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Posted this in an /adv/ but I didnt get a reply. I hope someone could help me or give me some advice
>had to go to college to pick up some stuff
>meet teacher I have a crush on. (shes 29, im 23) she already has a boyfriend
>just passed my finals and I told her im doing a masters degree after this, so 2 more years
>shes excitied that im here for 2 more years
>we have a small talk and after that we both leave
It's a sort of empty, hollow feeling. I know it's childish but she's so friendly and pretty. I still see her on a regular basis and I cant get her out of my head
What do I need to do /adv/? I need to let her go, dont I?
Anyone?
What to you aim to achieve by persuing some form of relationship with her? Do you truely aim to destroy her relationship with her boyfriend for some thing you consider "childish". OP I mean this in the nicest way possible find someone else you're only 23 and there are so many more opportunities for you to meet someone who you can connect with more intimately; especially considering the conversation you described. It's really not much to go on considering what I think your proposing
>>17285083
I guess you're right anon
Does not liking crowds or parties mean you're a beta loser?
>>17284425
No, it means you don't like crowds or parties.
Fuck no. In my opinion it's the betas who need to interact and socialize. Like they'll fucking die if they don't get the interactions they so desperately seem to need. Sad really. I try to seclude myself but people won't leave me the fuck alone and let me relax. People NEED some alone time. Not to be flooded with attention.
No, but asking this question does.
So recently I have gotten a fetish for Undyne from Undertale and now my friends call me fish fucker what should I do? Unfortunately I am being serious.
Don't give a fuck. Remind then that people get fetish phases sometimes and bring up some of the crazy shit they were into. Had a friend who has a thing for midgets, then later pregnant chicks. Then another friend who got into pregnant chicks.
Thank you and you have made me feel so much better
lmao fish fucker
It's 3:30 am. I've been nursing a beer for the past hour and I feel really awake. Would it be terrible if I took a sleeping pill?
>>17284302
I wouldn't, haha speaking of which I drunk like 7 or more shots of vodka and took 50mg of Chlordiazepoxide
>>17284302
You should keep more beer until you feel relaxed instead of a pill. What kind of "sleeping pill" is it? This is important.
>>17284302
Don't if it's Ambien. That shit fucks you up (from personal experience and the experiences of others. You will see shit, beer or no beer, and not in a fun way).
Any accountants on tonight?
I'm thinking about going back to school to major in accounting and would like to hear your opinions on the profession.
I'm 24, will be going to an average university, graduating in 2 years. Mainly I want to know if accounting sucks or if it's "kinda cool".
>>17284285
I have a degree in psychology yet I work as an accountant because I'm good at math.
Does that answer your question?
>>17284303
Thanks for replying. This tells me that demand is high enough that they are hiring non-accounting majors. Is your job title accountant? Or are you a bookkeeper? Do you enjoy the work?
>>17284311
>demand is high enough that they are hiring non-accounting majors.
Hasn't seen it that way, good point.
>Is your job title accountant?
I live in a spanish-speaking country but my job title is auditor.
>Or are you a bookkeeper?
I've no idea what you mean by bookkeeper, but what I basically do is to review all the money movements made during the day and make sure nobody fucked anything up, in case they did I have to figure out what was it they fucked up, how to fix it and to let them know so we can prevent it from happening again.
>Do you enjoy the work?
Short answer: Yes.
So I have an interview at olive garden tomorrow and I need some advice. I previously worked for an olive garden in another city 2 and a half years ago and quit without notice. Now i applied to another location and claimed that ive never worked for olive garden on the application, even though I have. Am i screwed or what? I have a feeling that even if I get hired theyll find my old records while processing my paperwork and ill get fired immediately. Do you guys think I should go in for the interview or just skip it?
>>17284193
They probably have payroll records or something, unless it is a franchise, and not corporate owned.
If you are scared, fess up and say that you worked there before, and smoke them by saying you had to qiut because someone was sick or moved away or something like that
They will probably appreciate the experience in the store already, and may actually end up helping you
>>17284204
I was thinking of coming clean in the interview and telling them about it, Im not sure though because the manager that i talked to on the phone about the interview sounded kind of mean and prudish. I might try this though, might as well anyway
>>17284218
You never know until you look at him face to face
You can say that you didn't write it down because it was a bad time in your life and wasn't thinking - that's why you had to quit in the first place
Hey guys. Long post, but please bear with me.
I have a friend, let's call him C. So C and his girlfriend have gone through a bad breakup and it's been pretty hard on him.
I should mention that he has a history with abuse, from his mom(physical) and also he was raped. He also suffers from anger problems.
So yesterday, he was going to drop off some stuff at her house and asked me to go with him.
>Driving
>Pull up the the street before her and start heading down that street towards her house
>See a guy get out of a car and start going to her house
>This guy, let's call him G
>G and my friends gf had sex while my friend and her were broken up once
>And here he is going into her house at around 2 pm
>My friend sees this and wants me to scope out from down the street
>He starts getting really antsy and is asking me what theyre doing etc
>I start to leave and we start driving down the main street that her street splits off of
>He FREAKS THE FUCK OUT
>He is literally punching my dashboard(where the airbag is) and is screaming "FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK"
>He is flipping out and i'm just wtf'ing
>He starts crying and keeps telling me to let him out, telling me he's gonna break my window if I don't
>I calm him down just enough for us to park at a park
>He's sobbing now and just screaming and punching shit
Cont.
>He tells me that he needs me to do him a favor
>He wants me to get a rock and throw it through his window as he drives my truck
>Tell him fuck no and that's absolutely a bad idea
>He keeps telling me to just do this for him
>Tell him it will not solve anything but honestly am pretty scared at this point
>Agree and he finds a rock in the park
>We go back to the end of the street and I'm hesitating to go over there and throw it telling him how it's a bad fucking idea
>Finally G, my friend's gf, and another girl come out and get into his car
>I gtfo because I don't want them to see us
>Keep driving and he is still just absolutely freaking out
>He keeps telling me he wants to die
>Asks me what happens if he drinks bleach
>"Well you die. That's it."
>He keeps telling me to let him out and that he needs to get air
>I stop at a school that is closed for summer
>He manages to climb the fence and get atop the building
>Follow him
>He asks me what would happen if he fell
>"You would be paralyzed, it's only like 15 ft"
>I grab him and sit him down with me along the wall of the building, so we're still on top but not near the edge
>I start telling him that I've been in depression and I know what he is feeling
>Start crying myself because all that pain comes back to me
>I start fucking sobbing remembering what that shit was like
>I told him that I'm sorry and I don't wish that on anyone
>Tell him that the only way I got through was through God
Cont.
>He eventually gets down and starts looking around everywhere
>Ask him what he's doing
>Tells me he's looking for something to stab himself with
>I tell him no
>He then starts crying and that he just wants to go to sleep and not feel anything anymore
>He's tired of everything he's just so tired
>Tells me to beat the shit out of him
>I offer to punch him and knock him out but I won't beat the shit out of him
>Eventually get him in the car and we start driving
>He starts to calm down as he;s is texting his gf asking wtf what she doing etc
>She tells him that they were going out to eat and she was with G and that other girl
>After a while he cols down and starts realizing that he overreacted
>Tell him that he has a serious problem and needs to get help
>He says he's been going to therapy, but it's clearly not working
>Tell him that I got through my journey through God, and that is what will help him
>He is receptive, but is focused on other things
>Finally take him home
Fast forward to today
>He calls me and tells me that I need to be with him a lot more, I'm his best friend and he needs me to keep him occupied in case he gets thoughts to do stupid shit(Beat the fuck out of someone or himself)
>Tells me that whenever his mom leaves he always gets the urge to stab himself and shit
>Tell him that he needs to get help and if he wants I can help him with that
>Tell him even though I have experience with this, this is far bigger than anything I've ever dealt with and he needs professional help
>Tell him calling 911 isn't a bad idea, there is no shame in it
>Keeps telling me that he scheduled an appointment with his therapist and just needs me to be there for him
>Tell him I will but I'm worried about him
>He tells me to just hangout with him tomorrow
What the fuck do I do? I've had experience with suicidal thoughts(1-2 max) but he has an URGE, whenever he is alone.
I should mention that in his big argumentswith his gf, he's punched her. In the leg. but really fucking hard where she started crying and shit. He told me that he didn't mean it and that he just got really mad.
I was honestly fucking scared yesterday, and I think he truly is a danger to himself. What the fuck do I do?
I don't want to call 911 on him, I feel like that would make me a snitch, like I'm ratting him out. But he needs professional help.
Is there anywhere where I can take him so that he can get some help?
How do you become completely carefree in life? I feel like no matter what stage of my life I'm in I'll always wake up with something stressful on my mind. In middle school it was getting girls to like me by screaming obscenities at them, high school was me trying to barely scrape by grade wise. I wonder what college will be for me. Even if I was filthy rich Id still have some degree of shit to worry about just like right now.
>>17284160
You're a fucking kid.
What have you got to worry about?
>>17284162
i gotta worry about a girl finna fug my booty desu family member
>>17284162
Did you even read the thread you shit for brains? I'm talking about being stressed at all parts of life no matter how well off you are. Of fucking course when you look back to when you were a kid you realize how trivial that shit was but the stress is still there albeit on different parts of life.
When we talk, she gives quick answers with a strong stoic face, no smile nothing. First two days of class she approached me and smiled alot etc, but after that I think she either was done using me, or felt no value in me. She is nice and playful with everyone in the class but talks to me like I did something bad to her.
She mimics me alot. She sits just like I do, same posture and style (which can be random and not related to attraction).
But what got me is that I bought a really rare type of drink to class the other day, and low and behold, she was drinking the same thing the day after. What is going on? why would she bring that drink to class like that. Think she is fucking with me?
Also, she has started to park her car right next to mine. But i think that is a coincidence. I am just baffled at the drink situation, is she screwing with my head?
>>17284156
dis ho retarted
>>17284156
GO GO GO!
You have to ask her out dude! What's she going to say no? then oh well so what fuck her move on.
Do it one on one like in the parking lot or something. Call her out! say "what are you copying me" or something in the moment like that, like " i see you parking next to me" just keep the dialogue going
>>17284156
For the drink thing, she was trying to get you to start a conversation with her. She's trying to get you to talk to her and maybe she just doesn't know how the hell to confront someone she has feelings for.
Or she's psychotic. Can't tell.
So I had suspected my bf was doing something shady with my 12 year old cousin previously. I was baby sitting her and we took a nap. I woke to find her coming out of one of the bedrooms crying, and my bf following her out. Apparently he had stopped by while I was asleep and she let him in. Her clothes were disshoveled but when I asked what was wrong she said nothing. I told her parents but no one will believe me and she won't tell me what happened. The other day my friend caught a post on tumblr with him saying something about pedophilia and how they cry. Idk what to do without my cousin's statement the police aren't taking this seriously.
>>17284141
kill him its the only way
>>17284141
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MSrTnWDTdwI
Bitch you trippin nigga just tryna get dey dick wet shieeeeeeeeeeeeeet
Bait. Report and move along!
>I deserve good things
>I am entitled to my share of happiness
>I refuse to beat myself up
>I am an attractive person
>I am fun to be with
Does saying this stuff to yourself every morning really raise people's self esteem and confidence? I've never even heard of daily affirmation but I feel like trying it, I kind of think it's just a mind trick into making you change your outlook on yourself. I'm just wondering if I say this to myself everyday for like a week, I wonder if I'll feel less depressed and more self confidence/self esteem.
I mean if it works or makes me feel better than I guess it doesn't matter if it's a bunch of babble garbage nonsense. It kind of reminds me of Cognitive Therapy or some shit, where you like "change" the individual's outlook on situations and redirect their mentality as being more optimistic and positive.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ldAQ6Rh5ZI
Saying it and believing it are opposite ends of the fucking spectrum, friendo.
>>17284128
Well, I get that but isn't that the point of saying these everyday to yourself? You eventually start to believe it, isn't that the premise beyond Cognitive Therapy? Changing what you believe, you eventually will believe it if you keep saying it, also if you really want to improve and be happy then I think you'd believe anything.
That's just what I think
>>17284128
That's true, but more than likely if OP says these things frequently enough and for a long enough period of time, he will be more likely to believe the statements.
I'm just saying it could work, and there can't be any harm in trying, so go for it OP, let us know how it works, but I'd say try it for at least a month before you give up, training your brain to think certain things can take awhile.
LSD STORING QUESTION
LSD STORING QUESTION
LSD STORING QUESTION
Will my L go bad if i left it inside of two zipper cases, but inside my car, mid June on Long Island NY? its about 70 degrees, and certainly warmer in a car sitting out from 430pmto630 pm. is my L fried or do you think it survived the two hours in my car?
I have other tabs that my dude said were less strong than the ones i left in mycar. they were in my room, in the dark, with no temperature changes, but my dude said the ones i left in my car, were stronger. did the ones in my car degrade enough that i should just take the ones in my room that were cool and dry, and sell the other ones that were initially stronger but were in my hot car for 2hrs?
Store in a cooler with ice, you fucking simpleton.
For best storage, please insert rectally until ready for consumption
>>17284103
They are probably fine OP, maybe slightly degraded but they're not gonna be bunk if it was only 70 degrees.
Why is it when I want to talk about how relationships are today, and how worried about how hard it is to find love today: people always reply with: "Why are you worrying about this, you need to go out and live" This has always seemed like a baseless hippy argument. It helps no one and doesnt answer the question. Please I want to counter this. How do I counter this.
>everyone's wrong and I'm right
>still hasn't found love
You counter it by going out and living life
>>17284102
but it doesnt mean anything! im living right now? how can you make the argument with the assumption that im not living? Why is it taboo to be worrying about love?
I told my brother I'd be his best man at his wedding. But if I go through with that I have to wait another 305 days to kill myself. Should I even bother? Not like its going to matter after I die.
Don't leave him without a best man
Maybe you'll meet a hottie at the wedding, get laid, and stop being a mopey shit
Yeah but my ex gave me genital warts so I can't do that.
>>17284104
Sux2bu
I'm looking to learn mandarin, but I'm not sure where to start. any suggestions?
Eat some oranges
I'm studying Japanese and I want to kill myself because of having to memorize kanji. But if you're a masochist then I guess you should learn it, just look up some guide online. My tip is to use Anki for memorization, much more efficient than any other method IMO.
Sign up for a class.
