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Pls help will elaborate
>>17339028
Turn left 87 degrees
>>17339030
Thank you
>>17339033
Don't listen to that idiot, turn right 43 degrees.
Why do black people in the hood sell crack instead of coke? Is it more profitable or something? The sentence for having 50 grams of crack is 5x worse than having 500 grams of coke. You could be a major coke dealer and still cop a plea and get a slap on the wrist and just quit after but with crack you'll go to prison for years just selling enough to smoke it. Are you less likely to get arrested in the hood?
No black people sell drugs, didnt you know about the "dindu nuffin" meme?
>>17339024
Hands up no crack
theres a ton of reasons, heres a few
>more addictive
>more powerful high
>easier to price gouge by selling tiny rocks for 10 bucks a pop
>easier to transport because its rocks instead of powder
>easier to cut to shit and still give a decent high
So I recently got dumped and didn't know what to do with my life. I'm 21, just finished my degree, and I guess you could say I'm starting from a clean slate. I don't really have any friends. Just a few acquaintances from work. I also don't really have any interests, just working out. (Used to be heavy into video games but stopped because I felt like it was problematic) I decided to stop feeling sorry for myself and see this as an opportunity. My goal is to do everything I haven't really been able to do up until this point in my life: go out, make friends, meet girls, etc. I guess my question is: where do I start?
>>17339008
I am in the same situation. GF cheated and left me, I met all my friends through her so they stopped talking to me. I just want to move on but don't know how.
Most people make friends through work and school. Just chill with your coworkers.
>>17339099
What should I ask my co workers to do? Didn't really make any friends in college so my social contacts consist of them basically.
hey /adv/ i am a guy and i am kinda freaked out about my hips, i would ask this on /fit/ but im gonna get klinefelter comments and those arent exactly helpful.
at which point do you know you have big hips?
>>17338955
It may not be Klinefelter, could be Kallmann's or any number of other similar issues. Can you post pictures of them? How tall are you? Do you have much body hair aside from your crotch area? Do people regularly think you're younger than what you are? Do you have anosmia? Are your limbs particularly long?
My husband has Kallmann's, but with monthly testosterone treatment, he looks like a normal guy. Before, he looked like a lesbian.
>>17338960
my legs are hairy as fuck, my chest hair is starting to get thicker, but i can't grow a beard though
im 5'11, taller than most of my family, and im 22 but look like im 15
took a pic, the black spots are my dick (of course it is), and a birthmark that i am kinda ashamed of
>>17338963
Your hips aren't noticeably big, you're just skinny. That's going to make them more pronounced (kind of like old marble statues that you'd normally see in an art museum). You can always go to the doctor if you're worried about it, and if you do in fact have something, it's better to diagnose and treat it early on. But from what I can see, you don't have anything to worry about. Just gain some muscle.
Mu husband has noticeable hips, as in he actually has a woman's body type. He's lost a lot of weight after treatment and is building muscle, so that helps. He also has unnaturally long limbs, anosmia, and before treatment, difficulty holding an erection. After he started treatment, he lost about 63 lbs, gained some muscle, and went from having no body hair to looking like a goddamn satyr. He also has a magical beard.
I did not take any math courses in grade 12. I want to get a degree in Computer Science, preferably at University of Toronto.
Do you think they'll let me in or am I fucked? I haven't applied yet. If I took College level math in grade 12 would I have a chance at getting in or no? Thanks.
>>17338952
What did you take previously? Ya, take the hardest math you can because it will help you.
Aren't Canadian universities easy to get into because they weed out?
>>17338974
I took English, Computer Science, philosophy, French, Canadian and international law, economics and World History.
>>17339003
You never took math?
What's the best way to clean your bathroom? How often should it be cleaned?
Best way is to use SOS or soap pads. If you have a mold problem on tile you can use spray bleach. Anytime it gets kind of funky really, you have to be the judge of that. I tend to keep my pretty clean for those special occasions xD
Blast it with piss.
>>17338945
ECKS DEE
What is your motivation? What motivates you to do anything that you do?
I don't really have a good reasoning for doing anything other than the basic things to live. If someone had to ask you, what would you say? Providing for a family or doing well in your religion is the answer I've gotten a lot.
I take it a tad deeper with myself sometimes. I was overweight as a child and teen. Lost 70 pounds to prove to myself I wasn't stuck that way. Changed my wardrobe, hair, attitude, and me as a whole. I loved the attention people gave as they saw me change. Why did I really do any of that? Why do I want to fall in love so bad? Because I never have? Or has society molded me to think it's important.
I just feel like a pet in a tank sometimes. Let's discuss my friends.
I'm sorry I just have too much to say..
Deep down I truly believe life is pointless. When the sun swallows the Earth all recorded history is void. I feel like people use religion and denial as a crutch when it comes to these sort of realizations. Point being; is any of the temporary answers we try to shove into our minds worth it? I'm not saying I'd kill myself (or advise anyone to ever take that route) but what does that really change? It's a sudden heart break to those programmed to care about you and maybe some others. They'll get over the pain eventually. They'll use spiritual/religious ideals to cope and feel like you are still there. Then they'll eventually die and so on and so forth.
It's just interesting in itself enough to have these thoughts in my head. Here I am wondering the answers to these questions yet if I follow my contrariety's logic I shouldn't even bother. What an enigma life is.
When feelings flutter inside of me about women I slowly remove all of these stigma's about life and begin to live. Is that in itself a part of the meaning? Ignorance is bliss. I could live my life pretending to never have stumbled upon these thoughts. I could live the rest of my life like a worker ant. I could go off the walls and start a movement. I could keep on like this.
Back to feelings and love:
The last time I had a little thang thang with a women it was short and BITTERsweet..I'm one of those people with the "good things come to those who wait" mindset. A women I never met who apparently shared my place of employment had contacted me on social media. Everything was surreal. Same social media, same sport teams, same ideals. She made all the moves. She talked about the future. I was just a long for the ride. My point is that in the brief time we were talking I felt the least like myself of all. The feelings she made me feel were involuntarily more important than my character or what I could ever believe about life or the answers to it all. It all comes full circle to the quote. The quote I can never stop muttering under my breath. Fuck I'll probably end up getting a tattoo themed around it or something.
"Ignorance is bliss"
I didn't read any of that shit. Except the first four words.
My motivation is music
My s/o doesn't have any pictures of us on her facebook account, she used to have a few but says she doesnt know what happened to them or that she might have accidently deleted them when removing older photos so her photos only reflect her current life. This has never been an issue and i only realised recently because she has been posting a lot more photos of herself and with friends, but when i realised it struck me as strange, its not as if we never take photos i mean she has hundreds throughout our relationship and we still take silly ones time to time when were bored in bed or out somewhere but they always just sit in her phone. She does snapchat her friends of me and her together but thats about the extent of it.
Is this some kind of sign of something or am i reading into things that arent there? I'm hesitant to bring it up because it does come across as insecure and whiny, but im honestly curious as to what the reason could be or if its pure coincidence.
>>17338914
Its a sign that even tho she may like you, you arent official yet and she plans to move on once she finds better.
Sorry bro, girls dont actually love us, we're just a means to an identity. Fuck her until you find her replacement. Stop treating her right. If shr breaks it off, then she's the bitch. And you're scott free.
Either way youve lost her and she's not coming back so get over it now.
>>17338914
Do you really care about having your relationship be visible on social media?
She might be too shy to do it or something like that.
>>17339093
>She might be too shy
>posts endless pictures of her and her friends
Nah, she's self centered
He's not her "one", he's her "good enough for now"
At this point I'm not even sure about my sexual orientation anymore.
>be me
>moved to another city
>made friends with some sound people.
>dated around a lot. Most of the time was me interested in men
>was surrounded by a group of lesbian back then when i was still in college.
>met another girl in university. Got along really well. We hang out a lot before,most of the time was only two of us
>disconnected
>one day she brings a guy to my shop just to show me the guy she's seeing and ask for my thoughts. Like if he's good or bad or anything
>disconnected again since i think she is in a relationship I don't want to bother her
>quite awhile now
>she posted something on Facebook today and I commented on it. We talk again
>turned out she broke up with him shortly after that day
>make plan to hangout together
>went out Friday night for few drinks and chatting
>accidentally hold my hands,touch my elbow or my arm,jokingly hugging me etc
>I straight up and asked her if she ever think about dating a girl since i did some time before in college
>she said she's not sure but she always wanted to protect the girl something
>move on to another story
>walk me to the bus stop
>hug me really tight before i get on the bus
>wait until I sit down to say goodbye again
>texted her after i came home then say goodnight
>my roommate asked me if i went on a date cause I looked so happy
>say hell no
>but I actually am happy.
>fyi it was like this before every time we hang out.
Should I paranoid about it? Is it normal between two girls? Cause for me it's not at all. Never have i had this kind of girl-friends relations before.
You should see if you like it.
>>17338905
It's a nice pair of boobs. I looked at a girls boobs when it's a big one. So I don't know?
Bumpppp
I've been feeling depressed for some long time, never opened to someone about it.
Told my girlfriend today, first time I talk about it with someone and all she said was
>You don't really have reasons to feel like that
>You're like me, it's just that i'm way more stronger than you
And I don't know why I'm feeling way worse now. I'm going with a psychologist tomorrow to fix this shit, I don't like to feel this way at all. But I feel that I should take some distance from my gf. Tips?
>>17338839
>You're like me, it's just that i'm way more stronger than you
Holy shite, rekt mate.
damn that's cold.
do you have someone else you can open up to? maybe your mom or a good male friend or a pastor?
>>17338839
Wait.
Maybe she is right?
Maybe you are being a special snowflake?
After all you have a girlfriend so life can't be that depressing.
Has anyone ever had a calm panic attack? I know it sounds like a paradox, but its kind of like getting more of a mind high, if that makes sense. Like my nerves are having more of an effect on my body than my mind. Im getting the same symptoms i always do (mainly tight chest, a little shaky, cold sweats) but my brain isnt really freaking out. Anybody know what im talking about?
>>17338837
Its kind of like having more of a body high than a mind high*
somatic anxiety
Disassociating?
ITT: Parental Horseshit
I'm making this short and sweet.
Any other anons deal with stupid parental shit on the daily ranging from trivial topics to serious topics?
Warranted or not?
If so, please share some tips and tricks of the trades to avoid unnecessarily over the top dumbshit inflate and give parents they're bullshit victory.
Small story:
>Minding my own business on summer
>job search is shit as always
>Mum always finds opportunities to grill my ass about "Word of the day, Job".
>Craig-ing out still doing what i can little by little to get out of NEET-status.
The point: My mum's getting to a point where she wants to involve my dad whose busy out of state doing shit to get on my case about it and it's getting to a point where i seriously want to send my mom to hell over her self-righteous, "never-wrong", manipulative ass but can't cuz since she's the bread-winner all complaints go moot and mum.
Any Advice?
get
Bump
I have this girl cousin, and she is only half a year younger than me. I have always viewed her as my sister, but recently I have become sexually attracted to her, and I don't like it. Any advice
>>17338775
Just know she wouldn't do that.. Don't think about it around her?
>>17338775
Fuck her.
There was thread about an anon who started a fuck buddy relationship with his sister a few days ago.
Reach for the stars, OP
Would you ever forgive your mom for not raising you bc she had another man in her life?
Parents divorced and both of them moved to the US.
I came here at 6 and met with my mom. Asked if I could live with her and she said no.
Fast forward 20 years, she wants to pretend that she raised me and acting like nothing happened between us.
I'm 28 and it feels extremely fake when I talk or see her.
>>17338768
Tell her to fuck off and cut relations.
Shitty parents tend to forget the shit they did to their kids and then pretend that nothing happened.
>>17338773
Yea she is a nobody to me.
She now has a business and bunch of real estate.
I perma cringe when I see her trying to act like a mom.
>>17338768
Tell her she taught you exactly how not to raise a child
>help
Their are these two cute asian sister that live near me and they always walk their dog together in their tight tiny shorts and yoga pants, its fucking hot.
mathematically what are the chances i can fuck one of them. im white 6,4 23, they are both like 26 5,4. how do i go about this???
do asian girl like white guys?
>mathematically what are the chances i can fuck one of them
0%, since you have no confidence in yourself.
>>17338762
damn, good point tho.
>>17338760
Depends on their preference, asian girls generally like white guys. Also depends on your location. Amerifat?
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