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Hey /adv/, I need some help. I'm male and I'm bi, for the first time ever I showed off my ass to a guy on omegle and he came watching me. Problem is now I'm feeling guilty and dirty as shit. I don't even have a problem with my sexuality, I know what I like, I like big dicks and I like traps femboys etc things like that. but for some reason this shit feeling just doesn't go away
>>16548237
Because you whored yourself out online you filthy slut.
>>16548241
Oh, excuse me, sir, did you notice that OP is male? Do you still think he is a filthy slut? Just curious.
>>16548237
>I like traps
Get off /b/ for a few months
What's a good way to forget about the negativity on the Internet?
>>16548167
Realize that the internet is always something you can just get up and walk away from.
>>16548167
... Get... get off of it?
>>16548174
I've tried doing that but the negativity is always in the back of my head and won't go away.
The worst thing is it's my fault for looking at it in the first place.
How the fuck do you break up with someone you're in love with? It's clear that it's the best option for me now, and the emotional side of me is not even being fulfilled, but I can't bring myself to do it out of respect for what we used to have and hope that it could be like that again in the future if I just put up with everything long enough.
We started dating when I was just barely an adult, and I was together with her for almost five years. We lived together that entire time. She was there with me when my heart condition developed and helped me...
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>>16548127
I talked with her about it the other night, and laid out my concerns. I told her I needed to understand that she had feelings for me and I needed to understand what "on trial" was and how long it would last. She said nothing and started to cry, and I backed off. She said nothing on the subject the entire night, and now, weeks later, still hasn't.
It's clear to me that I need to separate myself from her, as she's never going to give me the words I need to hear to give up, but...
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Love is not enough.
>>16548127
>>16548129
Fuck OP it sounds like you're really dragging her down with you in this downhill slope of depression. Maybe just accept the fact that she'd be better off if you guys had your space for a while and she could think clearly without you trying to force your way back into her life. If you love her, let her go and if she loves you she'll come back.
University dumbfuck reporting in. Failed 4/7, literally more than half semester. Parents already know. I'm going back to my hometown tomorrow.
How do I cope with all these feels/anger, and specially what the fuck do I tell my parents?
>>16548110
You tell them how you feel bad for disappointing them.
>>16548110
Tell them you fucked up. Get a job and try and work something out between them and make god damn sure you're not going to go back to school without the intent of completing it. Make sure to say you're sorry too.
And they'll want to know what REALLY went wrong. Do you know want really went wrong?
So after 3 years of no sex I decided to hire an escort for the first time. I booked a session for an hour. I was a little bit nervous but figured that was normal.
The girl was small, under 5 foot and maybe 100lbs. She went straight to blowjob and it was amazing. We did missionary and doggy, but then I started losing my erection. She went back to blowjob, and even though it felt great I knew I wasn't going to cum. We tried having sex again but I couldn't keep it up. Had to end the session without cumming.
Anyone else experience not being able to cum?...
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![Mugwump_thumb[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/igLjQye.jpg "Mugwump_thumb[1].jpg")
Yeah, that happens. If you keep hiring escorts you'll have a better time.
>Or you could date girls and have pretty much the same experiences for cheaper.
>>16548111
Yeah but I suck at picking up girls, hence the need to hire an escort after 3 years of no action.
I'll probably try an escort again. But yeah they are expensive...
You are desensitized due to your pornography addiction.
Me; 19f. I have only female friends. I want some male friends but don't want to attract them by getting them thinking that I am looking for a boyfriend. What do?
you're 19 and your dumbass. men and women cant be friends. no matter what your guy friends are going to have a boner for you and will want to date you Or simply put they just want to fuck you. Yeah you can be my naive and say oh they're my friends but really they just want to fuck you in every relationship will end at that. unless you're there just to control them and use them for free stuff. then you'll just be a whore. Have a nice day
>>16548107
No, I know that. But I don't want make friends by dating. I want to hang out with some guys.
I have absolutely no jitters at in fucking you and I'm not a homo.
Hit me up on skype senpai
redguyart134
Hey /adv/ have you ever moved to a different country or continent?
how did it go?
I'm thinking about trying to move to canada and find a job up there
anyone done that before?
I'm sick of the US, and our backwards bullshit, I wanna go somewhere else
my parents have given me a couple of months to move the fuck out, so I'm getting a job to start saving ASAP, but wanna consider the possibilities here, especially if I'm being forced to move.
Do you have a bachelor's degree?
>>16548041
no
i'm working on it at the moment, although being kicked out is gonna fuck up my timestable
>>16548046
Even immigrant-friendly Canada requires that you have a job lined up there or a rare skill that not enough Canadians have.
My ex gf recently broke up with me, but she told me she still loved me. Very emotional, she had a breakdown. We had been together for years. After a few days she already had another person. I know for a fact that she didn't even talk to this person much.
What the fuck does this mean? Was she cheating on me? Why was it so fast?
It means she's over you
>>16547947
It took her all of a couple days. I don't understand how she could recover that fast when the actual break up was drawn out and ugly.
Love is not enough.
>gf
>2 years
at this point it's like shes not even trying to be in the relationship. We just still fuck well and cuddle. All the love is there. But fuck after 2 years shes just let herself go. She hasn't gained weight. But I just find the spark is gone. She seems less wanting to dress up for me / look good. She hardly shaves her vagina / arm pits anymore.
Is she just bored with me? I feel like the relationship ended a long time ago. I still have feelings for her and she does to me. But at...
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Maybe when she's wearing something even slightly better, compliment her a lot. "Wow, I love it when you dress up. It makes you look amazing. You're beautiful." She'll be inclined to dress up more.
Date her again. Take her out on a fancy date. Not necessarily an expensive date, but just say you want to dress up and go out together. Make a good effort yourself to clean up good. If she's underdressed around you, she'll notice.
How do you dress?
She might not be bored, just comfortable. She feels like she doesn't have to fight for you. But that doesn't mean she shouldn't do anything for you.
One time I shaved my girlfriend just to reinforce the idea.
>>16547948
>compliment her a lot
>Date her again
tried both. it just seems like its dying . it's not going anywhere at all. we've talk about it I've mentioned where I'm at and how I feel. It just feels like she pays lip service and then nothing happens.
>How do you dress?
constantly updating my stuff. Replacing old stuff with new stuff. she'll complement me on my stuff I buy.
I hit...
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I'm 22 years old and have been talking to a 39 year old and he recently asked me on a date. A few friends are trying to convince me to not go because he's too old.
Do you guys think 15-20 years age difference should be a deal breaker?
>>16547797
As long as it is legal, age doesn't matter. What does matter is shared values.
>>16547797
there are going to be some challenges
sexuality, behaviours, ideologies
all of that will be skewed from a matter of age as well as personality
if you think that would matter to you, then i would try to figure out your feelings first
but i say to act confidently on what you're feeling and see where it takes you
you'll learn the most that way
a mistake not learned is a mistake in itself
If you were touched by a female when you were around 7 or 6, does the fact that it was a girl change anything ? Does it make you gay if you did not enjoy the experience ? I feel I should be appreciative of what happened, cause I got a head start on sexual exeriences before other guys, but I really didn't like it. Im not sure how to feel about it . Someone on /b/ said they would have killed for that to happen to them and I should be appreciative but I really didn't like it.
Don't listen to the loser cretins on that shitstain of a board. No you shouldn't be appreciative but rather disgusted and pissed that someone older then you took advantage of your naivety.
I highly suggest you seek a therapist and get these problems to a licensed professional. Getting sexually assaulted a by girl is no different reverse, I think it is disgusted and causes major psychological problems to the victim.
>>16547694
What if when I tell the professional about my experiences , the person will get in trouble that's all my fault.
>>16547700
Fuck that person. They deserve it dude, whoever this person is deserves to pay for their crimes.
What do you all wear to weddings? This is what I'll be wearing and I'm nervous as to whether or not it's informal. I don't normally dress up that often so Any advice would be appreciated
>>16547664
Swap the pants out for black ones. You look like you're about to go to a business meeting right now
Black pants and white dress shit.
Throw on a blazer as well.
>>16547664
I am with everyone on black pants. Suit jacket tends to be optional in my experience.
As far as shirt color, the blue is fine. Not a fan of the tie/shirt combo though.
Also, black shoes.
I'm sexually attracted to this Gorilla. Am I weird?
>>16547593
not on 4chan
>>16547593
Are you the fagosexual queer who keeps spamming Gorilla posts on everyone's threads?
>>16547593
Are you Vietnamese?
So i had a circumcision 4 days ago. I meet my doctor in 2 days for a check up but i'm getting worried. I went to work and walked quite a bit and my penis started bleeding(not that much and it did stop). Also there is this yellow stuff, mostly on where under my glans. Should i be worried.
>>16547539
>>16547536
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>>16547543
There isn't a spoiler button here? Also, i'm sure this isn't against the rules? Like youtube allows penis stuff if it's medically related.
this is the most disgusting, horrifying thing i ever seen bar none
So what's the key to macking hoes? I'm not talking about cheating, simply being in multiple Sudo-Sexual relationships with women.
>>16547512
>Sudo-Sexual
>Sudo
>Sudo
Maybe if you knew how to spell, you'd get some more puss
>>16547527
>>16547518
Holy shit, I didn't know what that word meant until I looked it up. I was just bullshitting English
