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Isn't it cruel to cut the nuts off an animal? Would you do that to a person you love?
>>17332034
It's cruel to farm animals for food too, it's for our own benefit.
>>17332034
Overpopulation of animals leads to suffering...
You would rather see dogs starving in the street... over some medically performed nut chopping?
Educate yourself you fucking child, and lurk moar
>>17332071
>Overpopulation of animals leads to suffering...
So does cutting off nuts.
Ok, I need reassurance of something. Just tell me I'm a retard for worrying, please
>be a few weeks ago
>with gf in chlorinated pool
>we start fooling around and then my dick touches the outside of her vagina for like a second
>didnt cum
>her period is 4 days late now
She's very irregular, ranging from 1 day late to 2.5 weeks, am I just worrying about nothing?
youre worrying about nothing.
thats not how biology works.
Bruh have you had sex ed yet?
>>17331995
Yes, don't worry senpai
>bad dreams/stress dreams EVERY night
>wake up scared and confused EVERY night
Please make it stop
Fall asleep with spongebob on the tele
>>17331987
He's trying to -stop- his nightmares
the second you wake up
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you wake up, do this:
Keep a journal by your head and immediately write down what your dream was about in as much detail as possible, recalling as much as possible.
There are a massive number of theories as to what dreams really are. Personally, I like to believe that when we fall asleep our minds and bodies start making little repairs on the daily wear and tear we go through, and dreams are just our brains sorting through our subconsciousness and trying to figure it all out. You know...
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Would a degree in health & wellness be a good choice?
It's the only thing I'm really passionate about but I'm not sure about the job market with it.
Dude, I don't where you live, but the population is aging.
Careers in the health field are in demand and will only become more so as the baby-boomers get older
>>17331943
Jobs are everywhere, you just have to get the right internships and make the right connections.
The main job people go for with this degree, in the US and Canada at least, is health educator. Unlike the title would suggest, you're not a health//P.E. teacher in a school. Hospitals hire these people to see patients and coach them on their shitty life choices which led them there in the first place. You'd be educating patients on diet, exercise, and lifestyle changes like quitting smoking or drinking...
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>>17331956
This, but as soon as you're in get training elsewhere because that msrket is going to crash hard when they die.
Dumping some real details on my life here, so I hope some of you guys have the mental energy and good will to reply.
Around sixteen I came down with a minor deformity in my jaw, which may he correctible by exlensive voluntary procedures. Subsequently I found of how emotionally unstable, succeptible to depression, and without adequate family support I was. Around eighteen I became homeless, having left my father's home due to his abusiveness, and my grandparents'/mother's for the fact she didn't want me.
I am twenty one now, and it looks like I have solved the homelessness issue. I can also create networks of friends and attract the occasional pretty girl.
However I am equally ugly, equally unstable, and equally depressed. It feels like I went nowhere in three years. Plus, I can't make anything good out of these friendships or relationships due to all of my limitations. Beyond that, I have suicidal ideations and have been experiencing things that tend to get labeled "odd" or depersonalization. I also hate our current society.
What should I do? Continue to seek increasingly higher quality therapy, continue trying to accomplish more for society to get karma and cash, and maybe look into surgical correction of the issues I have with my face?
This doesn't sound like the worst thing; but my optimism is so gone. I feel like a crazy, worthless and ugly waste of a person.
Dude you've brought yourself out of homelessness and developed networking and social skills. That is more accomplished in a few short years than some people manage with a decade.
Everyone goes through periods of dissatisfaction from time to time. As Mike Piazza put it, "If everything came easy, you wouldn't appreciate the good times. Like success, the best way to handle it is with humility."
Keep your head up, get some therapy if you think you need it, look into the corrective surgery if it will increase your quality of life, just keep on going...
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>>17331930
im 35 and still cant make any friends or keep a girl around for more than a month... and I look pretty damn good I am told.
Unfortunately life is really tough sometimes and sadly isnt fair but you have done pretty good for yourself and you just need to keep on going. Maybe you need a new and harder challenge in your life, one that gives you a sense of reward. For me thats just pushing myself in the gym and on the bicycle, you will have to find what interests you and pursue it.
Your life is as easy or hard as you want it to be. Youve been taking your life and doing hard mode. If you can keep at it and believe in yourself, who knows how far ahead youll be able to get.
look into behavioral therapies for depression. they work really well and just bring so much satisfaction back into your life
I want to be happier in life, to care about what I do, to lead a meaningful life.
I've had a "successful" life as far as general standards go: good education, good family, good job, no debt, etc. I'll admit I don't have many friends and while not a virgin, have been single for a bit so this may factor into it. But overall, I really don't feel happy or fulfilled.
I kind of just lead my life doing mostly the same thing every day, every week. While my job is alright and pays well, I don't particularly like or dislike it. I look forward to coming home but when I do, I don't do anything notable. I'll play games, watch shows/movies, browse the net, read books or whatever else. And what more is there to do really? Most of us sleep a third of the time, work another and then you're left with only a few hours each day once chores and routine is out the way.
I'm left wondering if that's all there is to life. Do I just live on like this until the day I die? Do others feel this way as well? Does everyone go through a mild existential crisis?
Feel free to give advice or just chime in if you'd like.
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>>17331925
Oh, I feel this way everyday :( I seriously don't know what to do... Life is miserable.
What are you passionate about?
>>17331925
cheer up man!
take a couple of mins to think what do you like the most, cars, vidya, food?, whatever it is, find it and go balls deep into it
I'm very lonely, but I don't have many social skills, and I think I come off as slightly retarded or something.
Anyway, when I do talk to most people, I realize that most of the time I don't even like them.
The people that don't seem interested in talking to me are typically the ones I'd like to be friends with.
What do I do? How do I make friends? I've been on the internet for years and only made one friend, and he ditched me.
>>17331922
You could be autistic and thats not meant as a meme or insult. Google it, I have it and I have destroyed and lost every relationship I have had due to acting retarded.
>>17331922
Dubs and based Nat?!
DON'T GIVE UP OP
>>17331966
I have aspergers too anon. OP, my suggestion to you would be to go to a GOOD friendly therapist and talk about this with them. It will make a tremendous difference. Now I live a much better life. I can make all the friends I want, but women are still an enigma to me haha. Hang in there bud.
