I guess I need some advice. I feel like the fucking service desk guy of the world. >Everyday parents want to complain to me about how mean and disrespectful her coworkers are. >Friends come to me to tell me about their big ass problems. Nothing else. Just to complain. >My significant other complains to me for hours about how bad the world is and pressures me for answers >They start unloading their frustration on me with passive-agressive remarks sometimes Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>17336533 Once you start feeling drained, take some time for yourself to recoup. The best way you can offer help to the ones you love is first by taking care of yourself.
So I'm staying at my boyfriend's place right now. He is playing Overwatch, I am playing Pokemon/tooling around on his laptop (with permission).
I went to go start a thread on 4chan, realized I would need to use a picture to start a thread, and it automatically opened to SO MUCH PORN. Rationally I know that every man on Earth likes porn, but the thing is...these girls don't look like me. At all.
I'm fat. None of his porn pictures have fat girls. Is he settling? Should I just dump him right now? He's fucking settling. I hate myself.
>>17336510 Girlll you need to chill everybody have dreams. I'm sure he isn't everything in your porn folder. Just fucking talk to him about it, be open and don't let this shit boil up inside you
My father is over 40 years old, and still acts like a damn child. When he is harmed or breathes in something like deodorant spray or body spray he acts like a child and starts fake choking and coughing and shit. Whenever he gets mad, he makes everything into an argument, yells at everyone. I really don't know what to do with such a fucking child. I sprayed bugs in my livingroom because the house is fucking infested because he leaves the only window without a screen open and they fly in all the time. I sprayed twice to kill this huge swarm next to the lamp in the corner... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>17336507 Move out or deal with it. Bottom line is you're living in a place for free and probably getting food/utilities and sometimes that requires dealing with a little bullshit.
>>17336507 >>>17336507 >Move out or deal with it. Bottom line is you're living in a place for free and probably getting food/utilities and sometimes that requires dealing with a little bullshit.
yo im only 19 years old, but im really worried about my little sister, whos 16. my mom (who is an icu nurse herself, which is quite ironic) refuses to take my sister to a therapist i think she really needs. my sister shows some of the super obvious signs of depression, and i hear her crying a lot in her room, not to mention her eyes look sad and dead. what can i do to help her? i cant drive yet because i havent been able to make enough to afford driving lessons (even thoigh our family is pretty well off), so i cant drive her to a doctors office. my dad wont be any help either,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
A. Nurses are often control freak narcissists with low IQs and sycophantic to authority figures, therefore it's likely your mom is probably bullying your sister and doesn't want to be exposed... and she probably enjoys her suffering.
B. Studies show that psychotherapy, therapy and psychiatry only benefit 15% if the population that sees them, including those diagnosed mentally ill.
C. She's in highschool, so just a place a call to the school and ask to speak to the guidance counselor, since you're a concerned brother
D. Don't blame... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Is there any feasible way to purge myself of degenerate fetishes?
I jerk off about once a day, sometimes twice to things I'm not proud of, the only of which I'm willing to admit to is BBW/SSBBW stuff and pregnancy, the rest I'll leave to the imagination. The way my tastes are going I'll never be able to get my dick work to get laid and I just feel like a creep liking what I like. The worst part is I'm not ugly or socially inept and know I could totally get to a point where I could get laid but I'm too afraid of not being able to perform just... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>17336428 Think about what is interesting to you, and take a day and explore it. Make yourself do it - don't sit at the computer all day, don't even turn it on until you get back from your activity
>>17336426 >>17336440 It never works out. You could try some risky-biscuits friends with benefits thing with her and inevitably get feelings if you're feeling like making a bad decision. It's what I did and I've got some good memories and major regrets.
Can the no-contact rule still work if you tell your ex-significant other that you're going to do it/your reasons for doing it?
>girlfriend breaks up with me >says she still loves me but doesn't deserve me or love, that she deserves to be alone for hurting people in the past, thinks she'll hurt me in the long run >tell her that as much as I'd like to be friends right away, I'd have feelings for her >want to give her time to... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
eh I think for some people its easier than others I don't have any friends anymore. I developed schizophrenia and weirded all my old friends out. I still haven't made any new ones. Its hard when your life's a mess. But for the time being my parents are keeping me company.
Just come to terms with having no friends and avert your attention elsewhere. Don't slump around on the internet all day, learn a skill or read books. I was the same way until I did this and people suddenly popped into my life when I wasn't expecting it, it did take a while though.
I've fallen in love my best friend. The thing is she's a lesbian. She's told me she had feelings for me before. Should I still go after her? And if not how will I get over her?
If she's bisexual then it's not so bad to go for it, depending on the details, I guess.
But if she's an all out lesbian, then first try to imagine what it would be like if a gay guy were pursuing you, and if you'd consider hooking up with him, assuming your straight.
How do you guys go about approaching people in public? I plan on going to a musical venu alone and I'm not the best at it. I'm not one of those friendless types in fact I have quite a few, the thing is it's either been people making the first move on me or through friends of friends. Never quite done it myself.
Just say "hi", and talk about something with relation to the context. If he/she is worth, they'll have a conversation with you without problem, and if everything wents ok, you can get their numbers, so you can invite them to hangout someday. Just try, you won't lose anything.
About a month ago I was feeling really shitty, so on a whim I booked a flight to the US Virgin Islands for next week. I didn't really think anything of it at the time other than a get away. Well, now I feel nervous. Ive traveled a bunch before, but never by myself. I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice for me. I have nothing planned for when I get there other than my hotel.
What do you do as a solo traveler? And what is there to do on Saint Thomas for single people?
I'm not sure how the virgin islands would be for meeting people, isn't it full of rich white families? Anyways, just enjoy the scenery and visit all of the touristy spots. Go drinking and dancing. If you see cool people don't be nervous chat them up, solo travel can get a bit lonely so it's nice to make friends.
so my relationship of 3 years ended. We are both pretty emotional over it. There was a pregnancy scare and I sorta blew up. I wasn't really getting cooperation from this girl. Things really started to fall apart 4 months ago.
We both still want to hangout and do stuff together. Is this a good sign we're going to get back together?
I love her. it feels over. I think we both want to see what else is out there. but fuck I want her back. maybe it's just the thought of being single again that scares me. But I honestly had alot of feelings for her... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>17336294 >shes in school debt 45 000 >she has no full time job just part time >im not ready >shes not ready
I blew up cause I felt I wasn't getting cooperation from her. I was patient and waiting for her to apply herself more and seek full time work. I pregnancy scare just freak me out.
I'm in a similar situation and it's really scary, we are trying to make it work though. We're spending a little more time apart and working at ourselves as individuals and being less dependent on each other. If you really love her work towards being healthy rather than just giving up.
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