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Theres this grill who i started casually talking too just as a friend last semester. We started texting and getting to know each other a lil better, and we are both busy people. She mentioned her hobbies and i mentioned my hobbies, and she said shed like to do some of my hobbies with me. I have asked her to hang out three times but I always get an excuse that shes busy or cant because she has something to do.
At what point should i just stop being patient and move on? I have reason to believe she likes me but I dont see a lot of input from her behalf
Other than...
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shes not into you
move on
>>17335420
Fair enough
But are you being snarky or you actually think that
>>17335409
If you ask a girl out on a date and she wants to go but can't, she will propose another opportunity
If you ask a girl out and she makes up an excuse for not going, without indicating when she'll be available, she's hoping you will forget to ask her out again
TL;DR: She's not into you and you should have realized the first time
Girls who are into you will take initiative after failing to receive initiative
I was sitting outside, absent-minded, when I catch a girl looking at me. I look back, and she looks the other way, embarrassed.
What could it mean?
>>17335393
Probably the same that happens to me she's thinking 'look at that fucking weird guy there... holy shit he's seen me looking quick look away'. Get used to it.
>What could it mean?
Anything
>What does it mean?
Nothing. She was just looking at you.
You should have gone over to her and asked her but since you didn't, you will probably never know.
>>17335393
she was checking you out
are you one of those spergs that cums when they touch a boob?
I have only made three posts and found out how to reply with the users number. Except I don't know some phrases and other features. I would lovemall the the advice for what not to do to make others mad with me.
>>17335381
summerfag
Not making threads like this one would be a good start.
Talk like a normal human being. Don't be a memer, we have too many of those already
>>17335381
Poast ur boypucci pls.
No homo.
What's the best substitute for social interaction?
>>17335359
Nothing, feel the pain and get out there. It's fucking shit, you'll feel like a dick 9/10 but you just gotta do it.
>>17335359
Dank memes and laser beams.
anti-social behavior
Why are social skills so valuable?
No matter how hard i'll work i'll end up on a wage-slave job? I try to avoid socializing when i can, because i never enjoy it.
Because most of the real world is built on social connections. It's what helps you get a job over someone equally qualified, it's what enables you to move up the ranks of employment, it's what helps you work well with your coworkers and get good reviews. Basically if people like you, if your boss likes you, if your coworkers like you, life is easier. If you are a neckbeard autist who can't work with anyone you are a detriment to the company and it's image.
>>17335366
>If you are a neckbeard autist
About 90% of us here on 4chan then.
Ive got news for you pretty boy. not even in a wage slave job will u escape interaction. actually it is worse there, cause you are in the down position from the start. in otherjobs u all start at the same level and interaction decides those up and down.
it is inescapable.
In one hour it will be my birthday
I'll be 25
>University dropout
>Still no job
>Still living with parents
>Only 1 friend remaining
>Hear about how the ex that dumped me still asks about me on occasion, but just as a routine check up to see how my life is going because we used to be best friends
>It's been almost 4 years since the breakup and I'm exactly the same way I...
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You'll be depressed as long as you are a financial burden to your parents and have no independence. Have you looked into apprenticing yourself to a skilled laborer or anything that would give you some measure of freedom? Of course you are depressed, you are uneducated and unemployed. But you can change that.
>I do not wish to ever feel happy again
Good. Problem solved, then. Thread over.
>>17335298
/thread
I got fired from my last job for stealing the boss's soda. He threatened to call the police, but didn't, and HR fired me.
Will this show up on a background check? Again, he didn't call the police.
>>17335276
What country you from?
>>17335292
USA
Why'd you steal a $2 drink?
How do you sharpen a swiss knife without the stone or any other equipment? Are there any diy alternatives? Like, can i do it with something you generally find in any house?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXLaE1JvQ94
>>17335257
I don't have that stuff in my house yo
>How to sharpen a knife with out any equipment?
>With out any equipment?
Buy some equipment or find a local knife sharpening service, locksmiths usually offer it.
Guys: How true is the "men just want sex" thing? I've always strayed away from dating, and I'm always skeptical when men are nice to me, because I don't want be used as some guy's fucktoy
>>17335270
Depends on the dude. I personally just want to get married and have no interest in casual sex, but I understand I'm in the minority. It should be fairly easy to feel out a fuckboy, no?
>>17335270
Is this a serious fucking question? There's probably about half a billion men of dating age in the world, of course they're not ALL just looking for sex. Fucking hell, get out there and find out. Use your judgement.
hey guys,
so i just picked up some LSD for my first trip(pic related), and i have some problems with PTSD and depression so I'm scared to fully trip for my first time, as i have no experience with LSD. i have done my research and everything, just haven't taken psychedelics before. so basically I'm wondering about a starter dose where i won't have much of the mental effects just so i can be calm and sorta know what I'm going into when i try more in a few days. should i take 50ug? 25? what do you guys recommend? I'm 140 pounds (american sorry)
i...
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>>17335217
a dose below ~100µg is usesless because you won't really get the effect.
you shouldn't do it without a tripsitter because your whole post sounds like you'll make yourself having a bad trip
you could start with an easier to handly psychedelic.
and why is the blotter plain white? where the heck did you get that from?
i hope you did an ehrlichs reagent test at least
>>17335237
blank blotters are common
make sure it doesnt taste bitter as fuck (thats 25i). lsd shouldnt have a taste, specially the blank ones
take one tab for your first time
read about SET & SETTING, basically dont go anywhere chaotic or with too much sensorial stimulation, just chill at a park or something
have fun! its my favorite drug by far
>>17335237
>and why is the blotter plain white?
I'd be more worried about this than the actual trip. Also don't go into it thinking 'it will be a bad trip because of PTSD' you're on a hiding to nowhere. Relax enjoy it, first trip I did I watched Finding Nemo, un fucking real, felt like my room was underwater. Just chill out, but DON'T do it without someone else that hasn't done it before. I once had a fucking shit time on Ketamine but being with people...
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I don't even know what to type. It's gotten to a point where there's no expectation of a good or inspiring answer.
>24 year old, half spanish, half white guy from the city.
>Not spanish enough as in I don't even speak Spanish
>Not white enough as in I don't have wealthy family/ my own vehicle/ in a university
>Did community college, saw what a joke loans are for the future
>Have had way too...
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>>17335169
Spanish or Latin American?
If you're Spanish, (from Spain) you're white as fuck. Spainyards are pale and very western and euroy. If you're from Mexico or some shit and speak Spanish that's totally different
Why not give shit an honest try first? College isn't for everyone, join a vocational program. There is a serious need for professional welders, plumbers, electricians etc. These jobs sometimes pay near $40/hr and you get to laugh at everyone with 100k in loans for their womyns studies major.
The key to starting to get a good life is financial independence. You'll never be happy, never begin to be happy as long as you rely on someone else for your day to day needs and are a financial burden.
As for the head injury, what did the doctors say? have you had...
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>>17335180
I'm actually part both. I'm not a simple ethnicity, my lineage is a bunch of race mixers. I have Italian, Irish, native American, Dutch, spanish, Mexican, Ukrainian, and Puerto Rican in me. For the most part, this just makes people not trust me since they can't pinpoint "what I am".
>>17335189
That was my father's path. Hes an electrician for Local 3 and has been trying to get me in, but it's tough. Everything's becoming...
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How do I go from a shitty small town in the middle of nowhere to a large city? I have nothing and I am nothing, I literally just want to live in some crowded apartment in the ghetto or public housing and get food stamps. Help. I don't really care if I die or get myself into a shitty life.
>>17335164
If you don't care if you die just kill yourself. Your suffering won't be as long.
This fucker again
>>17335164
I did this, I was homeless for a long time and got a section 8 voucher.
My life still sucks
My family, especially my deceased mother and still loving oldest sister abused me and basically kept me as a slave until about nine years ago. i managed to escape when Mom got terminal cancer.
Since then, my life has been public housing, shitty social service agencies, food stamps, food pantries and isolation.
I can't stop wanting revenge, my oldest sister murdered my cat, made me homeless and turned a lot of people against me because I refused to aid Mom while she was dying. Why was I obligated to help someone who held me prisoner?
I can't stop hating all...
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>>17335158
You'll never move on until you forgive these people. They still dominate you because all of your energy, all of your mind goes towards hating them. Honestly fuck your family, but you're out of there now and it's time to live life on your terms.
Give us some relevant info so we can try to help you. How old are you? How disabled are you? Did you graduate high school? Where do you live? (Don't need to be specific but state if you are an amerifag or country if you arent)
If you...
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Get some revenge by spreading rumors and/or incriminating and embarrasing photos
I'm too old to post here for the most part. I live in Illinois, a real shitty part of Chicago.
I'm slightly physically disabled on account of being close to 400 lbs.
I get disability for severe bipolar and Ptsd. I managed some college and when I felt better a few years back took some improv classes.
My neighborhood is of the hate whitey type and I don't leave after dark. I'm getting kicked out and have to find another shitty low rent apartment by September.
My stats:
>white male, 25
>top ten school for undergrad (engineering, shit gpa)
>small silicon valley grad school (very good GPA)
>two summer internships with large company in field
Why aren't I getting any play with job applications? I've applied to maybe fifty entry-level jobs in my field and haven't gotten one interview, what gives?
What kind of engineering are we talking about? Why can't you parley your internship with the company into anything?
>>17335081
This is mechanical engineering. And I could, but the internships were in chem/process, and I kinda want to branch out from that.
>>17335110
It's hard to say what you are doing wrong considering all of the mitigating circumstances that we can't know. Have you used your connections from grad school? Have you tried hitting up professors, classmates, the colleges career center? Basically it's time to cast a wide net, personal connections help tons.
After much soul-searching, I've come to realize that my self-value is too low for me to be confident enough to get a gf or get laid.
>20 year old virgin
>Not attracted to most Black girls due to their general Unattractiveness,Obesity, and trash behavior.
>Rejected by Guatemalan girl because I was black and weird
>Always felt like asian, latina, arab, and white females see me as worthless violent negroid and act like I don't exist.
>So frustrated because asian girls ignore me like I don't exist but are will flirt with any attractive non dark skinned person that comes towards me
>Terrified of the idea of holding hands with white woman in public or Reproducing with her and creating unnatural looking hybrids.
>Always feel uncomfortable in public because people look at me like a nigger who doesn't belong an urban environment.
>Even though I have the body of ancient spartan boxer, I feel like women are disgusted by apish facial features even though i'm an alright looking guy.
I literally feel like a damn gorilla trying to fit in urban society. I would move to africa but that place is a shit hole. I generally feel a bit more confident around black women, but I wouldn't want to reproduce with a black women because our child would end up developing self hatred issues unless we ingrained afro centric lies into his/her psyche.
>>17335047
>I literally feel like a damn gorilla trying to fit in urban society
>>17335047
pics
>>17335076
godfuckingdammit forgot the pic.
