>>16855308
Hs is full of kids and if kids screw up they get a slap on the wrist or help.

Uni is full of adults who are expected to be able to fend for themselves. Barring gross misconduct you will see no intervention whatsoever.

If you're used to dragging your feet, you will crash and burn.

In college there's a much wider expanse of opportunity. You can conceivably take many different approaches to your life. The structure mostly comes down to your choices and your ambition. That having been said, one of the choices is to stick around the people who act exactly like they did while in high school. There would honestly be no major difference in your life whatsoever if you chose to hang around them.

My college life was way different than in high school. Lots of impulsive decisions, lots of adventure. The only overarching decision I made was that whatever...
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As a 21 y.o. Guy with a high sex drive and who used to party a shit ton like that, yeah there's a good chance he's hitting a hot piece of ass on the side, no definite evidence obviously, and he could be completely innocent, but I'd keep my eyes peeled if I were you, I know being in his situation I'd probably fuck them if I wasnt getting any from my gf and if they were attractive I probably wouldn't hold back at all.

Throw alcohol in the mix, and even if he knows it's a bad idea sober he'll still probably do it. That's what the...
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>>16855303

>Dates Chad
>Complains about Chad being Chad

>>16855333
Nice trips

Thank you for the input, anon. I'm scared of that happening so I've been holding myself back from getting really attached to him. I told him already that his drinking bothers me and that I won't take our relationship to the next level because of this.
Also how can I keep my eyes peeled since I don't have interest in his partying lifestyle? I'm supposed to meet all his friends soon but I can't always be with him when he goes out. He gets drunk + he is often in very...
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Fuck it. Finish school, get your own insurance. It's only a trip, not the end of the world.

The best solution to home difficulties is employment and detachment. Work your ass off, ensure you are studying a PROFITABLE career track and move forward.

If you ever have kids, don't put them on your insurance. They can drive a beater and get liability only. Millions of people, self included, do just that.

>>16855294
Find an airline that flies into Destin–Fort Walton Beach Airport or Destin Executive

I'd try Southwest

850 fag representing

>>16855294
I fuckin love Destin.

Haven't been in 10+ years.

Is it still dank down there?

Who fucking cares just do shit ya fucki g retard

>>16855287
This shit isn't fun anymore, that's the problem

It's getting boring and exhausting

$10 says there are things that you're turning down for made up reasons, when in reality you're just anxious or insecure about trying them. You'd probably enjoy the shit out of being amazing at something very difficult or significant, but the challenge can be a huge turn-off. Get over it. Do something worth living for if you're this desperate to find meaning in your existence.

Just get on with life, unless all you do is browse 4chan all day. Tbh you should put you're mind on positive things

>>16855282
it's a small world, there's a chance you'll run into her again at some point

I have no idea what PSD is, but tell them to fuck off.

>>16855277
What are your grades like?

If they're shit, SPD is probably the excuse your parents are leaping to.

Why do they think you have SPD, and what on earth do basketball and your friends have to do with it?

>>16855275
I'd say it's more of a wake-up call.

>>16855275
it's both funny and fucked up. you should probably quit before it escalates to something that isn't funny and is just deadly.

>>16855273
If you have to ask, then yes.

>>16856221
perfectly said.

>>16855273

If you're attracted to the opposite sex, and they look and act like the opposite sex, then no of course it's not gay. Who gives a shit anyway, fuck whomever you want. Only insecure little babies get their panties in a wad over whether they're gay or not. Go, be free.

are you bi?

I've come to terms with who I am. I know what I can and cant do, but over the last two years it seems like an increasingly bigger subconscious part of me won't have that. It's started to emerge in every social situation I go into. It started off as me trying to act a certain way, to copy what I see other people doing to be succesfully social, to just be able to blend in and operate without tension in my job and daily life. But somewhere along the line, it's like my fake persona started taking a path of its own. I know too many people to keep track of now,...
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Recently though, I've started to despise what the driver's become. He's riddled with narcisism, everything he(I) do or react to is ocused on me. Or not even so much that as, I'm focusing on how I'm going to react, what everything means to me, what I can get out of my current interaction, or jsut obsessing over how good I(he) has gotten at fooling everyone into thinking I'm a real person. When I lay down to sleep, I think of all the things I said and did to be socially acceptable and I fucking cringe, I want to cry and beat myself for what I've become. and it's at the point where I cant control it anymore. I'm fully aware of what's unfolding, what I'm becoming, but every time I open my mouth I'm powerless to control the spastic cringy fuckwit that relies on other people's reactions to satisfy my narcisism. Everything Ido is centered on trying to get people to notice me, but its not even me they're looking at. The only times I ever feel like I'm showing other people who I truly am is when I'm online.

I'm losing control. My emotions are slipping away from me, and the other me is getting bigger and louder every day. I've become the popular mega tool that I despised so much throughout my life.

What do I do next? Am I Cracking apart? Is this some type of schizophrenia or something? I'm desperate, I'm lost, I have no idea what I'm doing anymore. All those years of precise control and observation are going out the window. What comes next?

You are the awkward one. I have no idea how I'd reply to that either. Thumbs up emoji too, maybe? It's a pointless thing to say and it doesn't call for any obvious response.

>>16855210
You say you weren't flirting but it's pretty obvious by your substanceless message and emotional reaction that you expected some response from her indicating that she likes you. Be honest, do you really have a gf?

>>16855229
I have a gf I honestly I wasn't haha, I was pretty high and thought it would be funny seeing as the response was pretty blunt to this guy, felt bad for him even If he's done no work. Guess it just seemed weird haha my intention was to be funny, I don't want to get with this girl

Bump, help an insecure bro out.

>>16855198
Gigantic red flags the size of Texas senpai.

Evacuate immediately. Say it's you. Say you have the trust problems. You sorta do cause you looked through her texts.

Eh, sounds pretty sketchy to me mate. Though you can't really be sure. If she doesn't say anything about him, though, that's probably a sign. All depends on her type of personality.

Your not missing out on anything, just like yourself.

>>16855201
I don't know what to tell my gf

Bump please.
This sounds stupid, but I need guidance on how to talk about this. I don't want to not trust someone by not telling them, but I don't want to tell them if it makes me less attractive.

>>16855185
>new relationships/friendships
>new
You don't. Before people get emotionally invested in you overtime, they will back off if you aren't happy/chill 24/7.

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>>16855646
Thank you. That's very reassuring and helpful. Thank you for this post.

Just because she flirted with you doesn't mean you own her....

Have you actually done anything more with her? Like gone on an actual date?

Even if you did, she's still free to flirt with whoever the fuck because you still don't own her.

On top of that, some people are naturally flirty and you either come to terms with that, or you don't and you find someone else with whom you don't get jealous over every little thing about.

BTW, I do not want to be with her anymore

>>16855181
What relationship do you even have together dumb frogposter?
Is there actual dating involved or is this some woman you've only seen through a computer screen.