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How can I get over thinking everything is tedious and exhausting?
I'm ignoring calls, lying to friends and dodging texts from my qt oneitis to reduce my chances of going out and doing stuff.
Do more things that aren't tedious and exhausting I guess.
turn off your computer/phone/internet device
go outside
>>17282037
i dont know how 'extreme' you are with this tediousness but maybe you just arent adventurous. i have phases. this last few months ive done nothing but run around all day and night going on adventures hooking up meeting friends, etc. etc.
and now it feels exhausting and i just want to sleep for a week so im doing what you're doing.
some people need more down time than others.
my ex gf is threatening to go public about how i "raped" her
the "rape" in question is just that we had a fucking awful relationship with no communication and often she wouldn't say no even though she didn't want to and it felt like rape
she told me this had been going on for a long time when we'd been together for a couple years, made me feel insanely guilty and we've had a bunch of difficult teary conversations, lots of apologizing etc etc over the last 2-3 years
now a couple months after we finally broke off our shitty...
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>>17282008
Don't stick your dick in crazy. Simple
ignore her
Learn your lesson and go gay.
There's this thing that I don't understand.
When I see my ex gf, it just reminds me why we're not together anymore, i find her boring and i'm not really attracted.
Yet, when she's not here, I miss her to the point that I have tried to commit suicide.
What's wrong with me?
you just want intimacy in general which is normal
>>17281982
what do you mean?
>>17281972
sounds like a serious case of being a faggot
the only cure is to manually remove your head from your ass
Live in Liberal CA.
If a person wanted to go camping in a pretty rural desolate area and wanted to carry a weapon (pistol) without a permit for personal protection in light of a wild animal attack or human attack, do you think the authorities, if in the area, would really mind, be understanding? Would it even be worth risking potenetial future legal repercussions?
>>17281971
>being understanding
The law doesn't work like that. Why can't you get a permit?
>>17281971
not worth it. etiher go without one, or postpone the trip til you can get one. certainly start doing the proper legal work to get yours by next year.
i feel your pain, la here im the only one i know who owns a gun. but its just camping, you can bring knives.
>>17281991
That is true, obtaining a permit, at least to my knowledge, is very difficult to get. The great state of California does not grant concealed weapon permits for one camping trip, in their eyes it would be unjustified.
So, I moved to Illinois 2 years ago from Michigan with my girlfriend and ended up having kid with her in Illinois. Our relationship has been tumultuous at times, but she hasn't worked, and I've always supported her and her habits (cigarettes, weed, etc.). About 2 months ago, she met some friends at the park, and pretty much stopped coming home for 10+ hours per day. So, when I was home, she was gone, and when I was at work, she was at home. It quickly got to the point where she was gone on the weekends, as well. She blamed it on my attitude, but I would only get upset...
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At this point I was like, fuck it, and started tracking her every move via GPS. Coupled with all the call logs I managed to dig up, I realized that this asshole was taking the bus to my apartment every day as soon as I went to work. And if that wasn't bad enough, she was taking my car to go hang out with him as soon as I got home, as well. All the while, she kept telling me that she wants to be with me, and that she would never cheat or sleep around.
She was taking my money, buying 30 packs of Milwaukee's Best, and practically living in my car at times. Beer...
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And instead of spending time with her baby girl, she went to the park, and this dude picked her up and they went to back to his place and partied with several of his friends all night. She told me that she would come back at some point today to chill with me and the baby, but I don't see that happening. She's probably going to jail for a little while, and probation is a definite. A 3rd DUI is no joke. I'm pretty fucking hurt. How could she lie to me and string me along for so long like that? I may push for full custody. Hell, I don't think that I want to...
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Talk to a lawyer. You need to get out of that relationship and you need to ensure that you get full custody of the kid.
I want to tell you all about how I fixed my acne problem. I see a lot of threads and angst about acne and I don't want others to suffer through it because they don't know what to do.
I read a book called "The Dietary Cure for Acne". It suggested changing one's diet to a paleo diet and taking a few supplements. I liked that it avoided prescription medicine which has side effects. I have hear and read bad things about accutane and tetracycline. Fixing diet first is better because it is a more natural way to do it.
The book suggests that...
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>>17281934
>Thread-to-thread salesman
>The future is here
i also want to share my cure for acne:
currently finished accutane, and its great. still get little bumps here and there but i only took it for two months cuz it shot up my triglycerides. i intend to finish my treatment but after month two ive already been cured. pic related is, however the after pic is not from after acne. its from after the following. i decided to take accutane cuz even with the following treatments it was hell. mostly cuz you had to pay attention your face all fucking day. but i digress. here is how you get acne free without accutane (Which i stlil...
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>>17282183
Acne isnt as simple as parents made it out to be. if its only in one location its usually caused by a specific problem (for example (thisi s wrong but for example) acne on the nose would be a dairy issue). I had acne on my chin only, and thats a hormonal issue. however i cannot fix that as a dude (whereas women could just take birth control etc).
there are two approaches that worked well for me. the first is how i went from pic related to second pic related.
>tretinoin in the...
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I bought a new 2016 Honda CR-V, and I don't like it. I think it's extremely boring to drive, and as a result, I don't drive it. I also really don't like the transmisssion(CVT). This was a hasty decision as our family car drove down, and we needed a new one quickly. I wish I had gotten a Toyota RAV4 or Mazda CX-5 instead, as those cars would have at least been less boring. What can I do? I've already accepted that I've lost a lot of money.
>>17281873
Not much that you can do besides trade it in for credit on next car purchase or sell it outright and use the money towards a car that you would enjoy driving... GL!
>>17281873
>wants an interesting car
>buys a crossover
Sell your C-RV and use the money to buy a used 2012-2016 Chrysler Town & Country. It has nearly twice the horsepower and two more cylinders. It's a blast to drive and its reminiscent to the Turbo minivans they made 25 years ago.
>>17282140
Are you saying that a minivan is actually fun to drive?
I posted a resume last week and got a lot of good tips, I spent the next two days trying to improve what I had.
Is this any less bad?
>>17281864
It's empty...
Write a short objective statement. List your other achievements, certifications, interests, whatever. just don't turn in this nearly blank garbage.
>>17281864
Write a personal statement at least. Some life experience stuff would be nice too, other than the formal work stuff
