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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon and frog posters
Fuck off
>Pegasus
The one true god of /adv/
I'm moving away soon to get a fresh start
I really hate myself and think I should "fake it till I make it"
So I guess the question is what is confident behavior. My fear is that at any stress I'll crack and be back to my usual little bitch self, I want to stay consistent you know
>>16845199
Confident behavior is believing that you are better than everyone around you and that no one can bring you down
>>16845208
How do you act like that, or fake it even
I have a long day ahead. Every 10 minutes, I have 10 minutes free. Let me help you out so I can kill some time.
I'm miserable because I can't find a boy to love. I just want someone to be my baby. Not a fuckbuddy. Not a boyfriend. Just a baby.
I'll never get it
>>16837963
You need to work on yourself. Be worthy of someone's affection and time. Also, you need to go out in order to meet various kinds of people and then find someone who can meet your needs.
you still here op?
So, backstory.
We've been together for a good half year and we're really physically close to each other. Except.. He's really uncomfortable with sex. Doesn't stop him from being a pervert, or watching porn, but when it comes to anything with real people.. Well..
And the best part is, we're both virgins.
I've concluded that he's either asexual or gay. I'm leaning towards the second.
What should I do?
dont have sex? why would you?
there are no reason to have sex anyway
>>16842418
sex is fun kiddo
>>16842399
He's not gay, he's just nervous and doesn't want to disappoint you. Just grab his dick and take the lead.
>be virgin male
>22 yrs old
>get gf in college
>loving 3 yr relationship
>shes really awesome
>thinking about marriage
>shes not a virgin.
Ive been doing a lot of thinking and its come to me that I dont want her to be my first time. Or really I wouldnt want to be with her unless I had also slept around a lot. But I really dont know what to tell her. Shes been wanting sex really bad for a while now and Ive been thinking that my feelings for her are strong enough to where Im okay with doing it. Then it dawned on me that she wasnt a virgin and it wouldnt be the same.
Should I break up with her? I dont want to cheat on her. But its weird because I feel like shes the one.
Ive cut all sexual contact out until this is sorted
pic semi related.
I think you're entitled to your feelings, but I feel you're being unfair. You knew from the beginning she wasn't a virgin and it bothered you. Why did you waste so much time? I don't understand why you would hold her sexual history against her, especially if she's been faithful and patient and respectful of your choices. If you really feel like she isn't marriage material strictly for the fact she isn't a virgin, then yeah, break up. I personally think you'd be making a mistake, but it's your call.
>>16845898
+1 to this anon's sentiments.
I think you're in your head too much right now and letting weird 4chan shit seep in. Get out and live your life.
>>16845898
This. You dated her for three years before you FINALLY decided it was okay to bang her, and then you're all "she's not a virgin omg" and now you're off sulking.
Go fuck her already, you moron.
Guys of /adv. would you strongly prefer a girl with long hair over the one with short hair?
I know it's all about perspective but I'm thinking about going back with short hair. My hair now is a semi-long hair.
I'm 25. I don't know if I'm old enough to need to be a "lady", which means I should be more feminine and all. Short hair sounds like a "strong chick" always wanted to do things on her own.
It's all about the feeling,which one you'll go with if both of them are cute?
One have the feeling of needed protection and one with the feeling of a strong girl with a strong personality?
>>16845077
it depends on the chick honestly, some girls look better with short hair and some look better with long hair. simple as that my mans
>>16845077
Short hair if she has an outgoing personality
Long hair if she is reserved
Long hair with outgoing personality = slut
Short hair that is reserved = mentally ill
>>16845085
y'all read into this waayyy too much. some things are purely aesthetic
My cousin just turned 18 and she is pretty fucking busty. Anyone know how I could get a feel?
you could just grope them while shes asleep, sometimes if a girl wakes up to that she gets real horny
>>16843501
thanks for replying but I only want to feel them not fuck her
>>16843508
bruh, just grab some ziploc bags and go to the beach.
I'm 24 and still haven't gotten my first boyfriend yet.
But at this point the relationship I fantasised about all those years when I was a teenager is impossible.
I'll never have a passionate youthful teenage relationship or a sexual awakening
What's even the point now?
It's really depressing.
How do I get out of this depression?
>>16843230
you dont what happens is you start getting close to 30 and feel that clock ticking and you settle for somebody you dont really love who just acts as a provider, your shot at a loving marriage and long term relationship is nearly over
Focus on science and meaningful advancements. Anyone can breed - yours is a contribution of much greater necessity
I'll be your bf op
How do i use adderall to study? Never done it before and i bought 2 20mg capsules, is that too much? Can i split them idk how capsules work. And how do i not get addicted? Pic is not what i have
It's too much, send one to me.
Please, d-amp is so difficult to obtain here, illicitly and otherwise..
>>16843085
How would i split it
Its a hard orange capsule
>>16843102
Crack it open you dip, jeez.
Capsules separate into two, like a kinder surprise (with a better prize).
I'm 19
I met a girl online that is 14.
Is it weird that I have feelings for her?
I don't want nudes. I don't want any sex. Anything like that.
I just want some love. Someone to talk to.
Does that make me a pedophile?
>>16842881
No, its makes you a pathetic loser for being attached to a girl way less mentally mature than you
>>16842889
But I already knew I was a pathetic loser...
So I'm not a pedophile?
>>16842898
Not if you didn't stick your smelly dick on her.
Lurking across the four vaginas of the internet, I see pics of tier lists for job occupations and degrees. I'm quite young and have freshly began college. I have an interest in fields of science related to physics and astronomy. I am a faggot.
I wanted some legitimate advice from anyone out there to know which would be a career choice that wouldn't leave me in Walmart scraping by even after years of school.
Is there any real list of degrees that are trash and those that have a future in that specialization?
>>16841639
My observation has been that different degrees go in and out of demand. Trades never do. Learn to weld and you'll always have work.
Very few degrees are truly worth it. It really just depends on what you do with it. Most of those charts are useless unless they're based on actual statistics. My boyfriend did a stats degree (a 'top tier' degree) and didn't find a job for months after uni, mostly because he didn't put in the effort he should have while he was there. He has a job he's happy with now, but it's not related to his degree and honestly, his work experience managing a Burger King was probably more useful for this job than his degree.
>>16841653
>Very few degrees are truly worth it.
Should be very few degrees are truly useless. That's what I get for trying to have a conversation and typing at the same time
I'm paranoid and lonely. I have a lot of work to do but I can't bring myself to do it.
>>16832587
>cant
thats not a thing. you can, but you CHOOSE not to do it.
>>16832590
I'm not saying I can't do it, I know I can, I'm capable. I'm saying I can't BRING myself to do it. Big difference between that and being physically unable to do something.
>>16832598
you CAN bring yourself to do it. can't implies its impossible. you CHOOSE not to bring yourself to do it. big difference between cant and wont.
>What is a personal weakness of yours, anon?
Answer?
Responding to stupid questions. They'll get the message.
>>16833555
kek'd
>>16833555
Nice, I like trolling idiots.
Is there any real reason not to kill yourself?
Depends who you are. If you have young children thats a good reason not to kill yourself.
>>16842857
I can't ever have children.
>>16842867
Then you're free to go.
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon and frog posters
Fuck off
Girls: Do you like the taste of semen, or do you just put up with it for your guy?
>>16840014
Girls: I have a pee fetish. Don't ask me why, I just find it hot.
How the fuck do I even begin to discuss this with you?
>>16840038
It depends. Sometimes it tastes like nothing, sometimes it's absolutely disgusting but I lie to my so and tell him I love it and swallow. Small sacrifices go a long way
My husband changed his mind and said he doesn't want to have children anymore. I'm already 7 months pregnant though. We had a long long discussion about having babies and he said he wanted to have a baby and he thought we were ready. Now he's panicking and saying he doesn't want one and we had a big argument.
He's left and now I'm alone and almost 8 months pregnant. I have no idea what to do, it's too late to abort. What are my options here?
>>16843831
like, he left you?
he's out?
gone?
>>16843839
He's gone, he left our home yesterday and he's not coming back.
>>16843831
That's a dick move. Sorry to hear that OP. That happened to my cousin too. All these guys just getting cold feet and won't even raise their own child.
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