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Can you guys give me signs on how to find out if a lady likes you (Based on your experience)
>>16914516
Ask her.
>>16914531
She send me mixed signals that she likes me and sometimes ignoring me like i didn't exist. Also one time she asked me to answer her book and i know that she knows the answer to it when she gave me the book it has a paper on it saying "trust me, I love you" didn't know how to react that day, What do you think should i do? I'm good at talking to friends but not with the girl i like.
>>16914543
>trust me, I love you
These words were written? Really?
How do you know if you found "the one"? How do you define "the one" as? Have you ever thought you found such a person and had it work out/not work out in the end? Did it change your assessment of "the one"?
Some guy who lives halfway across the world" - two guys, in fact - have both come out and declared that I would be "the one". I do not know these people outside of the internet. I don't know what they are basing their decision off of.
>>16914511
"The one " is someone who you are prepared to be with and make sacrifices for for the rest of your life.
You have to be ready at the same time and be on the same page regarding career, lifestyle choice, kids etc
I don't think any can know who" the one " is until it's already happening.
>>16914511
> I don't know what they are basing their decision off of
> internet
They're thirsty motherfuckers who can smell your green card.
Seriously, is this even a question?
>>16914528
lel
Does giving money to people to help them pay for college count as donations and can be claimed on taxes?
I like helping friends from overseas pay for college but lately I've been thinking I should probably use this on my taxes next time around.
How do I do this?
Unless your friends operate a government recognised charity, no, those do not count as "donations" and cannot be claimed as taxes. While yes theoretically you could write up on your tax returns as they are donations and do not actually have to provide proof unless and until your tax returns are being audited, I do not recommend this.
I would recommend setting some kind of arrangement up with a religious organisation you are a part of/friendly with to set up a fund for these overseas students and paying money through that fund.
>>16914502
thanks this is the kind of answer I'm looking for
>>16914492
> I like helping friends from overseas pay for college
Please tell me you don't send money to some Philipino girl you found over the Internet
My dick is 6-6.5 inches and I just tried Ansell regular condoms and they don't fit my dick, they are too tight? What size do I go for?
>>16914423
You probably put it on wrong.
>>16914423
So wait - how don't they fit?
Is it too long, too short, or too tight around the girth?
>>16914423
too tight or?? what's your girth.
I'm 7.5 with maybe 5in girth(pencil dick) and trojan magnums seem tight as fuck. I'm guessing that's how they are supposed to fit.
Should i pursue my dream even though i'm fully aware that it's very unrealistic and unlikely to happen?
Probably not. You will probably fail. Better to do something you don't really want the rest of your life.
Good luck.
Well what is your dream and what is the path you need to take to achieve that dream? Do you think you can compromise on the level of success or results you gather from said dream?
Say your dream is winning the lottery - I would say unless you have like, $50k to throw into buying virtually all the syndicate tickets, it is unlikely for you to have a guaranteed win at the lottery.
Say your dream is to become a member of a band - are you happy with compromising at the thought of a weekend garage band that mostly plays covers of other hits?
Say that your dream...
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>>16914428
I want to become a world class musician but judging by how many there already are, it seems unlikely
What language is best if I want a job as a code monkey? Javascript seems to pop up a lot in job ads, but I'd like another opinion.
I'm familiar with c# (from using Unity for a few years), and bits and pieces of other minor languages.
From what I've heard there is no best language. Some programming languages will always be in demand and have more job opportunity than others. I think Javascript is a safe programming language but so is Java. I've heard Javascript being criticised for being less easier to write and correct than Java.
>>16914400
Japanese
>I'll never have a girlfriend.
How do you get over this /adv/?
>>16914388
Get a boyfriend.
Date a trap. Similarish.
>>16914388
Why not practice secular mindfulness?
Don't worry about what you think the future holds, because you really don't know. Just enjoy the moment and stop crying about shit.
Has there ever been mutual attraction between you and a friend's gf/bf? Did you act on it? How did you deal with it? Any advice to someone in that situation now?
>>16914382
Never act on those feelings, if you value your friend. It won't end well for anyone involved.
I have before. Me and my mate's girlfriend had palpable chemistry. The only reason they were together was because they met first. Almost immediately his girlfriend and I decided we should be together. It took another two weeks for her to work up the courage to dump my mate, but we were able to get together after that.
He didn't take it well, but he should have been happy that I found someone that made me happy, and that made her truly happy.
So, it depends on the situation. Usually don't poke around a mate's girl, but sometimes it must be done.
>>16914393
You sound like a real homewrecker.
I was about to go to bed and was reclining on my side with my elbow on the bed and anchoring my hand on my face for some time when i noticed the side of my face fell asleep, was tingling and felt like it was sagging slightly at the cheek. This is the side of my face that i had been recllining on wiht my hand for a few minutes.my arm was also asleep. I freaked out, jumped ou of bed and puled out my phone ready to call 911 but wasnt sure if this was a stroke or not. Gradually over the next 30 seconds or so the tingling began to subside and blood was rushing back down to the rest...
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Ask a doctor. I never had that happen to my face, no matter how or for how long I rested it on my hand.
Could be a neurological disorder. See a doctor, maybe ask GP for a referral to neurologist.
Thank you for replying. you put me at ease slightly. I'll talk to someone about it tomorrow for sure. Is it safe to go to bed though?
Hey I need a slap of reality here
>Be 210 pounds
>Not handsome
>bad hair, shitty clothes
I was chatting up a girl today and she was flirting back with me?
I'm confident by myself but physically rekt, thinning hair ect
>>16914371
she might like you, she might not.
if you think you will see her again, make sure you're wearing nicer clothes next time. also talk to your barber asap and see if you can get a more flattering cut. they may be able to make it so your hair doesn't look so thin.
Sup /adv/, /fit/ reporting in.
I'm Asian, I've had a qt Asian gf for about 2 years now (I personally have never really been attracted to Asians, but from the # of guys that try to flirt with her, she's probably a 9.5, though I'd put her closer to 8). She is literally the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life, and no one has ever treated me better than she has. She's essentially ideal wife material: great cook, genuinely a good person, loyal, loves me unconditionally, and sucks dick virtually on command. But, we don't share similar...
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Decide what you want. You sound like you aren't into your girlfriend if you want to jump up the Polish chicks cunt.
It's okay to want to date other people. It's okay to realize that when you're abroad; lots of people do.
Not every girl you date is the girl you will spend your life with.
Whats a tactful way of finding out if someone is still in a relationship?
Their relationship status isn't on facebook.
How close are you to them
Are you the guy or girl?
Why do you need to know?
"Are you seeing anybody currently?"
>>16914367
Guy, they're sort of in my group of friends but they dont hang out in the group as much. I think they're cute but I vaguely remember her mentioning her boyfriend visiting sometime, so I feel like I should tred carefully or just forget about it.
Australian melvin with no job or outlying skills. Wanna legally make dollars and succeed in life.
I understand there is no easy make a mill in a minute" but I don't even know where to apply for a casual job
also for info I'm 19
>>16914352
Apply for any work you think you could do or learn to do.
Any work is experience.
You're only so you have plenty of time to build your skills etc.
Invest in yourself; do a course in something you maybe interested in and improve your skills in the process.
If you get a job you're not happy in, keep working as hard as you can and look for another job.
When you are working, always start on time, look for something to do in between tasks, be willing to learn as much as you can and make...
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What's your education level?
If you just want something casual/part time, go hand out resumes to shops in your area. Google how to make a resume.
Most people's first job is not their career. People like to know that you have the ability to get out of bed in the morning and go to work. This is especially true if you can hold down a job long term. People who keep swapping jobs might be a problem.
You're quite young. Save money and what you don't save have some fun with.
Ok, I really screwed up. So I got in a car accident - no one was hurt, just a lot of cars got damaged (5 cars involved).
So anyways, we thought we were insured, but it turns out that our insurance covers people getting injured, but not vehicle damage (confirmed this with our insurance company).
I suspect the total bill could be close to $100,000AU. Is there any people knowledgeable about insurance/car accidents who can tell me if there is any way to reduce the bill/help out?
I'd get a lawyer if I were you.
>>16914351
Ok so if your au then im assuming the "insurence" your talking about it the registration you pay to keep your car road legal. This coveres you in the instance of you hurting someone or yourself in a vechiular accident.
Im assuming you're young and retarded thinking that the rego coveres anything else as it states it when you receive your rego renewal.
Now
In australia if you want to be covered for PROPERTY damage, then you need at the minimum 3rd party insurence (this is the cheapest form...
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>>16914389
I have CTP - but found out that only covers if people get injured, not vehicle damage - note compulsory third party does NOT include vehicle damage (please check your own insurance too).
Car is really old so I am just writing it off (uninsured it because it was old).
Permanent full time ($50k gross p/a), no disability. Government work.
So yeah, I basically crashed into another car, and unbeknownst to me, it had a domino effect onto 4 cars in front of me. It was in wet weather, so it took longer...
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Are psychologists/psychiatrists/whatever worth it?
I want to break out of NEETdom and the mindset that comes with it, as well as overcome some anxiety, but I really don't think I can do it alone.
Should I make the call and get a referral?
I think they can be very useful tools if you let them be.
I had a psychiatrist I met weekly through middle and part of highschool. At that point though I was very reluctant to open myself and so didn't really connect with him. We mostly just sat in silence and then discussed medication dosages at the end. Overall it wasn't very helpful.
My sister on the other hand still has therapy and takes medication, and she's very happy with it. She has a more open personality and really likes the psychologist she meets.
What it comes down to is if you're comfortable with the person. If you decide to see someone don't be afraid to tell them everything, and if a particular person isn't working don't be afraid to switch.
Im sorry but there is no cure for lazy
It's worth it if you stick to your treatment and are honest with them. Also you have to make sure you find someone good - "shopping around" can be helpful to make sure your provider is compatible with you.
