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Is it appropriate/legal to ask out girls that are complete strangers in public, or is that looked-down-upon/illegal? What if they're working at the time?
I'm American if that matters.
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>>16533701
You can try, but you probably won't get any takers
>>16533707
>You can try, but you probably won't get any takers
Why not? How do people meet their bfs/gfs?
I find this all so very, very confusing.
Depends on how good looking and charming you are. If you're ugly and awkward they'll probably look at you like a piece of shit.
And no it's not illegal. If you have to ask that you aren't at the level required to do shit like you're asking about.
Is it weird to be 23 and never been asked out by a guy?
Only if you are a girl.
>>16533555
I am
I'm not really sure. I suspect it's really not all that uncommon for a girl to simply have never been asked out. Granted I'm not saying you're in the majority or anything close to it. I just feel like it's not an insignificant number of women (?) who are in your shoes.
If you were hoping for ways to change that, though, that's unlikely to happen here. You're going to need to find some guidance in person.
What do you guys think about dating single mothers? is it acceptable if I'm punching above my weight?
I just found out this girl I'm interested in has 2 kids and I'm still digging her. Should I kek myself? She's beautiful and has an amazing fit body and I actually like her so far. I'm just a fat 4/10 and she's the most attractive girl who's ever shown interest in me, bar none.
for the record I'm 26 and she's 23 with a 4yo and a 2yo
anyone wanna call me a kek at least.
maybe i don't want kids of my own anyway
it's been about 4 months and ive felt like shit every single day
i've tried videogames
i've tried going out
i've even tried volunteer work but i cant get my mind off of this guy
he was depressed and wouldn't want to get help for himself but i guess he wanted to try something different because i wasn't good enough
and now i just want to die, i've never self harmed before but i have had very specific dreams of killing myself
is there anything i can do to get my mind off of losing the love of my life??
>>16533405
OP. Don't let that self-loathing fag fuck your shit up
I'd hope you were perfectly capable of doing your thing before him, and its about time you tell yourself this guy was NOT the love of your life. You think this one person has that much power over you, but they don't.
Do something that scares you, find something that inspires you, dress up nice and go get those compliments.
Hugs are the best remedy. Go get whats yours
>>16533440
i'm extremely shy and theres really no one around here that has anything in common with myself
>>16533478
Do you have money?
If you can splurge a bit, change your hair color, get a cut, try indoor skydiving
Do something different, you're bound to get noticed, and its better than just sulking all day.
I'm shy af too, but I dress loudly and get "thats a cool shirt" or "nice hair" when I step out. Its a conversation starter, you never know who you'll meet where, but it sure as fuck isn't going to be on 4chan
A girl I like and her friend are coming to Starbucks this sunday for a college project. I really like this girl... what moves should i make with her at Starbucks?
You should make her smile. Humor works well, as does simply having a nice time in general. If you want to win her affection then make her feel really happy.
>what moves should I make with her
With another person there? During the day? No food or alcohol involved? During a project meeting?
Dude, you should make pleasant conversation, otherwise concentrate on getting shit done, and better hope your spaghetti stay in your pockets.
>>16533396
Now lets say i did a great job with the conversations. How to i transition into asking her out?
My fuckbuddy that mentioned having feelings for me bailed on me to probably fuck his other 4 sluts on the side
He doesn't "allow" me to have other fuck buddies and yet he has 4 others?
I started catching feelings slightly as well, so I feel conflicted but I know deep down I should drop this motherfucker like a rock
Should I even bother texting him anymore?
Sex is alright (smallish dick)
Fingerbangs like a pro and gets me pretty close to orgasming
>I've never orgasmed
wat do?
get another one
guy wants a harem
>>16533383
so hard to find another thick korean guy
but I guess you're right
>>16533389
find a west indian guy
brown cock is amazing
Why do women like to stare so much?
I swear, every other bus ride or trip downtown means having at least 1 - 3 girls staring at you by the time you're finished with whatever you're doing. It usually involves just minding your business, looking around out of bored curiosity, lock eyes with some girl staring at her, and she immediately looking somewhere else upon eye contact.
It was cute at first. But it's now concerning and makes you self-conscious.
Humblebrag
>>16533268
You're either very attractive or very ugly. If it's the former, they're clearly interested in your looks, but they're too timid to make a move.
Maybe because you're such a creepy faggot that they can't help but stare in fear. Cunt.
What do you think of a relationship between a 16-yo girl and a 24-yo dude?
I think he's going to catch more shit than a Porta Potty at a chili festival.
18?
>>16533232
Very high chance of failure. Would advise you don't attempt.
What do you guys think about being a sugar baby? Do you think it's immoral? Have you ever had a sugar daddy/sugar baby experience, and how was it?
Also, ask a sugar baby anything- I have a no sex rule, so don't even ask.
Who would finance a sugar baby who doesn't provide sex? What would be the point?
>>16533225
Immoral? No I don't think I'd say that. But I wouldn't date someone like that.
I don't think it's immoral, but a lot of people certainly would. Life is basically a game, you play with the hand you're dealt. If you've got looks and are willing to be a sugar baby. That's all you.
Just note, if you don't plan on fucking the guy, you're better suited just playing the fucking Powerball. No guy, looking for a Sugar Baby, is gonna drop a penny on someone who isn't gonna put out.
So this girl at my work I have been crushing on got me a cupcake for my b-day with a heart on it.
I'm too pussy to make a move but she also has a bf of 4 years so i don't know if she was just being nice. I don't really wanna be her bf though either. Would rather just bang.
Basically am I reading too much into her intentions? We've stared into each others eyes too, there is something there. Maybe I'm letting my imagination get the better of me though.
>>16533152
bump.
>>16533152
Do one or two small, nice things for her and gauge reaction. If it's on the spectrum of positive, try hitting on her. If she's interested it'll take off from there.
That is of course if you can live fucking up a relationship like that....but perhaps it's fucked anyway and that's why she's (potentially) giving signals.
This feels like a moral dilemma more than anything else.
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Hey /adv/
I really want to join the military, but I have all the symptoms of Bipolar Disorder. I've had the symptoms for years but it's gotten dramatically worse over the last year.
What would you do if you were in my position;
>Join the military and hope it goes away
>Seek medical guidance
I can only do one, help = bar from military, military = keeping quiet for at least 2 years (or I'm in a traumatic situation and can blame that).
if it's medically documented you have it, unless you hide that shit you're not getting in. Get guidance and move on dude.
>>16533142
Not had any personal experience with this, but my brother has. First off, what branch of the military, and what country?
>>16533157
It's not documented anywhere, hence why I can't decide to seek help or not. I've wanted to be in the military for years, I'm 22 now, I think I would make an excellent officer after training and some experience, but if these symptoms get any worse I could be fucked.
>>16533178
UK, thinking about joining signals
Each guy I've dated has eventually quit responding to me. I will go a week without asking how they're doing. When im with them we get along great, its not awkward.
Im tired of this bs, and dumping this current guy.
Should i just be distant with the next one? Is that what guys want?
Are you putting out?
>>16533084
Yes
each person has different needs
when I was a NEET I had tons of free time and wanted to respond whenever I could
now that I have less free time sometimes I just want to sleep
so it depends from person to person imho
So me and my wife have been together since high school and only been with each other. I started having issues in the bedroom and been having trouble getting it up. We have been using toys and alot of oral for her but lately we been kinda talking about maybe bringing someone else in the bedroom for her. Looking for thoughts and opinions on this.
Get keked op
>>16532996
>bringing someone else in the bedroom for her
And this is where your relationship will end. Now it is on the rocks. Be rough and spontaneous with her, roll play.
>>16532996
bring in a black bull to fuck her while you masturbate, best nut you will bust in your life and if the black bull is alpha as fuck you wife will enjoy it too.
I haven't had sex in 3 years and it's starting to get to me.
I've been thinking of hiring an escort. Has anyone here done that? How was it? Any tips for first-timers?
>>16532919
You can probably rent one for pretty cheap.
>>16532928
Wow that is like, so funny
I accidentally got jerked off by a stripper recently
I was just trying to be pragmatic
a dance costs $40 and only lasts for one song, so only 2-3 minutes tops. But for $110 I got a half hour in the back room
of course that's the better deal.......I just didn't know what the room entailed
I'm pregnant with a girl. I've been tossing names around and the one I consistently come back to is "Lennon" People have been putting down the name but I really like it.
Do you like the name Lennon for a baby girl?
Sounds good to me. Apparently the name means "dear one" or something so it's not a bad name.
I automatically think John Lennon when I hear the name.
Personally I don't like it for a girl because I instantly think it's a boy's name. But, if you like who cares.
