>>16605701
How do i stop worrying
Im so anxious all the time, I cant take it anymore.

>>16605706
What makes you anxious? Is it a feeling, a thought, a general state of mind?
Are there specific things that cause anxiety for you?
What goes through your mind when you are anxious? Is it as if you understand that there's no real reason for you to feel this way, or does it feel "natural" to you?

If I have to make a general suggestion with what you give me, understanding that the constant anxiety you feel has no purpose or basis and understanding that you are a being made of love and have...
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Pretty simple question: How do I get my gf to do anal?

We can't help you if your girlfriend is imaginary

>>16604909
Sorry but unlike you, I have a real gf

>>16604918
Prove she's real. And I don't even want a girlfriend.

>>16604693
become poor

Be as attractive as them and be at least somewhat interesting

>>16604698
Explain

If i ever saw my ex on tinder i'd probably beta like hell and feel shitty about it. but after a few days i'd only tell myself she's doing that because she just can't meet people normally 'cause, well, she's deranged.

>>16604540
>but after a few days i'd only tell myself she's doing that because she just can't meet people normally 'cause, well, she's deranged.

Except you're also on Tinder so you're similarly pathetic.

>>16604543
no, but--
i mean--
but she's like--
...
you win this one.

girls and guys

i don't know why, but lately i've been getting mad when i hear people talk about sex. whether its on the news, movies, or just my friends talking about girls they've recently fucked. it makes me upset. like one of my friends was just talking about girls getting railed out at a party he was at last week and i am irritated now. I can't explain why, but i just am.

I'm curious if anyone else has felt this

Girls, how should a guy come back if your only text response to him is "okay..."?

Sent a friend a youtube link of a video I thought was funny. All she replied was that, as if it weirded her out. And now I'm all weirded out, because it feels like I'm being a fucking creep with responses like that.
I know one-word responses and "okay" are code for "fuck off", but what does that make "okay..."? I don't want to end conversation with a bitter aftertaste like that. How do I salvage this?

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I'm currently seeing a women taller than me I'm 5'11 she's about 6'1
I never been so attracted to someone in such a long time both physically and mentally. I want to ask both genders why do people look at couples where the women is taller as odd?
Especially other men

Previous thread

>>16559671

Posting the thread from a phone is such a pain. I won't be doing this again. -_-

Coming up on four years.

Dear lord that was fast.

>>16606714
You have been muted for 4 seconds, because your comment was not original.

Date an older guy, problem solved

>>16606714
1/10 troll. Please try harder next time.

>>16606542
Go to a doctor. Ask him/her. That's all.

Don't suck off guys without checking first next time.

>gives a guy he met off Grindr a blowjob without protection

>>16606585
how does one give blowjob with protection? you suck the condom?

>>16606536

Are you serious?

>>16606544
No, I'm joking...

Well if he's harmless you can just ignore him, he can jack off to your facebook pictures all he wants, no reason you should care about it. But yeah, that's what you get for broadcasting your life on social media. I never understood why people have tens or even hundreds of photos on facebook and shit.

One curiosity though, how do you know he's spying on you through social media?

>>16606494

You just pretty much said you aren't willing to do anything. That's thread.

Find something you're passionate about and just do it. Don't go into it with the intention of impressing other people.

>>16606498
I'm not saying I'm unwilling to do anything. I'm saying I don't want to devote myself to being mediocre.

>>16606505
But I'm not passionate about anything. And I've tried a lot of stuff, from literature to painting to religion to horses.

Unless you can suggest something I haven't tried.

Help

>>16606487

Have you ever tried seeing a psychologist? It really helps and there's nothing to be ashamed of.

>>16606594
Yes, I've went to a psychologist several times. But after all, it was only part of step 3

>>16606467
Why did you say fuck it all to counting your calories?

You should know that many Anons, including myself, just hide threads relating to mental disorders. You have one. You don't need advice, you need therapy. Advice is "soup or salad?" It's not "fix me." We can't fix you over the internet. Your way of thinking is unhealthy and you need to have someone teach you new ways. That takes support, time and training. The only thing you will accomplish here is to reinforce the normality of your issues by talking about them for minutes/hours.

advice on what? no one else can change your eating habits for you and it doesn't seem like you even try. you want to be rewarded with losing all the extra weight you have for not eating one treat you want. it's not and it never will be easy and real results take hard work.

>>16606376
They don't work and it's not a real relationship. It's more like symbiotic parasites.

>>16606376

I don't think so. To this day, I haven't been able to win an argument about it with my hoe friend.

My real argument is "You don't love your bf and you want to sleep around but don't want to leave him for other reasons."

Basically, when you are in love, the idea of the girl being with someone else pains you. My friend's argument is that this is insecure and possessive. I can't debate that, it's just the way it is.

But in short, one person gets...
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If everyone in the web of relationships is wired for it, then it can work. But the difficulty of this increases exponentially with the size of the web, and if even one of them starts to have doubts, the resulting dramaquake can bring the whole thing crashing down.

If you are having doybts, then it is best to stay away. You just aren't wired for it. Most people aren't.

>>16606299
Also have about 10 dresses, some casual some more formal. 12 pairs of tights/nylons. And around 7 pairs of shorts. And 6 skirts.

>>16606299

If you are male and have more clothing than you need for 10 days, it's way, way too much shit.

As far as college assignments/books - you may want to leave a few noteworthy essays, but fact is that you will never look at them again.

Also, I helped a few friends move over the years - they just drop most of their shit and take what they can pack in a car.

>70 shirts, 20 jackets

This is fucked up. 10 shirts is starting to push it. 20 jackets, why?

I'm assuming you're a femanon, so I'm not sure how much more clothing you ought to have than an average male such as myself, but I have probably 2-3 weeks worth of clothes that I can wear without repeating too much, and I honestly think that's too much. I'd say do a sweep of your closet and keep like 2 weeks worth of clothes, plus any clothes for certain occassions (i.e. workout clothes, formal clothes, warm jackets etc.)

So how do I fully move on and get over this girl without having complete closure first? I'm just so confused because since the couple days after our breakup it seems as though she's an entirely different person, and as I've said she refuses to explain anything to me.

I can provide more details if need be, just ask.

>Tl;dr: gf and I broke up a month ago, she said she loved and cared about me still and wants me in her life, now she acts as though she wants to have nothing to do with me and won't explain what happened between...
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>>16606257
>>16606251
You two broke up; there's no obligation for closure. It'd be nice and probably better for the both of you, emotionally, if you could come to terms with the end of your relationship, but that shit doesn't always work out.

It's pretty safe to say she's still feeling upset, and is trying to distance herself from you and her sentiments. It was a mistake to suggest that you two should be friends, since you already had a deeper...
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>>16606257
>So how do I fully move on and get over this girl without having complete closure first?

>needing complete closure

Just move on you fucking cuck, it's that simple.

Oh, and while you're at it maybe you'd better move on to reddit too.