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I recently went out with a lady that I met on OKCupid. She seemed like a nice girl and we went to a movie together.
When we got there she said she needed to see my ID card becaue her Mom was worried and wanted to make sure I wasn't a shady person. So I let her take a picture of it because I assume you can't do shit with an ID card.
But now I'm fucking paranoid, is there something people can do with a picture of my ID card? Is there a way they can steal my ID for something? Is there a way I can prevent this?
I may just be paranoid but I have to know for sure.
Since most major websites are proven to have little to no actual security (I read a hilarious story about that how a guy on Amazon kept getting his identity stolen because Amazon support kept fucking up), this depends entirely on how much you trust the different services you use around the interwebs and how much you trust them. A photo of an ID can obviously be used in some ways - but also they'd need your E-mail and/or similar data too.
It's weird that she wanted this photo, but it's not really likely that she'd go through the effort of making an...
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>>16916652
Yes you retarded fuck. It has your ID# and your fucking address on it. Do you realize what sort of damage could be done by having those things?
This is grounds for identity theft and you should call your credit unions immediately to set your accounts on alert in case anything suspicious happens.
So I've been with this girl for a good year now and we haven't done anything sex related, every time I try I puss out. She's already told me she's self conscious about her body. I'm seeing her this weekend, should I just go for it and hope for the best?
Tell her you really want to fuck her after a romantic evening. Then follow through after she says yes
>>16916649
Tell her you admire her body and want to see more.
>>16916737
The real problem is that op is a pussy and is afraid of sex.
Id be insecure about my body if my boyfriend hasnt tried to fuck me in over a year
Should I hook up with a stranger from /Soc/? I'm horny as fuck
>>16916631
Why just one?
>>16916631
Woah the classic meat up with a stranger from the internet. What could possibly go wrong? Easy to pick up at the bar, cheaper too
>>16916659
Its like the girl who u meet online wants to fuck. And the girl you meet at a bar probably wants to fuck
In my second year of computer engineering.
Any way to transition to filmmaking, my true interest.
>>16916618
*questionmark
>>16916618
Study film in your part time and as a hobby.
Dont quit your day job for something as capricious and unstable as filmmaking.
Or you can go full tarantino and instead of spending money on tuition, you can budget your feature film.
The question is: are you good?
>>16916618
I dropped out of a good engineering school to pursue my interests.
Don't do it. You are paying $50k per year for a piece of paper that will make other people pay you far more than that for the rest of your life. Don't throw away that piece of paper for one that more closely follows your interests, but in a field which is hard to enter.
So theres this girl I fancy in my one class,
I never said hi to her, and I plan to start something soon
However shes always with another girlfriend, and I don't have any wingmen in my crew, and I've always relied on my boy to catch the friend for me.
What do I do? Do I have to make the other friend happy too? They say if you do, it increases your chances of getting the girl since her friend will big you up.
Thoughts?
She probably has no desire to talk t you op
Maybe but I'm not a beta cuck where I just sit there and do nothing while I feel something for someone....
Help a solo pilot without a wingman out
Who will be my wingman... they're all graduated and flying high.
Help me.
I've been ruining my fingers for years. I tried to quit couple times but never succeeded. Now I'm on anti-depressants and I'm discovering life once more. I want to break the habit. The problem tho is that i don't just bite the nails. I use to rip the flesh off (it let to some serious hemmorhages and skin problems). My psychiatrist doesn't give a shit and says it's my way to reduce stress. Could you help fellow fella /adv/? Pic related.
>>16916589
I've started as a kid and dragged it into adulthood. I often use various tools such as twizzers, knives, razor blades, scissors etc. It sorta started to feel good but i'm ashamed afterwords.
>>16916589
I even ripped the whole nail off a few times. I do it mostly at night. I also can't stop myself from scrathing scabs.
Here's a wild suggestion: stop.
What's your opinion on getting back together with someone?
>start dating dance partner
>both big nerds
>everything is good at first
>practically never do anything outside of dance
>never contacts me first except to back out on promises.
>she does this to everyone though so I ignore that
>don't feel like she likes me
>I...
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>>16916497
if something didn't work the first time it's not gonna work the second time unless some fundamental parameters changed
-einstein or vaas or someshit
>>16916509
Pretty deep.
Well, we're a little older and both of us have fooled around with other people and gotten some experience with being in a relationship.
We were both virgins had never had any romantic experiences before,
Do you think this is good enough to count as a fundamental change?
Just talk to her about her previous lack of interest. Tell her you want someone who will give you more attention. If she does that to everyone, she's probably just an introvert, but relationships need compromise and she'd have to improve.
If she doesn't wanna do that, she's probably not that into you.
Help me basically me and my friend were smoking weed it was his first time i told him he dident have too do it he got high as shit but the next days to today he texted me saying i dont want to do it anymore i told him i understand but i fucked up real bad the next day i told my trustworthy friend he never has done this before he told EVERYONE..... now hes mad at me and his GF knows and they all hate him because of it i feel really bad for him but the thing i am most afraid of is him tattling on me im terrifed he has never told on me and his gf dosent like i do it but never has...
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get so high that you don't give a fuck what the haters say
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>>16916554
Topkek.jpg
Come join us!
https://youtu.be/kqANd2aw8Mc
Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.
- John 14:6
If any man would come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow Me.
- Mark 8:34
All people are equal in Christ. (Gal. 3:28)
What's a decent paying job for a 23 year old guy like myself who has 3 years of retail experience and only a highs school deploma (currently working on college)?
I kind of want out of retail, but I'd be OK staying in it if it meant I got paid more. I just want a better paying job.
>>16916451
Three options come to mind.
1. Join the chairforce and do the reserves, you'll see no combat and the military is like welfare 2.0
2. Start working out and get into landscaping or construction.
3. Try reading books on programming and learn a language or two. There's tons of resources online and you have a chance of getting a good job but keep in mind you would increase your luck with a degree.
Also, car salesman. If you're good at convincing people, you can make it big there. My uncle owns Toyota of Nashua and he started off with grunt work before getting that high.
start by spelling diploma right
Hi I'm a guy. An "incel" guy. Like everyone else I just want to be loved by someone I can love back. Well, I'm going to be 22 soon and have NO relationship experience. Being a virgin doesn't bother me, I don't want a relationship for sex, what I need is monogamous love. Out of desperation I posted myself online, here and at lookism, for ratings to get an idea where I stood. The consensus is I look slightly better than average (yay?) but I look like a girl. Well my body stopped developing at 14 so I've always known I have a very boyish body....
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If I embrace my weakness I will never get a woman or it will be hard and I'll end up "cucked" because I can't provide what a woman seeks (although I do have a big dik). Women want an active man who can protect them, lead, get stuff done, etc. I would have to be with a guy who likes me. Well I could probably be happy in a relationship with a man (I'm bi but prefer women), but a gay relationship is so foreign and I couldn't handle the stigmas. I was raised by conservative Christians and I hold those traditional values myself. I want to fill the role...
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I've been in a relationship for just over two months and feel the need to break-up.
The girl I'm dating is really sweet, kind, mature etc, and we get on great, but I have never "clicked" with her. Furthermore, whilst sex is enjoyable it does appear as though we like different things (and there appears to be no compromise). In comparison, in my previous relationship we clicked right away, were into the same things sexually, and we lasted five years (I also believe I'm still wearing the scars of that relationship).
I don't know what...
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Two months isn't really that long to get to know somebody, although a click is a very important thing to have, especially in the beginning of a relationship.
How is she acting around you? Is this a confirmed relationship or are you still just seeing each other on a casual basis? Does she seem into you?
And with the sex side of things, what exactly do you like that is different? Is there anyway she would try the things you want to do? Have you tried discussing it with her?
>>16916410
You're not going to click with everybody you meet but this is probably the reason you don't end up in a relationship with everybody you meet. How did things end with your ex-gf and how long ago did they end? It may be that you still have feelings for her and you're not ready to be in another relationship. Also, would you mind me asking how old you are now? Your attitude towards people tends to change as you get older. I feel a lot different about my current girlfriend to ones I had when I was younger...
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>>16916432
Confirmed relationship. She's definitely into me which makes the idea of breaking up with her even more difficult. She acts fine around me but, we've had a few issues with communicating recently.
Well she doesn't like giving BJ's all that much (and her technique is bad) and dislikes my favorite sexual positions. I'm also slightly kinky/dirty, whereas she appears to be the opposite. It's a lot more restrictive than what I've had in the past.
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Recently, when doing things or watching things, I feel less like I'm impressed and more like I'm envious.
And it's envy I feel towards things I can't change, like if someone did something their Junior year that I did my senior year, I think "Why didn't I do it my junior year?"
Things like that.
Why am I just becoming more and more of someone who can't accept the fact that there are some people better than me?
Watch Mr. Nobody
Stop thinking, start doing
>>16916376
Got a link?
And the interesting thing is that I've seen myself start actually doing things now. Like, I haven't felt the drive to be something more than I already have in such a long time...
And here it finally is.
http://www.icefilms.info/ip.php?v=106845&
I little over a year ago I had a class with this girl, I developed a crush halfway into the semester. Some of my friends noticed her and they told me to ask her out because they thought that she was into me, but because of my low self-esteem I didn't really believe it. I tried to do it, but I choked super hard. I never got her contact info.
A couple of days ago I bumped into her and got her number. I feel like a got another shot at this, but I'm nervous as shit. I suck at texting and I noticed that she rarely look at her phone. I asked a friend who's much...
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Jerk off.
Right when you're edging, call her.
You'll have the courage of 1000 men.
>>16916438
How?
>>16916443
How what?
guys, im genuinely scared of my brother, i get paranoid, as we speak i feel like he'll know im writing this. it's like as if his insanity leaked to me and im developing it.
i have no where to go, no one to rely on, i can't just move out, and he can't go back, what do i do, im just on the verge. i haven't left my room at all.
>>16916326
>i haven't left my room at all.
I knew that already.
>>16916326
Did he do something out of The ordinary? Does he spy on you?
>>16916360
he's not ordinary, but today is super bad, he talks about murdering my family and stuff, and buying weapons
but that isn't alone, ive been paranoid for ages, but today made me breakdown
