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I just found out that my ex told her friends that we had an abusive relationship and now I feel like a monster.
Now never hurt her etc but there was a lot of misunderstanding, mistakes and problems. In general, yes, it wasn't a good relationship.
But what should I do?
Do you interact with her friends in any way?
>>17334198
Well its something that happens a lot during break ups, she and her friends are just in a circlejerk to make her feel better. In reality shes hurting for you man.
The question is, how much of it is right? Not like it matters, but the approach you should take on this depends on the amount of truth on her gossip. So, can you go in detail about the problems in your relationship?
Place got a job interview at sells clothes, electronics,accessories, other personal items. What are some good answers for questions they might ask?
Retail interviews ask you the same general interview questions you'll see on example interview question sites, so just prepare for those.
One oddball question you may be asked is something along the lines of "Was there ever a situation when you went above and beyond to help a customer out?"
Just make some scenario where a customer had some ridiculous request that you were able to figure out and fufill.
Make yourself sound like the greatest, phoniest do-gooder that there ever was. Too many people are honest in frank in these entry level positions...
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>>17334453
this. people think that being frank will win them points, but honest to god the interviews always pick the phoniest goodie two shoes 'im so perfect' potential employees.
>>17334458>>17334453
Thanks! That helps, i really want the job, and I'm starting to think that too. Researching about the company , trying to remember facts
I took some allergy medicine and now I am literally shaking like I had an adrenaline burst. How the fuck do I calm down?
Flex large muscles, such as quads, glutes, arms, back, all at once. Keep flexing for about 5 seconds, then slowly stop flexing.
Take a warm/hot shower.
Keep warm.
Is the active ingedient dipenhydramine? That's normal, it will wear off in a few hours. Just don't take more, you will start hallucinating horrifying shit.
Use the energy. Run until you can't run anymore, take a breather and run some more until you're burning up. Put on some music and dance. Go for a swim. You can relax later.
>"I wish you were half-girl so we could have onsen together."
Got this from a Japanese girl who I think I'm dating, but could just be my friend.
Is that good or bad? It feels more bad than good.
>>17334153
Sounds like straight from an Anime, are you being catfished?
>>17334189
Nah I've met her a few times, can't tell if it's actually a date or hanging out with a new friend. Shit's confusing.
But like the "half-girl" part sounds really bad, the "onsen together" part sounds really good.
It's got me all mixed up.
Nowadays noone abstains from sex. If they like you, you get pussy, if you don't get pussy, they're not interested.
Hey /adv/,
I was on Tinder swiping and I matched with one girl. I was thinking of how to start off the convo when she randomly unmatched me after like 20 or 30 minutes. Idk what happened but usually every girl I match with doesn't just unmatch randomly after matching or maybe I'm just unlucky this time.
I noticed she has a facebook and I found her through there cause she has a few mutual friends. Should I message her on there and get her attention or let it go?
Let. Her. Go. Less than a few percent of Tinder matches result in actually meeting. Get back to the numbers game.
She could have swiped right on every guy in a frenzy, only to later realise she didn't really fancy you after all.
She might have fancied you at the time she swiped you right, but that could have been months ago (this happens, matches aren't necessarily swiped at the same time,) and realised she needed to be more picky by the time you swiped her.
She might have been drunk when swiping you right, and regretted it.
She might just be in on it for the confidence boost and doesn't really care about actually talking to guys.
It could have...
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Absolutely do not message her on Facebook about it you autist. Just forget about it and let it go.
Op from last thread
/adv/ help me with what to say with this girl I want to befriend who just left college
>details
>likes the same music
>similar interests
I just need help on each message because I am bad at social media thanks
She talks like a retard anyone know why?
She is social anxious in real life but is still very popular, do you think she is just writing her thought flow or that its just a gimmick
Why does she text like that?
>>17334119
I dont know, the top image was probably worse because it had the shy monkey following the ahhs and wows
>20 years old.
>Never felt the touch of a woman.
How fucked am I?
>>17334078
Come back when you're 25+.
>>17334078
You know as an 18 year old virgin who's never had a real gf, it's good to know that I have at least gotten as far as spooning.
Thanks anon.
0% fucked. Stop making yourself feel bad. Go make a good life if you want to be atractive and happy.
Advice thread. Post your problems/questions and I will do my best to help. Will be here getting drunk until the Euro cup starts.
Why are buildings called like that, if they're already built?
>>17334012
Vier Stunden lang vorglühen?
>>17334045
Ask vsauce.
>>17334055
No idea
I want to be "effortlessly cool".
How do I achieve it?
>>17333985
Stop trying to be.
>>17333985
If you have to ask other people then you're never going to be
You have to master the fact of not giving a fuck, thats the main trait of coolness.
Careful with the edge tho.
4chan, help, i am an introverted little shit, who is going to spend 3 months camping without internet and with sociable normalfags.
How to survive, it's just begun and i am already nervous as fuck?
>>17333908
Odds are you'll get out of there much better or much worse.
Good luck.
>>17333920
I came to that conclusion too, right now i feel trapped and want to escape.
How do i cope with that? Plus there is "comparing myself to others" shit, and everybody is better than me at everything. I just feel i'll end up a janitor.
It's an internship kind of camping.
>>17333946
I have no idea.
Never heard if this before.
I've been close friends with this guy for going on 9 years, since we were in college. He's been with the woman who is now his fiance for about 6 years, and I also have considered her a friend since they've been together. His bachelor party is this weekend, and last week I had to bail from the bachelor party, due to money issues. Essentially, my student loans and bills made it difficult, and vehicle issues made it impossible. Since they found out that I can't afford to go, they've stopped talking to me, but not before his fiance told me that "money...
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>>17333871
Got a face book account or something with him?
>>17333882
No, he deleted his a while back. I have his fiance on Facebook though.
>>17333871
>I've tried a couple of times over the last week to talk.
text, or write a letter or do nothing. Sometimes friends fall out when someone gets pretty serious in a relationship. I still call, text or message my friends on their birthday and when we still go out for drinks and parties during new years eve or some summer nights. If you can't make the wedding just write him a message or letter and accept that you won't see your friend as often, it's not just about making...
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I am study abroad in France and I am required to create a video about my life there. Any ideas to make my video interesting/fun to watch/un-clique?
>>17333854
*un-clichéd
>>17333854
*studying abroad
>>17333854
When I studied in Florence, I made a "Recipe for Life" video series. I compiled clips and pictures of places I went every week, including my favorite meal for that day. I would talk about something culturally that I learned, also.
This would also apply to France, considering they're also nuts about cooking.
So my gf has a son from an earlier relationship.
>please stay on the following issue, don't want to discuss "dating single moms".
The issue: the father of this child has recently passed away (he had some sort of heart condition since birth..not fully informed)
Anyways, he's been nothing but a huge pain in my ass for the, give or take, 1.5 years me and my gf been together.
>Not taking care of his fatherly duties. "Only cares when it fits him"
>Comes...
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>>17333850
Are you taking care of the kid and shit?
>>17333853
I pitch in
>>17333857
Depending on how serious it's getting try to take a more involved approach as she's realising that the kid won't have a father.
I really want my girlfriend to cum while she's sitting on my face or during 69. Whenever she gets close she pushes me away because she thinks I'll think it's gross and she doesn't want to get her pillow wet. A lot comes out when she cums so she's slightly embarrassed by that. I think it's incredibly hot and I want that shit in my face.
Cool story.
>>17333840
When she tries to get up, grab her and hold her against your face. Make her cum on your face. I'm sure, deep down she's into that sorta thing
>>17333840
Sorry to break it to you man but she only cares about her pillow. When that shit's in your face fuck the pillow off and make an excuse about it being uncomfortable or whatever and let the gushing commence
Is it weird to message a girl you matched with months ago on tinder? Any femanons who would like to share their thoughts on the matter?
When I was on Tinder I would systematically go through all girls who I haven't spoken to in a month or two. My girlfriend is one of those girls who I re-messaged twice lol. I even told her about my Tinder tendencies.
I loved the old Tinder where you could create groups of people. I would have "whores who don't respond", "maybe dtf" and a "fucked" group
>>17333822
Sounds like a cool feature. I've had some girls whom i have messaged months after we matched, and they all just stop responding randomly. The ones i've managed to fuck i messaged right after we matched.
I just think it's weird, like of there's some psychology behind it.
>>17333847
I think it has to do with the way women use the app compared to men. In general, women want a relationship while men want sex. There are exceptions but in general this is the case. It's very possible that the women you matched with months ago have found a boyfriend. You also have to remember that for every girl you match with, she matches with 10 other guys.
Tinder is a numbers game so I've found it best to approach it systematically.
