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i was observing my best friend and noticed how she had so many friends who'll invite her out to things and they'll hang out. she'll dislike/feel annoyed or disrespected by some of these people, but still hang out with them.
meanwhile, i only keep my closest friends near me. if i feel like they'll be a long term pain in the ass, i cut them off. as a result, i only really have my best friend and my boyfriend. i'm not very good at keeping ties with people i don't feel "connected" with... and i feel like i pushed out a lot of people...
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>>16917346
>i just want to be normal
bummer. cuz it sounds like whats 'normal' wont make you happy cuz you'll be busy putting up with people you dont like.
so good luck wiht that.
>>16917346
thats how a lot of introverts are
its normal as long as you are okay with it.
>>16917351
well i think it's appealing that she could probably call up a few dozen people she knows so they can play mario kart at her place or something.
or maybe one of them could invite her to somewhere cool and have a good time.
i dunno, she just seems so popular and sociable, which is something i'd like to be. maybe i'm the flawed one?
/adv/, I was put on this planet to be taken advantage of. I'm here to be a stoolie and a scapegoat, and to be stepped on on the way to someone else's success, and to take everyone's bullshit along the way. I'm through giving to a society that only wants to use and abuse me. Please give me any suggestions you can for escaping.
>>16917319
escape.
all you've listed are things you let people do to you. you dont have to be taken advantage of (at least not more than society as a whole is). you dont have to be a stoolie. you dont have to be a scapegoat.
for a long time people tried to scape goat me. i see it happening before it happens. whenever i see a potential issue i say 'is this what you want to do? are you sure? cuz i think its bad because XX or YY'
they say 'HURR DURR I KNOW WHAT IM DOING'
then...
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>>16917371
this
also OP you sound like you were raised by terrible people. I can tell you that not everybody is like that, but you won't really believe it deep down until you spend years out in the world with lots of different kinds of people. and not just spending time with them, but seeing them for who they are.
How to tell he is no longer into me?
How do I know he wants an out?
Did you gain weight
>>16917300
Nope. Lost weight due to stress though.
>>16917288
If you're asking this question, you already know the answer.
Talk to him, see if he is evasive or not. Lots of guys are unhappy, but don't want to hurt the person they are with so they cheat or just stay unhappy. It's gutless, but that's the real world.
Why am I so anxious when I message girls /adv/
Why do my stomach feel funny and my heart start to race, what the fuck? I want this shit gone, what should I do?
Thanks.
>>16917268
its normal to feel anxiety when talking to girls
you can take xanax or just breathe deeply
>>16917268
Because you want to fuck them so bad...spaghetti.
You'll get over it eventually.
>>16917280
I could do that sorta stuff, but then I won't learn when I'm sober..
>>16917287
You think so?
Do you think a kid growing up as only child will affect their mental,social,(maybe)physical state in the long run like when the are in their 30's or 40's then a child growing up with 2 parents?
They won't have any family other than their spouse and their own children if they even have any.
It's not about having two physical parents present its about having two incomes. Single parents are poor. And being poor effects how a child turns out. If a single parent made the same as an average two income household then their children would be fine. But that doesn't happen often.
I was raised by mother only. My dad left when I was about 7. I'm 19 now, my mom hates all males so I can't really talk to them or date. But I do it anyway without her knowing. I do like older guys and I always feel like i need to be talking with a guy. I also have been used for sex and it makes me feel like shit but i agree to it anyway. So maybe growing up without a dad may have messed me up a little. Idk you decide.
I am a NEET with a physical disability so commuting is hard and I'm considering going back to school. Can I get my doctorate in psychology online?
>>16917175
yes, it's entirely possible to waste your time, money and energy on useless shit through the internet
i'm doing it right now
>>16917175
How disabled are we talking? Can you walk? Are you stuck in a chair? Are you retarded version of Steven Hawkings?
What do you do when you fall in love with someone?
>>16917168
remind yourself that it will never last
>>16917180
this is pretty good advice.
as for what else to do, its sorta like asking 'what do you do when you're lonely' or 'what do you do when you're sad'
do whatever you want.
hey i found this website, its free and pretty much everyone is friendly on there, hope it helps someone :)
http://www.7cups.com/13172195
>>16917164
Well, you just sent a mess of trolls over there, OP.
But, you're right, they're very friendly. I sometimes pop on to entertain them with jokes or tarot readings because I'm assuming that talking to depressed people all day can get tiresome, and a ltitle enterrainment can help.
Welllll.....?
ffs what cool Pc games can I play?
Or is console the only thing people really play with?
Do all the good games cost money?
Any popular f2p games?
>Inb4 LOL, but I guess if you recommend it ....
Mostly looking for friends or whatever but fine with just regular games.
Thanks.
There are infinitely too many answers to this.
Go hang out on /v/ you 10 year old.
>>16917173
Well them give me 5 of my best options M8.
>>16917181
No, go fuck yourself.
Problem with girlfriend
>I'm 20 she 18
>Have sex once a month
>Been together 1 year
>Go to bathroom to take a shit
>Her panties are on the floor with shit stain in them.
Is it normal for girls to have that?
Fuck should I do about the relationship in general
women are fucking disgusting pigs, welcome to reality
>>16917123
You're being cucked
Your woman has been getting fucked in the ass so hard that her bowels have loosened, explaining the shit stained drawers
>>16917123
They are disgusting pigs, but you could be mistaking blood (spotting) for shit stains. Has happened to me.
I went out to the bar last night with my friend and he brought his female friend who brought her best friend also. After drinking for a while and hanging it this other girl comes onto me hard, like I've never had a girl hit on me like that. I have a girlfriend however so I had to turn her down and she was totally cool with it, but I can't stop thinking about this girl.
TLDR
Had a chance at a smoking hot bar hookup (hottest girl that's ever talked to me, and in the bar too), too guilty to do it since I have a girlfriend though, even though this relationship...
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Pretty sure the guilt of cheating would be greater than the guilt of missing a fuck.
There's always regret over missed opportunities, but you did the right thing. Congrats on not being a scumbag
Kudos to you for doing the right thing. Based on how you're feeling it's probably time to reconsider your girlfriend though.
K so one of my eyes is lower than the other noticeably so i waz thinking would it be acceptable to wear sunglasses in class?
I think it might draw more attention to you.
Not sunglasses, but maybe some larger framed clear lens glasses will obscure it enough that nobody will notice.
k ty guys x
Hello /b/, this saturday I did mdma at a rave for about the 4th time, was eye ball finger dipping cause I didnt have time to bomb my shit up. After weighing my stash the day after it turns out I used 700mg, while I'm only 62KG. Isn't this an incredibly high dose? I dosed about 5 times in 5 hours. About 6 hours after the last dose I was lying in my bed with my jaws clenged and my mouth bitten up from the inside. I had visuals of people that weren't there and saw so much scary shit happening when I closed my eyes. It is now 1AM on a tuesday and I'm finally...
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>/b/
Excuse me for the habitant typo, yes im a fag that camps /b/
>>16917014
>Was this dose too high
yes. a normal dose is bodyweight in kg * 1.5 for males and *1.3 for females
>and what risks come by?
enjoy a week of depression.
oh, by the way, you are an idiot. and since you couldn't even manage to google that shit: do the world a favor and try mixing it with ssris and maois the next time.
>>16917043
Why am I an idiot? Cause I failed to google? Yes I know tmthe average dose, my wonders were about the results of such a dose.
Hey there everyone,
I've met this really quiet, nerdy girl who matches me with nearly everything, and to boot she is STEM and college educated. We have extremely deep and long conversations that regularly last 10+ hours, and she accepts my past unconditionally. She's very affectionate, agreed to do an LDR with me, and is enthusiastic about waiting and our first meeting. She has also turned down other guys in real life for this already, and is prepared to cut contact with all her ex partners (and doesn't even like them). She's also pretty much open...
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>>16916996
Do you watch I, Claudius, OP? I only read your long ass story because of the Livia pic.
I don't know how to tell you to get over her past. Everyone seems to see sex differently than anyone else. If you view the physical act of sex as more than just that - a physical act - and place emotional value on it where she does not, then she will never be able to understand your discomfort with her sexual history. That said, I do believe you should try to understand where she is coming from if you love her and...
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>>16916996
Calm down, buddy. You're going to make her life a drag waiting around for you, you're going to bang, she'll find it underwhelming, you'll become obsessed with her and sex, it'll all be bad, you'll start to get jealous of all her exes, she's going to look for satisfaction, and within a year or two one or both of you will cheat on the other. No need for you to write a novel about getting into this type of meme relationship.
>>16916996
> Thing is, she had five sexual partners before me, whereas I'm a virgin, and not all were strictly boyfriends.
This is something that you suck up and move on with if you EVER want to have a functional relationship with an actual woman.
This insecurity that you young guys have about women being attracted to guys before you is stupid and childish.
You like this girl, you connect with her, you're attracted to her and she's attracted to you. That's...
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So I met a girl. We talked a lot, and we went out, and had our first kiss. She has the qualities i want in a woman. Smart, nice laugh, honesty, really beauty. She really is one in a million.
But... why do I feel also sad? I isn't like I'm using her to fill an empty hole in my heart. It isn't that, It isn't that I need her - I just want her; and be with her.
Has anyone who met a girl he/she liked felt bad for reasons? I am happy but sad.
I would like sincere opinions on the matter please.
Sorry for bad english.
>>16916988
Maybe its because you are dating a dolphin. Try dating someone thats your own species
>>16916988
How many girls have you met?
Anyway, you are putting too much emotion into the relationship.
Don't be so clingy, talk to some other girls as friends and it should help you feel more normal.
>>16916988
Easy as fuck senpai, you don't have enough self esteem.
Start liking yourself more. She does, isn't that convincing enough?
