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Greetings, I would like advice regarding which area to post what is commonly called an AMA or "ask me anything".
I am what you might call a visitor, not from your "planet".
You can post it on my arm below my Ask me anything tat
How do you guys manage to not think/care about your partner's previous sexual partners? I think about it alot, both when we are together and when we're not.
Currently dating a girl who has slept with around 15 guys at the age of 23, while I've only been with 4 at 25.
I know I'm decent in bed, but at the same time I know I have an average to below-averaged sized penis.
Have any of you managed to rid yourselves of these thoughts?
>>16854033
you're right to dwell on those thoughts, its a big problem
you're dating a slut. if you're not ok with that you should be looking for a new relationship not trying to suppress your natural response to the fact that your gf is a slut.
>>16854035
Not sure if serious. But anyway: I also think that 15 is a large number, but if i hadn't been in a relationship for many years, and had the possibility to have sex with 15 women, I sure as hell would have done that. So wouldn't it make me a hypocrite to judge her a slut?
>>16854033
>15 guys at the age of 23
Yea i would just feel like the flavor of the week as well
i didnt sleep all night
should i stay up all day and sleep on time or sleep during the day and maybe fuck up my sleep cycle
Try to stay up all day and go to sleep early tonight.
I know everytime i'm in this situation and give up for a nap midday i feel awful afterwards, + fucks up my sleep cycle
Does anyone else here want a simple job even if it's low pay?
Nope.
I have a simple job with no pay. It's alright.
When you do a complicated job for long enough it starts seeming simple
But yes having to use my brain too much is tiring
I want to put some leftover potatoes into a chili I'm gonna make later this afternoon. Can I mash them into the tomatoes to make for a more creamy basis or is it better to just cut them into small pieces?
Small pieces, but depending on how long you leave them in there or how long they were already boiled for... It'll probably all end up the same.
Other than stuff like being a waiter or like selling magazine subscriptions on street, what are the part time jobs that you talk to people face to face constantly?
>>16853975
I manage a boutique as a part time job while I'm at university.
There's a lot of face to face communication, but you already have to be pretty good at it to get that kind of job so if you're looking to practice and improve you need to already be at an above average place.
any sales type job thats not telemarketing. I'm a jewelry consultant and my entire work is customer service and selling, face2face with guests at every moment
Any customer service job or retail store. If it has a cash register, you're gonna be talking with people face to face no matter what job you have within the store.
>tfw little asian girl with crippling social anxiety, spend all day playing vidya and crying myself to sleep
>tfw bf is an extraverted social guy with girls wanting to suck his dick left and right
Why is he with me? How do I get him to keep me?
>>16853958
>Why is he with me?
Prolly he likes you.
>How do I get him to keep me?
There's a saying that women marry guys hoping they'll change and they never do, while men marry women hoping they wont change but they do.
Just... be yourself.
>>16853958
l'm in literally the exact same situation as your bf, except I'm not in a full relationship with the girl yet and I'm still trying to get her to warm up to me. she is a math major and a tiny asian girl. I know she likes me but she's so shy I'm going slowly with her. I'm a 6'4 white guy in college with a high paying finance job lined up, and I'm extremely social, though I do enjoy time alone. girls flirt with me all the time and when I walk around I constantly get "the look" from girls.
I dont know about your bf specifically but I can write what I see in her and why I care about her so much.
first off her shyness and low self-esteem is a huge turn on to me. shyness and passiveness is extremely attractive to me in a girl, and a big part of femininity. it makes me want to protect her, to make her feel safe and open up around me. I think on some level it makes me feel comfortable that she wont cheat on me too, as her reservedness is like a barrier that keeps her to me and me alone. being small just adds to her femininity, especially with her long flowing hair. it makes me feel like a man.
second off cuteness and personality. you fuck hot, but you marry cute. she is so fucking cute and it is exactly what I want in a long term partner. she is not some huge breasted girl with busty lips and that isnt the kind of girl I want to be dating. I see those girls as sexual objects and not as partners. cute and smart is what I want to be around, and most of the time we aren't having sex. those girls never develop real personalities and are usually awful to be around and to talk to. she really listens to me and actually has something to say about what I say to her. she's fun to talk to and I genuinely respect her perspective.
I could keep writing for a long time of what I like about her, but what I can say for how to keep him is (ctd next comment for length)
>>16853977
-be yourself, he chose you because you're what he likes. yes you are something to be desired. you mean a lot to him and he's with you because he cares about you.
-make him feel like a man. come up behind him and put your arms around him, nuzzle your neck into his chin. cuddle up against him. rub his back.
-be cute. leave him notes. surprise him with little things. make him food. you will melt his heart.
theres more to write here too but those are the big 3 that come to mind
I am 25 years old now and I can't find enjoyment in any of the things I used to. I just can't do them anymore.
I can't want to watch movies, read, listen to music I once enjoy, and nothing can grasp my focus.
Has anyone else experienced this and does it go away?
Its been progressively getting worse since I was about 23, and I have been actively trying to force myself into new hobbies but to no effect what so ever.
It sounds pretty petty I know but it's just numb and I don't know of anyone else that is having any of these...
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Depression
You could enjoy classic Ice Cube films. They aren't magic (or are they!), but they do turn the storm clouds into an overcast day.
>>16853935 is right, it sounds like depression.
Is cardio and eating better enough for a woman to get in better shape and lose weight?
If no other issues then yes.
>>16853919
yes thats literally all you need to do, losing weight is all in lowering your caloric intake, and cardio is enough to tone your main muscle groups. you're not like a man where you need to build muscle with proper lifting, you can if you want but its not needed.
>>16853919
Yes.
Hi whoever is reading this,
I need a little advice to see if this person is interested in me. Here's my story. One day I was walking to the classroom in which everyone usually catches up with reading and homework. I walked through I the door to sit In the desk that I usually go to but, this girl I barely knew sat in the desk next to it.(BTW our desks are next to each other in pairs). When I sat down I didn't have other things to do so I started drawing.later, the girl and I started talking for a bit until she asked me if I had a cell phone. She asked if she can...
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Meet up with her before class; see if she wants to grab coffee before class etc etc.
small steps but keep the conversation going.
be cool
>>16853932
Thank you very much
>>16853952
yeah dude just call her and see if she's free or sms her
also ask questions about her and be interested in her
just keep doing things together, become friends first
What is the point of it all if I'm just going to die anyways, so let's do drugs and rape sluts and no control over is
Please help
>let's do drugs
This is acceptable. Drugs are a popular topic of many classic Ice Cube films, such as Friday (1995), Next Friday (2000), and Friday After Next (2002). With self control, recreational drugs relatively safe depending on the environment at which they're done.
However, rape isn't okay. Just because you're upset with your life does not mean you get to ruin the lives of others.
Anybody here successful at nofap? How did you do it?
>>16853882
what is your goal from nofap anon, because almost all of the claims are bullshit
the only thing nofap will do is make you try harder to get in a relationship since you'll be horny all the time
>>16853886
You can't say it's bullshit since everyone has their own subjective effects. Even if it's placebo, that means it still works sometimes. I did it before and noticed my own set of benefits. Now I find it hard for some reason.
>>16853882
get pussy nigga
I've always been afraid of interacting with online communities out of a fear of not being funny. Finding 4chan was cool because I could just go nuts knowing that if I say something that falls flat (which happens frequently) it wouldn't ever be led back to me. But still, I've always wanted to actually develop a good sense of humor. Do you guys have any advice or tips?
>>16853872
God, I know how you feel. Just now i tried downloading several friend-making apps, but they turned out to be dating apps. I'm too scared to type anything to anyone privately. When will this end??
>>16853889
I don't even know what you're getting at here.
Ok so I had this weird dream I can't find anything on the dream dictionary about these things so I need someone's help interpreting it.
>>16853866
Your brain does weird shit when you're sleeping. Don't mean shit.
/thread
Summery it involved bulma black gangbangs the end of the world and a game show in the theme of undertale gameplay
Also not a troll this I'd weird as hell and idk what to feel
Constipation.
I work hard. Is it so much to ask i be allowed to shit more than once every 3 days?
What do /adv/
>>16853852
Medication, high fiber diet, prunes/prune juice, more exercise, more water consumption, avoid sedentary hobbies/lifestyle.
Go see a doctor if its that bad.
Go eat some red papaya
