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Is there really any genuine danger or downside to cutting yourself to regulate mood swings?
Its indulging your mental illness by replacing existential pain with physical pain, and is a sign of weakness.
Are you currently getting treatment for your bi-polar disorder?
>>16538837
>Is there really any genuine danger or downside to cutting yourself to regulate mood swings?
yes
>>16538845
I've been tested for everything and I didn't have anything that'd require treatment.
My bf surprisedly booked us a long weekend in Paris. We've always wanted to go, but just never been able to afford it (we both work full time and still only scrape by). I was absolutely thrilled when he told me, really ecstatic.
The problem is I've noticed i'll probably be on the rag at that time, and I think this will ruin the trip. Not so much my mood, but the fact we can't have sex in such a romantic city. It's been a little over a week since he told me, so he won't be able to get much of a refund.
Should I tell him the truth, or make some other excuse why we can't go? I feel terrible.
why can't you have sex while you're having a period?
>>16538780
Most guys would rather have sex with a girl on her period, than not at all. And menstruation is a very hormonal time for a woman which increases the intensity of your orgasms. Just lay out a towel.
If you're absolutely opposed to sex during your period, and he's already paid for the most romantic trip you've ever been on, you need to be sucking his sick like your relationship depended on it. Because it probably does. Why do you think he's doing this?
>>16538780
Wear. Condom.
Have him jump in shower right after.
Also please bring whatver YOU need plus two days extra incase. You never know how foreign cultures do it they might not have a product you like or it might be behind a counter or in a weird aisle. Bring enough to last beyond what you need and a condom for each night plus 3 extra. All good girl.
Also practice your head game or anal.
What are the best/ most beneficial jobs in the military, (specifically the navy)
That's not a valid question.
Fuck off.
it depends on where your interests lie, tell me a bit more about yourself and I might be able to give you a better answer.
Just off the bat though I'm going to tell you to avoid Bosun's Mate and Air Bosun's Mate like the plague. Master at arms and damage controlman are pretty awful as well.
I'd also recommend against going into the navy to be a seal, if you go that route and wash out of the course (which nearly everyone does) they just stick you wherever they have openings which means you'll end up chipping paint on a ship every single day for the next 4 years.
I was a quartermaster btw, which means I dealt with navigation and driving ships.
>>16538644
Well I don't have much going for me educational wise in high school. I would also like to go in the navy for 4 years and whatever I do in the navy I want to Passover to my civilian life job. I'm in decent shape and would mind doing something physical everyday. Honestly I have an open mind to all options.
Cheated on my girlfriend. Feel like shit because she's awesome, attractive and deserves so much better than me.
She's never going to find out unless I tell her but I feel like that would just cause her needless pain.
Can I ever come back from this? I want to carry this to the grave and just be the best I can be for her after this. If she dumped me at any point I'd probably just cop it because that's what should have happened by now.
what drove you to cheat on her?
>Can I ever come back from this?
No, you can't.
Either you can handle the guilt and therefore twice the piece of shit that you were before, or you tell her and she either dumps you or forgives you, and then you have to live with the guilt of staying in a relationship where it's out in the open that you cheated.
The guilt will eventually break you down. Even if she doesn't find out, you're going to end up sabotaging your relationship. There's no recovering from this.
Not doing well in school, can't remember the shit i'm learning in school, sometimes i do sometimes i don't and keep getting mostly C's, does reading books improve my brain more better so i can get A's and B's?
What is your study method? Visual learner?
We need more details to help. Most likely the way you're studying is inefficient in helping you learn. All people memorize in different ways.
>>16538634
I don't really study, i just try to remember what the teachers tell me :l but what about books?
>>16538728
In high school, I liked to read a nice easy bit of fiction during class. Then, I mapped what I heard the teacher say onto the plot as I stored it in long term memory
I went into a book store the other day and asked for any books from hitler. I was just curious and they didn't really have any, but then I made an idiot out of myself when the guy said that one section was for military perspective and the other was cultural perspective, to which I said "No I don't understand, theyre both cultural perspective" and then eventually everyone looked at me like I was some neo-nazi. Then he asked me what i was looking for in particular and I said something that was a little more grey and didn't favor either side, to which the guy just kind of walked away as he was putting more books away.
Now I'm afraid every time I walk into that store they'll think I'm some nazi or that they want me on some watch list or something. Am I just being paranoid? I was just curious as to read a book that was grey as to both sides.
>>16538525
Are you a Neo-Nazi? You can be honest, you're anonymous
>>16538525
Look on Amazon, who goes to book stores anymore?
Anyways I don't know why you'd want books on Hitler unless you're some fag from /pol/, those people had every right to treat you like a freak. I would have.
>>16538526
no holy shit, did it come off that way?
Bank charged me for a BS fee of going over my deposit limit was literally 200$ below it. How do I confront them about this? Don't want these damn joos taking all my money....
How do I confront them about this?
are you this fucking stupid?
how about calling them up and telling them? did that ever occur to you? my money is on you being a woman, this thread reeks of feminine retardation.
Call the bank customer service. If they made a mistake they'll fix it straightaway
>>16538510
Yeah I spoke the Muhammad and he have all this wonderful information... >>16538517
Yeah no help there.
How do you know if you're asexual or just got really high standards?
>>16538450
"Asexuality" is a made up condition.
And the same goes for friends. I don't know if I'm antisocial, or just have too high standards for people to spend time with.
>I want to hang out with somebody
>no not that one
>>16538450
Do you prefer physical intimacy, or intellectual/emotional intimacy?
If you want to experience sex sometime, you're not "asexual". You want to pick the right person to experience it with.
If you don't want to experience sex/grossed out by it/afraid of it/not that important to you, you're "asexual".
how do i into cougars? i wouldnt even know where to begin
>>16538429
Bump
someone must have some experience
Be attractive, broaden your horizon (as in know things that old people would know) they are a generation, or more ahead of you, they would like people who know things.
I've been on tinder for a little while, met 2 qts, friendzoned by the one younger than me, and the one older than me by a year whom I just met 2 weeks ago is moving away at the end of this month, she was amazing. Beautiful, smart, stylish, and sweet, and a total blast to be around, but I'll never see her again. Now back on tinder and I'm swiping on everyone in sight only to match with fatties, and the only good looking girls are bots all of a sudden. Will I ever find a girl I want to get to know again?
seems like it's not that hard, seeing as you've already met two.
>>16538394
this
>>16538532
He means a cute girl who likes him and he likes in return, and will be his long term gf
any advice on how to get revenge on someone without killing anyone
Blackmail ??
Before I condone any revenge plotting what has this person done?
Shit inside their toilet
Hi guys, I need some advice on what to do.
My sister and I have always had a close relationship, but I've recently moved to university and my thoughts towards her have become more sexual.
Earlier this year I broke up with my first time girlfriend because she took too much time away from me and my sister,so I'm serious.
I'm not messing you around, I need some advice on what to do, since every time she visits or vice versa I'm finding it hard to control my urges.
Only serious responses please.
>>16538260
swear i recognise her from somewhere
Does it seem like your sister feels the same way?
>>16538307
I'm inclined to say yes because of the amount of time she spends with me and the amount of times she messages me.
On the other hand, I might just be kidding myself.
would you choose to be a porn star/stripper or gamble for getting money fast?
Guy or girl?
Gamble no, porn star no, stripper yes.
If your a girl/cake boy crossdresser, just do camwhoring for easy cash
>born to mentall ill/mentally retarded hillbillies
>they are literally abusive heartless monsters
>my room is so full of black mold I can't even sit in there without smelling it and getting sick
>have to sleep in storage closet in the hallway with no door
>have thinnest walls in the world
>can literally hear everything in the house even the slightest peep
>parents room is right next to storage closet and kitchen is right under it too
>this is where my parents apparently spend every waking minute
>mom currently downstairs slamming dishes for hours on end so I can't sleep
>wake up every day to them stomping around and yelling
>they keep me up every day by drinking yelling and running around
>every time I wake up they are around the corner being insane
>every waking !moment they are awake they are being unreasonably loud and they literally never sleep
>all I want is to work and have a normal life
>I'm too afraid to pick up jobs because of how sleep deprived I am
>every day they keep me up until 4 am and every day at like 9 they start slamming shit and being Loud a as fuck
>every day theyn wake me up they're either being loud as fuck so I can't sleep or they're blocking off the bathroom so I have to go piss outside
>this is literally every day I've never woken up on my own without my parents rudely smashing shit and stomping around me for hours every morning
>if I play music even slightly loud my mom will kick in my room door and scream at me but its ok to make noise between 9 am and 4 am all day long with no breaks in between
They don't feel bad for giving me this shit life. In fact they feel inclinded to torture me.Every time I go to a friends house its relaxing and quiet and they're parents are just smiling and making food next to a cozy warm fire and I get home and its cold because we can't afford heat, my parents are in the kitchen slamming dishes and yelling while drinking stomping around and being mentally ill.
Smoke marijuana
How old are you, OP?
>>16538132
I do
>>16538134
Old enough to leave but that doesn't stop the fact that I'm crippingly tired and even if I did try to leave they would just ask for all my money anyway
How do I deal with my inescapable ugliness, /adv/?
smoke marijuana.
>>16538135
I can confirm this does help.
>>16538114
Brush your teeth
