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There were some sanitary napkins with notes on them hanging in my school today. The notes said: "imagine if men were as disgusted with rape as they are with periods". gonna get my revenge soon! Any advice on what I should do?
but periodblood is one of my fetishes!!!
Girl here. What is this supposed to accomplish? You aren't supposed to talk about periods, you know, openly. At the most, upon seeing it, I'd probably cringe and continue walking, or look at it and do nothing.
>>16545624
Frats and sororities are the worst. They put balloons around campus promoting this same shit over and over again.
Does anyone like "creepy" looking people or am I going to be forced to ACTUALLY rape someone for love? (Rather not if I can avoid it)
You can't rape someone "for love".
If you just want to have sex without effort, consider a prostitute.
If you actually want love, you'll have to find someone you love and who loves you back, which isn't about looks.
>>16545609
Oh ok that makes sense
My ex loved dirty looking guys that looked like hobos, not kidding like real fucking hobos.
"Whoever does not work does not eat" - is this statement true or is it a quote from the Bible taken seriously? Must we always feel under pressure for our safety? Are we not free?
If you want to eat you need to give something in exchange
For example, working, donating, doing something for charity. The key is not being a lazy ass.
Opus dei take this seriously and work big jobs and never stops because that dignifies them in their eyes to god. Take it was you want.
Is not about being free or feeling under pressure, is doing something to get it, if you want free food make your own garden, it still takes work. But you have to make something in order to obtain something
> Must we always feel under pressure for our safety
Yes that is life.
I think one of the biggest dangers the human race faces today is becoming dependent on hand outs. They would die as they have no clue how to take care of themselves. I struggle everyday and work twelve hours 6-7 days a week to give my family a good life and sustenance.
If I was a lazy piece of shit they'd either leave or starve whichever comes first.
I refuse help from the government as it's my responsibility to care of myself and my family....
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I need to know if I am wrong here.
Last week I was pmsing really bad, it's usually really painful but sometimes you can also get unbearably horny, most of my friends also say this is true for them. Im on my vacation already so Ive just been staying at home all day and doing pretty much nothing while my husband works. Around thursday last week I got really, really and uncontrollably horny to the point my whole body started sweating and everything. Ive called him at work and he said he didnt have time to play, which got me a little irritated.
I wanted to do...
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Tell your husband and hope for the best
>>16545486
> Ive just been staying at home all day and doing pretty much nothing
> while my husband works
> It was literally uncontrollable hormones. What do I do?
Women as we know them. Always blaming someone/something else.
Protipp: Your inner whore wants to be released.
You're a whore and you should tell your poor husband so he can leave you and get a woman he deserves.
Whore!
>>16545486
Eh, as long as you weren't actually fucking anyone else I wouldn't give a shit. But then again I like sluts.
Summary: If I am the dad, I know what I have to do. I'm not trying to get out of it, but I'm not sure it's mine. Baby isn't born yet and I haven't even replied to her yet. I just found out yesterday. To be honest, she is kind of crazy but was a good lay, so I'm not ruling out this being made up as she lacks providing me with real information.
Long story:
Dated a girl for like 2 months. Lots of sex. Anyway, the last date we had sex was July 3, 2015.
I get an email the other day saying she's preggo and due in April. She...
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OP Here:
She doesn't have my new number, I don't think she knows my address, but has been to my house and all my emails from her go to my deleted folder. She hasn't gone really out of her way to contact me besides these two emails.
>>16545448
What you should do is all based on whether or not you even like her. Clearly you already broke up, so I'm assuming you don't. So assuming you don't like her and want to be with her, I would just tell her that you would support her and would like a paternity test. If the baby turns out to be yours, you are already in good standing by showing support before hand. If the baby isn't yours, fucking bye falicia and you're out. The only negative thing I can think of by supporting her is having to...
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Run away nigga.
Srsly just assume it's not your dude.
Your in for a life of shit and misery if you let this cunt into your life.
Maybe you can avoid her until the kid is older (if it's yours that is which I doubt for your sake)
Also next time just jack off you fag.
The good associated with how good raw sex feels is overshadowed by the risk.
Every time you see some hot psycho bitch your attracted to wait till you get home and load up a pornographic site.
If you can start cappin to 2D as eventually you will find 3D not...
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Wasn't sure where else to post this, but sorry in advance if this isn't a good place. I wanted to post somewhere anonymously where, since I'll get judged, I won't get recognized.
I'll make this short and sweet and to the point as possible. I've been on 4chan since about the third month its been around, but I stopped visiting about five years ago when things here started to get really bad. Had a lot of family issues as well, which is partially why I'm making this thread.
Back in about 2000, my wife left me and our daughter behind...
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>>16545345
oh jesus christ, this has got to be bait
>>16545345
this cannot be serious
>>16545345
Be a man for once in your fucking life and talk to her about how it isn't right to jerk off your dad. Move on.
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>Tell parents I'm moving out
>Going to make it on my own
>Ask where I'm going
>Refuse to tell them
>Freak out
>They say they're entitled to know where they're child is going
I know it's normal for parents to be concerned for their kid and stuff, but I don't like people knowing my business nor do I feel my parents are entitled to know my business....
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>>16545255
its not really about oweing anyone anything, its implied that you want to break contact with them, regardless how you feel about them they still raised you
>>16545267
If I don't, they'll contact me and slowly grind away at me. I know it's in good intention, but they'll about my future, the family business, having kids, holiday gatherings(which we'll be talking about my future, business, having kids), etc etc etc.
These are things I'm morally against. I want to adopt a kid. They aren't cool with that.
If I take over the family business, I want to do it my way asap. I don't want to be stuck in a position of weakness and slowly...
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>>16545278
if thats the case then make it clear to them that you want your own space away from them, that you will end up adopting and it has nothing to do with their principles
Me and my fiance, who is 11 years older than me, have agreed to a prenup before we get married. I'm much younger and a student with no income, whereas he owns two companies, a house worth ~$400k, and 3 very nice BMWs, etc etc.
I thought it was common sense that we'd sign one and I'd have worried if he hadn't of brought it up. It was just something I always assumed we'd do because it's smart on his part and I don't date idiots. He also has slight trust issues because his brother, who he had made his business partner, royally screwed him...
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Don't worry you can still legally stick your grubby hands in his pocket and take the money he's earned.
Hopefully he'll learn next time to not marry.
What a great marriage you will have. You haven't even sealed the deal and you're planning extensively to see if you can fuck him over when you had agreed in the first place to have a prenup with him.
>>16545249
lol I feel like guys with that attitude are the ones that shouldn't marry. He's Russian and believes that men are the bread-earners, and that women stay pretty and sexy, cook, clean, and have babies. Which I'm totally fine with, but all that stuff is a full-time job, too. So it's not like I'm just sitting around the house getting fat and spending his money.
I dance in my spare time to stay fit and learn languages for fun. I always keep a positive attitude even when I'm having a bad...
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general question for all comers, i'd love to hear lots of different answers--
how do you not get attached? do you have a particular method?
i ask because although i'm a confident person with my own stuff going on, i'm pretty sure i get attached quickly (friends / romantic partners / whoever) when i like a person and i worry about pushing them away because of it.
By not being a little bitch
JOHN CEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEENAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
>>16545159
Realising that people are not that essential to your happiness, i dont need friends to get my doctorate or get that job, friends and relatiosnhips are just a nice way to relax after work or have some fun, you cant just have the good without any bad
I didn't choose to not become attached. I think I just eventually shut it off subconsciously. Definitely not a conscious decision I would make.
I've moved a lot. That may have something to do with it.
I'll keep this short. I need some input as to what /adv/ thinks about this situation.
Gf and I dating for a few months, and the ex bf bans me from seeing "their" kid knowing that means I can't see her.
The entire time we were friends and started dating he would do petty shit to express his dislike of her hanging out with me b/c he has his own issues and fucked up their relationship. He cheated on her, lied to her constantly, treated her like shit, and refused to do even the simplest task to help raise his child.
Until 6-8 months ago he wouldn't...
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She took a nap as she was sick and depressed. I watched her daughter and we played for about 5 hours. After she awoke, and awkwardness we talked about the situation, and she expressed her fears.
She told her ex about the situation and he said that we needed time apart so she could think, and that he didn't want me around their daughter until she thought that i was safe to be around.
Over the next weeks or so we talked about the situation, and I expressed my sincere apology for the situation. She stated that I am a great parent (her words), and that she wants...
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The gf(?) stated that she couldn't have a relationship with someone who can't be around her daughter. She thinks that magically in a month or two he'll retract that statement, and all will be good. All the while, she comes over when sick for snuggles, we hang out when her daughter is with her dad and babysat, we talk on the phone (with her daughter present who expresses missing me, and crying about it), we even skype until she falls asleep at night. We talk constantly.
The gf wants all of the perks of being in a relationship, and expresses missing me. Feeling empty without me, and feels depressed because I'm not around. I feel the same. I love, and I'm in love with her. She feels the same, and that's evident. She's given me another chance from my screw up so I can prove my worth as a man.
However, we're both as a loss for how to proceed. What do you suggest?
There is no court involved in this: they never went to court for separation or custody since they weren't married, and the dad wanted nothing to do with either of them when they split.
With that said, she wants to stay on good terms with the dad as she fears he'll hurt himself. (she stuck with him for 3 years because the last almost two years she thought he was going to kill himself. As he's cut himself often, severely, and tried to kill himself) Realistically, he's more of a danger to her than i am imo. Someone that unstable doesn't need to be around their child. That's why I went off when the gf cut herself with her daughter around. Yes, they both have some SERIOUS issues they need to work through. However, I signed up to deal with her past bs, and help with that. Not deal with his shit.
It's cool that your fucking the mom and all but fuck off that's not your kid.
Stop being a pappy to something that isn't yours.
How about you worry about your own daughter you cunt, try and do more than just skyping her involve yourself in her life and don't just replace her.
I have a son myself and if I had some nigga trying to act like he's my sons replacement father if me and my wife split id have a serious talk to that guy about it. If he couldn't respect that it would escalate from that point.
Take care of your own...
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I want to kill myself. I'm so dreadfully unhappy with my life and I feel like such a fucking failure that I don't belong on this earth. I can't seem to do anything right and I'm just a pathetic mess of anxiety and self-loathing all the time. All I seem to do is make people angry and annoyed at my existence. I can't conceive of ever being able to become a functioning member of society anymore because of how alienated I feel from it. Everything just feels fucking impossible. There's only so many times you can keep yourself deluded with "it's...
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top kek
JUST
>>16545136
>>16546203
Wow, /adv/.
To op, I've been through that, believe me. The issue is, you can't afford to lose the chance for your life to become good in the future. I'm 30 and I only recently met a beautiful (girl?woman? She's 29) that I love with all my hearth. In the shittiest moment of my life, when even waking up was painfil, when I was too coward to even put a bullet through my head, she appeared out of nowhere and made me live again....
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This isn't a whining-about-no-gf post, so I'll nip that misconception in the bud. It's more a curiosity / explanation thing. I get hit on by guys 2-3 more times than I get hit on by girls. My gay friend spent tonight completely unsolicitedly telling me that he thinks I'm really attractive, doesn't understand why I dont have a gf, and that he wishes his boyfriend was good looking like me (I am not making this shit up). I couldn't care less about guys finding me attractive; I'm not homophobic and I take it as a compliment. But why do I find it...
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>>16545106
You probably look gay then
Because women are passive. They will naturally hit on you less.
>>16545110
How does someone "Look gay"? Some of my gay mates are really effeninate, some are fucking bears. Some of my straight mates are waifish with long hair and high voices. Some of my straight mates look like fucking bears. There's no net change either way.
Am I baldin?
Your hair looks thin in general. Could be that your hair is just thin anyway. Or you're malnourished, which causes hair loss over the entire head. Male patterned baldness is usually localised on top of your head or at receding hairlines.
Talk to your doctor.
I've been taking finasteride for 82 days now. Over the past few weeks I've experienced a rapid decline in hair loss. Try it if your doctor thinks i would help! I feel much better now after the hair loss stopped.
Rogain works, but it takes a while to start seeing results, and your hair may thin more before new groth occurs. It's also expensive. Best thing is keep your hair medium short, and find a style that works for you.
>>16545269
Nah it fell flat around 2 months ago and then it started to recede my temples were fuller. The only thing I lack is sleep since I work night shifts and mostly get 3-5 hours or no hours of sleep all month long. Here's the thing though the back of my head is completely in tact and not thinning at all. Everywhere else is thinning though including sides. General would be all over including the back right? My scalp is also sore/achy on touch since this started happening and keeps itching like mad.
I already...
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>Go to a bar for the first time
>The place is earsplittingly loud
>Wait 20 minutes in a queue for a drink
>Tastes like 10% beer and 90% water
>Spend another 15 minutes finding a table to stand at
>Can't hear the person standing 30cm in front of me
>Have to shout in their face for them to hear me
>DJ is playing shitty dubstep
>End up watching the simpsons episode that's playing in a store across the street
I'm sorry but how do people enjoy this? What is the secret?
idk go to Another Place or maybe sit down somewhere in the park and drink for yourself and smoke i usllay enyoj that
How the fuck do you talk to girls in a place like this?
>>16545036
"HEY WANT A DRINK?"
Last weekend me and my sister went out with some friends. We both got really drunk and high. One of our friends must have brought us back. Not really sure I pretty much blacked out. When we woke up we were both in my bed and it was pretty obvious we had sex.
We haven't talked since Sunday and I'm not sure how to approach the topic or even what to say to her.
Can I get some input on this?
safe mate
Holy shit OP.
That's heavy shit.
Xmas dinner is gonna be pretty awkward eh?
>you fucked your sister
