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Just make a fucking effort and stop feeling sorry for yourself.

>>16854639
Go back to /normie9k/ you faggot.

>>16854639
Tfw.

Although from what I gather, men are actually much much harsher critics of themselves than they will ever let you know, and will readily tear themselves to shreds over any tiny flaw they see in themselves.

They're also phenomenally brave and able to completely ignore the loud voices screaming YOU'RE A FAKE BRO YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE LOVED YOU'RE FUNCTIONALLY LESS HUMAN THAN EVERYONE AROUND YOU in their heads.

Really you just need to pull up your pants and talk to women...
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>>16854630
Underageb&.

Get off my board, reeee.

OK, you're not even 21 your brain doesn't even fucking work right yet and you don't know a damned thing about 'what you want'.

If you still feel bad 9 years from now, fucking do it. I don't think you will.

Try drugs OP. They helped me climb out of my depression. It's still a struggle, but I'm improving, and I no longer want to kill myself

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>>16854658
Same. I was driven to kill myself and even attempted it several times until I started smoking weed. Still think of killing myself, although I'm no longer as likely to pick up a knife or a gun anymore.

>>16854626
You both goosed it. One don't prep for stuff then pose questions, it's a setup for failure. Two he feels bad when you get upset and then feels worse when he goosed it for not replying. Then even worse when you remind him about last time.

You're both upset and saying dumb shit you don't mean. Clam down and plan stuff more thoughtfully in future. Communicate and shit.

>>16854626

hey hey you you I don't like your boyfriend

hey hey you you I think you need a new one

optimally speaking you don't put a metric on effort given and received. but if you put in effort and creativity and all you get in response is douchieness I would personally think it ain't worth it.

a more rational response from him would have been, "I'm sorry. let's order pizza"

>>16854633

Thanks anon. I'll definitely try to communicate better, and this is something we have problems with.

>>16854638

That's true. I could definitely put in more effort, but recently I've been getting burned out because ever since we started officially 'dating', I feel like he's been taking a lot of the nice things I do for him (buy him his favorite foods without him asking, rubbing him for hours when he gets sore, paying for...
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Your friend need to find a new bf, cos that's saaad.

>>16854618
Yeahhh there's other stuff that's happened that makes me worry about their relationship, but this was one of the biggest things that made me worry

>>16854614
B senpai.
Porn isn't that great, I get off to naughty stories and ~imagination~ just fine.

The bad element of jerkin off to porn is the porn. Unrealistic expectations, lowered self worth and ED are not fun.

Bump. I just want some sort of direction.

>>16854606
I guess this will be my last bump. I know no one can tell me what she's thinking but I just wanted something.

Graduation is a scary time. It isn't necessarily that she doesn't want you or what you've had. Life is changing. Give her space. If you come back together, it was truly meant to be. GL

Yes you can do better

You sound young (less than 25 y/o) OP. I was once like you and believed that doing more responsibility would make more money, but it should always be opposite.

I got taken advantage of by my managers for doing the schedule for them, and other various paperwork ordeals. I also volunteered to do on call stuff for weekends as well. I thought there would be a senior level opening that the company once had, and I did what I could to work my way into it.

The position never opened due to budget cuts, and no one got raises that year.

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>>16854581

who wants to get engaged after two weeks? jesus man.

holy fuck dude, i could meet the most amazing man in the world and i would not get engaged that quickly. slowwwww down

>>16854581
You jumped the shark famile.

Spend more time together and do some life shit like cohabiting and meeting family. You're supposed to show you can actually be a husband before you try to slap the ring on them.

>>16854548
Probably fewer effects than masturbating multiple times a day. All you're doing is getting hard and not finishing. That happens to me like 3 times a day.

>>16854555
It's quite a lot more than getting hard and not finishing, or at least I'd think it is. It can feel pretty backed up down there which I like, and my arousal levels go through the roof. Feels like I'm doing a dopamine OD somehow

Fuck you OP, I wish I could edge but literally every time I try it I just can't stop myself. The idea of it turns me on so much though, so now I'm gonna have to go wank. But not edge though, because I can't.

>>16854547
"Hey...Jen? You know John, right? I think we met at [fill in some plausible place John and her might have met]? How've you been?"

Here's what I've got for you, Anon. Since I have been in a similar situation, I have decent, but obvious advice. I saw this stunning girl on a subway when I was visiting Detroit and I regretted not talking to her ever since. I suggest you observe her a little bit, just because she's beautiful, they aren't usually what you dream them to be. Is she kind to people, would she offer someone her seat if there were none left? Maybe you could walk by her and drop something, you can tell a lot about a person if they pick it up and give it back to you. If she does,...
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>>16854582
First of all thanks for answering and helping out! Second of all, I already thought of this and she seems quite nice. Based on watching her stand up as there wasnt enough space in the train and standing up for an elderly lady.

It is however quite difficult to start a conversation or see how she would react to me since its usually so crowded you cant walk ib the train. Ill still try it on a less busy day though!

Btw sorry for the subway girl you liked

>>16854544
>Can I fix these? It's like everything that could go wrong did

you were in the army? that6's an accomplishment.

>>16854550
Just because he had PTSD doesn't mean he was in the army. Any traumatic situation will cause that

>>16854574

i've been in two shipwrecks, been chased by the cops through a forest during night time, got shot at by a mortar twice on different occasions, limped 4 miles through a whiteout storm with a broken ankle and bleeding calf, and I don't have ptsd.

did his mom yell at him when he forgot to take out the garbage?

>>16854542

line up a university

>>16854545
I also have no passion for anything. No real "dream job"

>>16854549

study computer science then

...and why would they scare you?

Just pay for a fucking bus ticket you pleb.

>>16854546
They use scare tactics. For example, anyone who doesn't have a ticket, gets herded to the middle of the bus where they can't leave, and from there it's anything from keeping you in the bus until the last stop, orv screaming at you until you break in and give your ID.

If I had the cash, I'd gladly pay for a monthly ticket. Seeing as I'm broke, that ain't happening any time soon.

Have you tried stabbing them before they follow you home with all their tickety goodness?

Cont. But this phase apparently is in the past. We both have stressful schedules, but i deal with it a bit better than her. She's very relatable in a lot of ways. I don't also know if this is relevant, but she stopped talking to me for 3 months for no apparent reason. A literal ''ghosting''. What's the deal? Is this a good girl? How can i deal with that feeling, that fear of potentially dating someone who was potentially raped? What should i do in the eventual confession that she, or whatever other girl, indeed was molested? How can i tell if that will come to bite us/me in the ass in the future, like with the incident with the last girl? Thanks in advance.

td;ld: After some ex used her rapist as a means to make me jealous, i started fearing any girl i date will have been raped/will do something similar, since that fucked me up. Currently dating a girl that hates her father, so i'm already suspicious and worried.

Stop caring about it. Just go to a mirror and look at yourself for however long it takes you to stop giving a fuck. You could have so many other nice insecurities m8.

>>16854558
Thanks for the advice, and that's what bothers me the most. A lot of shit has happened with me during my life, which make me grow almost completely immune to anything else that would happen. I'm not insecure about anything else like am i to this.

>>16854518
sure but they'll probably have been in comitted relationships for years

>>16854518
If they're boring, socially retarded, hyper- conservative, religious, straight edge or ugly yeah

>>16854518
Why does it matter? Not saying it shouldn't matter, but what are you looking for? What are you hoping a girl with less sexual experience will bring to the table? What are you worried a girl with more sexual experience will bring to the table?

>>16854482
Bro you did the right thing. Cut contact, be polite and civil if she does try and talk to you but politely explain to her that for your own good you don't believe you two should keep in contact.

The best way to make her butthurt is to move on and start crushing on and putting your dingdong into other women - but don't feel any pressure to do this until you're ready. No shame taking a couple of weeks out of the game to get your head on straight.

If you have male friends IRL this is a good...
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>>16854482

yeah she's mad at you. you absolutely wrecked her. she's probably crying a little every night.

now find some other pussy for a victory lap.

>>16854482
It's a reaction to your blocking her. If her friends remove you too, who cares. Doubt she's 'mad' but more like getting even.

And yeah, best way is to bounce back like you don't give a fuck - which you shouldn't. She sound like a stupid slut and probably everybody on Earth would be better off avoiding her