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I asked this the other day, but since it's the weekend and some of the 9-5 crowd might be around, I'm going to ask again - I have a crush on a coworker.
The thing is, it's not going anywhere, no matter what - she just had a kid and is with her boyfriend. I have a small inkling she's a little interested, but I'd chalk it up to hormones. We've gone drinking together, she invited me to lunch yesterday, etc. She's seemed to pay me a lot of attention since I wrote her a nice Christmas card, which she's talked about multiple times.
Anyways,...
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>>16775738
If she is willing to cheat with you, she's willing to cheat on you. If by some chance you were to get with her, what would you have then? A cheating mother who will probably become a single mother when this becomes knowledge to her boyfriend/husband. She'll probably put him on for child support, and if you get her pregnant she'll do the same to your dumb ass.
Sorry if I seem harsh, but the only way to get over a crush is to replace the thoughts of an idealized relationship in your head with...
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>>16775757
I'm aware of this, I want no part in it already, but that doesn't stop the instinct I have to flirt with her or whatever. I have zero desire to have her cheat on her boyfriend or anything.
so i just moved to a new state and i have no idea what to do regarding my car and insurance. my parents gifted me the car right before i left but we only filled out the bill of sale and did nothing else about it. on top of that, since i moved out of home i am no longer covered by my parent's car insurance policy.
ive been hearing very different things about what to do first. some people have told me that i will need to sign up for a new insurance policy before registering the car, while others have told me i'd need to register the car before signing up for a...
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bump. ANY help would be great here.
>>16775727
Call the tax office (or whatever state office handles car registrations where you are) and ask...
>>16775727
>>16776260
Also you don't do car registration at the DMV in my state at least... so, best check...
Are you moving TO california or FROM?
Hey guys n girls. I have this fetish of showing off my girlfriend. I have this fantasy of her coming out in a revealing dress infront of my friends and all of them just being in awe at her sight. I want them to have a hard on looking at my girl. I even want my girl to show her pussy, ass or boobs to them, but she doesnt want to do those. Any advice how i can convince her?
>>16775724
Tell her "my penis would get super hard" because that's what you mean.
Note: this won't convince her. If she's not into it this won't change her mind, exhibitionism is mad uncomfortable if you aren't into it.
Stop being such a cuck. Your girlfriend isn't your possession, she's not for you to show off like a watch.
She should dump you and find a real man.
>>16775770
>your girlfriend isn't your possession
Please explain.
Just turned 18 yesterday, what's the best way to enjoy it.
I already had a party and hung out with my closest friends.
>>16775715
Buy cigarettes, lotto ticket, spray paint, a bottle of robitussin.
>>16775785
Spray paint?
Fuck a hooker
How long does it normally take to get over a big break up?
My long term boyfriend of a few years broke up with me 3 weeks ago and I still feel empty and dead inside while he seems to be just fine. Since most of my social life depended on him (I had lots of friends when I first dated him then over the years the majority of those friendships were lost) I'm essentially staying at home a shit ton now and it's making me feel really depressed. I only go out to work or occasionally meet my best friend or have a drink with another friend of mine, as in I socialise like...
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Time will tell. Go out with your friends, cry yourself out on their shoulders if you are super close. Not getting into a relationship is a good idea until you are emotionally stable because it impairs judgement and you may get into a relationship that you regret later.
Maybe you shouldn't have neglected your friendships while you were smugly in a relationship
>>16775743
I never said that those friendships were lost due to me being neglectful. A lot of them were high school friends (I started dating the guy when I was fresh out of high school) and as you know once everyone's out of highschool they tend to change and have different groups of friends, move overseas, etc. In fact most of my friends either went to a university overseas, and a couple of them I had a disagreement with because they weren't being good friends.
>>16775720
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A lil backstory first. I liked.. sorta loved and confessed to a girl a year back and she basically had the worst of the reactions: "Oh.. Cute..?"
Now a month back she got herself a bf and soon after said that she doesn't want me in her life anymore without any reason at all.
We had lotsa fun together, as in when we went out with the squad and what not. I keep telling myself that she is worthless if she hates me, then again for some reason I hate it when I see her talk with the rest of the gang and I also want to ask her what the real reason is for such a...
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>>16775672
You (like me) are infatuated, not in love.
Please take the advice I can never take, fuck that bitch, you don't need her, you'll find someone who will be good to you and for you. You can't force someone to have feelings for you, trying so will only push them away further
>>16775672
Grow a spine and cut her off.
She didn't hesitate doing the same to you
I need advice on how to get noticed on youtube.
>>16775623
Don't be shit.
Little bit more specific dude xD
>>16775637
Don't have shit content.
I'm an alcoholic going on a two month stint of sobriety. I do a couple months off once every few years, generally to get back into shape, and generally with the strategy of coming out with a better relationship with alcohol (that clearly hasn't worked, but that's not the point).
People keep telling me how excited I must be, that I'm really going to love life, and that I'm going to "feel SO MUCH BETTER" when I cut it out. But honestly, I've done this, and I don't feel any better. I feel the exact same. I'm accepting that...
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>>16775605
Buy them a shot. Repeat as needed. When they're right fucked up take them home and shit in their bed. That'll get them to shut up about drinking.
>>16775605
I had a drinking problem. For years. IDK what your situation is like, health wise, but you'll keep drinking more and more untill you hit the same shit situation I did. I used to take a few months off, wasn't a complete drunkard back then but it progressed over time.
Sober since September last year because I lost a job several times and almost died from drinking in the end. I'll have some permanent consequences and non-permanent ones still haven't completely gone away. I felt like shit,...
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>>16775666
So you never drink now?
I'm not OP. I've been afraid to stop cause I havnt stopped for years and I hear about seizures etc.
I think im about ready to quit completely, ive slimmed down to drinking beers instead of cheap liquor and less time being drunk.
I dont want to die, waste money or time so those are my own reasons.
I'm about a third of the way through this book and enjoying it so far. Seems like slightly more intellectual advice than the standard pick-up artistry.
Anyone else here read this? Did it have a significant impact on your ability to approach and talk to women?
Also, what are some other great self-improvement books, not necessarily in the area of dating?
>>16775568
>attract women through honesty
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Ive read it but I havent really followed the stuff in there religiously, so the book was useful to a degree.
I actually have a self improvement book list from / fit/.
>>16776444
http://pastebin.com/x7BbYimv
As an 18 year old who is going out if high school soon, what is the best way to travel the world basically broke?
I am looking into hostels to work at for a bit and other things.
>>16775525
Hate to tell you this, but it's not all that easy. But that's not to say it can't be done.
Important questions for more detailed info, though:
1) What country are you in
2) What country/regions are you looking to go to
3) Define "basically broke"
4) Any skills you may have
5) How long do you intend to travel
6) Plans for after
>>16775536
It's fine, I like the help a lot.
1.I am in the United States. (Born in it, full Citizenship)
2. South America, but mainly focused on Chile, Peru, Bolivia and Argentina.
3.I am currently looking for a short term job, but I have a few hundred dollars (nearing a thousand) on me.
4.I am bilingual, English and Spanish.
I have some higher arts (photoshop, video editing, and animation) skills, I have done some light landscaping before I have a bigger build so I am used to the...
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Makeing great eye contact having conversation and then in the bat of an eye almost as if instinct I looked down right at her chest! Then instantly back up too try and keep my sentence pretending it diddnt happen her face turned red and she smiles turning and walking off
>>16775453
OK.
>>16775453
K...
Today for breakfast I had sandwiches with pineapple jam and had cocoa to drink with. I like the taste although fibers going inbetween teeth is a bit annoying.
How can one improve their singing without taking lessons? Is it possible to develop good tone/vibrato through just doing things at home?
>>16775416
Read the books that instructors read.
>>16775442
Okay, thanks mate.
>Not intelligent
>Not good looking
>Not successful
>Not cool
>Not a hardworker
>Not special in anyway
>Nothing to offer anyone else can't
>Age to 'experience' and 'find yourself' is long gone.
>No one gives you respect, barely acknowledges you.
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