>>16851013
If you have money and really feel like she's a keeper, go to a psych.
If you don't want to part with the money and feel she's fucking nuts just leave her.
Do it gently over time, the last thing you want your gf to do is go crazy and kill you or shoot up a deli or whatever.

>>16851005

>i am dead inside
>tfw no gf
>tfw jealous of other peoples gf

sure you listed other stuff after / inbetween, but when someone says they are sad and the first thing they talk about is romance, its pretty enlightening.

if ur biggest problem is romance (and in your head it is) than your problems arent as bad as you think.

>i live for no reason

a person isnt a reason...
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>>16851085

Well, I did have some serious girlfriend trouble, but that's only a part of it. All of these things bother me equally, regardless of the order I listed them. I guess, living for me and myself would be a good idea, if I actually cared about myself. I don't. I care about the people around me. Besides, these things are beside the biggest issue of me not really being able to feel anything. I am looking at finding out what I want to do, it's just that I'd like to be able to feel during the search, I guess.

>>16851123

>regardless of the order i listed them in

you also just fixated on that in relation to other people. you're very clearly concerned about the romance aspect more than anything else.

You were expecting her to wait for you to "come around" while in that off period and keep to herself? You told her several times you should just be friends, so she was trying to move on because YOU told her to move on. She did not cheat on you. You were not a couple when she talked to other guys and went on one date. It is absolutely not an indication that she is a potential serial cheater.

It's up to you to decide if the relationship is worth the effort based on whatever other issues you have as a couple, but certainly don't break up with her because...
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>and we do love each other

Get such a kick out of you little college kids.

>>16851025
We've worked on a lot since then. We talked about it all to death and pretty much our current relationship from the ground up. But I still have some trust issues. And yes the date and stuff isn't cheating and I forgave her for it. But the first time around we were together while she was talking to the guy. But our relationship was falling apart the time which is the only reason I considered getting back together with her.

>>16850983

I wouldn't say "to come there".

Come is like a command, If I say, "come here". come seems to centre around the speaker too, you wouldn't say "come here" and point behind someone.

Maybe Im not explaining it well

>>16850983
What's your native language? The same verb distinction almost certainly exists in your language.

To go indicates that you are leaving a place in order to reach another destination.

To come indicates that you are leaving from another place to reach a destination.

For example, a person is starting at the library and ending at the bank.
"They go from the library to the bank."
"They come to the bank from the library."
The meaning of the sentence is the same

>>16850983
"come" is like a command saying "move to where i am" and "go" is like a command saying "move to somewhere i am not"
both are pretty much the same, the difference is in the speaker.

Just tell her, 23 to 21 is not a great age difference. You can still do everything that a 21 year old can.

"Hey, I lied. I'm 21. Lets fuck"

just get it over with, OP

>>16850978
Well you already fucked up. This is going to seriously impact the trust between you two.

But basically just tell her you're actually 21 and then take things from there. Obviously ask her for forgiveness, but sometimes you can avoid confrontation by just simply telling her the truth. You're not 23, you're 21. Just be honest.

And remember, this basically has a chance of going south and you're going to have to accept that.

Be careful. You could be doing something illegal by snooping on her data.

>>16850972
She'll think you're a creep (and you would be) for doing that. Just don't.

>>16850989
wat if she genuinely liked me senpai?

>>16850953
There once was an anon on /r9k/ named Ballsweat who documented his supposed success doing that exact thing. See if you can find an archived thread of his.

>>16850953
>Rub your balls on stuff.
Technically, that would work, yes. But the sweat smell itself might offset any pheromonal effect that it could theoretically have.

>>16850953
Stop jerking off and eating Doritos

#1 sounds like a total slut. Bang and drop. Date #2 after for personality and godly massages.

>>16850929
whats wrong with a carefree/innocent child like very hot women? seems like the best case scenario ever! number 2 can be your friend

>>16850939
i don't think #1 is a slut. i think she's just desperate because she's still a virgin.

>>16850917
I think you should leave.
Why I think you should
>long distance
>you could be a side girl
>doesn't sound like he gives a shit about you
Why do you want to get married to someone who is disinterested in you? Are you not communicating your thoughts and feelings to him?

>>16850904
Do you have any friends or family that have a business?
I'm sure they would help your friend out.
Or just have him marry a citizen I guess.

I know it's incredibly difficult when people do absolutely insane things like get married. But you can do this.

You walk up to your friend and you say, "Congratulations. I'm happy that you're happy."

Whew. It's tough, but I believe in you

>>16850890
I have done this through facebook, but I feel queasy, like I'm going against the grain of my entire being. I feel like shaking him and yelling 'are you fucking insane?!'

I sawa rugby player doing a funny tour through westminister abbey and he came across the memorial of the scientist who discovered absolute zero, the coldest temperature known to man. And the rugby player says 'he'd obviously never been married.'

you let him live the fucking life he want to live. Fuck off, Anon

I think you're kind of worried about nothing. Girls love big dicks, and that's to be expected. But they're also looking for a real man in their life. Sometimes having both is a good combination. Hope that makes you feel better.

>>16850876
Tell her to fuck off. It's your first relationship, unless you are 38 you can get better. You will regret continuing this relationship if you let her put you in this submissive position, given the fact this constant nagging and guilt will drive all the fun away. She is an abusive bitch who doesn't respect you.
P.S. If you are 38, I can recommend /b/ or /r9k/.

>>16850876
Find the little man on the boat

How about coming back to this site when you are 18.

>>16850893
suck my dick. or say something useful.

>>16851361
We'd all benefit from you coming back when you're 18

It may not help you, but it's useful for us.
Take one for the team

>>16850872

The cheater betrayed the trust of the relationship and is therefore beholden to whatever the person accepting them back dictates. Don't like it? Get out of the relationship. You should have done that before you cheated in the first place.

>>16850880
I understand that. But what if it never stops? How an you be with someone who will treat you like a child your entire life? One partner will forever feel like they are on a leash, the other will never be happy not being in a relationship with an "adult".

>>16850891
That would, in fact, suck, but it greatly depends on how long it has been. How long has this been going on?

what kind of questions do you ask her that you get blunt responses to?

yeah, that's annoying. she only gives one word answers and never asks a follow-up question. maybe she's just autismo.
try to ask more open ende questions thought.