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So I have a boyfriend who I'm incredibly in love with but i can only get off thinking about girls???? Is it possible to be romantically interested in one sex, but sexuallly attracted to another??
be more specific. what do you think about?
well i mean. I think about having gay sex. With other girls?? And whenever im thinking about having, yknow, straight sex, im just basically indifferent.
But at the same time I do really love my boyfriend and see myself being with him for a long time.
>>17336805
get a threesome going, you'll both enjoy it, solid relationship
I just saw my friends from 3rd grade (early 2000's, both 19) get married and have a baby aged 1.
What the fuck, while they're married taking pics at the beach and making money living a Disney "happily ever after" fairytale life...
I am on 4chan, enjoy thinking about philosophy, no girlfriend since middle school because I became weird, in solitude often, still NEET for over a year..
help, say something. I feel too much, but i won't kill myself i'd rather HELP OTHERS not kill themselves, even if life becomes very hard. so help me.
>enjoy thinking about philosophy
>>17336796
having a baby and getting married at 19 is a really shitty decision. At 19 you don't really know what the fuck you want and if you do it's probably not a baby. You should be happy you aren't tied down with a one year old kid before you even turn 20. You're still young, plenty of time to get your shit together.
>>17336879
This.
I just DON'T WANNA DO IT FOR FUCK'S SAKE...
For the first time in 10 years I feel so demotivated and reluctant to do a piece of work so much.
What do I do??
You're intentionally slamming the self destruct button. Try to figure out why.
>>17336794
Its just such a pointlessly long coursework that accounts for 20% of our grade.
The mark scheme is so pedantic and minimalist there just doesn't feel any real purpose to doing this CW other than scoring marks.
Its so easy too, but time-consuming, I honestly despise it so much. I don't want to do it, but the deadline is in a few hours.
I literally feel 0 PLEASURE from this, its so methodical and out of context, I can't do this shit man... I have a party to go to in like 6-7 hours and I'm really excited for that. Its the last day today and I am really NOT FUCKED for this
>>17336794
I mean. I'm not thinking rationally right now ofc, I've been really sloppy with work but I'm just so fucking fed up. I hate everything that's been going on this past month. I just want it all to end, and out of the sky fell this random piece of work A WEEK BEFORE THE END to do, after they fucking raped my ass with criticism and demotivation
hey /adv/ i have a problem, im always horny, everyday and its starting to be a problem, because my boyfriend isnt always horny so he doesnt fuck me. I mean i touch myself watch porn and all that stuff but i still end up being horny and unsatisfied.
And now even when my boyfriend fucks me and makes me cum, i still want more but hes is tired after like 2 rounds so back to the same thing i end up not being satisfied.
what do?
is it always like that or depending on your cycle? has it in- or decreased otherwise or is the rate of horny static?
>>17336749
Find a guy with a higher sex drive I guess. Honestly I wouldn't be able to satisfy you either
its always been like this sorry i cant reply to you 4chan is being slow
Hey /adv/, 20 year old male here. Story is super long so I hope you have the patience to read it all.
Graduated last year. In my last two years of school I went to an acting class for two years and I wanted to go to acting collage but I quit before I applied because I realized what an insane profession it really is ... Well here in Bulgaria at least. The payment (theatre) is 400 leva (204.89 euro), the whole method is backwards and filled with mindless pressure and I felt like I was going insane. So I started playing a lot of bass guitar and before I knew it I was in bands, playing gigs and all that jazz for less than a year.
I fell in love. Literally. All the things I worried about, like having a girlfriend and friends in general just vanished. I found something that resonated with my soul and I treated it like a religion. Things were going great and I even wanted to study in the conservatory but I wasn't very realistic with my own capabilities and I got real bad tendinitis in my left hand and a month ago I could barely even open my front door (you need two hands for that huge piece of... wood). Doctors tell me my hand will never be the same. And yes I tried to use my right hand twice as much to compensate my left, but I started damaging it from... well using it twice as much and I want to have at least one functional hand.
All my acting friends are too busy in the university. All my musician friends are either too busy to hang out with me, or too jacked up and stoned to be in the same room as me. My brain feels like it's rotting away, music theory was the only "science" that kept my brain busy and when I can't play an instrument it feels distant and clunky and non-applicable. I always wrote down my songs in a simple manner that rarely needed a staff and I never liked composing. I always used theory to better my jamming OVER the main idea of the song. That way it was always alive and breathing.
So here I am now, In my room, going crazy from loneliness and lack of any physical or mental activity (although I go swimming every wednesday and friday). I also have no idea what I am going to work with such a weak and fragile hand. Oh yeah and I didn't pay any attention in school so I don't know if there is any other university that I can go to... Although I always enjoyed physics, biology and chemistry (even when I had to use math and stuff), and recently I have thought of re-learning biology and chemistry because they go hand-in-hand and applying for a uni with those subjects.
So yeah, this is my problem /adv/. The biology and chemistry thing is the only idea I got for now and I would appreciate it if you gave me some more ideas. The more the better, really.
Thank you for reading the whole thing.
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Hello /adv/, lately I've noticed something is going on with me
I've been getting these weird tingly/numb sensations all over my body on random spots including my brain, tongue and face, and random sudden jolts of pain that either feel like a "stab" or a strong hug sometimes in my stomach, arm or leg usually
I've also been getting some headaches lately, and I sometimes feel pressure in my head on my brain
I also get random burning/crawling sensations, usually on my back but sometimes on my arms and legs
I've noticed that when I get the burning, I tend to clench my jaw very tight and I feel like I'm floating and I get lightheaded
Sometimes it happens after I get this deja vu feeling and usually happens when I sit/lay down and I start imagining a bunch of thoughts in my head and then all of a sudden I feel relaxed/sleepy or sometimes on edge and anxious
This one time half of my face was numb, and I also went partially deaf for a few minutes on my right ear
I've noticed my mental health is deteriorating, I'm more forgetful and I feel dumber
I also get the feeling like my limbs in ice water sometimes, or boiling water
I've also been getting some "squeezing" pain sensation on my chest, eye, lungs and heart
I went to the doctor and they said it was anxiety, but the reason I'm anxious is because of these weird symptoms
I made an appointment for next week, until then I need some tips on how to cope
I've also noticed recently my eyesight is worse, sometimes I slightly see double and blurry, and then all of a sudden I see crystal clear, but then it goes right back
I should add these symptoms have been going on seperately for over a year but I thought nothing of it, and just recently it's like they've all added up
I also notice sometimes my muscles twitch for a second or two
I've been getting less sleep, ZZZQuill helped for a bit, but I stopped using those
bump of loneliness
i dont know whats wrong with you but maybe see a doctor
Left job to move back to town here and start a new job. I am living with my mom. I am seeing alot of interest from women but how the hell would I sleep with these women if I live at my mom's apartment right now? I should wait till I move or what??
Sleep at their place or move out. Respect your mom's place.
>>17336694
Depends if you want her to hear you.
If your mom understands you're dating, you could ask about having a night where she's out.
Otherwise, other person's place
>>17336694
>>17336694
only if she lives with her mom too. difficult to be romantic, also still have to obey their rules.
18 years old dont know my vocation =/
H.E.L.P
Join the army until you figure it out
That's what I'm doing anyway
I will be honest with you guys, type here my qualities and defects, try to see what suits me
Qualities:
-Inteligent
-Funny [People say that]
-Open-minded
-good imagination
-Good talker
-Original
Defects
-Arrogant,Cocky, sometimes i think i am better than other people
-Manipulative :Its really fun this
-Procrastina
-cynical
-procrastinator
-Dont focus on one stuff
-Really vain
-Gets addicted easy: When i get something i use until i fuck myself
-Depressed and have some traumas
-Bad english SHSADHSAUDHSA
MBTI:ENTP.
>>17336692
Sorry dont have that in my country [Like enter the military and apply for some university].
The military is like hell, you loss ages of progress in there.
I seriously need to kill 2 people and get away with it.
How do I go about this?
>>17336667
Tell me your plan thus far, snd I'll help you refine it.
Hire a professional.
Arsenic while they're sleeping.
Why do people have to identify as a complete other gender just so they can wear and act in a way that is generally associated with it?
So they can feel special and unique and cry about being victimized all the time.
>>17336650
They crave attention
>>17336656
>>17336660
Bit of these. Also they feel like they're at the forefront of some societal wave; pioneers of a frontier that has no reason to exist and hasn't for millennia. Maybe these folk feel as if their identity cannot be defined in any other way but selection on classification of their own "gender," and they feel the real merit of their brainpower is in dissecting the aforementioned subject. Fuckers
>Be me
>19 rn
>I've been living with my mom and stepdad for 3 years in America, biological dad in Europe
>Today was yet another operation for him (Liver cancer)
>Mom asks me to call him
>Fuckthatguy.gif
>But why Anon? He's your dad
>O really?
Age 6 months. My dad started working in humanitarian organisations even though he always got fired because he complained about everything. We traveled in Africa for 6 years and Sri Lanka for 1. Angola: Got malaria. Congo: Typhoid fever. Mozambique: Severe skin exposure (Almost melanoma). Got 3 Malarias later, parenta never told me when or where. Sri Lanka: Civil war, almost lost my hand (As a 7 year old), parents divorce. When we get back to Europe, my dad continues traveling around the world, not giving the money that by law he should be giving for my education/food/home, and shows back in home country only every 6 months for 1 week. He enjoyed sending death threats to my mom for "not making him call his son."
>So why should I call this scumbag again?
>Almost got my mom and me dead
>Never gave a fuck
>Smoked for 30 years (I believe in 2nd hand smoke damage)
>Couple of days ago he even contacted my mom texting "Is that asshole of our son gonna call me?"
tldr My dad wasn't capable of expressing his love as a normal dad would, instead ended up being a cunt. Should I leave him to die or waste my time on him?
Call him and tell him he's a shitty excuse for a man and a father and that he's a fucking cunt. Then leave it at that.
It's best to bury the hatchet and have the last word. Call him and tell him what you told us. That you have a lot of hate for the way he treated you and your mom. You don't want to be in his life unless he's willing to change and be a proper father. Then wish him well in his health stuff and hang up.
OP Here. For some reason I still think that calling him and expressing him my feelings would be like rubbing salt in a wound. He's filled with pride about himself, and even though the one who was hurt and scarred the most was ME, I feel like unloading all my anger on him is "evil." Why am I feeling pity for such a horrible man who ruined my life? As a kid, we are all innocent. We try to see everything as fun and joyful. When my mom told me about all those events listed above, my world shattered and I went in a brief week or so of existencial crisis. However, I feel like making him experience my traumas would still ve wrong. I'm in a limbo of hate vs pity.
Alright /adv/
Major in what you love? Or major in what will get you a job?
I think I've made the wrong choice but I want to stick with it
Choose whichever and accept the consequences that may follow.
>>17336602
That depends on what you love. If it's something artistic, you probably shouldn't go to college and instead go directly into the field.
>>17336602
That depends on your priorities. There's no correct answer.
If you're intersted more in other aspects of life that are not work, stick with the one that will net you a job.
If you don't mind roughness and your future job is an important part for you, go with what you love.
For example, my priority is really getting a tranquil life, so I sticked with what got me a well paying job.
Guys, I haven't the willpower to stop fapping, but I need to so I can regain control of my life. The problem is I love the porn "treasure hunt" and have collected some amazingly hot stuff. Nearly all of it homemade amateur or webcams. The problem is my fantasies are taking over my life. I saw a pretty petite girl the other day and my first thought was "I'd love to see her plowed by a big cock." This is clearly an unhealthy sexual mindset, but I can't abstain from fapping for more than a few days. The only way I can think to break the cycle is to literally break my hand. That or some sort of sex drive killing drug. What extreme measures can I take to last 90 days?
>>17336590
Nofap is moronic and doesn't address the root of your problems. Maybe actually fill your time with something interesting instead of following a 'try this one simple trick' meme
>>17336607
Since I was about 13 I haven't gone more than about three weeks without ejaculating. I'd like to nofap and be abstinent for 90 days to let new sperm complete a full maturation cycle.
Just spend the next couple of months focusing on things that count in your life, and slowly slide into a routine of once a week or once every 3 days
Any doctors here, please help me out.
I'm a 17 year old male, who started masturbating when he was 12.
There is this problem I have been having seen the last 3 years.
It is that every time I orgasm, I don't get that awesomely-amazing feeling that I used to get when I initially started masturbating.
I feel that if this goes on, I will never enjoy sex(whenever the time comes).
Can anybody help me out please.
P.S This is my first post, please tell me if I broke some kinda rule.
Stop doing it too often.
>>17336571
>36571 ▶
>Stop doing it too often.
I don't, once in 1-2 weeks.
But when I started loosing the sensation(what is it called btw), I probably fapped 1-2 times a day, that was when is was 14.
Also what do I do, if I want to follow this post.
It's dick cancer
what the hell do you call these types of deepened pores that, when squeezed, produce a ridiculous "string" of dirt? these pores don't become infected, they don't "clean" themselves, they never tighten up - it's some fucked Bag of Holding grafted into your god damn skin
i have one on my right bicep, my girlfriend has two on her back and i've met multiple other people with Good Hygiene who also have these recurring skin pockets that seem to just exist to shit out snakes when you pressure them the wrong way
sorry, but there's no option to spoiler and /fit/ is literally just a deadlift forum
help.me
I get that shit on my forehead and on the edges of my lips. No fucking clue what it is, though i'm glad i'm not alone in this.
even good hygiene wont save you, these contain a mix of everything, fat and impurities, that comes when eating a bad diet , stressing and excessive sweating.
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