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If you had to choosee between majoring in psychology and majoring in media & communication, what would you choose?
>>16852961
Neither of those are engineering.
Shit they even have 'civil' engineering for dummies if you can't handle electrical.
>>16852969
Anon is it really that hard to choose between 2 options in a hypothetical situations where you have no other option?
probably psychology, at least then you could try to find work helping people instead of like slaving away to comcast or some shit
I am attracted to a man who is about to be 50 (I'm 31). While the number doesn't bother me, what DOES bother me is that he gentleman is in an authority position at the day center I visit about every day, to every other day. I doubt he'd do anything to compromise his job, but at least I can at least get a tight friendship from him if nothing else. He doesn't text except for HELLO and maybe GOODBYE, he does not enjoy typing and prefers talking over the phone.
Well, I wanted to text him tonight - but I am nervous. Would he find it inappropriate? He knows...
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>>16852928
People in their 50s aren't this retarded fampai it's 2016, not 1995. My 60 year old aunt vapes and is inseparable from her tablet.
>>16852955
I'm just going by what he's told me, which could be true - or could be not true. He could have said it to avoid having people ask for his number,
If he likes you, it's not going to matter if he doesn't like the text. Only way to find out is to do it. Get ready for a phone call, though.
So, I want to have some casual sex with some women that I'm friendly with. Whether or not they'd reciprocate, I have no idea, but that's not the point. How do you go about exploring that possibility without leaving your relationship with them in a disastrous state?
I can't be in a romantic relationship because I'll be moving away in a few months and I'm not sufficiently interested in creating a relationship that'll soon be strained by distance. On that same note, however, I don't think the idea will be well received. I'm sure...
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>How do you go about exploring that possibility without leaving your relationship with them in a disastrous state?
If you ever figure that out spread the word.
I would only go down this route if you and the other person have good communication skills and are capable of being open and honest with each other. You also need to be clear from the beginning that it's just sex and you are still friends.
However there are a lot of ways it could end badly. Pursue it if you want but prepare for the friendship to end if one of you fucks up or gets emotional about it.
First of all let me start with the fact that i love my brother very much, he is my younger brother, and a huge idiot. So this morning I get a text from him freaking out and saying he messed up big time. He slept with a girl and then a rash showed up. He said he went to his LPN who took one look and said it was just a foclical hair issue. That was supposingly a month ago. so he text me this morning saying they had gone away but came back. so I told him to send me pics but not of his junk. Now.... Correct me if i'm wrong, But I think his LPN doesn't know what she is...
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1/5?
2/5
Don't post NSFW material on blue boards, please.
Also, don't come here for medical advice, you won't find any. I advice you to take this to professionals
Any Vapefags on?
I have a question. I'm running an Aspire Atlantis 2 Tank on a coolfire 4 plus. It's great with the 0.5ohm coils but with the 0.3 at recommended watts the tank gets super hot really quickly.
Is this safe or should I stick to the 0.5ohm coils?
Have you tried reducing the watts? Honestly, 0.5 ohms is fine. You don't want to continue using 0.3 if it keeps getting so hot.
If just the tank is getting warm then it should be okay. If the mod is getting too hot, then you have a problem
>vaping
a guy tried this in my anger management class. he was told he wasn't allowed and sperged out. fuck these things, like seriously. they don't smell as good as you think.
How do you manage the fact that you can't be happy anymore.
I been having these feelings for a long time. I almost finish my studies and have some work to do, and i really wan't to finish it but there is something that makes me not to do it
Is this normal?
>>16852886
I had similar feelings. I noticed I was enjoying things less, had lower motivation, and just generally felt pretty meh to average all the time. I remember thinking distinctly that it was hard to be happy.
I figured this was part of getting older (I'm over 30) but I was wrong. The overriding issue turned out to be depression. I got help (therapy and meds) and it helped a lot.
If this sounds like you, consider talking to a professional about it.
Got myself some money. Nothing much, and that's the problem.
What's your best way for a nice and safe investment ? I can't take the time to work but I need money
> Bank % takes too long to profit and need big money upfront to be a real profit
> Odds at any luck games are too low to actually win, unless I play in a real casino which I don't want to do
> Stock exchange might be a thing, but I'd need a lot of information about it and i'm an amateur...
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>>16852878
You want get rich quick schemes senpai, investments are about putting your depreciating currency into a form that accrues value over time.
Easy way to do it is buy guns and never sell them for less than you paid.
I had the idea of buying cars, moving them and selling them for profit but I lack the expertise. Gonna ask around see if someone who knows cars but hasn't got the time or patience to drive a lot can help me.
>>16852931
I don't want to get rich, I just need more money for myself to be a wealthy student and have fun while not damaging my body by working too hard and studying at the same time. I'd need investment that I can use in 2 months to a year, I don't need big money but rather fast easy money. a few hundreds every month or so
I'm still thinking, I could be a youtube spammer and re-use vine footage in compilations, that'll get me views and eventually money.
>>16852960
Look ok. To invest. You must spend your money. The money can't be used while it's invested. If you cash out early, the investment won't have worked.
You are not looking to invest. You are looking to get rich quick.
Get a job. Students typically get jobs like promoting or retail and do like 20 hours a week. That's EASY.
Why would a girl you went out with a couple times but lost contact with frantically call you over into a goddamn drive through when she sees you passing by it at night, pull over to the side so she could talk to you, enthusiastically agree to go out again, make it a point to let you know her family member thinks you're cool as she leaves, then basically blow you off over text?
Maybe to set you up with the family memeber?
>>16852871
Some people aren't good on text Nd it's easy to misunderstand. She is into you I'd guess
>get hired by a biotech company about two weeks ago
>go into training
>trainer does weekly reviews
>literally come in an hour early every day for the last two weeks to get better with lab skills
>got told today that if I don't shape up next week that I'm going to be let go
I honestly don't even know what the fuck to do. I mean, of course I make a mistake here and there because I'm in training,...
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>he fell for the STEM meme
>>16852850
Keep working hard. Don't let them get to you. Quitting will look worse than staying the course - you can always try at another company. Also, you won't get better if you stop now.
STOP MAKING MISTAKES.
Either you get it or you don't. If you don't, you shouldn't be there. Your boss will determine that, I suppose. Between now and then, get better at your job if you want to keep it. You have 16 hours a day to improve.
I have a longing to get into the hobby of fixing and just working on cars.
I'm actually in school to become a teacher. But it's something that I just want to learn on the side. I'm not interested in this gottagofast tricking out vehicles shit. I just want to learn how cars work and how to maintain them.
How 2 start on my own? Likely without taking classes because my schedule is already busy. I have no other mechanic friends other than my dad who is fairly average in knowledge of cars (he's already taught me basics) Also, not like it matters...
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Try to not steal vehicles for your experiments. You know you want to, and you're a piece of shit. Say it with me: "I am a piece of shit". You can find plenty of free cars at the dump.
>>16852840
Crack open a repair manual. Start with older cars because unless you have advance knowledge of cars and expensive diagnostic equipment you'll never get anywhere with these new fangled computerize shit-mobiles.
Order parts online, spend some time in your garage working on shit, failing at shit, trying again at shit, and repeat. Mechanic work is the same as everything else, just takes a little bit of time and it'll all start to click.
The shitty thing about this is the more in depth you...
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>>16852840
Get a car and google how to maintain it.
Idk if you want to go for push rods or a belt, but I have a push rod (nissan) and I've never had to open the hood to do a damned thing since I bought it except top up the screenwash.
Regardless, do your own oil and plugs and go from there.
Ok guys, how can you meet new people when you are 25? My story
>25
>had gf and college friends
>we graduated
>i've parted ways with most of my college friends (we went to work on different cities)
>gf broke up with me
>have to leave town beacuse of new job
>no one to hang out now
I just want to have fun weekends again ;_;
>>16852837
Do you have parks? You can meet people there. Bring a dog so they can initiate conversation about it and seduce you.
>>16852860
i have a park but no dog lel
>>16852837
You can try online for dating: Tinder, OKC, or PoF. Takes forever, but will work eventually. So far I average about 9 months of searching per long-term relationship.
For friends, look to co-workers, especially of similar age. If you have hobbies you enjoy, you can try MeetUp or even Craigslist. I found a regular tennis partner on Craigslist, but I only wanted exercise, not friendship.
You could also work in robotics and build a robotic friend.
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I need some help /adv/. I'm just looking for advice since I feel really dumb right now. Basically, what would you do if you found out someone you liked was a pathological liar? Like, how can you help them? What if they don't want help? I know beyond a shadow of a doubt but I just don't know what to do or if there's anything I can do at all. Has anyone encountered this before? What have you done if so? I can give more detail if need be as well.
Pathological liars are notoriously stubborn about their lies and will often refuse to admit them, even when confronted by undeniable evidence. These people more often than not have no interest in change, as they derive emotional gratification from it.
If nothing else, take comfort in knowing that pathological liars don't lie to you specifically, but literally for any reason at any time, to anyone. The subject can range from the subtle to the most absurd, yet within the realm of plausibility, and always either position themselves as either a hero or a victim worthy of...
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>>16852827
I guess I kind of gathered that already. It just seems so...sad. I mean they're so cool without the lies. Would I have to like stand by them and grin and bear it? That seems like the only option.
>>16852844
>It just seems so...sad. I mean they're so cool without the lies.
What makes you think you've seen them without lies? In fact, what makes you think that you know anything about who this person 'really' is?
People who act like this don't stop because someone is cute, or because they like you.
>Listening to a podcast some friends made
>Realize I havent had a conversation that wasnt about work or school in over a year
>>16852809
Who do you support in the US elections? Who would you support if he would be a canidate?
You can talk about that time you've made a thread on 4chins featuring a pic of a stick figure with a red hat. That's pretty interesting, right?
>>16852830
lol, until he gets to the part where the thread was about his conversations about work and school
How can I have unprotected sex with a girl without leaving her pregnant?
Stick it in her pooper and mouth exclusively
or
Wear a condom, take it with you when you leave so you can dispose of it yourself
>>16852784
Birth control pills
intrauterine Device
Subdermal Implant
Pull-out Method (High chance of fuck-up)
Snip snap
there's this party and im invited
these people like me and theyre kinda cool. some chicks totally dig me that are going and beer is free.
but i just wanna vege out and play video games. like. i kind of think its bad to be all anti social but i dunno im just in a fuck it mood
go or nah. what do
>>16852750
Go to the party, take your playstation. Load some minecraft and Be the best nigga.
