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Is it normal for females to fantasize about being slutted out? Like fucking strangers, gangbangs, sucking guys off in public, etc. Because I fantasize about it a lot and it makes me so horny and I've heard women admit that they do too? Can any other ladies confirm that this is a pretty common thing? What does it mean? And why is it a common fantasy among some women?
>>17331227
Could you please define normal? What should be considered normal and what should not be.. I think every single person has their own views, so it is worthless to try and divide things into normal and not normal
Yeah I know a girl who is a huge slut.
She started whoring herself out on Craigslist about 4 months ago.
I see her posts all the time lol
yes its normal
how old are you?
Why are relationships a game of two people pretending to care less? What evolutionary sense does that make?
Dude Wat?
Dunno. I prefer polyamory. 3 lovely ladies all loving each other is the way to go
>>17331239
This. OP, all the healthy and lasting relationships are not a game of caring less. Did your parents have a happy marriage?
When should I ask an introvert out, we have been talking for 14 days, exchanged 450 messages on facebook, she is an introvert.
thanks.
>>17331212
>14 days and 450 messages
That's an average 30 messages a day.
You have autism.
>>17331212
Lol
>>17331240
>>17331246
What's the normal rate going on these days to getting to know someone ?
So I have a really hot body. Buff but not exaggerated, ripped 6-pack abs etc...
The few girls who have seen me naked say that I am extraordinarily sexy.
I am really introverted and I have social anxiety; I really would like to show off my body, not to be a douchebag, but I know it would get the attention of girls, and at least help me socialize in some way, and that's never a bad thing.
The problem is that I don't know how to swim (since I was 6 I've always been afraid of being too old to learn, and driven by the fear of other's opinions,...
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>>17331161
depends on your definition of douchey to be quite honest. ultimately someone is always going to think ur douchey simply for being fit. just look at tumblr.
my advice? go learn how to swim. ask someone to teach you, go on craigslist and post your concern, find a friend and confide, do something. cuz the pool is your best option. you can also always go and just hang in the shallow end and sunbathe a lot.
>>17331161
also post pics of shirtless? you ca ncover face. im not saying this to be a dick, im just a huge faggot and would appreciate some fitspiration. im the fattest ive ever been at the moment.
>>17331161
Why don't you just learn to swim, ya fuckin dingus? Literal infants can do it, I'm sure you can learn. You're not trying to be the next michael phelps
Weight
I'm 209 and I'm trying to get down to 170 I've been working out tunning drinking water etc I really want to get it off this summer at least 10-12 pounds... As for eating in portion. Meals and. I'm eating veggies and fruit I just want this fucking weight off of me any adv?
THERE IS LITERALLY A FITNESS BOARD ON THIS VERY SITE HOLY SH
>>17331131
>i literally only eat fruits and veggies why wont i lose weight
be more honest about your eating habbits.
>>17331145
This. Please go read the >>>/fit/ sticky in it's entirety.
Then
1.) download myfitnesspal
2.) enter EVERYTHING you eat/drink every day accurately
3.) stay within your daily caloric allowance (500 calories below your TDEE)
You should lose about 1 to 2 pounds a week this way. So 4-8 pounds a month.
I'm about 8 days away from becoming homeless. If I lose my home, I lose my car and meds. I have no family. I've already applied for literally hundreds of jobs and heard nothing back, was denied disability because I had less than a year of medical records, and all of the local charities seem to be bone dry. I'm about at the point of just giving up. Any advice?
Ask help from church or your friends.
>>17331094
whore yourself out if you have to. call whoever owns the home (bank) and as for a defferment if you can. go to the bank and ask tot ake out a line of credit to make ends meet. etc.
>>17331181
Talking to the bank seems like a good idea actually, thanks.
I have a bad bad habit of screwing myself unintentionally. I just shut out my boyfriend of 5+ years and love of my life because I'm a selfish piece of shit and couldn't accept a few things he wasn't willing to change for me. Now I just want to add fuel to the fire so I can kill myself. But he is still the only thing stopping me even though he won't speak to me. I still want a future with him..we're just so different. What do? Please help.
Please...I really need some help. I don't have anyone else to go to. All my "friends" don't listen to me.
>>17331117
Yes but you'll have to elaborate, can't help you with so little details..
>>17331090
So your boyfriend said no to you and now you're threatening to kill yourself?
wow
>what do?
Listen to what your friends to you; Grow up
Please tell me how can I earn $1.5k this month
>>17331080
Work 40 hours a week for 4 weeks at $9.38. This is gross obviously since taxes and all that vary heavily.
rob a bank. You wiull earn a lot more than 1,5k
>>17331080
let a different homosexual suck your dick for cash each day. you make at least 100 bucks, at most 200, often 150. you can even throat fuck them hard and they get off on it so you work out your frustrations of being a whore on them.
Hello, /adv/. Ever since I was young, I held my pencil incorrectly. No teachers ever corrected me - thanks public education - and now I'm nearly thirty years old. My penmanship is awful and everything I write looks like a five year old wrote it.
I need to learn how to write better. How do I do this? I mean, I've read guides online and they all show how to hold a pencil correctly, but I'm fighting 20+ years of muscle memory. Trying to hold a pencil correctly feels wrong, and no matter how many times I practice, I keep reverting to what I'm used to.
Holding...
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Writing comes with habit. So if you make it a habit to write a different way your writing will change altogether with time. Yes of course repetition is key.
Is there anything you need to write that actually requires good calligraphy/handwriting? Seems like it's a dying art form.
>>17331105
A few years back my father died. Everyone signed a display that had his portrait on it and left a message. It was kind of embarrassing. It's the thought that counts at that sort of thing, but I know people judged the hell out of me.
So, Im an alcoholic. Tried a lot to stop, medication, training, but I keep falling back. It's not that extreme but I fuck up my job at least once a week because of it.
Any tips how to stop drinking or start drinking responsibly?
>>17331067
LOL
dumbass,
Just stop drinking, its not that fucking hard to not be an addict. I drink and smoke weed when I feel like it but just don't let it be a fucking problem and you won't be a fucking idiot.
Have you tried AA?
Psibocylin (magic mushrooms). Shit's more effective than 50% of other therapy forms combined. Order from the deep web.
>After 3 months of searching and submitting 50+ applications I finally got a good job
>just started
>have been planning trip with boyfriend for over a year saving up everything we have for it
>it's a much needed trip, we are both at our mental wits end and this has been the only thing we've been looking forward to in our shitty lives
>do I ask boss with the truth or with a family issue lie?
I know it...
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>>17331064
Don't lie to your boss you idiot.
If you make it clear these are plans you had made months in advance and would lose a lot of money backing out of, I'm sure your boss will work with you. Don't start lying, it sets a bad precedent.
>>17331064
You should have made it clear that this was planned during the hiring process. Most companies would have promised you the time off then if you were worth hiring. Now it's a shitty time to ask and you should postpone until you have some vacation time.
>>17331101
this
you should let the company known in advance if you have any big trips coming up in the near future - if you're not a fuckup usually it doesn't matter and you're not in a situation like that
Anyone else wonder why sex Ed is taught in school but standard opposite sex dating abd socialization isn't?
I learn through studying and books and examples. I don't learn by doing. As a result I am socially crippled. I can't have a girlfriend because I have no idea how to meet or approach women and my hobbies are make dominated.
I just wish someone would have taught me this shit earlier. We teach all these borderline useless shit line calculus but no one teaches you how to interact with women properly in such a way that you can MAYBE have a relationship?...
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>>17331047
men have been wondering this for hundreds of years
you'll learn the same way they did
the hard way
by fucking up a hundred times until you find a girl who likes you so much she doesn't care how shit you are at talking to girls
>>17331047
> Why is opposite sex socialization not taught in schools?
That's what YouTube is for.
Seriously, this is not hard stuff. You get a million in the bank, you get a Lexus, you get laid. What's the problem?
>>17331047
Because school system is rigid and adapts slowly to such social issues while the problem in this scale is recent and largely unstudied one.
Even as little as 10 years ago socializing was a thing that just happens. Everyone competent enough to put food to his table would be socializing a lot naturally. Be it in school, during hobbies or general life. But all that has changed really quickly over the past couple of years here.
When I was in middle school we did everything in class, group works were common and attendance was mandatory. When I wanted to talk to my friends I would ride a bike to their place, if I wanted entertainment I would ask my friends to come to movie with me or maybe go to their place to play some games. Even video games were played either in hotseat or with several controllers.
If I want to talk to my friends today I will use a phone, you can do most of your school work in the computer from your home and video games are played over the internet with faceless people.
When my parents were working they would have to go to a work place to earn money, when they go to the store they would talk to people who were familiar in their village.
I work from my home in the internet, I live in a faceless city with faceless people too where interaction is discouraged as any time invested is lost in the sea of people you might never meet again.
Women and men had less options because the amount of people they could realistically know and compare the opposite sex to was very low.
Today you can instantly compare other people to literally millions trough dating apps, mass media or social networks.
Simply put the availability of choice on men for women is turning society back towards 1 man for 5 woman standard found in many animals. For men technology allows you to get trough life without meeting a lot of women (or people in general) resulting in lower social skills across the board which again dissuades women from picking outside of the top 20%
Okay right now I'm in the mall and trying to buy a bikini. My budget is $100. I am 5'4" with very slim build.
Haven't shopped for bikinis in years. What the fuck is this bullshit? You have to buy each piece separately? Where do I go? No dice on Macy's, boscov's and Sears
I have no fucking idea. Go to all of those stores and ask for help. Good luck.
Nobody is going to be able to tell if you go to Walmart or Target, the quality and design aren't really that different.
If you usually wear pants and haven't worn a swimsuit in a while, watch out for thigh chafing if you don't have a thigh gap. I made that mistake when I went to the beach last week in polyester swim shorts.
>>17331030
>swimsuit
>SEARS
are you 40?
Victoria's Secret/Pink has cute ones for under 100. If you're really looking to save forever21 and H&M usually have matching bikini sets. If you're really into Macy's/Sears type stores target has way cuter ones meant for slimmer and younger women.
So, I stopped using shampoo two months ago and my hair looks pretty good.
Are there any bad side effects of not using shampoo?
>>17331024
You smell like ass.
>>17331062
Can anyone confirm this?
I thought oil build up was a result of overwashing and scalp dryness
>>17331062
Not true, at least not for me...
What exactly is it that makes someone "cringey" or neckbeardy?
Asking because my girlfriend thinks I'm really cool but have "cringey" hobbies and fashion and I'm not really sure why certain hobbies or activities are frowned upon whereas other similar ones are fine. I'm 27, she's 24. She says I can change to be normal whenever I want and it's weird that I don't because it's like I'm choosing to be fucked up.
>>17330994
First off, what are your hobbies? I'm guessing some combination of vidya, comics, or anime but some specifics would be nice. Regardless though this seems like a petty thing for her to concern herself with.
Fashion is a more reasonable complaint. Maybe ask her for some tips.
Sounds like a healthy relationship.
Being socially retarded, fake/super mainstream, or trying too hard to be different/popular/interesting
Idk about cringey hobbies. I guess MLP, religious bullshit, sonic the hedgehog, and Boy Scouts?
