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How often should a couple go out?
Where is the line drawn between needy, normal, and neglected?
>>16776023
Variable based on the relationship and the people.
No easy answers anon.
>>16776023
>Where is the line drawn between needy, normal, and neglected
There isn't one. I know people who go out with their so once or twice a week and others who spend almost all of their free time together. It depends on the person
>>16776023
Whatever feels most comfortable
You're already a couple, you can just b urself senpai
At my college , Monday -Friday the college gives you an allowance of 8.50 $ for breakfast and for dinner 11.80. Is there a way I could beg for more money to be allowed?
>>16776017
I will be the first to say,
That there is a way -
Go out on the street,
And hold out a tray,
With a sign "Help - I am poor and gay!"
>>16776017
College dinig room is usually much more affordable than private "on the street" dining. Aren't you getting enough to eat? That would be unusual.
>>16776035
Well yes I am it's just I'm constantly hungry
Nowadays it seems that women have infinite suply of men at their feet. They get attention all the time from social media.
How does a guy approach a girl without the thought that you are feeding her ego?
The thought of feeding someone's ego disgusts me, but at the same time I want to get laid.
>The thought of feeding someone's ego disgusts me
Then you're the problem here.
>>16776012
elaborate
OP here, I am a faggot. I just want to use women because I don't see them as people, but they scare me so much. They have all men at their feet, clearly, and it's not creepers and users like me just trying to fuck them!
lol op you're retarded
Which is the best contraceptive method for women besides celebacy? The pill, a diaphragm, spounge, etc. ?
>>16775998
A bullet to the head.
Condom and a seperate water based spermicidal lubricant. Also track your ovulation and avoid sex on the days you are most fertile.
If I remember correctly it's the hormonal implant. Condoms are incredibly effective when used right but most people do not use them right. There's a specific way you have to store them (never in wallet or in the car) and put them on (have to pinch the tip) that most people just don't know.
The implant is something you can't mess up or forget or do incorrectly. You just have to be aware that if you are over a certain weight threshold, hormonal birth control doses lose effectiveness.
I am at this turning point in my life.
I ended a 4 years long relationship, moved out of his appartment. I am a first year at uni, dealing with the annual exams. Also, I was promoted at my job.
I feel Iike I am constantly rediscovering myself, working on myself. But I sometimes also fail. I quit smoking a couple of months ago but ever since the break up I started smoking again from time to time. I just get random moments of anxiety and they make me feel like I am about to be crushed into little pieces.
What should I do? How should I approach everything? Can someone tell me their past experiences?
I am the one who ended the relationship, I am the one who wanted it. We didn't fit together but I didn't feel ready to let go for a while so it took me some time to take the step.
Also, how do I know when I am okay to date again? I wouldn't want to just rebound.
>>16775963
The other day I ate some chocolate. I went on a date and she told me to call her tomorrow, then she made an excuse but said she would love to do something, she just can't atm and then blew me off again.
What should I do? How should I approach everything? Can someone tell me their past experiences?
Stop trying to make every single thing in your life go right.
You, and every other human being in the world, did something that ended up not going to plan, despite their best laid intentions.
Evaluate your own behavior, you're just anxious, do something to relax.
General advice. There is nothing wrong with failing, but you can never allow yourself to give up.
Typically, you should wait to start dating until you are stable emotionally, there is no magic time frame for this. Just wait until you feel okay about yourself and have accepted that the former relationship as run its course. Provided there was no abuse a good metric of this is when you no longer have negative feelings toward the ex.
So I can't tell whether im bisexual or just having inappropriate fantasies. I've never kissed a girl or experimented in any way but sometimes seeing really hot photos of supermodels and just any woman with a great figure makes me wanna just do really sexual things to them... I accidentally visualise it and then wonder why It came to my mind, like I'm female and 15. I found myself staring at this girls ass it was really embarassing cos my friend saw but luckily not the hottie. I can visualise being in a relationship with a girl but I don't know if I should put label myself bi if I haven't experimented really, but to experiment wouldn't that make you bi without a doubt? Anyways bit of a long confession help!
Don't worry so much about labels. Just live your life and keep an open mind. Maybe you'll be with a girl someday, maybe you won't. Feelings like yours are common even among girls that live their whole life only in straight relationships, or it could be an indicator that you're not straight. But based on this stuff alone, it's impossible to tell, and not really worth worrying about. You're fine
>>16775944
Same like me I prefer girls but can get turned on if two guys are going at eachother...
>>16775958
but its basically what this person said, labels are pointless, just live your life
Unless you really really want it pansexual is a thing I think, tho I cant give more than two shits how my sex prefferance is called as sex is sex, If Im horny I will hump the person that is making me horny.
>be me
>21, M
>attempt to purchase alcoholic beverages
>get scolded by employee
>says too young to be in this isle
>explain age
>refuses to believe it
>shows id
>"oh my bad man"
Ive gotten tons of comments saying i look like im friggen 16 or any age in between. I didnt mind much at first but lately its kind of annoying me more and more. So my question is, how do look older? or more mature i guess?
Ive tried uppin my style and changing up my hair (used to have it long now short), facial hair comes in super patchy so i shave it, and also looked into getting glasses (i have a perscription but dont absolutely need em), yet i still get carded or commented on my age everywhere.
Just put up with it, grow a beard put keep it very short, it'll still look patchy and shitty but it should make you look older.
So, I'm a college freshman and my classes start this month. I'm creating this thread in order to receive some input as to how I should deal with my first months there. More specifically, I started taking Accutane last week, which renders me unable to drink for the next six months. I've been a social drinker for something like three years, and believe I can deal with the lack of alcoholic beverages for a few months, but I wanted to ask any knowledgeable person here in /adv/ about how to deal with the months dry and also the pressure I may suffer from my peers, since I plan to frequent parties and I know people tend to get crazy as fuck in the college I'm going to. I also plan on doing drugs there to compensate, but so far the only thing I've done is weed, and only a dozen of times throughout the last 4 months, so any input on that will be valuable too. It may seem like I'm someone who just wants to go to college in order to get drunk and stoned as fuck, but in my defense I just thought that if I'm going to experience this kind of stuff at some point in my life, it should be now.
TL;DR: Going into college but can't drink. What do?
>>16775915
By the way, general freshman advice is welcome too, if you think there's anything I should know. Your experiences as freshmen would also be interesting reads for me, so if you want to just reminisce about them here, feel free to do so.
started talking to this girl few weeks ago. we start hanging out. says she wants a relationship and pretty much tells me to fuck off for no reason? what should i do.
pic unrelated
maybe she broke with her boyfriend, started hanging out with you, but them they got together again
fuck off, there's nothing else you should do.
learn to take a hint, maybe.
Rape her, that'll show how her how much you care.
I think i'm imagining pain that isn't there. I often feel light head and backaches I think might be hallucinations. How can I tell if I'm being neurotic and if so how can I stop it?
>>16775870
Me too, since i was 5 or something. Learn to use it as your advantage, as a way to presume all posibilities. It helped me alot in few difficile choix.
It sees like all matchmaking and online dating is centered around hobbies and activities. How do I meet a girl who just wants to be a comfy, lazy piece of shit with me?
By openly admitting that your preferred activities are comfort and being a lazy piece of shit. What, did you think that winning at matchmaking/online dating was to find someone you just admitted would be a bad fit for you? That's an even worse form of losing than never matching at all.
Plenty of women are content being lazy pieces of shit. There's a reason why pic related made its way around the girl blogs so much.
>Taking advice from women
>we want nice guys who treats us well
Anyone got a website with a list of logins for accounts like Netflix, Spotify, ect?
www.lemonparty.org
I've been seeing a girl for a couple of months and everything was going great until today. She's been feeling tired and worn out lately so at the behest of her mother, she went to get checked by a doctor for anemia. She called me afterwards and told me they prescribed her iron pills to see if it would help. Then she told me she didn't think she should be in a relationship because she was still hurting from her last one and didn't think it was fair to me so she wants to take some time to get herself straightened out.
I told her I understood and I appreciated her being honest with me. I have literally no reason to suspect she's lying about anything, but I can't keep old feelings from previous relationships that ended poorly from resurfacing.
What should I do?
You should come to terms with the fact that the only truly worthwhile relationships are those between equally enthusiastic partners. When you're meant to be with someone, they'll be as enthusiastic about being with you as you are about being with them. That's not something which many people can offer. While that doesn't make them bad people in any way, it does make them poor choices for a significant other. They need time to learn honesty with themselves. It looks like your ex has taken the first step toward learning that. You should too.
When a woman rejects a man, it's his duty to accept her choice and respect it. She has no obligation to give you a reason.
Accept it and move on. That's all you can do. It's for the best, it's what nature intended.
>>16775833
>She has no obligation to give you a reason.
I never implied she did, and furthermore, she did give me a reason.
I feel like you're replying to the wrong thread.
Hi /adv/ !
So, there is this girl, i'm friend with her on Facebook, because she hangs out a lot with 3 girls that i know well since middle school, but the thing is, i've never met her irl
I know very well this is much more fantasy than actual attraction but i just find her very attractive and she seems like a very nice girl
So one day i decided to talk to her on Facebook, and it actually went very nicely
But during new year's night i fucked up (fuck you alcohol huh)
I decided to send her a message to wish her a happy new year, and she answered nicely to it, but a few hours and a few drinks later, i decided that i should be more direct and i sent her some bullshit like "i wanted to dedicate this message to your golden hair and your beautiful eyes" (don't remember exactly and i don't wanna look it up because it's way too cringe-worthy), and she answered with a very brief "you're nice ^^ thanks" that seemed very awkward
From then i didn't know what the fuck i should do to save that, because i felt so stupid i didn't want to talk to her again but to just stop talking to her would make me look like a fucking chad
So a few days later i decided to apologize and to explain it was new year and i was drunk and that i felt stupid as hell for sending this, to which she just answered "don't worry"
So yeah i'm there and i don't know what i should do to save this because i realize even after apologizing i look stupid, and i felt like i shouldn't answer after the "don't worry" because it would show that my apologies were just an excuse to keep hitting on her
Anyone has advices to save my autistic situation ?
I mean of course i don't know her irl and i'm not obsessed with her in case that's what you're thinking but i don't want her to think i'm a retard, and if i could get to know her that would still be cool
Just stop the sperging to this and she can accept that it was one isolated event while drunk.
>>16775780
this, just proceed normally
>>16775780
>>16775828
so i just... talk to her again ?
don't know what i can say after that, don't want it to be awkward and to look pushy
