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I have no interest in pursuing a career.
I don't much care for interpersonal relationships or social status either.
Though I am studying something, the main focus of my life is escapism.
It's worth noting that I do have some problems with anxiety and depression.
No friends and not much desire for friends.
I almost certainly have this:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidant_personality_disorder
What should I do?
Are there any easy part-time jobs I can get to fund a minimalist lifestyle?
>just find something...
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I enjoy my work immensely. I hated studying the exact same subject because everything was catered to the lowest common denominator. I just didn't have any motivation when I could breeze through classes without really doing anything and I had doubts about the career choice overall.
Then I got an internship and everything changed. I could really show how good I was and I didn't have to wait for the guys that couldn't keep up with me at school. The people who don't enjoy their jobs are those who picked a major based on how much money they can make instead...
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>>16794097
This doesn't help me at all.
Picking a major based on 'love' can potentially land you with no job prospects at all.
For example, psychology is over-saturated and philosophy is...completely useless.
Not everyone is like you. My father enjoys his job as well. He get's paid fuck all, his wife cheated on him and once he retires nobody will care about or remember him.
Do you understand my train of thought yet?
>>16794108
You can make plenty of money on any field. And if you're good there will be work no matter what your profession is. Though both of those require you to work hard and in some fields it pretty much requires you to start your own company.
I am an utter fucking creep.
I practically solely masturbate to an assortment of FB pictures, creep shots, nudes I'm not supposed to have and occasional stolen panties of a select group of women I hang out with daily.
I recently attained a general understanding of photoshop and have been desperately trying not to do anything weird such as edit pictures of them to be lewd.
Thing is, I'm a pretty fit and attractive guy, but I have the tastes of some bottom dwelling beta freak.
What the fuck is wrong with me?
GET OFF 4CHAN FAGGOT. No seriously
>>16793406
I would, but even my brother who's 6 years older does this type of shit, but with every person he's ever dated.
Do I just have creep in my genes? Fucking hell.
The sexual desire to fuck these tight broads. Today's trends made my top fetishes twerking and yoga pants (candid.)
The best ass and tits aren't in porn. They're in your everyday life.
My girlfriend told me she's swallowed before and it's ruining her for me. As soon as I think about it I get sick and I feel a sharp pain in my legs and I think it's going to give me a weird cuck fetish or something. I can't stress enough how much this is fucking with me.
Dude get over it, most women have had dicks before yours.
They're with you for a reason. The only reason you should be upset is if she were still blowing other guys, and she's not. She's exclusive to you and you should be happy about that.
Don't let your insecurities destroy a good relationship. You should get over it because you have no other choice.
Think about times where you were with women before you knew her. It will help you settle down and realize that we all have a past. It doesn't make your current situation less important.
>>16793299
No I want a girl who's slightly pure. I don't mind sex but to do disgusting shit like blowjobs and ass sex is fucked they should only do that for me once they realize I'm the appropriate mate
I've felt the same way before about my current gf, but over time it will probably fuck with you less and you'll almost forget about it.
So basically I cheated on my bf and got pregnant. I know its not from him. How do I make sure he never finds out?
You suicide
Abortion
>>16792569
I could never kill an innocent child
>How tall are you?
Why does it fucking matter to women so much?
Pic unrelated
WIMEN ARE TRASH
THE ONLY CARE ABOUT NUMBERS AND HOW THEY CAN BENEFIT
>>16792110
Most girls find taller guys sexier
It's the equivalent of men who care way too much about what job and/or education a woman has. These are just really insecure people who get really fucking weird if she's not the short one or he's not the breadwinner. Meanwhile off in the corner the short guys and rich women are breeding like rabbits.
For girls: What kind of modifier, out of 10 is 'balding' to you? is it a -2? For example, if the same guy who is a 6 becomes a 4 if he is balding. Details please. I'm balding and if noticed an enormous decline in success with girl, so I'm sure its something very serious.
Lets not come to exceptions - the are a few guys who are better looking when balding. this is a very rare phenomenon, so it is girls that prefer bald guys.
This is 4chan, the land of truth, Remember
>>16785164
It's only sexy if you're a carpenter.
balding is probably a -2 as you said, it just makes you look sad and weak
completely bald is probably -1 except if it looks good on you
My boyfriend is balding and its very noticeable.
Doesn't really affect my attraction to him either way. In fact if he did have hair I'd find him less recognizable.
Its that time again.
Last time I checked you rejected me and I moved on. Then you started stalking me for a long time. I told you before to fuck off. What the fuck is wrong with you? You either 1. don't reject me. or 2. ask me out again and see if I'll accept or not.
>>16780418
The only reason I sort of sticked around taking your bullshit was to see if you'd change your insanity! Clearly not! NOW LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE!
You might think this is some elaborate game I'm playing, I'm not! I don't want you like this. It means you have serious fucking issues. A relationship wouldn't even be possible before some serious mental intervention. Get help. Or not, it's your call. But I do not want you. Accept it! You are not entitled to me or anyone! Wake up!
My 15 year old son just said to me he was gay. I'm conflicted on throwing him out of the house or letting him stay. What should I do?
>>16792735
You born him that way. You should be kicked out not him.
>>16792735
throw him out once he's 18, I believe for now you have to support him bc he's underage.
Support him to the fullest extent, while secretly tormenting the shit out of him online. wait 3 years until he's 18 drop bombshell on his ass by telling him that was you and then kick him out.
So, I have a date for friday night,(okc).
Girl says her friend insists on coming.
I can already tell what's going to happen. It's going to be some fat bitch that just shits up the night and cockblocks me all night. Might be rude to me aswell.
What do I do? Do I call off the date? I like this girl, she seems genuine and sweet.
I was kind of caught off guard and just said 'yeah sure whatever'.
So I already agreed and it wouldn't be right to flake on her now, because she seems excited to meet me too, and I think that...
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You take a friend and make it a double date.
>>16789195
desu anon all of my friends are twice my age. Most of them live far away from me too, so that's a no go.
That's a good idea. Any more good ideas?
>>16789201
Well I don't have any more ideas but you definitely do not flake because that doesn't make you look good. You agreed to have her friend come along, suck it up and go. Make it more of a friendly outing and less of a date if you have to to make it less awkward
Get it off your chest
I FUCKING HATE THESE KIND OF THREADS HHHHNNNGGGG
Glad i got that off my chest.
>>16784030
I hope this makes you smile
ey b0ss, gibe me a hug IRL.Pls.pls.pls.
how do you deal with girls who are super flirtatious? you know, the ones that know they're really pretty and "steal" boyfriends as a sport?
and how often do guys fall for that sort of bait? are guys really that naive to recognize when a girl is toying with him for attention?
some are. the trick is finding the ones that aren't.
since these are usually 'alphas' who are used to lots of female attention (and can resist it) you probably just can't land one and/or you might have to just share one.
>>16791684
Some guys don't get much female attention, and those are the ones that will keep barking up that tree even after it's obvious that she's not actually interested. Some girls are cute enough that even though you don't really have a chance, you really want to put your dick in her so you keep trying. Most guys have a shred of dignity (not really the ones on 4chinz though), and won't keep pursuing a girl that is just a flirt.
If you trust your boyfriend, then you have nothing to worry about. Being pretty yourself helps too.
As my parents said, "Nobody goes to work because they enjoy it. They have to go to work though as they have bills to pay. How many people actually enjoy working at McDonalds? If they got to leave, they would all leave."
I guess most people who disagree with me are probably minors who have never been to work and are romanticising a certain job too much or adults who are new to a job so the excitement still hasn't worn off and they haven't had enough time to learn about the workplace politics that already exists.
>>16790492
Not at all, I found a job I really enjoy. I work as a repair man at a museum. For the most part I get to choose my hours, and what I do during them.
I help out in other sections of the museum, like education, archives, ect so my job is very varied. The pay is good, even though it's only part time, and when I'm busy doing my job no one bothers me, so I can always take a break if I need to.
>>16790519
It's part time so I doubt you can have job security with that. You are just deluding yourself when you say that you enjoy your job or you mean that it's not the worse job out there.
>>16790492
I teach high school-aged children at a pretty swanky independent private school. The school expects me to attend extra-curricular activities like sporting events and socials which can be kind of a pain, but the kids are all the products of tiger parenting (and as such, are too afraid of their parents to mouth-off or misbehave too outrageously) and the pay is well above average. I get weekends off, one fortnight every thirteen weeks off, work with really great people and in a really receptive, caring environment.
The...
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>what music do you like anon?
>oh you know
>i-italo disco
>What? What's that?
>i-i-its like the p-precursor to eurobeat
>euros? Isn't that racist?
>n-no
>i l-like noise rock too
>Riiight anon... I have to go...
Why are girls so FUCKING IMPOSSIBLE
WHAT THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED...
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>>16789197
she's getting railed by the buffest nigger on your bball team while listening to Drake
stop having obscure tastes that are shit?
>>16789197
>italo disco
>noise rock
nigga...
Hi /adv/
Please tell me if it's a bad decision to email the girl like. I will provide context to avoid any impulsive conclusions:
>work in an office complex in central NY
>a girl from another company on the floor above enters 2-3 times a day to print things off or make coffee
>she asks me a question one time and I really notice her
>she smiles when asking the Q but I dismiss it as formal pleasantry
>she...
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>>16790821
It's a great idea. What's worked for me in the past is being 100% honest about my feelings in a seemingly nonthreatening email. I described the things I wanted to do with her (take her to the mall, dress her up very pretty, make love to her by candlelight) and it worked amazing. We are still together today.
>>16790842
Please don't troll me. I realize I'm inviting it but I am looking for honest advice here. This means a lot to me.
Do it in person or not at all.
The email is going to fail terribly. And they have a paper trail. If you think that people overhearing is bad, imagine her forwarding the email to people you work with. Imagine your boss asking you why you are asking people out at work and why he received a complaint about you stalking someone.
My husband teaches German at a secondary school. There is this girl who graduated a year ago who he seemed to have befriend. He taught her four years ago. My husband seems to like talking to her and have mentioned me to her before and showed me the "thank you" card he got from her once.
Anyway, I was recently looking at his Facebook on his phone when he's still logged in and I can see that he's been messaging this girl. They tend to send a few lines of text and the other replies with a couple of sentences around a month later. They talk about stuff such as TV shows, books and recent movies but it is still making me uncomfortable. Should I talk to my husband about this?
If you're a psycho, absolutely.
It sounds like you are, so I recommend you go for it.
>>16790426
How am I a psycho? I mean, it's not normal for a man to talk to some girl who graduated a year ago about Game of Thrones and The Book Thief in their Facebook messages? I mean, he was her teacher, not her friend.
Its literally nothing.
