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>Generally get lucky with chicks finding me attractive for whatever reason
>One day meet older girl who I fall for hard while young
>Feel great connection with this girl and speak to her daily
>Once I become of age we fool around/start a relationship
>Girl breaks up with me because she wants children soon and I think I'm too young for that
>Months...
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Bang a younger chick.
>>17283716
You know I would love for it to be that easy
>>17283712
>Girl breaks up with me because she wants children soon and I think I'm too young for that
You just turned 18? Then you are too young for that. Way too young. You two are at different stages in your life and you're just not compatible. It sucks, but there's no way around it.
I can't magically make you not feel this way, unfortunately, but I can provide an outside perspective and tell you a couple things you probably already know (but it can help to hear...
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>google "when to ask a girl out"
>all results are "how to know if a girl likes you"
What's up with that? Can you only ask a girl out when she already likes you (back)? I thought you were supposed to ask someone out to show them that they can like you, during the date.
The only way you can be sure a girl likes you is if she has sex with you.
>>17283699
Google doesn't understand things quite as well as humans do. Don't interpret the search results as a meaningful answer to your question.
>>17283708
Good to know. So that means you can ask out a girl without having hints that she likes you right? I mean obs you dont ask out someone whos cold af to you but if you get along ok.
Got a pc question for you guys:
I have an x58 platinum motherboard and windows 10 won't boot with a 780 gtx in it (a 3.0 card).
It makes it to the windows loading screen and stays there forever. The 780 works fine in another machine that has a 3.0 slot, it is being powered correctly in the other machine, the psu is good, the 2.0 slot is good as I tested it with a 6780, and the machine boots fine when the 6780 is in it.
I don't know what else to do. Is there some setting in bios that I have to change so the card will be "recognized?" Is...
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Try booting it in safe-mode and manually installing the driver. Shift+F8.
>>17283646
Did you recently update the drivers? Is it a new win10 install?
What OS did you use previously on that machine?
Go to /g/, they'll be better for this.
Really need some help here /adv/
Some of you may remember me, I've posted over the last year about a relationship I've had a really hard time with,
To make it short and sweet, I developed extremely strong feelings for a girl (unknowing to me at the time) who was extremely emotionally unstable. About 3 months into dating she had a pretty traumatic life experience (her brother blew his brains out right in front of her). She went off the grid on me and it took months for us to start talking again - only for her to abandon me yet again for a reason I still don't know the answer to.
Fast forward 7 months or so. I haven't spoken to her since November of last year. I've been living my own life and trying to be happy without her. Started a new job, hooked up with a couple of girls way above my pay grade - got my confidence back up to where it should be. That sort of thing.
About a week ago, I was drunk at a bar with some friends and I got a snapchat request from her. Since I had been drinking, I accepted. We haven't communicated, but she's looked at every single snap I've posted since I added her.
IMO she's either lonely and just looking for a way to keep tabs on me without actually committing to coming back into my life, or there's something greater working here.
I guess I need advice on what to do? I haven't tried to call/text her in 7 months or so. I figured we'd never speak again. For whatever reason it's been over a year since all of this went down and I still can't shake the feelings she left with me.
Are you the same dude who talking to me about heavy drinking? If so I think I remember you
>>17283610
Ya that was probably me. I developed a nasty drinking habit from this whole thing. I had been doing well up until recently when I kind of relapsed lol
>>17283590
If you still have those kind of feelings for her, I say there is still time to find out where her head is at.
I think she got up enough nerve to reach out to you, and used snapchat as the "in"
She might be waiting for you to call, you know "make a move". She started the ball rolling; just don't expect her to be all "i'm sorry blah blah blah"
Sometimes people aren't ready for shit, and they move on, only to later realize how good/happy it was before,...
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My girlfriend definitely deserves better than me. I'm fairly certain I'm never going to get better, so is it wrong for me to stay with her (she won't leave me, self esteem issues, "love", etc)?
>>17283533
let her go,
>>17283538
How do I do that without hurting her, or make her realize how much better she deserves? Ideally I want her to be happy and optimistic about new opportunities.
>>17283551
Break ups are messy. Someone's gonna be hurt in the long run. A clean break would be easier than something like, letting her catch you cheating. Just end it.
How do I deal with being in the closet and hating the fact that I'm strongly attracted to men? I hate myself for being gay, I think it's unmanly and degenerate. No one really respects homosexuals. I just hate how much I am attracted to cocks.
Get over it (literal) faggot.
Kill yourself, a time honored tradition among faggots.
>>17283459
Don't believe the lie that homosexuality is your identity. Deal with it like a fetish. I have to keep my fetishes in check on the daily. It's tough to abstain from them but it's worth it in the end. You are stronger than this as a person. Trust me men can never provide what a girl can for you mentally and emotionally.
> have horrifying acne on chin only
> go on accutane for two months
> acne mostly gone but get a little bit
> put on tretinoin hwen it appears
> no my chin is dry as fuck, randomly red
> applying moisturizer for two days straight and STILL red and scaly
i need help. aveeno ultra calming daily moisturizer and even aloe vera are not working . i need industrial strength moisturizer...
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Don't take hot showers, hot water dries skin, for one
Cold or lukewarm.
Keep applying moisturizer multiple (two, three?) times a day, and aloe vera. It might take a little while because accutane dries your skin and makes it prone to irritation, and it sounds like your skin is irritated.
I never had to moisturize but after taking accutane I do after every time I shower. It's worth the clear skin but it changed my skin
I googled "dry red skin" and it suggests your skin has a damaged lipid barrier, tldr it's irritated as fuck
If you clean it with product, e.g soap or cleanser, use a super gentle cleaning product, no bar soap shit I've seen some guys do
Use an alcohol free skin toner if you do that
A vitamin C serum for sensitive skin
Try to use a moisturizer with some kind of oils in it, jojoba oil, Argan oil, whatever.
It might take weeks for the dry spot to heal, use sunscreen too
>>17283441
i only took it for two months and it messed me up, but way worth it. while its easily dried now (as is other parts of my body) its still less attention then i have to pay when i was acne prone, wherein i couldnt ever touch my face or eat pizza without knowing id get bad pimples.
thankfully its hot as fuck so im not drying it out that way. i think its cuz we've had a lot of rain and overcast days lately, very moist. then it got hot and dry and my bodies catching up. thankfully i remembered i had collagen...
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