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>Few weeks ago
>Girlfriend's period hasn't started even though it's been a week since it was supposed to
>She's terrified she's preggers, even though I've never gotten semen in, on, or even near her vagina
>She takes a pregnancy test
>It's negative
>Present day, almost a month since her period was supposed to happen
>Still...
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>>16538102
Your gf sounds like a retard.
You can drag her to a doctor and put up with her short term rage which should hopefully vanish once everything's fixed.
Or you can leave it to her to go get help and have her blame you forever for this episode of pain because you didn't make her get help right away.
If it was me, I'd take her to get help and if she kept giving me shit after she was better I'd dump her ass. Adult life is hard enough without someone mindlessly raging at me for...
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Women skip periods under stress, as its the body's way of preventing pregnancy when the woman can't be a fit mother. Ironically, the stress of her worrying about her period is making it worse. My ex skipped 3 months once due to school. Give it time and she'll bleed
>>16538123
Her period has been delayed by stress before, but periods can be outright skipped by stress? If that's the case, it would make sense; my girlfriend deals with anxiety quite a bit.
How can I compliment a girl that I have a crush on over text and also in person without coming off as a weirdo, because I don't know if she likes me more then a friend.
Example of what happened over text
>She got her nails done and showed me a picture and all I could say was they look nice
>>16538022
Bump
This is a free bump because I am interested and suck at this as well.
>>16538053
Beta boys unite!
You don't need to read all this. I just wanted to vent. Thanks /adv/.
Man I woke up and was a little sad. After getting laid off in October, I decided to take care of some medical things first and then get back into the workforce. Decided to stick with retail since it's not out of my league. You know just to have a job. But it made me kinda sad remembering that retail typically doesn't pay too well.
The place where I genuinely want to work has not given me any contact back. It's a close-knit Germanic line of stores called Aldi. What's weird...
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If they had a paper resume a follow up visit isn't a bad idea. They seem a bit old fashion. How long ago did you apply? If its been a few days, go ask if they had a chance to look over your resume. Retail sucks ass, I'd hate having to go back, good luck.
>>16538028
Yes very old fashioned. I handed in my application, in person, on Thursday the 3rd. It hasn't been terribly long. The man said I should expect a call by Tuesday the 8th. It's now the 6th. I have a feeling "going in for a follow up" means going to the location I went last time and asking to speak to the manager. Tomorrow might be a good day for that.... It won't hurt, right? Because there isn't actually a phone number I can call.
Retail sucks ass yeah, sorry for all the poor souls...
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>>16538007
I've worked at various Walmarts in various cities and various departments every single weekend and thanksgivings ng/black Friday for 6 years. I keep this job as a part time side job in tangent with my full time real job for extra money and to keep me busy on the weekend. All my friends are married and boring now anyways and its fuckn impossible to get laid so... I say fuck it, ill just make more money.
Anyway, Walmart isn't bad. Depending on where you work you can meet cool people. The best store...
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Is 30 too late to turn your life around socially and romantically?
>>16537990
It's never too late
>>16538006
This. But it is hard. You've lived your life in a way for 30 Yeats and want to change it completely. It takes effort.
Tell me more about you OP. How is your life? Have you ever been romantically involved? Why do you feel you're going in the wrong direction?
Met this girl online, she is easily a 10/10. We got on to talking, the more I knew about her the more attracted I got to her, so I decided to tell her. Insta rejection, she said she does not date anyone she meets online, I was devastated, finally found a girl who I can connect with and it was not meant to be. We decided to remain friends. I was cool with it, not the first time I got rejected so, u can deal with it.
Fast forward a week later, we are still friends, we laugh we joke. It was still hard to be talking to her, while I am still in the process of getting over...
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She's just playing with you. If she'd really like you she wouldn't mind how she met you. She just wants to olay hard to get or a bew beta orbiter.
>>16537984
this.
She's playing with you, back off a bit. Let her come to you now.
Maybe drop a few hints that you've been speaking to other girls? Play the game.
>>16537984
Apart of me thinks that but, maybe I am just in denial and rejecting any relating thoughts...
Hey, I need an advice from you. I kinda want to go to a concert, but I don't have any friends. Will it be weird if I go alone?
Pic is my photo because I have only pictures of myself.
>>16537945
No, its fine to go alone.
Nah man, go alone
omg ur hawt
Hi guys, I’ve met an attractive grill 10 days ago (lets call her Y) at one nice formal-style party. I haven’t been searching for a girl, I was just having a good time. I flirted with some other pretty girls there (women to men ratio was like 3:1 and the majority of men were old or French). Lot of wine was involved too, which helped. Well, this one was hitting on me pretty hard, later asked openly if I have a girlfriend and joked about sex. I took her home and, as the effect from alcohol already dissipated, I’ve just said goodbye.
We met day later in a restaurant...
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Cont.
I tried to contact Y several times after that and she responded lazily or never at all. We ignore each other now, but as I have other things to attend to and dont want to spend time and energy thinking about this bullshit, I manned up and called her two hours ago, wanting to know if she wants to meet again or not. She answered with "Ill call you later". I am sitting in front of PC, trying to make some paperwork and thinking about all of this. If she tells me that she doesnt want to meet, I will be angry for my stupidity but will let her go.
What do...
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>>16537882
Cont.
One last thing : as I said, I have a girl FWB style for over 7 months now. When we started, she (lets call her K) told me that it would never be a proper relationship and that she only wants to be with me as FWB, because she cant resist making out with others when she is drunk and she had some troublesome relationships before. However, I think that it evolved into somewhat relationshipesque thing and I have already been invited to her family reunions, her family is great and they accepted me already,...
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A FWB isn't a real relationship m8
The time has come yet again, and so have I with another thread full of solutions and wisdom.
Come and ask, and an advice shall follow no matter what your problem is, whether it be relationships, an illness, existentialism or anything else.
The less vague you are the more helpful the replies can be. Replies may take a while, some even hours, but you are guaranteed an advice back, full of wisdom™ !
Everyone else is free to give their advice as well.
I'll be bumping with some scenery
>>16537847
Ask anything? O K. Who played Edgar in Laurence Olivier's 1980s TV King Lear?
>>16538115
Anything you'd like to ask where you would be seeking for an advice or a second opinion, rather than a trivia question anon.
if you get diagnosed with cancer do you have to get treatment for it? im 20 years old.
No. But it's highly recommended if you want to live.
Dying of cancer is very slow and painful and terrible. Sure the treatment is shitty too, but it's on a much shorter scale.
>>16537823
i dont need your preeching
>>16537820
you don't have to, no.
you might want to consider pain relief though.
He's 5 years old and will start school soon, he basically is whiny baby right now but I want him to get over that and learn to fight back when another child tries to take his toys or pushes him around.
>>16537802
he's 5, he is still a baby.
how do you expect a 5 year old to be in check of their emotions when most adults aren't?
>>16537802
>8
How about you teach him to not take the insults serious?
How about you teach him to deescalate?
How about you teach him that it's ok to walk away when you know the others will win?
>>16537805
I didn't say anything about emotion, I'm talking about learning to stand up for himself. 5 is not too early for that.
Hello guys
I am completing a year of dating, wanted to do a sequence of nice pictures, my idea was: a message from around the planet
so I need the help of those who dispose to send a photo with the phrase "the whole world knows that he loves you," along with its location. It can be a photo with a background referring to the place, using the snapchat location filter, write in a paper or something (which I think it's the more interesting) or only draw in Paint.
thanks in advance :^)
sorry for the bad engurish, pic related
>>16537797
That's a really nice idea, but I would recommend that you got people to physically write it, otherwise it could seem like you just grabbed location photos from the web and digitally wrote the signs yourself. It would be impressive if you had people actually write on paper they photographed in front of beautiful scenery from their location.
I might copy this idea, OP!
>>16537818
maybe put the person's name (in this case, the girlfriend) in the sentence, it would seem more original?
using google translate here, sorry
>>16537818
where you are from? you could take the test and write the phrase in a paper and take a picture from your window?
Broke up with a girlfriend four weeks ago. It was a long distance relationship but we kept in touch however we could. We visited each other. Then it got fucked up somehow, she said it's over and it is not really working, but I know she loved me before. She never felt the same for anyone before me. I was her first.
She now hates me I think. I still love her and care for her. I can't even text her about how she's feeling. I just wait and kill time hoping she will text me. It's crippling.
It's like she'd died, only then I wouldn't...
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>>16537722
I was happy for the first time in my life with her.
Im sort of the same situation (>>16537519). Expect that she's not my gf and it's not anything romantic. I hope she texts me back. But I just keep myself busy watching Whiplash to forget about her when she pops in my mind. When I watch that film, I don't think about her
>>16537744
Yeah well...that's different. Why Whiplash though? I can't even watch films because I get so easily distracted by my thoughts about her.
Has anyone on /adv/ ever faked an orgasm before?
If so, how many times?
Why?
Did your partner know you were faking?
Have you ever come clean about it?
I know a lot of people have faked their orgasms, and as one of these people, I'm just curious if anyone on /adv/ has ever faked it before?
for 2 years i thought i was enough for my gf.
just found out she fakes it more then half the time.
>feelsrealbadman.jpg
Hurts alot to find that out and now puts way too much pressure on sex for me.
I can hardly get it up because of performance anxiety.
Not sure it'll ever be the same..
>>16537668
Just because she faked it doesn't mean it's your fault or that you're doing something wrong.
A lot of women just find it really hard to orgasm during sex, it's no ones fault so don't blame yourself (or her).
Look at it this way, now you have a whole new sex life, finding out what really gets her going, what works best for her. You'll probably find new things you didn't know you liked before either. It's like starting the sexual relationship all over again, and...
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>>16537801
The reason why a lot of them find it hard though is because the men don't take the time and stimulate them enough. They just think it's enough to stick it in but it doesn't work like that.
(Pic unrelated)
I'm in love for the first time in my life.
I'm in love with someone who has no time for a relationship. She's busy living life to the fullest, working three jobs (one of which we work together at), making new friends and finishing school. She likes to party as well, when she can.
I've known her for about a year. We've grown closer and become friends over the past 4 months or so. She's the only person I've ever opened myself up to completely. I fell for her sometime in september or october.
I honestly...
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>>16537616
You've already set for failure.
You've put her on the pedestal.
She'll crush you if you date her bro.
>>16537623
I've definitely considered that outcome, but honestly... She's different. She's always kind, understanding etc etc.... I've been through some flings before but she's just different y'know?
>>16537635
I'm not nearly as afraid of rejection as I am of losing her friendship
hey /adv/.
How do I know if I'm mentally ill?
>Since I remember myself I have always had a neutral like mood, I've never felt really happy but I do feel depressed very often
>I'm 21 and I have never had a gf(aside from midschool).
>most of the people I know say I act too indifferent
>I do have intersts in few hobbies but they don't do much aside from spending time or "bettering" myself.
>I'm...
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You're obviously depressed, I feel like that too. If you asked me when was the last time I felt happy I really couldn't answer. I feel like I've never been happy in my life, it's kinda weird. But yeah I don't really care anymore, I tried meditation and just focus on studying/bettering myself. Maybe someday I'll be happy Idk, but you don't have to be happy to live anyway.
Suicide has always been a stupid solution to problems imo. If you feel strongly about killing yourself then you should probably consult.
>>16537563
>How do I know if I'm mentally ill?
Do you post post on 4chan?
I've never met a single person who was completely normal that would want to have anything to do with this place. Think about it, this is a group of people with interests that involve everything from practicing obsolete weaponry to sexualizing cartoon horses. Anything except normal human interaction.
>>16537693
except I don't go to these places, I'm only looking for honest anonymous advice, and browse /fit/ or /tv/ for suggestions..
>>16537689
I'm considering getting professional help, I'm most like not a suicidal person, but I want to know where I stand, probably just a depressed, anxious person. which sucks because I really want to feel a rush of feelings like joy or even anger, I only got the down side of the feeling spectrum.
