>>16852516
Borderline, family.

She's a nut, she's crazy in the coconut. What does that mean?

>>16852516
u need to sever all connections to this girl right now. she sounds like she might break into yr house one night and brutally murder u in yr sleep and get awyt with it.

>>16852523

This girl needs therapy!

>merely psychosomatic

>>16852504
>I am not a full on gay
>literally everything in your post
Choose 1. Do you live in an anti-homosexual place or something? You could move if it's such a big part of who you are.

Hard to say how you're gonna stop hating yourself without knowing what the issue is. When you grew up did people actively tell you that being gay is immoral/wrong/sinful? Or is this your own development where you've, for some reason, decided you don't like being gay?

Frankly I think all this will pass when you get some dick in you from someone you like.

>>16852518
I have periods where I'll only date girls, only jerk off to straight porn, etc. Believe me, eating pussy is always enjoyable for me and I've had nothing but good sex with women in the past. Sometimes though, I wonder what sucking a man's dick would be like, or kissing a man, or grabbing a buff man's ass like you would a tiny girl's. sexuality is weird, you know?

>>16852527
my older brothers are all pretty massively homophobic, I live...
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I bet it's easier than writing about things you really care about, seems to me. As a job.

>>16852498
You'll be discovered and executed for heresy without due process. But yes, I imagine you could.

>>16852529
I hope you're being ironic

op here, not much left
>start using drugs to block it away
>start crying less and generally feeling less emotion
>still wont kick out bf

What should i do?

That's a lot anon. I think distancing yourself and your brother from mom is a good idea. I'm not sure escapism is gonna help you but that's of course very easy for me to say from here compared to where you are.

The entire situation seems to need outside intervention to me.

But why does your brother have to come home to that abusive situation? It's no place for a 10yo or anyone really.

>>16852568
yeah i know its not good for a 10yo, but atm there isnt actually a place he can perminantly live in wales, and my mum is trying to find a way to just go up and get him

Just hide behind 7 proxies

>>16852455
Don't. Just have your girlfriend stop engaging him, assuming she isn't enjoying the attention.

If she is, dump her that's fucked up.

>>16852455
yr plan may work and he may go to jail, but then u might for posting his dick pics...

Obviously it's something, you dense fuck. She wants to help you win. Let her in.

>>16852466
B-but the last time a girl was nice to me like this she lied to me and then rejected me.

>>16852470
And my mom pushed me into a wall. I'm not saying get over it, but a fact here is with this situation, and you must consider the immediate circumstance, is that she is approaching you. The kitty wants you to pet it. Give her your time and attention if you want to flirt and date, but aside from that, don't look a gift horse in the mouth. She is assisting you. Why resist?

>>16852428
>woman
>ever knowing about willpower
I'm laughing. Why would any of them ever need to develop willpower if they'll always have guys pinning after them and telling them they're special/interesting? They literally don't need it.

>>16852428
I hauled myself out of depression by getting a firm grasp on cognitive behavioural theory.

Does this qt talk about that? It's great shit.

>>16852451
Please crawl back into your /r9k/ hole, troll.

>>16852422
Answer this first, and everything you need will come: can you draw a caricature of the girl in question?

>>16852422
Gym

>>16852422
Ask her to fuck and get rejected. Once you know for a fact it'll never happen you can move on.

>>16852413

>how do i ask her out more

by asking her out more

>i dont want to seem needy

is it better than seeming like you dont even care about your own gf?

if i were you id just explain that becasue of the way her life runs its easier for you to just wait around cuz you're always free when she is, but not vice versa. but if you have to start making moves. just ask her to hang out every week, this isnt rocket science

OP you should consider when you want to see her. Always ask her out then. Consider how much she has been asking you out and see if you're gonna match that or not.

Clingy. Dump her. Sounds like you don't like her that much anyway.

>>16852383
Go to the ER. Otherwise there might be some free/cheap clinics around you for poor people.

>>16852391
there isnt free clinics that i know of..

do you think i can afford a fucking 500-1000 dollar ER visit? i dont have insurance.

i need solutions that are under $70 max

>>16852391

>ER

the emergency room is like 400 dollars a visit WITH insurance. dont go to the ER OP.


as for what you can do, you might have to shell out cash. though for bronchitis itself, anti biotics arent really recommended. all this being said

>there are free clinics, google to find them in your area
>there are cheap clinics (here in hollywood they are 75 dollars a visit, plus a visit, but they can bill you...
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>>16852369

depends. you're treating this like its going to be a simple process, and its not. if she doesnt agree to whatever terms you are laying out (such as her being kicked out of her fucking home) then its going to result in a very long and lengthy court battle.

while the divorce stories arent as bad as they seem to be in comedies and other fiction, they do tend to favor the woman. shes not working, which implies that you take care of her. therefore when she gets divorced you have to keep paying for the...
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Well here's the back story and why I'm thinking of divorce, >>16846036

>>16852377
Well the thing is, she doesn't really have a place to go... Kinda, her mom just got out of jail for drug related charges and right now is at a Midway home. Her stepfather lives in Florida, we live in Virginia. There's really no good life that she's living. I make enough to pay rent, car, insurances and phone bill. We don't live in an apartment or home, I'm renting a basement because that's what we could afford when she stopped working because of her pregnancy. So not really a flashy life to be honest.

try to make it a threeway. if that doesn't work, go for the second girl, or no girl.

generally speaking going for the girl who left you for someone else is just going to lead to them doing it again when they meet ANOTHER osmeone better.

>>16852332
I'd be very wary here fampai. I'd immediately suspect they want to kill me and fuck the body.

Involve a fourth party and see what shit they pull. Also change your locks.

I'd love a 3 way but they both hate eachother

>>16852305
So here is why im lost
>My ex and I clearly want to be back with each other?
>But we are not on the same page?
>There is no good communication?

So how can you CLEARLY know that she wants you back and vice versa?

>>16852305
No man ever steps into the same river twice

16852322 becuz she contacted me after 3 years and she said she misses me . i try to talk on the phone but she wont be straight forward. she has pictures with teksts that refer to me, she trys to tell me things trougt pictures like wtf is that shit!!! all i want is her to just straightup tell me. or should i go and meet her is person cuz i dint see her still.

Im never on this board but i need advice FUCK!!!

>>16852303
http://www.smartplasticsurgery.com/plastic-surgery-guide/plastic-surgery-risks/

I'm going to get a hump reduction this year too I think

What are you doing?

>>16852339
Ya my nose was a hump, and my chin is a little recessed.

Michael.

>>16852280
What's your Chinese name?

>>16852280
Mark.
Matthew.

Honestly senpai I'd go with John. Best name in the whole bible.