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>friend tells me she's in love with me
>has been for a year, but I nicely tell her I don't feel the same
>broke her heart, she stops talking to me for two weeks and is now talking to me again
>then again, I'm a 4/10 manlet
She absolutely adores me and nearly worships me. She's cute too, but she's like a two-face; on some days she's utterly disgusting. Should I just go for it?
If you don't actually find her attractive, it would just be a waste of both of your time.
>>16540744
I think I'm on my way to being single for life, though.
>>16540806
You should never get into a relationship with someone out of fear of being alone, but you especially shouldn't do it with someone who has really strong feelings for you. It might feel fulfilling at first to get that romance and affection more intimately than you get with a friendship, but sooner rather than later it'll start to feel boring and empty again because you're not reciprocating.
Hey 4chan, I need some advice. I graduated high school before the summer, and now I'm in Community College. But I absolutely cannot muster up the motivation to do any of the work. I've procrastinated the shit out of everything. And I've been an A average student my entire life. Music is the only thing that's gets me through my day. I'm trying as hard as possible to not sound like a spoiled little bitch that doesn't want to do any hard work. But that's what I feel like right now. I literally take 3 classes. Math, English, and a Film History...
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>inb4 You're gonna have to things in life that you don't want to do in order to succeed.
>inb4 good luck becoming a wageslave.
>inb4 good luck having your options reduced
I know, I know. This has been drilled in my brain my entire life, yet it doesn't seem to affect me. I would rather be doing something I love and be a wageslave, than waste my money on a degree in school
>>16540688
Try a trade
Not OP, but I'm suffering from almost the same exact shit right now.
I lost my virignity a few months ago. The guy I was with had never been with a virgin before so when I asked him if I was any different (I wanted him to stroke my ego and tell me I was "tight") he said no.
What.. His ex was known to get around. And here I am, I never inserted anything into myself, my hymen was intact (I checked), etc etc. and he couldn't tell the difference???
Do guys feel anything? I know this is petty and all, but it kind of disappointed me.
you've never masturbated before?
wow wtf is wrong with you
>>16540606
I'm surprised he didn't notice you bleeding lol. Anyway, no, you aren't more "loose" or "tight" no matter how much sex you have.
my gf was a virgin, we had trouble getting it in (i'm not big im 7" she was just tight) so all it was was frustrating. Be thankful it happened easy for you.
Thoughts on girls and guys playing hard to get?
Is it just a normal part of trying to get the person?
>>16540502
That restraining order she filed against you doesn't qualify as "playing hard to get".
>>16540502
Jesus Christ this has been a game of attraction for as long as humanity had existed.
Get used to it buddy
>>16540509
What does the V stand for?
How can you determine a guy is into you?
I'm a virgin with no experience with dating
If he asks you out or says subtle things like "I like you"
>>16540476
Is OP a guy or a girl?
If he shows intrest in you, thats one obvious sign. If he doesnt show, He may be shy or not intrested. Chat him up but keep it breif, smile a bit. If you come up to him, he will notice something.
>>16540476
He talks to you with no motivation or context that seems clear to you.
HOW DOES SOMEONE GET OVER A BREAKUP
binge on icecream and tease your nipples until you feel better
>>16540471
Try to get back together.
>>16540471
Cutting off contact, time, focusing on yourself. Thats the best way
So, I've just recently-ish gotten in a relationship about 2 months ago, and of course sex is starting to come into question. It's his first time, it's my first time, and of course we've never used any contraception. Of course, the only 100% way not to get pregnant is not to have sex. That won't be happening. And I know there are stats online, and things you ask your gynecologist, but I'd like personal experiences.
Guys: Are condoms a problem for you? Do you have a problem staying hard or feeling anything at all? I know that there are other...
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If you REALLY don't want a kid, I suggest using both condoms and another form of BC, be it the pill, IUD, implant or something else.
Also are you 100% sure he's never had sexual contact with anyone else before? Have you ever had previous sexual contact? If so,g et tested before going bareback, STDs can be transmitted orally too
>>16540420
Resources incoming
http://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/unintendedpregnancy/pdf/contraceptive_methods_508.pdf
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control
http://m.scarleteen.com/article/sexual_health/the_buddy_system_effectiveness_rates_for_backing_up_your_birth_control_with_a_
Is there a correct way to brush your teeth?
>>16540375
Floss and an electric toothbrush works much better. A minimal of 2 minutes of brushing.
>>16540375
Go for a soft to medium brush, brush lightly, keep brush covered to avoid poop particles, and floss daily.
>>16540380
>A minimal of 2 minutes of brushing.
Faster =/= better.
>>16540375
Not across. Start with bottom of tooth and move up. Don't just rub across teeth.
I've stopped eating. This worked fine for four days, but now everyone around me is trying to almost literally shove stuff down my throat. I'm way to weak-willed to actually say no. Am I an asshole if I stealthily dispose of it..?
>>16540341
Just tell them you are a faggot and you get your nutrients from cum.
>>16540341
Yes.
Why have you stopped eating?
Want to begin dealing drugs (weed)
Live in a heavily gang populated area.
Heavily affiliated with crip set Rollin 20s and Rollin 60s near Atlanta
Because it's gang turf It's dangerous to sell could be jumped and taken advantage of and robbed everyday by numerous gangs unless I join a set.
GD set and Rollin 20s are my choice.
Planning on joining Rollin 20s but am nervous.
This crip shit is a lifestyle and they may have me kill someone in order to join the set. However I have many friends and some family in the set so I know they'll take care...
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>>16540303
Dumb
>>16540303
I bet yo bitch-ass can't even C-walk.
>>16540366
Fucc u mean nigga that don't mean shit nigga that don't got nothing to do with whether you crip or not nigga. You dubb stfu
My FWB dresses up as Disney Princesses for her job. I've been wanting to ask her about doing some ERP with it, but have no idea how to ho about it. Halp?
"Wow, show me that Ariel costume someday."
If she doesn't take the hint from that, then no degree of subtlety is ever going to work, and you will have no choice but to be direct. But she will probably get it.
>>16540283
Nice wig
>>16540292
yeah tried the subtlety, but she was pretty oblivious. Still scared of going direct, just because she's more on the innocent side/less adventurous sexually
Took this girl on a date in the city, lost my car afterwards, her friend had to pick us up and she was nice enough to drive around for little to look for it, but it was dark and a lot of the streets that were closed before were then open.
Anyways, I called the towing agencies in my city and it wasn't told, should I report it stolen to the police and maybe they'll find it for me? I don't have anyone I can really call to help me look for it, and I don't have alternative transportation. God, I'll never do this again.
>>16540253
>lost my car
Holy shit this is a screencap in the making I can feel it.
How the fuck did you lose your car?
How did you lose your car you idiot?
>>16540253
Maybe the car was tired of waiting and went for a drive.
Alright so after looking everywhere else i came here because i need advice quick about inferiority comparison.
I need to say:There is less restaurant in montreal than in tokyo using this structure:
モントリオールのレストランは東京のセストランほど多くないです。
Is this sentence working?
ありがとございます。
>>16540224
WhTs a sestaurant?
>>16540232
セックストラン
>>16540235
Its like eating and getting fucked at the same time.
モントリオールのレストランは東京のレストランほど多くないです。*********
Alright. now will you help me?
my friend was texting me, asking me to hang out, but I was ignoring them because I'm an antisocial fuck. Then he made plans with another friend and got into a really bad car accident after, went into a coma, then died.
If I had just replied. If I said that I'd come over or we could meet for coffee a walking distance away, he'd still be alive.
The grief is overwhelming. I feel so guilty.
It's literally my fault. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I feel numb.
This is a normal part of grief, and you will get past it. The only reason you feel bad is because he died. Had this not happened, you wouldn't be on here posting it.
If anything just try to spend more time with your friends because you don't know when they're going to die for completely different reasons. I can't relieve you of your pain, that is going to stay for a while. Just try to realize what I am saying to you.
Did the pertain that your friend was in the car with make bad decisions, and were you aware of this behavior?
If no to either, it's not your fault.
Even if you did know they made bad decisions, it was your friend's active participation that would have caused it.
Unless if you directly knew that he would be harmed, then you hold no responsibility, as compared to letting them drive when drunk.
its not you fault, youre just being narcisistic. Not in a bad way, although it leads to bad emotions. Every person ehose ever died wouldn't have died if somethin had happened differently. You had no way of knowing he would die, bear no responsibility, and did nothing wrong. The universe is subject to chance and shit happens.
How do I overcome my fear of raw meat? Even just the thought of that stuff makes my skin crawl.
>this disgusting thing is inside of you right now
>>16540146
That doesn't bother me as much, I don't like the meat we consume on a regular basis.
OP is a fagget
