THIS THIS THIS

Damn ,I love you. You are me.

This is why I'm on 4chan. I am one of you.

>>16772364
shut the fuck up faggot

>>16772364

fucking kill yourself

Yes.

You specifically set it up now so she has to make the first step. If she doesn't, don't pursue it. Sometimes girls just do shit like that.

She might just match with you because they pity you, honestly. Doesn't want you to feel bad, but doesn't realize that MAKING A CONNECTION AND DOING NOTHING WITH IT MAKES A PERSON FEEL EVEN WORSE.

For anyone who might be reading and doesn't understand that. *ahem*

>>16772011
I figured, thanks dawg

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OH FUCK SHE ACTUALLY MESSAGED

SHIT NOW WHAT

Have less crap.

that's a big ass room. almost as big as the apt i life in with my son. you will fit your stuff in. and if not, throw some things out. you don't need that much for one single person.

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>floor radiator
>loft

Kinder eggs are illegal in America, you or her can get fined for trying to bring them into the country.

>>16771930
>NO kinder eggs

There are no kinder eggs
Kinder CANDY like chocolates but no eggs or anything with toys inside

>>16771930
I live in America and find this absurd.

Million dollar question, impossible to answer.

a few suggestions, that may or may not work:

1) Ask her out, if she says yes then great, if she says no, it might crush any hope you had and stop you obsessing.

2) Go out and try to meet a new girl to take her place in your affections.

>>16771942
I got her number earlier this week and her WhatsApp profile pic was with some dude hugging her. Pretty sure it was his BF, so I deleted the number. Asking her out would be way too risky.

Guess that finding another girl is my best bet, but I gotta find her first.

I suffered erotomania, in my case I had to avoid any contact with that person. I realized I was obsessed with her because I was depressed and she made me happy. I started exercising, the obsession became less stronger after a while.

>>16771898
Professor writing here.

Do it.

University is not just for 18 year olds any more, and most universities have a sizeable proportion of "older" students. In some well-known schools as much as 50% of the undergrads are in their late 20s, 30s or even 40s.

The world has changed, and increasing numbers of people are making life choices later, going to university after being in the world for a while. And universities are changing to serve them - you will not be adrift in a swirl of adolescents,...
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There isn't like, some actual track in life that you have to follow. Yeah, you have to do that shit to get a career, but that shit doesn't have an actual age limit (...with the exception of most sports careers, anyway.).

Hell, when he was in his late 20s my dad lost his business and decided to go to law school instead of start some other entrepreneur thing. He's been a lawyer for 20 years now.

>>16771920
>>16771910
thanks.

I just worry that, even though its the path I want to take, its one that will make me miserable in the process. Because I will have next to no money while I do it and be living off debt. So I will be forced to live in a shitty tiny apartment. I won't have money to do fun things or even time to go out and enjoy myself all that much since I will need to keep on top of my grades, my masters program requires a 3.75GPA.

I see lots...
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u want to ask her out via linkedin?

that's pretty fucking lame. why don't u try and have an actual face to face relationship with her first before asking her out. What are u afraid? Can only do it behind the screen?

>>16771874
No, its that there literally is no way I can ask her out at work. I wanted to keep it simple in my OP and by saying that asking her out in person is impossible, but I guess I have to explain it to you:

I would get in trouble for going to the part of the building she works at without any specific reason for needing to go there, and I am not going to be going there any time soon unless I'm promoted.

So no, its not a matter of being afraid of asking her out in person. I have asked girls out in person...
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I was thinking of the messaging being:

Hey Anonette,
Working at [our company], we don't really get much of a chance to talk---so I was wondering if you would like to get coffee some time?

>>16771822
Thank you, OP, for a much needed laugh.

Depends on how they look. If they're the flat kind then you're fine.

Just get a haircut OP

farm isk, aell isk for £, give to friend, problem solved

>>16771737
If the housing contract is with the university, it will almost certainly be cancelled by their side when they learn he's no longer a student. If it's a lease with a private landlord, he can find a replacement tenant to take it over.

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>amarr

Whatever the hell you want.

>no nurse is going to want to fuck a psychiatric patient

>>16771720
I know, but still irs buggin me

>>16771717
>in a psychiatric clinic
How did you post on 4chan?
B A I T
A
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>>16771706
>Meets girls on drunken bar crawl
>Immediately fantasizes a threesome
>They spot him as a loser, especially when he offers to pay their way in
>Not being fools themselves, they let him
>Dump him and move on

And he's surprised?

>>16771706
>we should of moved onto another club with no entry fee and maybe I would eventually have gotten a threesome.
Hahahahaha

How do you know they just had trouble finding a bathroom or figured it was too late and didnt feel like banging some one because hookups are context for clubs. Were you there alone too that's kind of weird.

Its club sluts why do you want them?

Yup realized my life is shit and because of the many factors the who thing is hopeless and will probably be a failure forever.

As for how I got over. Negative hedonism and Stoicism. Basically I am not dead and all my basic physical needs are being met to I am fine and will always be fine til the day I die no matter what happens good or bad. And when I die that is also fine.
Or to describe it another way, my attempts at bettering my life through trying to control the outside world ended in pain and failure. So I came to the conclusion that controlling the inner world...
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>>16771532

Yes, I did. At least I think it's what you're talking about, that thing where you realize you're on a life path you don't value and freak out trying to figure out what you really want out of life.

My solution was to burn my entire life down and rebuild it.

- I dropped out of university
- Broke up with my fiance (best decision of my life to date)
- Severed contact with everyone I felt any reservations about (90% of my social world)
- Admitted I was no longer religious...
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>>16771595
Thank you for your clarifying answer and I am glad that this solution has worked out and might be working out for you at the moment.

The thing you name is that I am kind of afraid of failure.
>Maybe you're starting to realize you aren't who you thought you were, aren't what people expected you to be, and don't feel you've got the resources to handle that new reality.
This is my problem at the moment. I have a great GF but I don't know if I'll...
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be more attractive

don't be less or the same amount of attractiveness

>>16795273
how do you know that he is into you now?
Is he shy?

>>16795273
Fuck it. I mean, if he accepts good for you and if he rejects you, of course it's going to suck but you get to finally move on.

I wish you the best of luck.

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Men

How come even in adulthood its so hard to get you to eat your damn vegetables? How can I get the men in my life to eat their vegetables?

I have a casual acquaintance I'm hoping to begin dating very soon.
I have to ask her in person, it's a cultural thing.

We'll be apart on Valentine's Day, but should I send her a "Happy Valebtine's Day!" message anyway? Or just ignore it?

We previously sent happy holidays messages on Christmas/New Years.

>>16792235
Tell him it makes his cum taste better and you'll blow him more.

Or, you could prepare vegetables better. Grilled veggies are awesome. Most veggie girls I've know go to stir fries and that shit just ruins veggies. Steamed is awesome. Anything tastes good if you drown it in butter, lemon, and salt but that's probably not what you're looking for.

You've gone straight to the "loveless marriage" stage!

You need to up your game, sister, and work to a life plan. Fuck film school bullshit: train up in a good career with solid job prospects like carpentry, and you'll soon have the financial freedom to make it on your own. Right now, you're basically a hooker who doesn't even make any money.

lmao that was awesome. yes i am hooking in a sense but he is also whoring himself a bit. i hacked his pc. he has no clue which is funny cause he works in it... well basically he watches a ton of porn. he is far from innocent. i actually think he knows my stance.

>Learn capentry
>Move out
>Keep hooking up with the dude, but make him pay for sex with drugs
>Fuck his brother
>Get high
>Make awesome things out of wood