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Just moved to NYC for a new job and am depressed as fuck. I don't know a single soul here, and there's so, so, so many happy people around me enjoying their lives. I was depressed before the move, but holy fuck being here has definitely magnified it. There's tons of bars, restaurants and cafes around me, but I've got nobody to go with, they're all just full of couples and friend groups.
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>>16529867
I'm in Williamsburg and the job hasn't started yet, will in a week or so. Until then I'm just sitting in my room bored until I need to go buy groceries or something. I'll go get coffee at a nearby cafe some mornings, but that's it...
>>16529896
I think it'll be better once your job starts man. Hopefully you'll make some good connections there. I'm pretty nervous myself
Hey /adv/, this might be a simple question for some, but I'm at a loss at how to do this.
I'll sum it up with a green text
>See cute girl on FB that I share mutual friends with
>Add her, she adds me back
>Since I dont really know her, I never message her. But I like her posts time to time.
>Finally after watching some of her posts I realize she is single.
>But I still dont contact.
>I...
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In 5 seconds upon seeing that picture I immediately wonder what everything looks like when you take the corset off. Corsets, ultimate weapons of hambeast deception.
>>16529798
Same, and looks like her titts are saggy or shapeless irl because he wears too small cup. Take this corset off and the gut pops out.
>>16529798
>>16529810
Just fuck her while she wears the corset, no harm done.
Been with my GF for more than 2 years.
We love each other and she wants to get married someday and have kids.
Things are really good between us and she's my biggest support, but there's one thing I have trouble letting go of.
For the first few months of our relationship she was on Tinder talking to multiple guys. I never got to see those conversations and after I found out she deleted the app.
Now if I trust what she says, she never cheated on me and she claims she didn't know the app was used for hooking up/dating. She thought of it...
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She either cheated on you or was planning to.
c.vck
>We love each other and she wants to get married someday and have kids.
hahahahahaha
>2015
>marrying a tinder slut
>marrying at all
>"just wanted friends! honest!"
You deserve whatever she makes you suffer years down the line, for ignoring the obvious red flags.
>she claims she didn't know the app was used for hooking up/dating
That is a lie. She at the least was doing it for attention, which is wrong if you were in a committed relationship. If you were dating and nothing official, then she can do that. To say it was for finding friends only (of the opposite sex only) is a straight up lie.
At this point, if this was an issue 2 years ago when the relationship first started it seems like you should have broken up or moved on and continued your relationship, but you did neither. It sucks,...
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Is online dating just a meme or can it lead to a long term relationship?
My friend is marrying someone she met off OKcupid. They've been together 3 years.
I mean the guy has 30k student loan debt with no degree, lives with his parents, barely has a job and looks like a balding gremlin.
But I guess it can happen.
>>16529709
>Is online dating just a meme or can it lead to a long term relationship?
Met my girlfriend on OkCupid. We've been together for a little over a year.
We matched, talked for a few days, invited her over to my place for wine and video games and the rest is history. Its actually a really great way to meet women that you typically wouldn't have the opportunity to cross path withs in the real world.
A lot of people think its bullshit but the truth is that...
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>>16529713
I fear to think how she looks like...
But no, Op, online dating leads mostly to mediocre ons and genital herpes
>girl starts working at my job
>we stat talking, get along great
>exchange numbers, text alot, she sends me alot of G rated pics
>find out she's in a shitty marriage, trying to get a divorce
>get a text one night where she tells me she spent her whole break trying to tell me that she liked me
>tell her i like her too
>she tells me she doesn't know...
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>i reply that i do too, but that it made me upset that she didn't seem to care about my feelings and instead made it about how i made her sad by telling her about my dog. i also tell her that if she wants to spend time with me she needs to make time instead of fitting me into her schedule of hanging out with other friends.
>she doesn't reply that night, so i text her the next day telling her that i was being honest and didn't mean to upset her, if i did upset her at all
>she...
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Post her number and we will get her to talk to you
>>16529777
Lol nah, I'm not an idiot. But any honest opinions and/or advice would be helpful.
Does anybody have ano infograph, or pics or links or whatever rhythms shows how shitty Islam is?
I want to redpill my girlfriend about Islam but I have nothing
>>16529625
PRAISE BE UNTO HIM
If she's got half a decent brain on her shoulders, she won't be sold on criticizing something because of infographs. Would you get "redpilled" from a pro-Islam picture from the internet?
The convincing way is the hard way. Do proper research. Then there's no bullshit.
>>16529625
Here my 'moderate' friend.
it's the stupidest thing ever. i make all kinds of crazy posts pretending to be someone that people might react to. a transgender, a gay guy, suicidal people, etc. and usually posting on 4chan makes me feel bad. like sometimes i'll go to r9k and pretend i'm trans there, and people will give me all this hate for being trans and then i feel bad.
idk man this isn't normal. also i have an internet addiction in general. it sucks. i want to grow up and do something with my life but at this rate i'll be 40 by the time i move out because i don't...
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>>16529581
You've probably never done that and are trolling us right now.
I suggest turning off your internet for a month or two (or just unplugging it when you don't need it) and only using public wifi.
Bad troll, go back to work.
>>16529581
You are a method actor. Keep perfecting your craft and you can be a meme king.
Kinda a long story, but here it goes..
My mother was living off of government housing, and she decided to move out of state, so she put the housing in my name, basically the rent is greatly reduced. Anyway, the stipulation is that she cant come back (It was worded like she couldn't even visit, let alone stay), otherwise if I was caught I could lose my housing, be fined thousands, or even jail time. However, after a few months she said she burned through 15k and needed a place to stay and nobody else in the family would take her, so I agreed that she could stay for...
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2/2
So anyway, when she left she took the parking permit (I live in a gated apartment and have 2 spots, one needing a permit), and made herself a copy of the key, and took the gate opening button even though that was the only one. Parking is very hard to find in the area, outside of the gate is pretty much the ghetto (quite literally filled with gangbangers, someone was murdered a while back). Couldn't even find parking there, so my friend had to park about a mile away just to get inside. So one of my friends parked inside, and since I couldn't give him the permit...
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TLDR:
Mom got me a place with cheap rent, she's not supposed to be staying there (legally). She needs a place to stay, I let her stay for a month. It was literally worst month of my life. She leaves, then a month later tells me that she broke her computer, I tell her how to fix it. She then tells me she quit her job that day and needs a place to stay and is driving to my house right now from another state. I fix it and tell her that she needs to give me the Gate Key/house key/Parking permit before we talk about her staying, then she trys to guilt trip me and I tell...
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>>16529491
I'm so, so sorry OP. My mom is bad, but never that bad. I sadly don't have any advice, since getting cops involved could easily fuck you over.
This girl has a ton of stuff going on right now in school, and just wants to be friends.
However, multiple times during this conversation, she kept saying being friends will give us something to build off of, and that she thinks maybe in the future there could be something.
Am I friendzoned hard? Am I still in the clear? Am I in a spot of the friend zone where I could work my way out?
How would you guys play this?
Thanks!
>>16529421
This picture is too good. Damn. That's some quality shit.
She's making a dumb decision, but it's nothing worth arguing about. All you have to do is make her become emotionally dependent on you and she's yours.
If she chills around you like that, you might be becoming "one of the girls". How long have you known her for?
Sounds like she wants to keep you as an orbiter while she fucks Chad.
Don't be that orbiter.
Have any of you successfully gotten back together with an ex?
How did you do it?
Feeling a bit confused about it and whether or not to pursue it.
one does not successfully get back together with an ex
>>16529424
But I must have her.
>>16529415
It lasted for a week and the same old problems resurfaced. This is after 1.5 years of not being together.
Hey /adv
I had a fight with my dad .... didn't do anything wrong as usual
>In bathroom
>Washing hands
>Dad pushes door a little bit (The doors don't have a lock)
>Keep door closed with hip
>I'm in the bathroom
>dad pushed door in and out really load and yells something
>Didn't know what he yelled
>Pass...
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>>16529352
I remember when I was 16
>>16529354
Cool
Just let it go and try to stay calm, understand your not really gona be able to change either of your parents and all you really have control over is yourself and how you react to things. So just work on yourself and stay even. Eventually you will move out.
I feel like my life is dog shit because of how little experience I have had with women. For example, I am 24 and never had a girlfriend. I have tried and tried and tried. Been friend zoned countless times. I have been lead on? I asked one girl out on a date(I even used the word date explicitly) and after we went out she said she didn't think it was a date but us just hanging out.. We went out to dinner, just she and I. How the fuck could she think it was anything else. Anyway, I am actually depressed about not being able to attract women enough to have a relationship. I...
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Do you lift faggot?
What happened with the girl you went on the date with?
You have to know what you want and you have to communicate that
Change image.
And your mindset you fucking kek. When talking to a girl be clear to state your intentions. Dont be afraid to ask or to be sure that your not lead on again
I think I have autism guys
>constantly get fixated on one thing
>deep thought patterns
>never sleep because I think too much
>have to force myself to socialise
>feel exhausted when talking to people
>If I find something interesting I get obsessed with it
>hard to make and keep friends
>>16529301
Congratulations. We're all very happy for you
>>16529301
It's a possibility, but those issues aren't necessarily related to autism. There's more to it than that. Those aspects could be stand-alone, or something entirely different, all depending on your situation.
I wish you the best of luck in coping with your challenges, OP. If things persist down the road, you can get a hold of a therapist/psychiatrist/mental-health professional to help you out.
>>16529301
The fact you came to this conclusion yourself also makes it highly unlikely you actually do have autism. Aspergers if anything, but full autism is very unlikely.
She flaked tonight (no call/text). Is it ok to send her a non butthurt text or should I give her the silent treatment ?
if you are wrong, text
If there is nothing going on, text
If you talked as last, dont
You should stop being a faggot, forget and next. If she texts you don't respond.
>>16529276
No butthurt messages. Maybe say something, don't be a bitch. Then silent treatment
How much should i stress myself out about getting laid? Honestly i can have a great day, but when i realize i have to get to that i get really upset.
>>16529216
Not at all.
>i have to get to that
Wut?
>>16529216
NOT AT ALL. Not ever having to worry about STDs or pregnancy scares is much better than worrying about getting laid.
I'm a 27 year old virgin, yet healthier and happier than 98% of 4chan
>>16529216
Not at all. Don't stress about it, just pursue it at your leisure.
Your life is yours to be enjoyed, don't feel 'pressured' by others to rush into something, just go for it whenever you want to.
Shit ain't worth stressing over
