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Why can't I make eye contact with people?
I'm 19 years old and need to stop this, just 2 hours ago I crossed road with a solid 9 /10. and when I saw her she smiled at me.
The faggot me decided to look for 2 sec and look away, because I can't make eye contact with people.
Since it looked awkward, I could go talk to her. I missed a great chance
Please help me, how can I keep an eye contact ??
>>16919224
It goes away after you have sex with a girl
I also need help with this. It is legitimately the scariest thing in the world for me.
dont worry man ur doing the right thing eyes are windows to the souls that succubus might have been a lizard person
stay safe
Hello /adv/.
I'm a MSTP student (e.g., MD-PhD-student) who finds that I easily want to do new things. I'm like an eight-year-old who, in the last three weeks, has wanted to go into computer science (I'm decent at programming as it is), wanted to take economics classes alongside med school (I've a few stocks and funds and economics generally interests me), wanted to do software development (not much room for creativity in medicine), wanted to take up drawing (I did some drawing in my teens but now just occasionally, once every year or so) and so on and...
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I take meds for that bruh
But fake a new personality till you become it. Just persist... Persistence is The answer
It's okay if you don't complete everything. In fact, it'd be okay if you just jumped from hobby to hobby the rest of your life. If you want to complete something, keep trying new things until something keeps your interest. Then you have a hobby for life, or as long as you like.
>>16919556
You take meds to concentrate?
What is better for making friends Irl
Playing some f2p games on the PC?
or
4chan?
or
A combination of both?
>>16919160
Going outside and talking to people
Both are equally bad. Go play some board games or card games with others in person.
>>16919160
Cover all of your bases.
I just built a computer, nothing too complicated, and now whenever I press the power button lights come on and all the fans turn on, but then it all goes off. It only stays on for about a half a second, what could be causing this? I only have one stick of memmory, could that be causing it?
>>16919098
Sounds like a motherboard issue. Does it beep at all?
If it doesn't than it sounds like your mobo is DOA. If it does than that beep corresponds to what has failed in the system.
>>16919098
Could also be that your power supply is bad or too weak.
>>16919119
I don't know, the fans come on and lights come one, which seems that power is being drawn. Assuming OP doesn't have a beefy graphics card and shit PSU, it should at least try to POST before it shuts off.
But that's a good point, does your mobo POST at all? (There should be four LEDs on the board that light up in a sequence)
I WANT TO CRY.
HOW DO I CRY
>>16919095
Look in the Mirror.
>>16919115
Chopping onions works too.
>>16919095
Watch a sad movie. Go to the gym and call some asshole a faggot, let him beat the shit out of you. Look at all you've done with your life. Three ways for you to cry.
>>16919115
Kek
>19
>kv
>6/10 according to /soc/ honest rate thread
>hobbies include literature, music (I even play in a band), history, movies
>I end up getting shitfaced with peeps almost every saturday night
>at college, don't study and get OK marks
>autism/spaghetti/laziness about human contact, never take no first steps
How do I fix my social skills so I...
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Also:
>never been rejected because never even tried
>>16919070
You're pretty much a normie, stop being lazy and a pussy and get some pussy
>>16919070
>never been rejected because never even tried
This is your main problem. Try online dating
Friend wants to hang out, but only seems to have time for me when his gf is at work. It seems that he expects me to fit my schedule around his gf time even though they live together. Granted, I don't do much else and could do that but I don't want to, on principle. Rather than wait around I go do some shit on my own and friend gets butthurt that I didn't want to hang with him. Also he texts his gf a lot when we do actually hang. Am I an asshole?
Most shitty people do that. They do nothing but spend time with their SO and only ever bother hanging out with anybody else when they're unavailable.
>>16919065
That's the case here and he doesn't seem to see an issue about it. I don't want to call him out about it but idk what else will do
>>16919212
Call him out on it or he'll never learn. Most people who are in a relationship will make their time with their SO a high priority because that is how you maintain relationships. And they may not spend as much time together as you think, even if they live together.
However, a person still has to balance their time with their SO with their time with their friends if they want to keep their friends around. It's not always easy to learn, but it's a necessary life skill. And it doesn't sound...
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>Live in Illinois.
>Go to college two hours away from home.
>Want to feel the BERN.
>Do I need to go home in order to vote or can I just vote near by?
You can go to any voting station if you're a resident of Illinois and registered there. Google the closest one. Might be at a police station or community hall or something.
>>16919060
Am registered in Illinois and I am a citizen, thanks bud. Was worried because I changed zip codes.
>>16919066
Nope you're good. Should be able to vote anywhere in the state.
I told a girl I had feelings for her. She said I should get those out of my head saying shes 33. Were staying very close quarters were staying in a mental hospital. How to deal with this situation making it as least akward as possible.
halp!
>>16919019
>were staying in a mental hospital
How old are you OP
>be me
>Have sex with cousin for three months.
>she missed her period this month...
Welp.
So get her a pregnancy test.
>>16918985
It's the first month, you still have time to do something about it assuming the worst have happened.
Just say you're the uncle.
A girl told me she is into me, today is coming home for "a cup coffe" does that mean that I have to fuck her? I don't even know how to initiate physical contact with her.
You don't HAVE to fuck her, but she is EXPECTING the fucking. It's like "Netflix & Chill".
If you feel awkward about initiating physical contact, try to get a distraction going like... Netflix in bed.
>>16918970
if you dont at least match her expectations she will go cold to you forever and will never see you as potential mate again
good luck OP
kissing someone is something extremely strong that has been banalized nowadays
sex creates an even more intense bond
dont act like sex and kissing is just for pleasure, these things involve love.
the first time i kissed, it was with a girl that i hanged out dor long time, she was a great friend and i trully loved her, that made the experience show me a whole new world.
is also scientifically prooved that sex with someone you dont quite know can do emotional damage
I strongly advice you to NOT enter in a sexual relashionship with someone you dont LOVE
Sorry...
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I work at a tutoring center and there's this one kid I work with whose in the 7th grade. She's a pretty all right kid but she is so sarcastic all the time. And usually I don't care.
But lately she's been commenting a lot on my makeup and she always brings it up. Then she'll sneak in that I'm ugly. And it's so weird because she'll always say that she doesn't like makeup but she's the one who always brings up the topic of makeup. As for the ugly thing, I don't care that much but she does say I wear makeup because I'm...
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>>16918938
>she likes my selfies in Instagram
how the fuck did she find your instagram?
>>16918938
You are insecure.
You may wear to much make up.
You seem bother by a shit talking 7 th grade girl that is equally as insecure as you are.
She may not like you girls are like that if you threaten their self esteem.
Lady don't you have better things to worry about.
Go out have some fun suck on a dick and enjoy the night with your clown make up.
probably her hormones kicked in and she is bisexual or something and has feelings for you
It's midnight and I can't get to sleep because I'm worried my gf is cheating on me.
What do I do? How do I get some sleep?
Bump. Should i spend all my cash on weed?
If u keep acting like an insecure faggot she will.
>>16918879
Listen to your gut feeling. Trust me on that one. Now that you know, get done sleep. Nothing you can actually do about it.
>>16918922
I hate people like you. If someone isn't happy in a relationship they should simply leave. I hate the people who condone and justify cheating.
Inb4 le self-fulfilled prophecy meme.
holy shit adv I feel like I'm going to kill myself please somebody just talk to me, I don't actually want to die but I can't stop thinking about it every day and one of these days I swear it's gonna happen. I told the only person who's kinda close to me (my bf) that I was feeling shit and he didn't ask what's up so you guys are the only people I can turn to, please just talk to me or just say hello so I'm not alone anymore
If you're alone, it's because you isolate yourself. The power to change your situation is solely intended your hands.
>>16918853
Wow, 4chan really does collect the unwanted trash society doesn't want.
>>16918853
Hey, it's ok. What do you want to talk about? Music, games, movies, literature...really anything goes. Just something to take you away from those feelings.
Just talk, I'll be here to listen.
infographics/general advice thread .Post whatever you have.
I like these threads, here's something
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