,500 saved up, and my only previous experience is in retail/customer service.
Some people have suggested that I go work for a bank, for the benefits and advancement possibility. You guys got any suggestions?
Stay out of new debt
>>17279726
which is?
Take up an apprenticeship. Electrician pays a lot. No experience for some, they teach you. Sometimes you gotta buy your own tools, but you got money for that.
