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>gf routinely takes 20+ minutes to respond to EVERY text message
Am I right to be annoyed by this? It's so hard to keep the conversation flowing. I really do love her but sometimes it makes me wanna JUST FUCKING GRAB HER BY THE NECK AND CHOKE THE LIFE OUTABKASKDLANKDKA
If it bothers you that much, call her instead. You're half the problem here
>>16536133
annoying games.
I don't do those games, they send me insane.
>>16536141
What do you mean games? Like she does it on purpose?
hi 4chan. i'm a very pale girl like pic related and all My friends tell me to go and use tanning beds (cause i don't tan naturally) and they keep saying i look like shit and ill....i guess i look kinda white and i have darkish hair so it shows
Should i tan myself artifically???
>>16536067
depends what youre into and what kind of crowd youre associated with.
pale skin and dark hair is kind of the holy grail though isnt it? i guess not for everybody, but thats always been like top tier girl for me. and honestly this is the first time i've heard of someone not fawning over that type
>>16536067
No. My skin is really light in winter and naturally really tanned in summer. It's a huge difference and I used to hate my light skin because it made me look like a vampire junkie, but I realized women who use tanning beds regularly are usually very insecure and I didn't want to be like that. Also, if you have really fair skin, a tanning bed probably won't help. You might burn or end up with an ugly color. I can't really explain, but people who have more pinkish skin look weird when they tan, unlike...
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>>16536067
No, you shouldn't... cancer isn't sexy
>tfw you realize you're an invalid who goes to an anonymous shithole to "communicate" and barely has any friends because you can't handle life and society
How do you deal with this?
I jack off a lot.
by owning people at online games, that's how i deal with it
>>16536046
i'm a good looking guy and in shape, but i have a urostomy and pee in a bag on my abdomen.
i'm 31, still a virgin, and will never get laid.
>People are telling me that I'm being condescending
>Get into arguments where people won't admit they are wrong to me
>End up arguing with people when I don't even want to
>Feel like I am always trying to seek mutual understanding but people let their emotions get in the way
>Go quiet, get along better with people but once I forget to and relax the problem persists again
>>16536022
Goddamn those earmuffs!
Holy shit you sound insufferable. People call you condescending, and they are "letting their emotions get in the way" because some part of either how you express your opinion (too much hyperbole, personal attacks etc) gives them the feeling that you're some kind of blowhard shitlord. You're also "seeking mutual understanding" and have "arguments where people won't admit they are wrong to me" both sound like instances where you don't know when shut up and to fucking drop the subject. You're like the four year old kid asking...
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>>16536022
Depends on context a lot. I'm called argumentative, but I'm not really. I know when I'm right about something and people don't like it when I push it.
Example:
There's an annoying charity event at work for one of the employees. Her step-son is being sponsored to cycle all over Europe to raise money for cancer. I didn't want to put in, because it's not really for cancer. It's so he can tour the damn world under the pretense of raising money for cancer.
I...
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How to deal with the friendzoned keks trying to get my girlfriend?
>Meet now girlfriend a little over a month ago
>We click and pretty much fall in love straight away, been living with her the last two weeks
>She tells me that there was this guy that comforted her during her last break up and that he's in love with her
>She never thought of him as more than a friend and they never did anything
>He apparently once...
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>>16536018
Huh, does kek filter to kek now?
>>16536018
>Meet now girlfriend a little over a month ago
>been living with her the last two weeks
You fucked up.
The problem isn't necessarily the guy, but your girlfriend. She isn't putting a stop to this because she secretly likes the attention. This is a huge red flag. If I find out that someone is really into me, and I don't reciprocate those feelings, I quickly put that shit to rest and distance myself from them. Letting them hang...
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>>16536051
Sorry, I should have clarified. I was just supposed to stay at hers for four days initially because my car is in the mechanics and her house is much closer to work than mine. The mechanic has screwed me around and has taken two weeks instead of the four days he promised.
So we're not exactly living living together as such.
>befriend with girl i like
>talk for 6 months or so
>after some time and finding out she doesn't likes anyone, i tell her how i feel
>she answer with "hah thank you but im confused right now"
>talk a lot with her even after that
>some of her friends tell me she likes how i am, think im funny, etc
>tell her some stuff about her being beautil and...
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>>16536014
How old are you?
If her friends tell u she likes you, but things aren't moving fluidly she probably WOULD hook up/make out with you but doesn't want to commitedly attach herself to u bcuz ur not being a man.
Lay it on her, get her alone and ask her to kiss you... That's the first step anyway
Try to get a balloon n hit on her to use her for sex first,if u two work out n have strong connection don't use her n love her..if it's just friends fuck someone else or try to, just keep on trying, one out of thirty woman u approach will fuck u unless u are fugly, get heathy if u weirdo
The same thing happened to my boyfriend
What are things you have learned from being cheated on?
Things you learned from cheating?
>>16536000
>What are things you have learned from being cheated on?
While another person's actions are completely out of your hands, and you shouldn't beat yourself up over it, you should periodically step away to look for red flags. Don't pass over something just because you happen to really care for the person. And being nice =/= doormat. Don't be a doormat.
>>16536000
I now don't trust anyone at all. Learned isn't really a positive in my case.
>>16536000
49 year old disappointed in life, excuse my english.
>meet a lovely intelligent med student
>we date, get married
>she's kind of a bitch, but pretty straightforward and not manipulative
>have 2 kids
>some shit gets in me and I cheat on her
>she suspects, but couldn't prove
>almost get...
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Ok /adv/, I need some serious help here.
I took a pizza delivery job and met a girl there. She really seemed to be into me and initiated a lot. I never really treated her as more than a coworker/friend because that was our relationship, but I liked her.
Anyways, as time went on some shit went down involving some drunk customers who fought with me on a delivery and I decided to quit. I guess I'm still on goodish terms with most of the people there...but boy that girl is stabbing into my mind hard, like every single night I can't sleep.
So I was...
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Just start picking up your pizza there, eventually you will see her and if she still seems into you like before, make your move. You got this.
>>16536109
Alright bro, are you positive? I posted this thread before because it's eating me up that much, and they suggested that I do this, and now I'm seriously thinking about doing it. Just don't want to come off as a creep is all.
>>16535990
We had this same thread a while ago. Stop.
>be me
>been really busy job searching, doctor appointments, family stuff, work experience, other shit
>girlfriend literally does nothing except hanging out with friends
>keeps pestering me to invite her "over" to my place
>keep having to change plans to work around changes in work plans, and appointments
>keeps telling me she gets "upset" and "sad" around these...
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Try and explain best you can. If she keeps nagging, I'd suggest dumping her.
It sounds like you both want different things out of the relationship. I suggest talking to her about how you feel and her doing the same. That way you both understand what the other wants.
So you do everything and all she does is bitch and complain. A girlfriend should be compromising and understanding.
All she does is take advantage of you and whine like a kid. Talk to her on a one and one level privately and air out your problems anon
The sooner the better.
