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Do girls like it when a guy sucks and plays with their tits? I've been avoiding spending much time with my girlfriends tits because I feel like it would be weird for me to just suck on them. I don't know how to do it like I get really anxious and I feel weird doing what a baby does basically but ever since I was a kid Ive always had an obsession with tits and now I'm too self conscious and retarded to know how to do the job properly. Whats a suitable amount of time to spend playing with a girls tits? how should the job be done?
You're right, its exactly what a baby does which is why girls don't like it because they find it weird unless theyre into kids and shit in which case find a new girl
>>16922539
All girls are different, but.
I like making my boyfriend happy. Even if I'm not super into something (and having my tits sucked on is something that doesn't turn me on because my boobs aren't sensitive), I let him do it if I know he likes it.
Just be sure it's not your main focus. You can suck on her tits and finger her, or do it briefly enough (around 30-45 seconds?) that it doesn't become annoying.
Also, playing with boobs is relaxing. I like when me and my boyfriend are on...
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I love kissing and touching them (including sucking on the nipples). I guess its dependent on the person. Why be insecure? Just do what you feel like doing, you'll notice if she does not like it.
Also:
I genuinly dislike it when my gf grabs my dick. Hell I don't even like grabbing it myself.
How do i stop hating women and having an automatic disdain and a guard against them?
Things like is she a slut, i bet shes had more than 4 sex partners, shes manipulative and selfish and so on just pop up in my head when i think about getting close to a girl.
Am i wrong in thinking this, i dont feel wrong. What can i do to change this
spend time with real women instead of reading about how terrible they are on 4chan
like seriously, most women arent the raving psycho cunts 4chan, /b/ and /r9k/ make them out to be
some certainly are, but those are fairly easily identifiable
You don't because in today's entitled feministic society you are right in most cases. Just keep a business like relationship with them and keep your distance. If you are attracted to a girls personality and see that she's a genuinely good person, only then should you trust them somewhat.
>>16922440
>spend time with real women instead
what are real women?
so i started fucking whores and it takes me about an hour and a half to get off, which usually requires her to jack me off fanatically
BUT, since i watched porn for so long i'm used to certain type of stimulation, and when i stick it in i start losing erection due to head stimulation. i mean i can still fuck but i dont get fully erect
So the question is, am i too sensitive or not sensitive enough ? If i make my head more numb will i be able to cum at all ? given that if i jack off to porn normally i cum pretty fast, but if i get some lube and try to jack...
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>>16922090
You clearly need to fap less
>>16922097
This.
For a lot of guys, they jerk off in the same position for years and years. You have your own rhythm and style, and you're used to it; your body is used to it.
So, when you're fucking, and you're not in the "right" position, it can make it hard to cum. For instance, if you're always jerking off in a chair, you might have some trouble with missionary. You'll probably have any easier time trying to find a position that is the most similar to how you masturbate.
Also, fair warning, if you're using too much pressure on your...
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Need quick advice, my girlfriend is fucking obsessed with undertale, she also draws a lot, so these two things have been making my life hell for the past couple of months.
She even has an OC that she ships with one of the characters and man, the whole thing is embarrassing but I just love her so much.
I'm not sure what to do or how to tell her I think undertale is dumb and her drawing an OC that looks like her is creepy.
Besides this everything has been straight cash money for the past 3 years. I'm just really at a loss on how to approach this.
>>16922054
You should obsess over it with her, but take it to an extreme. It's how fan bases have ruined things for years. Eventually after watching you ruin her enjoyment of the game, she'll realize exactly what she put you through and how autistic she was being.
>>16922068
I'm not sure if that will work, her friends are equally autistic over this shit and it's cringe-worthy to be around them.
If she didn't make me so happy I would refuse to even sit at the same table with them because they're aspie level already.
But if your plan does work how would I do it without coming off as a fake douchebag to her.
Just ignore it? Or when she starts fanbitching over Undertale (over under haha), just go do something else or be like "wow you talk about that a lot, I just cant get into it"
I think? I'm 20 years old now, I always thought that I am attracted to women, but lately it's become very apparent that I don't want to have a female partner but rather I want to be that part in a relationship and in society.
The thing is, the internet and especially 4chan has planted paranoia into my head that this is all a fad, a mental illness, or just bullshit in general. That transsexuality doesn't actually exist and that I just want to be a special snowflake.
I'm very confused, and if it turns out that I actually am transsexual then...
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>>16921970
> I don't want to have a female partner but rather I want to be that part in a relationship and in society.
What do you mean by this?
>>16921975
I've adored and admired women all my life, I always thought that this was normal attraction for the opposite gender. But I'm pretty sure that it is more of a longing after those qualities, a bit of jealousy because I can't be that way. I don't think "man I wish I could fuck that girl", I think "man, I wish I could BE that girl".
>>16921970
You have a bad case of gender dysphoria. Just go get some hormones. They have a special medication for that, search out some counseling with a transgender specialists. They will be more able to guide you through the process of transformation. Please don't commit suicide like many idiots.
