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I moved in with my brother and he's one really nasty piece of shit. Extremely unclean, moldy dishes and roaches everywhere. Brags about taking advantage of drunk sluts.
I found out he's been reaching in my food with his bare hand and eating out of some of my stuff. I'm 100% sure he doesn't wash his hand when he pisses... Anyway, I've only been here a month and the corner of my mouth my lip is very slightly swollen and it tingles. Putting hydrogen peroxide on it stings. Then again I might have just burned it alittle eating pizza.
I know...
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>>17338729
You gotta show us what it looks like dumbass.
Who is paying the bills?
>>17338754
I pay half the rent. It's a shit arrangement that's far worse than you prolly imagine. i'm working to get out of here as soon as possible
>>17338742
There's no flairup, it's just I feel it tingling, kinda like a dull itch right on that part of my lip. Its just very very slightly puffed. I'll take a pic if it helps but its really just my lip but a little very very slightly puffed part.
>make enough money to have my own place and good car
> can talk to anyone about anything, usually making them laugh
> self confident, dress well, groom myself, work out / fit
> have 0 friends
Tell me 1 good reason why I shouldn't kill myself tonight. My only real friend is the alcohol. It has never let me down
We'll all be disappointed if we can't read your followup post when it turns out you're too chicken to do it.
Also 'cause you haven't lived until you've raised a puppy. Go buy a dog.
>>17338689
you make enough money to have your own place and a good car
>>17338689
People are attracted to controversy, not things that are the same.
You have to make people feel emotional, then they'll be attracted to you.
/adv/ I need some help.
Been dealing with a bad bout of anxiety like problems the past few months. Started in the end of march although this has happened to me in the past.
Anyways I kept getting this ugly familiar yet not familiar feeling along with loss of appetite, lethargy, inability to enjoy much, and barely any sex drive. Had to stop working out and stop drinking as they made matters 10x worse.
About the beginning of June I started to feel quite a bit better and realized most of it was lack of sleep related. Started drinking again just once on the weekends and...
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>>17338674
Tldr; can you reverse sleep deprivation related anxiety with a few nights of good sleep.
>>17338674
Oh and I can't meet women
(Baiting for replys)
>>17338674
anybody ?
( random picture because I'm in a rush ) First time posting, and already in problems. Well, the thing is. My friend is being threatened by another person with sharing personal stuff like pictures and info. We have no idea what he could or woupd share and the victim doesn't want involvement of the police. What should we do?
>>17338635
There is no other choice than go to police. Blackmail with photo or some info is kinda serious crime and also if you dont go to police he will probably share pics anyway.
Is bump a thing though?
>>17338635
Yeah go to the police or threaten to go to the police (at the least, reverse blackmail) because blackmail can be a serious crime.
>walking down the steet
>Turn corner
>Really cute girl turns corner at the same time
>She looks at me and points behind me and she says "excuse me sir, you dropped your smile"
>I looked behind me and back and she was watching me smile when I realized what she said
What did she mean by this?
Does this mean I look upset? Why would somebody say that to a stranger?
>>17338620
She wanted you to sacrifice her to the one true god
>>17338620
it coudl mean she thought you were cute. it could mean she thought you were ugly and pathetic and wanted to shien a tiny little ray of brightnesss on your day.
hard to say.
>>17338622
My soul tingles at the thought of this.
Anyone ever had the feeling of a lump in your throat accompanied by pain and a clicking when swallowing?
The past week I've had a powerful cough, and I woke up today with these symptoms. After a little sleuthing I found that it might be "due to thyroid-cartilage rubbing against anomalous asymmetrical laryngeal anatomy".
Now I'm hoping to get an opinion from anyone who's been through something similar. Could my terrible cough really have dislocated cartilage in my throat? The problem seems to be misdiagnosed very often and requires invasive surgery to fix.
Do you have pain and clicking in your jaw, not just when you swallow, but all the time, whenever you move it? Do you get frequent headaches and/or ringing in your ears? If so, you could have bruxism and TMJ because of that. But this is also a shot in the dark here.
/adv/ is not a doctor, we're no replacement for seeing a professional.
>>17338592
When you have a really bad cold maybe with some temerature, it is normal that you lymphs swell.
Nothing to worry about, as long as they go back to normal in a moderate time.
I get it also sometimes.
When the sympoms of your cold get stronger and more intense then you need to go to the doctor.
>>17338602
Luckily I don't have those symptoms.
I know a professional would be the most helpful, but with the article stressing how often it's misdiagnosed I've been hesitant.
>>17338603
How long is a moderate time in your opinion? All my cold symptoms besides a minor cough and sore throat lingering have gone away, fortunately.
How do I fix my sleep schedule? I don't want to sleep during the day.i woke up at 2 am so I probably won't sleep now.
try forcing yourself to stay awake longer. Drink some coffee and stay awake till like 9 pm.
>>17338597
So no sleep for the next 19 hours?
>>17338605
What where are you from? its like 6:51 pm here.
I'm 200% shit at conversating. Apparently that's what girls like the most in their partner though. How do i learn how to hold a conversation for at least 20 minutes if not even more?
I dunno maybe try watching some people talk and figure out how they are conversing then make a hand puppet and practice talking to it at home.
>>17338586
Well, uhm that's an idea... Thank you, i guess
Bump? Any other idea? Some books or stuff like that that could help me?
In regards to that I prefer guys when it comes to romantic relationships. So many times I keep hearing, why don't you have a girlfriend yet, anon? Are you interested in any girls anon? Are you seeing any girls, anon?
I know it's none of their damn business but it's still something that I keep thinking about. Like, when's the best time to even mention that I'm bisexual?
It doesn't fucking matter.
I dated a couple guys for a year plus each and everyone thought I was gay, now I have a gf. Worst I've gotten is weird looks and then everyone stops caring again.
>>17338548
whenever you feel like it. im gay but i prefer the closeted lifestyle. its eaiser to make friends, and most of my focus is on platonic relatioships, so its more convenient.
if you wanna come out just be like 'nah but ive been talking to this dude lately'. or you can simply say 'idk' or 'go fuck urself'. whatever u feel like really.
but i recommend waiting til you have someone worth introducing to yourfriends before telling them. thats gotta be a way more fun moment.
>"Well, guys or girls for me. But currently there isn't anyone I'm pursuing."
How do I cope with loneliness?
>>17338535
Go by /soc/ and try to find a job and connect with coworkers. It's been doing alright for me.
>>17338535
Make yourself the all you need. When you've become a person you're happy with, loneliness doesn't really bother you
>>17338535
There is a native american spirit totem for the bobcat that teaches those born under it how to be 'alone without being lonely'
this isnt to say that those people who follow the bobcat are supposed to be single, or hermits, or what have you, but rather that they need extra emphasis on enjoying time alone.
but how do you enjoy time alone? well when you are young its easy to consume. TV, movies, Video games, even books. but after a while you tend to burn out on that and feel like nothing makes you happy. you've succumb to instant gratificaiton and are unsure what to do now. its like binge watching. at first it feels nice. seven episodes in you feel burn out and itchy and uncomfortable and you're moving around too much and oyu just want the episode to be over yet only so you can get to the next one.
isntead, you have to create. you dont have to be an artist, or even good at whatever it is you make. just open to growing and open to actually doing it on a daily basis.
i like to make movies. others write books. others build furniture. others draw comics. others create radio plays. others simply make silly youtube videos, or reviews, or podcasts, or blogs or articles or anything.
what do you want to do?
also, go socialize.
my dick hasn't worked properly in years. i go soft halfway through sex. i think it's because i have been jerkin it so some dirty shit since age 10, it's been 10 years now. my ego would be destroyed if i wasn't fucking chubbies. how do i put an end to this?
>>17338527
Stop jerking off, dont watch porn and other arousing stuff if possible, do more cardio (better bloodflow through the whole body, obvoiusly also through your penis)
If nothing helps and you think its something entirely different, go to a doctor, he will help.
Other question to you, would you recommend fucking chubbies?
Put your dick in a vacuum, it'll work super fast.
>>17338527
Stop fucking chubby girls. Think about it, maybe you're just not into it, dude!
Just wondering what race or ethnicity you guys think I could pass for..
if you want to know, i'll post the real answer later.
>>17338483
italian? :P
Jewish
South Euro / North African Arab
Happiness seems impossible. I'm 30, never been in a real relationship. In love with someone I can't have, been in love once before but it didn't work out. I hate a lot of people and the world depresses me. What I have going for me is a decent income and a few good friends.
Am I fucked? Have you ever felt like you'll never be happy? What can I do?
You sound like you are describing me, except for the
>decent income
>>17338477
I've been there wasted 6 year in my room in front of a shit laptop i guesse what saved me were the little friends i had they made me discover different drugs of which acide gave me an opportunity to see the world from an other point of view since then i have been a lot happier and motivated. I don't recommend it if you have never taken drugs but if you are really depressed and thinking of suicide why not
>>17338509
I've taken drugs in the past. Weed, pills, mushrooms, coke, ketamine. None of them really stuck, I don't feel like a drug person, especially not post 30. I'll have some coke a couple of times a year. Acid doesn't interest me. I do drink a lot though.
Are there any Francophone chansites?
Non, arrete d'etre un osti d'tapette criss d'osti calise de tabarnak
The 15-18 and 18-25 BlaBla of jeuxvideos.com are basically that I believe. They managed to outtroll us with their emoji meme at some point if my memory serves me right
>>17338413
But it's like a /b/ for newfags only
To all the anons that feel depressed, and are passing through a bad moment. You can do it.
>>17338318
Nice :)
Awww
Doesn't feel like anything new to me. But i wish people who use "a cry for help" as something derogatory would read it.
