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This has happened to me ever since i was a kid. It's a bit hard to explain but I'll do my best.
It's just a random strange feeling where my surroundings seem really surreal. it's completely random, I just look at everything in the room i'm in, and suddenly they look odd. Sometimes they look really far away even though they're not, or I see them as larger in scale then they actually are. I also get this strange jittery feeling in my head, almost like a something fast is going on in my brain, with thoughts of repetitive noise looping in my head and I can't shake it. this happens like once or twice a month, and it usually lasts about 20 minutes,
It's not really a bad feeling or anything, just strange. Has anyone else experienced this? Should I be concerned?
Yeah I get what you're talking about. Try meditating on it next time, see if it gets you anywhere. Don't try nas change it, just observe.
I haven't experienced it that many times, but it seems somewhat important for how I see reality. The Universe is just a hologram kind of thing. And glimpsing through it is like a sover high.
>>16548967
Don't try to* change it, rarher
>>16548967
Sober* high
Fucking autocorrect
Why?
pic related
and how do i get over the fact that your never gonna be mine?
We all gotta accept not everybody is going to be yours
>>16548932
Time and distance, bro. I'm sorry for your loss, but there is no other way, and you can't skip either one.
Though I am curious: why will this person never be yours?
>>16548995
Not OP but I'm under the thought that if the heart is willing there's almost always a way to make it work
Is there any way to make scratches heal faster???
>>16548867
Vinegar.
>>16548867
Petroleum Jelly.
It heals anything. Idk why, but it does.
Next timeif you are going to hurt yourself, try somewhere where people wont see it.
>>16548868
Is apple cider vinegar okay or will it need to be the other stuff?
>>16548876
With all due respect, I wasn't exactly in the state in which I would have considered that my shoes leak and that my jeans are torn in a way that shows my ankles.
Well, this is not a joke. I am not homophobic, but I don't I'm gay. I wanna know if checking traps is considered gay. I hate guys in real life (just to justify myself). Idk, I browsed 4chan and I saw a lot of traps, idk what to think now. I don't wanna fuck one btw, idk.
Ye if u like traps u a faggot, dat shit puke inducing, get the fuck outta here homo ass bitch.
desu the whole point of traps is they look like attractive women, so it wouldn't be gay to fuck them.
>>16548843
Traps are gateway to gay.
You want something with a dick but something with more softer more female features.
Ever been ghosted /adv/? I.e the person you're seeing just seems to evaporate from your life without a trace or explanation. Curious to hear other stories from anons who have been ghosted and any /adv/ice for the recently ghosted (OP).
No.
But i've done it to people.
Yeah, this one time this guy used to post helping threads on /b/ and another guy used to post yotsuba but then one day like 3 or 4 years ago they just, poof, ghosted. In fact, I think the reason /adv/ even exists is because the guy who used to post the helping threads used to spam /b/ with them, gathering all kinds of avatarfags/tripfags, which he was against but since he wanted to help everyone he let them stay and they made such a shitshow that moot first banned them all for about 8 months continuously and then he just made /adv/. Dunno shit about the yotsuba guy though.
>>16548795
Care to extrapolate? Reasons why? Just curious...
Should I break up with my girlfriend?
Here's some notes to keep in mind
- I'm 18M
- First ever girl friend
- dating for 7 months, 8 on the 15th
- she has been in several relationships, all of which she did not enjoy and regrets
- GF says I'm one of the best things that ever happened her, I help deal with her depression and suicidal thoughts.
- she somehow thinks I'm really attractive. This one doesn't matter but still blows my mind LOL
We've taken several classes together throughout high school but I never really noticed her, she told me she's tried talking to me before. I ended up talkin to her through FB after she wished me a happy birthday cause I was more confident talking to girls, we started dating soon after.
Things went fast, went from holding hands to fingering and oral about 2 weeks in, and sex in less than a month. She really cares for me, and I care for her, but a lot of times I get nervous and create problems for no reason.
I tell her about my thoughts of possibly ending it every few months, for no apparent reason or fight, just because I get nervous. One time she actually broke up with me, but we got back together 2 weeks later.
I've realized I have serious commitment issues, and the reason I want to leave her is because I haven't experienced any other relationship, and I get scared at the idea of me sticking around when I could potentially find something better.
Our relationship is great, but sometimes I just psych myself out. I think I'm honestly too immature when it comes to relationships because I'm still new to it, and sometimes I feel ending it would be for the best.
But I'm too afraid to commit to either idea. I don't want to lose her and possibly miss out on a great and fruitful relationship, but I also don't want to miss out on what other people can offer me.
Any advice welcome, I really would appreciate it.
Fucking bump yo
You don't have to leave her to experience other girls OP.
You have nothing to lose by sticking with her, infact you are only to gain. Keep in mind that you'd enjoy experiencing shit with another girl some time in the future, and when that chance comes, take it, you keep your girl, and get to experience another girl. And honestly by then if you have not sorted out your insecurity issues and stopped getting jealous over your girlfriends previous relationship experiences then there is a high chance you'l break up over time and you'l be free to try new girls all you like.
Just for now the smarter move is to stay put with what you've got, you don't move on out until you are sure there is something waiting for you.
>>16548701
Are you asking for the permission to cheat here?
Why do men keep thinking that being assertive and direct is the key to your heart? Even though direct and assertive approaches is the creepiest way to approach us?
Why do they think that once they meet you, you both should start dating right away? Despite, at least for me, I hate dating a guy unless I've taken the time to get to know him first. Why is that always so hard for men to understand?
why do women think that their own personal opinions represent the majority? can women think logically?
They think they're being 'alpha' and therefore you'll find them attractive
>>16548677
0/10
truly awful b8, /r9k/
apply yourself
>What is actually going on, do you ever want to talk about things? I miss you man. I don't know if you hate me or you just want nothing to do with me. At first I felt it was all my fault. I lied to your face. But it was only in an attempt to protect you from the truth that I myself wasn't even aware of at the time because of her lies. She told me you guys had broken up long ago, that you moved on. You moved to a new city, you were with new girls. Yes I betrayed you, but not on the level that you might be led to believe. I'm not saying this just to try to absolve myself of guilt, I'm saying it because I still care about you and you deserve to know the truth.
What would you say if you got this message from your ex-best-friend who got into a relationship with who he thought was your ex-girlfriend after you moved away?
>>16548496
>dated your ex
>never mentioned it to you
Traitor. Drop him as you have been.
The line of excuses is because hes a blubbering faggot who is either finally feeling guilt or he want something from you.
Shitty traitors should not be forgiven.
>>16548509
But... why? Pride?
>>16548522
Pride has nothing to do with it. If i broke into your house and stole something important to you and after being forced to admit i stole it went "lel we good right?" What would you say?
Even if you wanted to date his ex and thought they were broken up you never ONCE thought it would be a good idea for him to know?
Youre a traitor and not wanting to get hurt again is why he will never speak to you again.
How do people afford LA NYC and Miami?
>>16548484
They do research and find a neighborhood that's affordable.
>>16548511
This. Commuting is a bitch.
>>16548536
>>16548511
So commute and poorfags can live there?
Why does your neighborhood make you commute are all jobs downtown or something?
I honestly dont understand whats wrong with my gf parents:
>been with gf for 2 years
Sometimes they seem okay and kind, other times they are assertive and act like pricks and I dont know what triggers it, almost like a controlling type attitude. Sometimes they'll put their nose up at me. They believe that if your not at uni or had a degree your a worm
Today I had surgery on my nose because calcium had built up on one side and had to get this operated on. After coming back from the hospital to visit my gf parents we had a chat with them then said we were leaving, they followed us back to the car and tried to get us to have dinner with them. When we told them we were both tired and wanted to just go back to mine and relax (after the 5th time) they put their nose up at me and shook their head.
What is causing this type of behavior? its almost as if they have some sort of controlling/psychosis , its pretty simple to understand:
>going back to mine after operation,
>we are tired
why dont they get this ?
>>16548448
i reckon their just lost
Why are you concerned about their behaviour? Another girl, another set of parents another set of problems...
>>16548524
Well I try to pay as much respect as possible but im just over i think
Is there a way to learn to like sex?
As a girl I could have all the random D I wanted, and as a jew it pisses me off I'm not getting my money's worth
Your money's worth?
And you should try other stuff than what you're doing if not working different position maybe make him go down on you first so your more "warmed up"
>>16548473
>Your money's worth?
Yes, I could get something for free and the fact that I have no use for it makes me mad
I've had oral before, it was weird and uncomfortable so I just told him to stop.
>>16548488
Are you fucking 15? Jesus christ. Go fuck off until you have an actual sex drive.
I'm long term disabled and almost housebound. How do I find someone to come hang out with me? Facebook desperation post? Craigslist? I don't even know what to do.
I have really really low standards here, just someone to come talk to even kind of near my own age would be nice (I'm 22). Play board games with me, or play vidya, or even watch a movie with.
I'm open to litearlly any avenues. I don't leave the house much and my illness (CFS) might take more than another year or more to get better, maybe not ever who knows, and it's already been 2 years.
What do I do?
>>16548431
>Facebook desperation post? Craigslist?
so you already tried that, right?
>>16548456
Would desperation post be well received? Would I actually get people to reach out to me?
Craigslist hasn't worked when I've looked for musicians to jam, I'm in too isolated an area.
>>16548431
Begin a blog or vlog, do on it whatever you want, it will be something to keep you busy and in time you will find creativity creeping in to steer it in a direction unique to you. Also it will be a platform for interaction with people interested in your work. It will be a slow process but may be good for you.
But what do I know
because why not. i like giving advice and i'm super good at it. you'll need to specify whether you want to hear from Bad Bitch Lucy or sincere and compassionate lucy. you can't really go wrong either way, but i come in two flavors. and i'll be sharing very good music with you along the way, which will help you to better yourself as a person and stuff. you're not allowed to post music because your tastes aren't as refined as mine and you might injure someone
so let's get started
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mB_1NCRUTcw
how do i stop binge eating lucy
i'm an emotional eater and i just got dumped a few months ago
Hey Lucy, where can I meet a girl who is in to Anime? I feel like I have an easy time talking to girls, but for the most part these otakus are like a unicorn.
>>16548402
this is actually a really tough one. i've successfully ended it myself. i'll have to be a little hard maybe to get the point across.
stop eating poorly. advice in this case often falls short of anything meaningful because it all comes down to you. you're a lovely person and you should eat well because you're worth it. binge eating, or even eating poor quality foods at all, can definitely (and usually does) contribute to depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues.
your ex left you months ago. stop feeling sorry for yourself, and stop using that person as an excuse to be less amazing than you want to be. there's a fount of strength within you, but to tap into it you're going to need to decide you want to be strong.
good luck. here's some music.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-2aNnij82U
how fucked up am i if i often day dream about being someone's "perfect girlfriend"? and often to "ugly/un-desirable" men?
i like the fantasy of someone who appreciates me so much that they would want to see me all the time and excitedly talk about me to their friends and family and anyone who would listen.
other fantasies include where the guy would do his best to make a thoughtful gift for my birthday or something, or him being in a good mood because he's thinking about me... there's a ton more but i feel embarrassed writing it all out.
anyway, i end up feeling teary and hurt from these day dreams, and it's an addictive feeling. sometimes i just think about that stuff and cry myself to sleep.
Only a tiny bit fucked up.
>>16548267
Holy shit sign me up. I'm as undesireable as it gets. Unless you're a dude. Then get bent.
The sad part is that this is a fantasy and not a confident expectation. People normally get off on the idea that this is actually something realistic to look forward to. For you it's a daydream. That's pretty fucked. You and your poor self-esteem need to consult at least a therapist, if not also a personal trainer and fashion consultant.
Got accepted into a college. I told them I had a problem with homelessness and stuff so they let me right in but I have a problem
Anti-social neet here, $200 on campus pw. I only make $520 a fortnight so is living of $60 a week for food and books ect going to cut it?
I'm really nervous about moving interstate alone I can't couch hop if I fuck up.I'm 19 any advice for me?
Any advice for me?
>>16548261
Ramen noodles, potatoes, rice, beans. Buy cheap, filling food. Eating on a budget is easy if you know how.
>>16548261
You'll have way more than enough if you don't eat out literally all the time like an idiot.
>>16548277
food wise no issue, what I worry about is books and shit. I'm broke af
>>16548289
I don't even use a phone m8 ;)
