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Do you think there is really that much of a difference between men and women on the inside? I think there exists a feminine and a masculine but I don't think there is more of one or the other in each person. I think we are conditioned to act one or the other but both are inside us.
What do you think of my theory? Masculine people, would you say you have some femininity inside you and vice versa? Come come, be honest. This is an anonymous image board afterall.
>what is the differences in genetics and hormones
is this really your attempt at abstract thought?
I'm in a little of both of them ;) Don't know if that counts.
It's a stupid theory. Men and women behave in different ways because, evolutionarily speaking, we're designed for different roles. Notice how gender roles are evinced by other great apes as well, to say nothing of lower primates or other mammals. Notice also how even societies isolated from each other tend to develop similar (though obviously not identical) gender roles over time. And I'm speaking as someone who has actually worked as an anthropologist (well, anthropology degree, worked as a linguist and archaeologist) -- the nature vs. nurture debate is far from...
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Crazy homeless man keeps camping out outside my patio gate at night (condo bldg heating grate just outside my patio).
Cops pick him up regularly, but 2 days later he's back.
I live in a big city (3.8 mil ppl), he's the only bum in my area.
How the hell can I get this guy to find a new camp spot?
Invite him in for a coffee and make sure he never leaves.
You could call the cops and say you saw him waiving a gun around. Not sure if that would make him decide he's being harassed too much by the people in your area and leave. But if you could do it anonymously it would be good for a lul.
>>16530724
I think everyone in the building has made a complaint by now. He hasn't attacked anybody but he's bat shit crazy. Talking and yelling at the trees and flowers all night, shitting and pissing on the grass.
Because he's crazy and homeless the cops don't want to deal with him so they pick him up, take him in for a night and drop him off at a shelter the next morning. He just wanders his way back and sets up camp again after a day or two.
I've gotten many keks watching him get picked...
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Has anyone else ever thought that people may think you are mentally retarded? Its just started to dawn on me that people might think this about myself. People always give me praise, especially when it comes to my music and art, even when I know for sure its absolute pure 100% shit people will still come up to me and tell me how good they think it is. I feel like they're just saying this shit to be nice because they literally think I might be slower than most people. Is this just some straight up paranoia? I have taken a lot of drugs in the past, and it kinda makes my social...
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Post some art and we'll tell you if it's really shit.
Protip: it doesn't really matter what other people think of you.
What grades did you make in school?
Does anyone here know how I can join clickworker? I signed up and it says you can't sign in from the USA right now. Could someone referral me to make an account?
>>16530490
wtf is clickworker
>>16530502
internet job where you get coffee cups, computers and desk chairs sold by doing many tasks like fixing grammar of other click workers completed projects. and you yourself will do some of those projects. i didnt see a salary though.
>>16530502
alrite, you can choose from multiple tasks with different salaries for each task.
I'm going to by a tenga cup I have a 4 inch pencil. so im going too order from kanjo toys. do they have a label on the box or mailing sticker. I dont want anybody too know im buying this. it will piss off everybody in my house. possiably cause family meet up.
>order some shit off amazon (nothing dirty or anything)
>come home from work one day and find the package opened
>dad says oh sorry I was expecting some books thought it was for me even though it was very clearly not a box books would come in
I was just about to order some shit from bad-dragon too, guess I can't do that as long as I'm living here.
>>16530461
Why would your dad think that a box addressed to you was his books?
>>16530461
Do your parents know that even though you live in their house, it's against federal law to open mail addressed to their +18 year old?
I can't get a fucking job and when I do get one, I can't keep it.
What the blazing fuck do I do
idk but you look like a middle eastern aaron rodgers
how about a bit more info first, what jobs have you had and why couldn't you keep them?
Ok let's see, I have no education. I've worked retail, warehouse and manual labor jobs.
I also have a felony on my record.
Oh and I have no home very few people to rely on
Hey everyone, so I am wondering which pics would be winners on dating apps like tinder, okcupid, etc. Double points for female perspective. All comments appreciated hate or help, thanks.
Top right, bottom right (crop your friend out, we don't want to fuck both of you)
This
top 2 and bottom right
you don't have to crop your friend out as long as you have photos of just you, too, so we can tell which one you are. i would recommend using a photo of just you as your main as some women don't bother trying to figure out which one is you
What is the top medicine to lower your libido?
Anti-histamines
viagra
>>16530280
kek master my ass
how can tell if you're trans or just really gay?
it's confusing
do you enjoy having a dick?
>>16530218
sorta i guess. i'd rather have a dick in me desu. and it'd be easier to fit into pants without it. would rather have sexy pants than a penis.
It deals with identifying with gender roles. If you're not sure how you identify as far as gender goes then don't worry about it, just be yourself and worry about things that matter like paying rent or passing finals or whatever it is NEETs worry about.
How do I leave my shitty small town for the big city? I'm going fucking mad here and my personality type is meant to be in a urban sprawl not foggy woods I can't be trapped with my fuckinh parents for even another month. I literally don't get one second away from the a week. They wake me up in the morning they keep me up all night they literally don't stop yelling and running around the house making noise for even a minute. I can't do a single fucking thing without them over my shoulder ruining everything.
God damn it fuck off for one day
>>16530161
Line up a job m8, it's the best and only real way of moving somewhere. Just apply to shit every day and you'll get something. As much as you want to just uproot and go, that's not an option, do something about it but be patient and wait until you have a good opportunity.
>>16530222
Trips speaks trufs
>>16530161
do you have any relatives or friends living in major cities?
best bet would be to approach them and ask if you can stay with them for a little while while looking for a job
btw you're going to need ATLEAST $10K in the bank before you even consider uprooting yourself and that's gonna go faster than you'd believe
How's your life going, /adv/?
What are you excited for? What are you dreading? Still living with your parents, or have you moved into your own place yet?
Let's hear it.
>>16530057
>How's your life going, /adv/?
it's ok. i look kinda swole which is better than avoiding mirrors because i disgust myself.
>What are you excited for?
nothing. finishing a project which i kept procrastinating on.
>What are you dreading?
going out with some grills next thursday and i got my hopes up that one likes me.
>Still living with your parents, or...
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Well, I asked her out and she said yes. She has ignored a couple messages I sent and she's probably not going to reply anytime soon.
She never showed signs of repulsion or anything like that.
Probably because I'm a manlet and she didn't imagine a future with someone shorter than her.
I'm 3 fucking years older than her, why didn't she just invented some shitty excuse, being ignored is 1000x more hurtful than that.
>>16530061
My rent got upped by a hundred dollars for a few months and as a result I haven't been able to pay my internet bill. I'm currently leeching off my neighbor's wifi. Sucks shit because I wanted to play FFXIV since it's free for a few days this month.
Other than that I'm just waiting for christmas. Hoping to get a vape, Heavensward, and a 60 day FFXIV time card. But, I'm a grown ass man so Christmas is usually like "here's a hoodie and a shaving kit." Would be cool,...
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I've had diarrhea for a week and just got done throwing up. My fridge is on the fritz and I think I got the food poisoning, but I'm not sure which one. I don't feel feverish, but I still feel queasy. I think I saw peptobismol into the toilet. What do you guys think it wrong with me? I really don't want to call the national suicide prevention lifeline. Please help!
>>16530008
Huh? Peptobismol? Suicide? Are you saying you're dealing with the diarrhea and vomiting due to a suicide attempt? But you're talking about food poisoning? Did you mean the poison control hotline? How long have you been vomiting?
Vomiting the peptobismol up doesn't mean much since if you were drinking peptobismol and vomiting of course it'll come with the contents of your stomach. Or do you mean it's pink like peptobismol and you haven't had any? Are you vomiting blood? Is it coming up black?
>>16530027
I didn't see any fresh blood. I just want to know if I have the flu or food poisoning, and if so which one? I am eating some gummy bears because they are fortified with vitamin C. Hopefully this helps.
>>16530034
Make sure they're sugar free gummy bears, the regular ones will fuck with your stomach more.
Posted this earlier and got few advice, would like some more help.
How does one mentally lower their standards?
I'm 19 and a kissless virgin. I've always had high confidence in myself (side note: FUCK the people that say "its all about confidence" that shit isn't true.) And my confidence has been my downfall. I always assumed I was attractive enough to date the girls I was attracted to, but I've gone through 19 tough years of rejection and heartbreak.
I still don't think I'm truly ugly. Posted on /soc/ and got ratings...
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Bumping again
>>16529996
>I also have a bit of annoyingly hereditary acne (no matter what I fucking do it doesn't go away)
That is completely false. Stop drinking soda.
>>16530245
Lel, I drink maybe one soda a week if that. Fuck off
I'm going to pick up a 2 month old kitten tomorrow. I'm driving 1.5 hours to get her. What should I bring with me? Litter box and blanket? I don't want her pissing all over my gf on the ride back
>>16529915
>I don't want her pissing all over my gf on the ride back
Well what the fuck do you expect it is a kitten. Expect pissing and shitting and vets for the first couple of years.
>>16529915
You're definitely, definitely going to need a cat carrier. Like a nice small one. Because it may very likely freak the fuck out in a car ride, fair enough it probably has never been in one before and it sure as FUCK isn't going to use a litter box in your moving car, it will just piss itself or shit itself. When I brought my shelter cat home he shit himself but he used the litterbox perfectly fine at home. Just be understanding and limit the ability for it to shit everywhere by having it in the carrier....
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>>16529918
Wat? Anyway, I always picked my kittens either from streets/bus stops (strays) and yeah, once got pissed on because didn't have box, had to carry him in my arms and he was scared. Also when I took my old cat in a fabric bag to a vet she pissed in it because she's mean. Kitten will prolly piss and poop in the box during your ride byt it's normal, I would advise taking two (or three) boxes so when he pisses over in one, you can toss him into the second, that way he won't have to soak in piss/poop....
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Sorry, kinda gross.
For the last two-three weeks I've had crusty scabs right around the inside of my nose, on the same side as my septum. They're in both nostrils. They're not like traditional boogers, as they're hard to pick off, rather painful, and come back within hours of removal. They don't bleed, but they are really annoying. What could they be, and what should I do about them?
Note: I live in Houston, Texas where the climate is usually hot and humid. It's only started to getc chilly (50°F) and they were there before the cold, dry weather.
>>16529869
Well, you could put a whole toe in each of this nostrils. Didn't your parents teach you not to dig in your nose?
Sounds like to me the dry air is drying out your skin. The nostril are pretty sensitive skin, so it would make sense that the actual skin is drying out. It's reforming because your bodies reacting to the dry skin is a form of lubricant, which then dries again.
I'm not in any sort of medical field so I'm probably 100% wrong.
>>16529876
Nope. How small are your toes?
Pics, please.
