>>16773348
What is it about this place that makes so many people self-diagnose as autistic?
Anyway, dude, just ask her. Literally, just ask. Talk to her face to face, call and talk over the phone, text, IM, whatever.
"Hey, you wanna go ice skating (insert preferred date and time here)?"
If she turns you down, at least you can say you tried. If she says yes, then it means you're going in the right direction.
And try to relax. You're 18 and a lot of this stuff is mystifying to a lot of people...
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>>16773358

The whole autism thing is 4chan for saying you're stupid about something; I don't actually think I have autism.

On to your answer, though, I could ask her right now if she wanted to go ice skating and I could be pretty certain she'd say yes.

My question is how to make it clear I'm asking her on a date and not just to hang out, being as we are already friends and already do stuff like that.

>>16773358
Everyone here is autistic. EVERYONE.

Oh wow what a clever way to get back at your ex-gf for dumping you, OP.

If you want to come across professional (and thus successfully sell houses and earn commission), then act the part.

Though you may not like it, it means getting a suit and tie -- and wearing it whenever you're working. Die the hair brown or black -- something 'conservative' enough to not scare away the customers, as it were. The car doesn't matter much, unless you're looking to sell million dollar houses. I suspect, however, if you're an upstart, then you'll start selling $100,000-$200,000 or even start by arranging rental agreements or so on.

>>16773340
This. The hair and clothes will have to change, and you'll have to start small, like really small.

If you want to work alone and not for an agency then network like crazy. Try an get friends and family to let you sell their homes and tell them you'll give them a percent of your commission. It won't be much but it's incentive to go with you over a company.

You won't sell that much when you start, and even when you get rolling you won't sell that much.

Have a good...
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Back around June a mutual friend of ours, Terry Guss, helped at the Origins Game Fair booth. Dillon then got him to come down and help for the Magic Origins release since we were preselling and needed a ton of help sorting and packaging. Dillon agreed. During this time I was having a lot of problems with Dillons refusal to sign a paper/pay me anything for my time and his continued dismissal of problems I had with the way he was running our business. I talked to a few friends, again, about how I felt it was disturbing to me that he was paying Terry to come down and help out and...
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It wasn't enough to just steal the business I put way more work and effort into than he ever did - he also stole my personal property. Things I kept at his house because we were friends . He refused to return them at any point and through various attempts at getting them back. Not to mention stealing ~2k from the ebay account and never shipping the items, getting theebay account banned to the accumulation ofnegative feedback and thus getting me permanently barred from selling on ebay.

You probably shouldn't complain.

If the state isn't involved you probably aren't paying child support. If you are giving her money, it's probably much less than what you'd pay if the state was involved.

Also, she claimed the kids...because she's fucking taking care of them, not you.

To be honest I don't know the full story, but it sounds like you got away with a sweet deal, don't stir the pot.

>>16773312
I agree out of court is nice, but no i give her money every month anyways and she doesnt really do a great job with the kids, I have them more than she does. Even on her days to have them i still end up with them more than not. Court wouldnt be so bad for me, I have always provided for her and for the kids. It was cause of her asking that we stayed out of the courts. It isnt even the money that makes me mad, th fact she was trying to be sneaky i think bothers me more. was just looking to see if anyone has gone through...
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Dreams don't mean jack shit. They're just dreams. There isn't some special window into your subconscious there or something.

Psychoanalytic theory ended up being counter-empirical really often and it's essentially defunct these days for this reason.

It makes me think that you hold on to something very personal to you that you see as absent from everyone else. Try to think about what might be personal to you that you think you could be losing. I think it might be your subconscious telling you that you're afraid of losing something close or important that you consider a par of you.

Also, something like that is real. People get lobotomies where they really do have this peanut-like thing in their frontal lobe removed, but it isn't common or normal, and getting it removed didn't require opening up your...
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perhaps you are freaked out about the ways in which people delude themselves? aka they 'remove the shell' of their thinking and throw it away in order to conform?

You don't, you stay out of it. If a girl isn't head over heels for you and still thinks about her ex, she's obviously not that into you and isn't satisfied with who you are.

Gtfo asap. If you start dating her, chances are every time you have sex she'll be thinking about his cock being inside her instead of yours, and will eventually hit him up for sex.

>>16773451
All of this.

>>16773250
Have you tried using the Yandex one? I used it and works pretty well. The interface is a little bit confusing at first, but you get used in a day or two.

>>16773250

Oh God do I have a suggestion made just for folks like YOU!

See here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PzxCTYBmA74

That isn't a "healthy" distrust; it's a distrust that can kill you and also shows that you don't understand the development of medicine or science.

See a doctor.

I forgot to add this. I live in a third world area. We don't have the luxury of having good medical facilities or standards. My post has nothing to do with the development of medicine or science. I has to do with people here that don't give a fuck about their patients. If I could go to the states or eu for treatment i would.

>>16773111
Nope! Do your own fucking homework, OP.

>>16773084
You already know what you need to do OP.

There is no easy way out of this, tell guy #1 that you're seeing #2 before his feelings grow even bigger for you.

Obviously guy #1 is going to be crushed, but there is nothing you can do about it, that's life

>>16773084
Bonus tip:

Don't date guys within your inner circle of friends, I've seen horrible cases were it destroys the entire group.

In the best situation he understands or has been expectong it
You should try to make him understand that you werent stolen by him ( that sounds a bit objectify)
Try to make it clear
Really wish you good luck

See a doctor.

>>16773098
>>16773098
I don't care about my health or well being I just want hair without surgery

Isn't black mold supposed to be incredibly dangerous?

>>16773063
>How do I bring this up with her?
Are you sure you want to? Even if you she does break up with the guy to be with you, they will still be closer to each other and have history. This is the sort of situation where you're close, but you're not as close as they are. He will still be her best friend, the one she confides in, the one she runs to when you fight. She won't break off contact with this person.

Knowing all of the above, are you still wanting to proceed?

>>16773063
>That said, they talk every day on video chat and they've been doing this for 5+ years. She also talks about him all the time, although usually just to say she had told him something, not "omg I love my boyfriend to death all day".
Also, as someone that had a successful long-distance relationship over a 5 year or so period, it's normal not to talk about your partner like that. When you've been together for a long time, you don't need to convince others...
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>>16773074
That's a really good point. I am happy as things are now.

It seems that things are strained with her "friends back home". Apparently their relationship caused her to lose friends, and she associates them/that place with an overwhelming amount of drama. Part of me thinks she would want to burn that bridge and start anew over here, but I wouldn't want to be the cause of her losing all her friends.

I wish I knew more about their situation. She's told me they both acknowledge they will likely never live together, and she has said she doesn't want to marry him or anything, but they have been at this for so long I can't tell if she really means that and is just uncomfortable with letting go or if this is something more intense.

b

Try finishing puberty

>>16773062
You're on the right track by watching videos of yourself. Just note what it is you're doing "wrong" and think about it actively next time. Correct yourself when you fuck up, essentially. Eventually, it'll fix itself. Just like learning an instrument, OP.

>>16773048
Be yourself?

Unless you're just looking for quick lays, in which case there are tons of books. I don't really give a shit about that stuff, but I have some terribly disgusting friends that have literally just read "pick up books" and it works for them just fine, apparently.