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You know, I've seen this question come up time and time again on here, and have always laughed at people and called them c ucks. Well, now I'm here.
>university, 23 years old
>talking to grill, 8/10, clear she's interested in me
>start talking about relationships
>she mentions 1-2 years ago she "jumped from guy to guy"
>dated and had sex with different guys on a month-to-month basis
>says she knows it was wrong and regrets it
>I've had two stable relationships, sex with both.
What the loving fuck. What do I do? My brain is telling me that it's a major red flag, and to cut my losses and steer clear. My dick is saying shit doesn't matter; she's learned her lesson.
lend me your power /adv/, and give me your wisdom
Listen to your brain. You have better partner options out there.
>i've been shitposting so much that it's affecting my real life
lmao 0 sympathy
stay away
I lost a lot of weight and now I have pretty bad under eye bags. They make me look like a meth addict.
Should I gain the weight back?
I went from bmi of 26 to 20 (lost about 40-50 lbs)
should you get fat to be more attractive? no. that's fucking stupid. what the fuck are you talking about
>>16540117
how is a bmi of 26 even fat. It's the average here in America.
seems like a good idea to me, women like fat guys
Hey /b/. I need help picking out a pressure washer. It's going to be a Christmas gift for my mom.
Problem is that I don't know anything about pressure washers. I'm looking for an entry level washer that has a combination of low price, decent power, decent features, etc.
Anyone help? I don't want to spend much more than $350.
>>16540083
Whoops. I meant /adv/.
>>16540083
Can't go wrong with Karcher: I've had one for just over 4 years and it hasn't conked out on me yet.
>>16540801
Could I ask which model you got? I really have no idea what I'm doing.
Is it better to chase your dreams or a stable career?
I've been in a band for eight years with my best friend. A few months ago we were offered a recording deal with a decently famous producer. It's fairly cheap considering who it is, and is just about a dream come true, however, I've never had more doubt in my mind about chasing this path. I just landed a job making about 31k a year, with a lot of opportunity to move up and start making 40-50k over the next several years. I'm 22 with only a high school education so it's just about the best I could hope for unless my band took off.
If I go record with the band we'll have to go on tour, and I'll likely have to leave my job to do this.
I live with my bandmates which makes it an even more delicate situation.
Help me /adv/ :(
you do realize that the music industry collapsed like 15 years ago, right?
btw do you have a sample of your music?
Imo you're still young, even if the music doesn't work out what stops you from finding out? Worst case scenario you need to find a job some years later. I guess it depends on how much you value a steady job.
This is coming from someone who's going all out on a classical music career. Proceed to utilize said advice with caution.
Unless you have kids or some other responsibility you haven't mentioned, you have nothing to lose in the band scenario OP. Heck you can even go back to school if the band thing doesn't work out. At least you'll have some cool stories to share.
So I met this girl at a concert about 6 months ago or so. Nothing special though, it was a pretty friendly crowd and a lot of people were trading Facebook info. Every once in while though her posts would pop up on my news feed, and recently I've started to take more notice.
She seems super cool and I want to get to know her more but I can't figure out a non weird way to do that. Its been so long since the concert I can't really just message her. I've thought about going to where she works but waitresses are notoriously difficult to pick up. Not to...
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did she fucked that penguin?
>>16540051
I hope so
>>16540048
what anime is this
I recently started dating this girl.
We get along well and have a lot of fun together. There's just one problem though...
Her upper lip is a tad darker than the rest of her face, and sometimes I see a few hairs there.
I notice it when we skype, looks kinda like a mustache.
This girl is perfect for me except for that aspect, what the fuck do i do to get over this?
Do all girls have mustaches?
Yes, girls have mustaches. Stop being a faggot.
>>16540037
Is she mexican
>>16540053
Even little baby girls have hair on their lips if you look reallllly close
it happened again! the girl I work with who I'm trying to not have sexual thoughts about
I accidentally touched her boob the other day, and today she sat down on the floor and was wearing spandex capris. I wasn't wearing shoes, her butt touched my foot and for a moment I started to kneed it with my toes but realized what I was doing and stopped
it was so soft
help me, these boners will be the end of me
You're a scary, creepy person OP. You're going to get fired and deserve it for fuck's sake control yourself.
I can't man, I'm trying but I dont know how
shes just so fit
all I Want to do is drop a thick sticky cream pie in her and make her carry my child
I'm INSANELY CLOSE to doing suicide, i can't stand my fucking Depression, therapy doesn't really work considering this shit might be a chemical imbalance and i heard medication won't work efficiently, i'm DOOMED, everyday always feel hopelessness and hate my life completely, i really wanna kill myself, i even meditate and contemplate, NOTHING, WHAT SHOULD I DO /ADV/?
Ps haven't went to psychiatrist or theraptist cause i feel like it not gonna do anything, i wanna get over this without them.
Because you have a chemical imbalance, drugs which alter your neurology will help. All of your feelings are chemical balances in the brain.
I recommend psychedelics. Also, I'm here to talk if you want while I put off studying.
not enough info guy, how old are you and why are you depressed?
>diagnosed with autism
>medical team appointment
>they give me cards with drawings on them to represent different daily activities, and make me arrange them to different stacks, based on whether I have a difficulty with these tasks or not
WTF is this shit? Why can't they just ask me to explain what I have difficulties with or not?
Am I retarded and don't realize it, or something?
Picture unrelated
>Am I retarded and don't realize it, or something?
This is something i've been legit wondering as well. If I'm retarded. How do I know? I.e how do i become self aware?
>>16539934
There's no insult intended. Using physical cards and piles is a way for you and them to see patterns (like you have particular trouble with this SORT of thing but not that sort) that you and they might not see if it was just a list of yes and no answers.
>>16539934
This is off topic but I have seen that image befor but on top of the pancakes there was a rabbit...weird
I have no friends but my 1 year gf, we're both 21. We're in an ldr. We used to cam (talk on cam) almost every day all day.
I needed time to study so I took 2 days where I cammed for less time. She met a guy at a chat group she uses, it's a been a week since she stopped inviting me and says she busy when I ask to talk to her. She says she enjoys herself with him than me, she doesn't get upset with him.
She told me today she's giving me space to study and I told her, I've been depressed for a week and skipped all my classes and couldn't...
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God you're pathetic. Have you even met this girl irl?
you never had a girlfriend.
you definitely don't now, go ahead and tell her.
how you going to bother some stranger about him talking to your ex-pretend-girlfriend? don't
>>16539901
>1.Thinking of breaking up with her. Why should I not?
You should, by all means. She wasn't serious about you, and at the first sign of you needing time for yourself, she jumps to someone else because she can't stand being alone. She's a miserable person.
>2. Thinking of contacting the other dude just to see what kind of relationship they have and if he even knows I exist. Why should I not?
Only do this if you plan on leaving...
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On Friday, I was in my science clasas and I started to talk to a guy. It first started out with me giving him a cookie. Then we talked. He then asked "Dude, I'll give you weed for $5 dollars. I'll bring it rolled up". It's my first time smoking weed. Should I do it? Or nah.
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Don't do it, chances are you'll get addicted and become a shitty pothead. You don't need it, and it won't benefit you, so don't introduce it into your life.
It sounds like he took advantage of you. I don't think he's actually going to give you anything.
>>16539918
>Addicted to weed
Every time
>Dude dont drink that coca cola you'll get addicted and turn into a sugar craving zombie and your teeth will rot out
How the fuck do you get addicted to weed?
Its like people who say they're fat because they're addicted to chocolate
Nah senpai you just fucking lack self control and even the tiniest bit of willpower
I've been having a lot of trouble clearing my head over an issue and hoping that someone would have the time and interest to help clear some thoughts. I don't really know where to start so I'll just start with an overly simplified explanation.
TL;DR
> Been dating a girl for 2 years, things have been amazing
> Moved abroad to study -> LDR
> LDR can be quite tough
> Super lonely at Uni
> Meet...
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>>16539871
You should have kept those feelings about the other girl to yourself. If you didn't act on them, it's no different than getting a boner for a chick you see in passing - nothing happened, no issue.
Since you threw yourself under the bus, though, you may as well have cheated. If you prefer less cynicism, I would just tell her exactly the above analogy and confirm your feelings for her before re-stating your commitment to the relationship.
You've told her about this other girl and catching feelings, yes? From her POV, how does she know that you haven't done anything with the other girl? You did the right thing by being faithful and not cheating, but the trust is gone in your relationship, and I don't know how you could salvage it.
I'll try to clarify the circumstance / justify the decision about talking about it to my gf a bit more.
I had been absolutely on friends only basis with the other girl until at a party which we attended together at our uni a guy came to ask me about 20 times if we were together with the girl and whether he could try to make a move.
At first I answered rather ambiguously taken off guard but he came to reconfirm like literally 20 times. It was killing me inside but I said no absolutely go ahead and even stepped out of my way to help the chap along a bit, why...
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How do I prove that what I sense exists? If what I sense is only representations then are my thoughts only representations?
I think therefore I am.
>>16539870
So if I die the world and everyone in it won't suffer?
>>16539870
Wrong. You have a sense that you are, therefore you can think.
How do you know when you need therapy?
I can't tell if I'm just your average everyday fuckup or if I have a problem.
I often feel like two different people
There is one person who is very disciplined, ranging from painfully angry at myself to extremely happy (if I am productive), who probably enjoys things when they are there but may sometimes be too productive to have fun
There is another person who is very undsicplined,
who is impulsive, hateful, VERY hedonistic, just wants to lay in bed, jack off all day. Sometimes happy but its usually short lived....
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This is out of the realm of 4chan 3rd rate advice, you need to see a professional to do an evaluation.
do you actually feel as if your two different people, or are there just different sides to your personality?
>>16539851
it is your minds struggle to find who you are... after the questionnaire id say subconsciously you have begun to question who it is yo really are, and as a result you see the the most predominant aspects of yourself manifest as what you might see as different personality. bring yourself to the center of your two selves and you will know where to go from there
Hey /adv/, as I'm studying for finals, and I literally can't keep myself away from Facebook. I looked into it a bit more, found out according to psychologist studying Facebook addiction, that I am, in fact, pretty severely addicted. It's been seriously effecting my ability to study and I'm wondering if you all have any advice to keep myself away.
I deleted the app months ago to keep myself from getting a notification and getting pulled in or having it at easy access on my home screen, I've tried deactivating which helps for a short amount of...
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>>16539802
Try thinking about how toxic it really is. Everyone uses Facebook to try and justify some irrelevant moment in time. They justify it by taking away your free time.
Block Facebook in your Browser until finals are over
FB is shit. It's a dick waving contest. Feed my ego.
