so my relationship of 3 years ended. We are both pretty emotional over it. There was a pregnancy scare and I sorta blew up. I wasn't really getting cooperation from this girl. Things really started to fall apart 4 months ago.
We both still want to hangout and do stuff together. Is this a good sign we're going to get back together?
I love her. it feels over. I think we both want to see what else is out there. but fuck I want her back. maybe it's just the thought of being single again that scares me. But I honestly had alot of feelings for her and I loved/love her.
any advice>?
well I dunno maybe some time jacking off alone is what you need if your not ready to get someone pregnant.
>>17336294
>shes in school debt 45 000
>she has no full time job just part time
>im not ready
>shes not ready
I blew up cause I felt I wasn't getting cooperation from her. I was patient and waiting for her to apply herself more and seek full time work. I pregnancy scare just freak me out.
I'm in a similar situation and it's really scary, we are trying to make it work though. We're spending a little more time apart and working at ourselves as individuals and being less dependent on each other. If you really love her work towards being healthy rather than just giving up.
>>17336411
yeah man. all I wanted was more planning / communication
we both love each other. she said she doesn't want to be with me again. I freaked out a bit.
but its in good reason. ive never been a bad bf. I just wanted cooperation
>I wasn't getting cooperation
Meaning...? She didn't want an abortion?
>>17336419
no . just moving towards a positive future. telling me about jobs / money. and moving towards healthy discussions on money.
shes in debit and I always encouraged her to find a full time job. and helped where I could.
