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About a year ago my best friend , gf, and I decided to rent a house together. All went pretty well at first. We all hung out together and played games and stuff good times. My gf was preggo when we started renting but we soon ran into complications. We ended up losing our child fairly late into the pregancy(well past a miscarriage ) and were totally devastated. When i told him he really didn't say anything and since then has been really distant. Then a few months ago my brother past away and it was the same thing. "Sorry man i don't really know what to say to stuff like this" is about all i get out of him and that's only when I'm telling him for the first time that either my son is dead or my brother. I used to think he was my best friend, i have known him for like 18 years, but i don't know what to think now. Tragedy happened to me so i lose my best friend. How does that work?
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That doesn't sound like a fairweather friend. It sounds like someone who is really uncomfortable around and unequipped to deal with personal tragedies. He's either not had a lot of them in the past or has experienced way too many. Either way, the last impression that I'd get is that this is personal.
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>>16915194
That's my thoughts too. I don't think he has a grudge against us but either way i feel like I'm getting punished for having a shitty horrible year. I mean if he cared he could Google how to help your friend through tragedy.
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>>16915194
This. I'm exactly the same as your friend. I feel for you, truly, but I'm not equipped to express it. Lost my best friend in college when his girlfriend died tragically and I tried to give him space while I took up doing all the house chores and his class work. I just didn't know how to verbally comfort him and we drifted apart because of it.

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My ex that I never really talked to has a picture of me in her Facebook where I have a shaved head and it's in her family picture

Would it be unusual to ask her to crop me out of it or take it down or something we had a horrible break up and never talked but it's freaking me out
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This entire situation is unusual. Stop looking at her Facebook. Stop thinking of contacting your ex. Stop freaking out.
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I probably wouldn't unless somehow the picture is having a real negative effect on your life (like she's slandering your name in the comments). It's best to leave bad break ups in the past and move forward with your own life.
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It's just because we live in a small as fuck town

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whenever I smoke weed it seems like I have bad trips and I become really fucking anxious. I get surges of fear and its not enjoyable as it was before.. What do I do? should I smoke more in attempts to be friends with it? I have experienced the extreme from weed. including ego death. Ever since then its been bad trips for me. One bowl kicks me down into that state.. what do I do? pic not related.
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>>16915181
Sounds like you need a long break from weed. Why do you think you need to keep smoking if it's not enjoyable for you anymore?
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>>16915188
taking a break might make it worse once you smoke again
>>16915181
it might be the strain you have, try another and see how it makes you feel. Also take only a hit or two of your current strain and see if that makes it less intense.
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>>16915181
Possibly the strain or quality of weed you are smoking. Swag, sativa, and indica all have different effects on different people... Try something else.

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Bureau Assistant

What kinda job is it? A company dealing with software consultation is looking for one.

Are they looking for a secretary so a female or this is mostly a job for the most qualified man or woman.

They also need a motivation letter tho, never written it before, and even then my learned profession is front end developer(lousy one).
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That does sound like just another admin job.
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>>16915172
well could be, what I wouldnt give for another admin job, I tell ya.

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Basically i hate when someone takes a pic with/from me. I loath it. Mostly because i hate how they turn out. How can i get over this? It's embarassing and immature
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Stop being such an insecure moron. Knew a lot of people like you, always annoying.
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>>16915225
Yeah. That's why i want to stop. I just don't know how...
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Take tons of photos of yourself and get same face. It's good for confidence in photos. You know how it will come out and it's not really a new photo. It's just another angle on the same take.

29 male, bullshit bachelor's and associates.

Paramedic out of college, but for the past 2.5 years I've been doing website updates for a Fortune 500 buz.

From day one, I wanted out. Surrounded by cunts and worked like a dog. I've been interviewing nonstop, but I'm a dime a dozen

Today was the last straw. I answer to 9 people, and one of their Mother in laws died. I get an email telling me she'll still have her laptop at the funeral and to change a headline to 12pt, Arial.

FUCK THIS.

Only debt is a small mortgage and wife makes the same as me ($55k). I'm pretty sure they're getting my 2 week notice today.

I don't want to go from professional looking wagecock to part-time minimum wage wagecock, but I think my hands are tied.

Advice? What would you do?
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Is it really that bad?

>Was asked to change headline
Why are you upset with this? This is what a job is. You do stuff in exchange for money.
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>>16915199
They give a headline, I update it, then they have me change it.

Then they bitch that it's 18px and they want it 16pt.

Yea, it's my job, but they're bullshit requests that stack up and become unmanageable. That's one request from one person. I have 48 email requests flagged in my inbox. All 9 of these fools don't have their shit together and run around like chicken with their heads cut off and make me deal with their fuck ups.
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>>16915361
My bad, it's 16px and they want 12pt. It's practically the same fucking thing, and the last thing they should give a fuck about while I'm swamped and their MIL is dead.

Not to mention everything is coded in fucking pixels and not points on the goddamn email.

I started experimenting with drugs

- weed
- ketamine
- snorting ritalin
- 25c-NBOMe (research chemical)
- LSD
- cocaine
- MDMA

Which one of these has given me memory problems?
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Research chemicals aren't something to fuck with senpai
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>>16915135
most likely the weed unless you are on one of the others the whole time.
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i should probably add that >>16915215 is only true if your list is correct and your drugs were the substances you thought. there are many substances sold as mdma that actually give you a brain damage.

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>girl initiates text convo
>we're having such a good convo
>reminds me of plans to hang out later in the week
>still having great convo
>send a thoughtfully crafted message.
>she sends me a one word reply and convo does.


Does she like me or not?why to women to this?
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No advice?
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Post the conversation

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I'm looking for a bit of film making advice.

I'm going to be shooting a short film in the next month and I'm curious about what aspect I should shoot in.
It's nothing fancy, just kind of a practice or warm up film before I attempt something a bit bigger. It'll probably go on YouTube and that's about it.

I've been told a few different things about aspect ratios, and I'm not really sure what to think.
From the short lesson I had in college on it, 16:9 is the way to go. However, a few people have also said to shoot in 3:2 or 4:3.

What's the best aspect ratio to shoot in for something like this?
I'll most likely be using a Canon 700D if that makes any difference.


What do you guys think?
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My understanding is that youtube is best to do 16:9 on because you don't get black bars (top bottom). But some find that appealing. But obviously you can just add those.
3:2 and 4:3 is going to have them. I don't see the point in shooting like that. It's vine tier aspect ratio choice. It looks terrible on YouTube.

Any specifics about the project?

Also I'm uneducated, I've just played around with server-side video processing and done a few crappy youtube videos. Best video has 11k in 7 years lol.
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>>16915141
I was thinking that. I tried a test video in 3:2 and it was sort of boxed in. I suppose it made people view it in wide screen to get the best experience of it.

It's just a short horror thing. I studied film a few years ago and kind of fell away from it with other stuff taking up all my time. I'm going to get back into making shorts, but I'm starting with something easy.
One location, minimum dialogue and two actors. Pretty simple stuff.
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>>16915155
Ok. I think that most people who do horror mainly do narrow shots. That's the impression I have. So you want 16:9 most likely (because 4:3 is just ugly so it's not an option) but I find movies that don't follow such conventions to be much more interesting. A wider aspect ratio could be more interesting. More engaging because you're not as used to it. Might even make the impression of he world different. Should probably do some testing and consider this a bit.
I don't know any of the terminology so I can't express what I find appealing well. But my impression of most artsy educations is to teach you what works and what doesn't. It's your excursions into the unknown that are interesting.

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So I got this shit under my thumb nail since I was like 5 or 6, so it has been 12 years and it has not disappeared a little bit or changed since then. It doesn't hurt or anything. The only difference from a normal nail is that it has this color and it is harder than normal nails. I already searched what it could be, if it was blood it would have disappeared years ago. If it was a tumor, I would probably have died years ago too. Can someone tell me what it might be?
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>>16915107
12 years and you've never been to the doctors? Even for something else you could still ask what it is :|
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I never complained about it, so my parents never cared about it (yeah they're not the best type of parents). I'm thinking about going to my family doctor to ask about it. But I wanted to come here and ask if someone knew the answer.
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>>16915148
That's good , you should do that since it worries you. Sadly I have not seen something similar .

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What's the youngest a man should date? Im 27 and women my age look terrible
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Where do you live where girls aged 27 look terrible?
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27? Not even 30? So women still in their twenties looks terrible to you? You sure you're not a closeted pedo?
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>>16915069
I think the formula is half your age plus seven, but honestly man who gives a shit. Eighteen's legal, thus regardless of how old you are eighteen is the youngest you can date.

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Pick between 2 Things?

I want to make music but I am torn between making guitar music or making electronic music, I love both genres.

I want to pick only one cause, If I do 2 I will half-ass them anyway, and I want to choose 1 and not look back. How do I make such decision?
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well I think you should go for electronic, anon. It's easier to do solo and prolly a lot cheaper since you can pirate the software as a beginner..

I need some people well versed in drugs to help me out here. I smoke every now and then, get stoned, its chill, but when I get real high I get this strong sense of paranoia, I feel like I'm vibrating and will just fade away. I've taken acid before and it was the same way, I felt good for a while, but then there was this intense feeling of wanting to go unconscious. My friends who we're went me told me my body just went limp for a while, eyes in the back of my head, no, it wasn't a good trip. I also have sleep paralysis and the feeling of wanting to black out, or "fade away" feels eerily similiar.

My question is, how do I get over this feeling? How do I enjoy something like an acid trip without feeling like doom is slowly gripping me?
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well obviously not everyone are made to enjoy acid

for example, i know people who have tried smoking weed a few times every year, for 6 years and every time they felt paranoid and bad

not everyone are made the same, so obviously not everyone can take the same drugs and get the same results

but maybe you should try out something not so heavy as acid, but shrooms instead. and work your way up. i have never had a bad trip on shrooms, but had a few with acid.
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>>16915095
I never thought that maybe I just wasn't compatible with it, but that is something I'll think about.

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I get faded folders and folders get duplicated with $ in the name. I don't know how to gt rid of it. Anyone know what i can do?
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Besides having the
>Show hidden folder
option turned on you have these issues:
>Using Windows Botnet(TM)
>Using uTorrnet
>Using VLC
>Using desktop icons

Aaaaaaaaaandddddd

The biggest one. You guessed it.

You play minecraft like the 9 year old russian you are.
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>>16915059
uncheck the "show hidden files" option. should be in one of the explorer tabs.

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I dont care about art, all i want to do is sell low efford shit to rich people so i can become rich too.

Thought about putting it on ebay (starting of 1500$). Best case scenario: I get monnais, worst case scenario: I waste 10 minutes of my life and 3 bucks.

Any other idea how to make money without trying too hard?

(pic related. It displays the struggle of black americans in a society that is 70% white and how the only way for them to make it is stay connected to each other).
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Even abstract art has technique, after looking at your pic for five seconds I was able to deduce that you used MS paint, the circle tool, poorly resized the circles and didn't even align the lines properly, if they conveyed something by being crooked fine, but it clearly doesn't.

If you really want to fake it properly, you should at least put some sort of effort into it. That means using proper tools like Adobe Illustrator with a good resolution and print quality.

Next problem is assuming rich people go buying art from complete nobodies on ebay. Banksy had an art sale in new york pretending he was a bullshit local artist and sold his art for 20-80$ a pop, when he revealed they were actually his the value jumped 5000% (bullshit statistic, lets just say a very high number)

If you really want to bullshit people, you need to make a name for yourself and have some sort of standard for quality. Upgrading from MS paint and submitting your art to galleries as opposed to ebay will gain you some sort of noriety, and thus value.

This is coming from someone who just barely understands art, someone who is willing to spend tens of thousands of dollars will scrutinize works even more fiercely, and this is especially because they know for each high-artist out there there's fifty hacks trying to do what you're doing.
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Also the definition of that art piece is juvenile at best, you should try way harder.

Have the distance of the lines represent something, maybe have them thinner the more they are apart, to represent stretching or a tenuous grasp, maybe have a bunch of smaller circles together form some sort of pseudo circle, anything that requires some fucking thought.
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>>16915052
You're an idiot, go study before talking shit.

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