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Really the thing is that I've been through this before

I just don't want to be so miserable anymore. About 2 years ago I told myself that if I don't get better by the time I'm 30, I'll through my life away in some way, not necessary suicide, but just go full 'fuck it' mode.

I was so sure I'd made it when I had her, I even rushed to buy a place for us to live in the future (I was going to anyway but still), and we were both so certain she'd come here in half a year and eventually get married and be so happy together....
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>>16546145
>>16546132
Just calm down Bro. If you overthink it so much you do stupid things. Try to do the thing you like, and don't throw me shit like " I liked being with her durr" Fucking beta faggot. If you love soccer eventually you will found someone who supports you and support the fact you like soccer, maybe she didn't like soccer but support the things you like. Now there a lot of Girls that travel you will found someone. Right now you are acting...
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>>16546132

shes unsure, its not worth it. its just going to be a waste of time and resources and of course, more drama like this. if shes already having the fears, they are going to keep coming. normally im an 'enjoy it while it lasts' kind of guy, btu this is clearly just going to be more pain than fun. so cut it off

>im afraid of dying alone

even if you are married, you'll die alone. knowing that you have some old lady that you could have gone home to if you didnt...
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>>16546117

its hard to say. you went from '2 month alcohol binge' to 'third day on it' to 'years of substance abuse'.

even if we were doctors (were not, but we play some on TV) we'd need more specifics.

ultimately id say yes. if you are conscious and can think cohesively now, than you arent really damaged, just on a bad road. most young people drink WAYYY to much but they turn out fine once they start to cool down.

the body has the amazing ability to heal itself if...
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>>16546127

By three days into it, I meant three days into not having a drink. And yeah, I haven't joined the idiot club, but I'm definitely not as sharp as I used to be/could have been. In some ways I just fail. With common sense and practical knowledge as well as orderly thinking, I have never been that good but am certainly worse off now.

Oh well, I guess what I'm really looking for is confirmation that I could still actualize my full intellectual potential that I may have had before, but that ceiling...
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>>16546154

i mean if ur a fully functional adult and have what you need to do, then why worry? unless there is a specific thing you are worried about not doing, why care about whether you are intellectually lower on the totem pole?

being smart is overrated. not that i would know. but ive been pretty dumb my whole life and it hasn't stopped me from living in any sense of the word.

You're a faggot Op

Don't have kids

>>16546066
This is well written word porn right here, very juicy, but I'm out. Let's be honest: this place is kinda gay.
On your post some advice would be: stop worrying about this shit. Bitches lose their ability after 43=45+ to have kids. You can impregnate bitches till your dead. Guy in India got a child @90 years of age. Yes, 90. Stop being so hasty. Enjoy life for what it's worth once. Happy now? No? Too bad.

>>16546022
See a psychologist

>>16546022
We're all a bit crazy. No one is "sane". Accept how you are, do what you can to better yourself ...

>>16546022
There's no such thing you fucker.

There's this perpetual feeling that sits
between my ribs
melancholic boredom, swaddled in a crib
of bones.

Is there anything quite so disconnecting
as being aware
of the relative unimportance of your skeleton?

I would compare
forgetting to
"ignorance is bliss"
I used to comprehend
my level of responsibility
now I think this is
beyond my capability.

>>16546014
>Is there anyone else out there that feels disconnected from the world as a whole?

Yes, but what we feel is often far from the reality. The reality all matter in the universe is connected in that they originate from the same source.

>"For in much wisdom, is much grief: and he that increaseth knowledge, increaseth sorrow"

I disagree with this. Knowledge is inherently neutral, it is the interpreter that associates his/her feelings...
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>>16546181
>maslow's pyramid
Excellent perspective

I have been put as the reference for over 30 applications.

Never once have I been contacted by someone else's employer. I've never even heard of someone being called for that.

Just right the names of friends and say they where co workers in your lawn service or some shit.

What sort of jobs are you applying for?

>>16546021
I've definitely had people contact my referees. I wouldn't make them up just in case they do contact them.

if it's professional references then you'd want to volunteer somewhere for them and if not; talk to your teachers if you are/were a hard worker. I've used a teacher from 3 years back as a reference and I haven't and still don't have issues getting calls back.

You look like you're a bit agressive and switchy, like the kind of person who laughs at others a lot and switches when things go badly.

idk, try to look friendlier

It's not your looks. Probably the way you act around people. For example: why did you post that pic and didn't crop it?

>>16545890
You seem like a cunt.

lol where are you from

>>16545873
would rather not say

>>16545886
you must say

It's probably South America judging by that picture

I told a great friend the other day how I felt about her, shit went really well for about 2 weeks then she went back to her ex. I've lost her as a friend and a girlfriend, now im sitting here like a mug hoping she will come back to me. Your're right, you have to move on, but if you dont mind losing friendship with her just tell her.
It could work out for you in the long term but best not to get hung up living in hope.

Yes
it will only make you feel better
And who knows? Maybe change something

>>16545839
NO.

There is no reason to tell her how you feel. It wont really change anything.

>>16545792
whether or not you are attractive

>>16545792
Attractive = shy
Unattractive = creepy

"Shy" can mean anything from being uncomfortable to have the focus on yourself in a public situation to not opening up, but the one uncomfortable, ill-at-ease, you name it, is always yourself. It's just a little more work for people around you, but it isn't a nuisance like being creepy is. Creepy people make everyone around them uncomfortable, while they're sometimes totally fine themselves.

Of course you can be both creepy and shy. Maybe being shy puts you more at risk of being creepy since you're more likely to have a poor understanding of social norms, but they aren't necessarily linked either.

>>16545742
go for a GED

>>16545742
>So /adv/ can you support yourself on a minimum wage job
Depending on where you live it's possible, but chances are it will be a struggle.

>or should I at least try for a GED
You absolutely should. Any higher-than-minimum wage job will require this at the very least.

Before you pack up everything and leave you should really give some hard thought into moving out though. If your parents are offering their home to you while you make...
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>>16545742
If all possible get a roommate.

>>16545731

Fuck off shitskin terrorist mudslime.

>>16545731
Could very well be PTSD, but Muslims in general are at a really bad spot right now in Europe. Pretty sure you're not the only one. I don't about laws over there, but in the states you could get someone in prison for sending death threats.

What do you expect from a miliatry person.

What do you expect from a fucking christian "muh constitution" right wing wacco?

What do you expect from a person who went down there and killed people just to be badass.

Btw. he's probably bitter because noone is proud of him, because he doesn't get the attention he feels he deserves.

In fact, maybe he should be in prison for his crimes.

Just ignore him.
Leave him to his misery.

Don't invite people to do drugs unless your certain their into it. Seems like your shitty attitude is the problem, not her.

>>16545736
She smokes more weed than I do I'm not a dumbass

>>16545740

>I'm not a dumbass

Citation needed. Apparently she expected something vastly different for your actual date.

Scout ahead for a restaurant that has a unisex bathroom that you can occupy for 10 minutes. Take her out to dinner. Tell her how sexy she is and how much you've been thinking about her and that you want her.

Lead her to the bathroom and have kinky bathroom sink sex. Voila. No more boredom.

>>16545705
Public Bathroom sex is very unappealing to me. Most are gross and smells.

>>16545705
enjoy your criminal record when you get caught

>>16545642
Say how you are different from other workers where you put 100% of your effort when working. BS it m8.

Talk about how you're perfect for the position. Hype up your skills to make it look like you're the best and only option

"Why should we hire you?" is not "Why do you want to work for us?". It's "What can you do for us that someone else can't? How does our company benefit from hiring you over someone else?".