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So here's how the story went
>be me
>beginning of school
>my crush shows up on move in day and she smiles at me
>I smile back
>move in day is done
>we start hanging out
>everything is good
>flash forward 4 months into the relationship
>Christmas time
>get...
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You don't. What happened is the closure. from what you wrote she seems immature and not ready for proper communication, so any attempt to gain "closure" is gonna make you seem creepy. Move on and try to find someone better.
Don't obsess over someone who breaks up like that.
Ok. It's just hard cause I see her in the dining hall on campus and she lives a floor below me so I'm sure there will be an awkward run in sooner or later
>>16775004
i think you two are underage
What do you think is a good life? Where does the music play at?
Everyone has their own preferences hobbies, goals, etc., but is there something where everyone could agree on? Something objective that make's one's life good?
Is itm ore the way for a safe, quite and comfortable living (which many people don't have after all) or should it be filled with more excitement, risk, passion and ups and downs?
Should you focus on special goals or is a varied approach better?
Are personal goals (like health, finance, social goals) better or should one contribute to society (politically / or social activities)?
In a world filled with so many opportunities and billions of life strings I kinda got lost in what I should pursue. Thus this is more a discussion thing than an actual advice. But I'm curious how others think about it.
After all You said everything by yourself already.
In my opinion every human is in his own way individual in terms of his way of thinking, experiences, preferences, way of dealing with problems but for the most liking different things and therefore seeing certain things good which other people would call bad or strange.
I think almost every human´s life goal is like what your title says lifing a good life and beeing happy.
So this is where we all agree and the fact that every person for example laughs when he is happy do proove this theory i think.
But...
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>>16774987
You're looking for absolute in a world of perception, that doesn't happen. One's good is an other's bad, you can't get anything universal from this kind of relativism.
I'm trying to find and replace text in hundreds of files, but there's a special requirement.
For example, let's say the text is as follows :
test
40
blab
I want to replace the 40 with another string, but i want to avoid replacing files with text that looks like this :
test
required:40
blab
If i just find and replace the number "40",i will end up replacing a lot of stuff that i don't want to. So basically want to replace the number 40 if it's the ONLY thing by itself on a single line.
I've...
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Anon, do you have something you want to vent or hash out?
I've been through my fair share in life and have learned quite a bit.
I want to try a new idea. I am offering an hour of my time, via telephone. In this hour we can discuss whatever you want, and I can give my advice based on my experiences. Or I can just listen, if that's what you want.
Right now I just want to try this out, so my rate will be $5 for an hour (via PayPal) .
Would any of you like my help?
Rofl fuck you, we can talk and get advice here for free. What makes you so different that you'd be willing to charge for your "service"? You're just like everyone else.
There's a big difference between posting on an image board and actually talking to someone for an hour. Much more can get covered, much faster. And it's more interactive which allows conversation to build.
I'm charging $5, I'm not sure why you're offended
I was not trying to seem better than anybody. i guess I could of wrote that better, sorry.
So I got to know this girl from playing video games with her online. I got along well with her from the beginning and thought she was really fun to be around. I found out she had a (long-distance) boyfriend pretty quickly, but didn't think much of it. I started playing games with her, her boyfriend, and some of their other friends every day. Occasionally she and I would be the only ones online and we'd hang out, just the two of us. I always enjoyed that the most.
Over a couple of months, she and I spent a lot of time together. Eventually, we started talking...
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Drop that cunt, you know what you need to do already.
Wether you're too weak or pathetic to go through with it is another completely different deal.
>>16774944
Sound like a huge attention whore.stop talking with her
How do I know?
How can I deal with this? Has anyone else been through this? I really need advice.
Also is it safe? Can it all just be in my head?
please?
>>16774933
You try it out and see if you like it?
Sexuality is about what you are comfortable with and what you like. Dont let yourself be constrained by your friends or family, they only know an approximation of what is good/best for you, while you know the real thing.
Why do you need to deal with this? Whats wrong with that?
aren't most women "heteroflexible"?
UK folks, TV License shit. Get ready, ready, ready!
So my girlfriend was paying for TV License despite us not watching TV live, only on demand, Netflix, 4OD .etc so i emailed the TV license cunts and declared that we didnt need one on the 24th of November i got an email acknowledging this fact saying they wouldn't bother us for 2 years.
Last week a letter came in her name demanding money saying shes breaking the law saying her payments only keep our license upto the 31st of November and they'll cancel our license completely, NOW today a letter came from...
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>needing a license for tv
Nuke yourselves
>TV License
Please just start your uprising already and end this bureaucratic nightmare.
I know its a joke, i havnt paid it ever.
Theres no reason to pay it at all but noone dares not pay.
How much money do you need to be making to be seen as dating material to women?
I barely make above minimum wage, but that's like $22 here so it isn't as bad as it sounds.
I mean I could have a family we'd just be kind of poor until I inherit
How long is a piece of string?
>>16774900
It might be $22 but once you factor in purchasing power it's on the same level as the US. Now that Walmart has increased the base pay to $10 in the US well I'll just let that sink in.
Now even people working for Walmart have wives and girlfriends.
>>16774900
Pretty stupid question OP, not all girls are materialistic whores. It also depends on your age. There are homeless people that find love, and there are billionaires that don't find find.
Why are you even worrying about a family if you are single?
Ok anon's I need help
I recently started using Tinder and got a match.
We talked the entire day and really hit it off, I feel. But unfortunately I fell asleep during our conversation, at like 2 am. When I woke up and realized what happened I apologized and continued the conversation we had previously.
But she hasn't responded for 2 days now. What do? Is this just part of the game or should I give up?
>But she hasn't responded for 2 days now. What do? Is this just part of the game or should I give up?
move on
Text : No Reponse? : Move on
Anything else is creeper status.
Easiest way to get a number is... After a little messaging say, text me, is easier. Insert number.
Sometimes my pictures on here randomly flip upside down, any idea why? Using phone app
She wants your dick
Why would a female friend ask who I go with to places?
>>16774872
she wants to know if you have a firlgriend
she wants the D
>>16774872
To make conversation.
>"Oh cool, x has great pizza. Who did you go with?"
Can a jealous person ever really stop being jealous, or do they need to just lie to themselves?
If insecurity is ingrained in you that much, can it really go away, or is it just a part of you?
>>16774870
I've always been insanely jealous. In high school I beat up my high school sweetheart's exgirlfriend because she asked him out, but he even said no and he was with me. I fought another girl for kissing a boy I liked at a beach party.
I got a little older and I stopped fighting people. But I'd still get insanely jealous of my boyfriend's female friends and ex's. One of his friends seemed to feed off of my jealousy. I've been in a relationship with this guy for five years. I've...
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>>16774889
This is kinda how I feel it'll go down. I'll always be as jealous, I'll just have a better handle how I physically react to it. I'll feel just as shit, only difference is less people will know.
What's the point really if that's all it amounts to?
>>16774870
You can be anything you want when you grow up.
I am really desperate to receive a yoni massage. Is it illegal to pay for this service in Ontario Canada?
>>16774815
Fucking Brutal. Ben telling it like it is.
I can't say 100%, but since this goes under tantra/spiritul sex-therapy i guess it's legal?
However, why not do it yourself or find somebody that does it for shits and giggles?
>>16774815
There's no Fucking such thing. It's bullshit.
Found out I have to do 3 months of military service next year, also found out several people die every year because of this.
What do you do in military service?
How do I avoid dying from this?
>>16774814
Country? Dude provide more info lol
>>16774814
3 months seems relatively short.
What about getting the fuck out of there, or just be sensible and don't die?
in my country military service means cleaning some toilets
Is it normal to feel younger than you actually are? I feel like a 21 year old at the very most, not 24.
Sure, I feel like i'm 16-18 and i'm 21. I don't feel like an adult at all. I think it has to do a little bit about how society is structured now a days. For example I haven't moved out of the house yet because it's not really economical for me to do so yet.
>>16774854
No, you haven't moved out yet because you're a piece of shit still sucking on momma's tit.
Don't blame the economy because you're too lazy to get a fucking apartment
>>16774864
This
