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Ok, im been chatting up and flirting with a girl for a couple weekes now and shes really nice to me as i am to her. I want to ask her to prom and if i asked, im almost certain she would say yes. Only problem is i cant ask now as prom is too far away (in mid may) and if i ask her now we'd have to start dating and im not sure if im ready for that right now. BUT if i dont ask soon she could/might get with somone else and go to prom with them. What do i do?
>>16854230
Ask her out to the prom and date her.
@|¥$$@>>16854249
Sorry for being nitpicky, but should i ask her to prom first and then start dating her or should i ask her to go out one time then go to prom together. I only ask this because i feel like prom is a little lighter than bfgf
How do I stop hating myself? I have a bad habit of comparing myself to others on social media and feel like a boring untalented faggot in comparison. I have few friends and don't do much besides vidya.
>>16854217
sounds like you're pretty worthless. maybe hating yourself is what you should be doing?
>>16854219
T-Thanks anon
>>16854217
Maybe start doing other things that are more productive? Like improving yourself (going to the gym etc). But yeah, as someone who is lazy and plays video games as well, it really is easier said than done.
Ok so I'm a heavy masturbator. My balls have been semi numb for a while now (I think they are ok no torsion doctors checked and all) I haven't been able to do a nofap is it possible my testicles r numb from overmasturbation
Masturbation* fucking autocorrect is a piece of shit
>>16854213
No. your balls are completely separate from your dick in that regard
>>16854226
Shit I don't think its torsion tho cuz I got cleared of that. I've never really touched my balls too much so idk what I'm supposed to feel anyway
>>16854208
escalate, ask her out on a date and try to move the relationship forward. if it works you're out, if you get rejected then move on.
>>16854208
By diving head-first read into the friendzone (friendzone her first) and moving on to the next prospect.
>>16854208
You don't.
Cut your losses and move onto another girl.
my parents are both really good people who give great counsel on personal things. they've just gone off the deep end and down the rabbit hole politically. my mom will e-mail me a funny link that has nothing to do with politics, and i'll sigh in relief, and then i'll see that it comes from a site like breitbart -- or worse, an even wingnuttier site that claims to be the only truth and whose every article is about how terrible liberals and muslims are.
i'm a bernie sanders type who cares deeply about women's rights, LGBT rights, institutionalized racism, the importance of socialized medicine, etc., and every time i click on a link to one of these sites a feel attacked and uncomfortable because it's coming from my parents. it reminds me that, man, they must really hate what i believe, and it confuses me because, like i said, they're good people but these sites just seem so hateful. fucks up my day.
how do i communicate this without making them upset? i've tried, and every time it devolves into an argument.
>>16854199
your parents are right, the best thing you can do is to start looking at the facts and numbers and to start growing up to understand the way the world is outside of college and your imagination
>>16854199
dont click the links?
such a non-issue
>>16854207
i'm pushing 40. i get more liberal/progressive the older i get.
I need help
I seriously cant look at any other girls other than my girlfriend and it's pissing me off
like, any time I see another naked girl I want to puke
>she doesnt even want sex until marriage
>I've never actually seen her naked
>please for the love of god help
I don't understand. What do you want help with?
>>16854173
I'm the same way, I cant look at porn without imagining my gf to be the girl and then it just grosses me out because porn is so degrading to the girl
what works for me is hentai and still images of girls, like on /s/
>>16854173
So you can't watch porn? That's what you're saying?
I wish I was as commited as you, OP.
my father is a known philanderer, he cheated on my mother many times before she threw him out (I care little for her anyway)
but now he has a well regarded girlfriend, and I have to stop him dishonoring my family
if he cheats on her it could cost him his job, and nobody will employ me as his son
>>16854164
have a son-father sit down and have the talk.
give him your moral support and remind him frequently what's at stake. also, get real friendly with her.
I'm in a similar situation as your dad: I'm sort of stuck with her because of ties between mutual acquaintances. that pressure prevents me from doing drastic things.
>>16854164
>I have to stop him dishonoring my family
>if he cheats on her it could cost him his job, and nobody will employ me as his son
...are you japanese, and how small is your town?
>giving a shit about what other grown people do
>giving a shit about what other family members say as if they dont have some fucked up shit theyre hiding.
>riding daddys coat tails,...
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Get a career where you're not dependent on whatever your father does.
Being an adult fucking sucks, I don't like it anymore. I want to be 15 again. How do I do that?
What exactly sucks about being an adult?
>>16854158
by working hard to guarantee your now and your future doesn't keep fucking sucking. then you'll get the joy of living again
I'm right there with you OP. I'm 24 and everything seems hard. Though I don't think I really want to be 15 again, because my life wasn't great at that age. I just wish I could be better.
How have people broken their bad habits in the past? I've heard after 30 days, a habit is formed or broken, but I can never make it that far. I know will power and all that, but there has to be some techniques to help. For example, I don't bite my nails anymore. However, I do pick my nose. It is disgusting and I know it, but by the time I realize it, it's too late. It usually starts with a scab or something in my nose that I feel. I just have to remove it or it bugs me. It then turns into having to make sure both nostrils are free of debris. It's not just...
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>picking your nose
absolutely disgusting
>>16854133
Cool
How to quit smoking? I smoke ~20 cigarettes a day.
smoke weed instead
>>16854105
Search for joel splitzer on youtube. He was thw only one who helped with his videos
try seeing a hypnotizer. It can really work, no kidding
I have never had an orgasm. Not even masturbating and I have masturbated a lot. I've had many sexual partners but I've only come close a few times. Now I am in a committed relationship and I'm having some of the best sex and oral sex of my life but I still can't get past the edge. My BF [22] has tried with extended foreplay (probably an hour) followed by PIV and I felt really close a few times but I just never got there. We did some research and found that some women need clitoral and vaginal stimulation to reach orgasm so tonight after some foreplay we tried...
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spooning is the best position
hmm maybe do it faster?
I have the same problem but mine is related to control and deep trust problems. I'm very committed and very in love with my fiance but everytime I get close to any kind of orgasm I get this weird feeling of panic instead of pleasure. He tries so hard to please me but I am literally scared of having an orgasm and i always have been.
>>16854094
>I rubbed my clit while he fucked me and I was the closest I've ever been. Definitely the best sex I've EVER had. I really thought it was going to happen but it never did.
keep doing that untill it works?
I would suggest a vibrator or something, but if you become dependant on a toy it could ruin real sex. Just keep trying and relax.
It's not.
It doesn't have to be if you can be practical and are cool with living within your means.
A few places in the world are giant money-orientated games. Outside of those places there's more to life and it's not the primary focus.
Help me /adv/.
Back in October I broke up with my ex. It was pretty messy and I was really sad about it for quite some time. But that didn't stop me from dating.
So many dates. I haven't had sex yet tho because I really want to save that for when I get into a serious and real relationship.
Okay. I met this guy and he is crazy. Like, not frothing crazy but outgoing and social and a ball of nervous energy. He is sweet and romantic and I really can't get him out of my mind. We have only known each other for 2 weeks and he already said the word...
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Crazy people can be very exciting when you meet them, because a lot of strong emotions happen very quickly, and you kind of get caught up in it.
But then something goes wrong, and they start acting crazy, and you remember "oh yeah, he's fucking crazy and I noticed it the first time I met him."
If a new person starts making attachments really quickly, like this, it's a major red flag. And the fact that you're already telling yourself "he's seriously amazing" suggests that you might be the type of girl who has a hard time admitting...
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>>16854106
OP here. Yeah. I think you are right. I'm really a sucker when it comes to romantic stuff. Plus, I guess I kinda sunk into it more because he was totally fine when I told him that I didn't want sex yet.
I'm going to tell him that we need to slow it down tonight and see how he takes it. Shit, this was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you, so much!
How do you tell if a girl's teasing or actually wants it? pic related
>>16854060
you cant, just try and escalate and if you strike out she was just teasing
pull out your dick in front of her and see how she reacts
What is better, take two 1/2 hour sunbath in the morning and in the afternoon, or just take one of 1 hour?
All day in sun from 10am
one hour
the sun is constantly changing
